A lady has come online to give “elder sister” advise to ladies on what to know when a man asks them to come over.
According to the 26-year-old-lady her advice stems from her experiences from visiting men. Apparently when she was younger she always found herself struggling with men when she goes visiting. Adding that what she’s about to share was learnt the hard way.
She says that when a man asks you to come over, whoever he is, your pastor, your friend or a lecturer, you have the free options of saying yes or no. If you are not willing to sl33p with him don’t go, because you cannot f!ght a h0rny man. He will definitely overpower you. And if he does, and gets to have his way with you, you will live with that pa!n and trauma for a very long time.
But if you’ve made up your mind that you are willing to sl33p with him, then there are things you must consider before letting it happen. Firstly, make sure that he has invested in you to the extend that you are satisfied. It doesn’t have to be monetary, it could be mental investment. This will prepare you mentally for whatever the outcome that visit will be. But if the man has not invested in you, and you do not have the strength to struggle with him “sit your a$$ back in the house”. But if you want to see him and you don’t want anything to happen, choose to meet up with him at a restaurant. She concluded with the fact that, she is not insinuating that every man wants to sl33p with you in his house, but this is for you to have at the back of your mind.
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