So are you considering dating or perhaps, getting married to a single mother?! an American author named Shawn James has this week wrote a controversial essay titled ‘Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers’ – giving 15 solid reasons why men should not date single mothers.
The essay has really caused a stir on Social media and we were thoughtful to share it with you guys.
WARNING: Single moms are at this point, warned that they’re not going to like the below essay. They should also note that the opinion was not written but was shared by the author of YBL.
1. Never Available. A single Mother’s schedule is never open.
Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her. It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.
2. YOU are NOT a priority.
Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST. Behind, her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, the stopped up toilet. Even the dog gets more attention and affection than a man involved with a single mother. Any man who gets involved with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship. And he rarely ever gets called up to play.
3. Thinks the world revolves around HER and ONLY HER.
A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They’re so selfish they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He’s just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life.
4. Emotionally Unavailable
Most Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because her feelings are invested in other people. Usually her primary focus is on her children.
In addition to dedicating herself to her children, most single mothers have given their hearts to someone else- their children’s father. And those feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you. There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life.
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