In a tweet that has sparked debate online, X (Twitter) influencer Amber has opened up about her difficult experience with her family.

She had advised via a tweet that people should not consider putting family first, but instead, they should look after themselves first.

She wrote,

“Whatever you are doing in life, please don’t consider family first because mine almost rendered me useless. I know what has been going through my mind over the past month. Always look after yourself first and do the little you can for your family.”

Amber’s message resonated with many who have struggled with complicated family dynamics, but it also drew criticism from followers who felt she was generalizing.

One follower responded,

“You generalizing and making it seem everyone’s family is possibly like yours is where the issues are, for those who still have good ones to hold onto? Do not listen to this! Good morning to you, Amber, and I hope you someday find peace from the hurt your own family’s done to you.”

Amber replied, acknowledging different perspectives while standing by her experience.

“I believe most of us experience even more, but don’t have a way to voice out. I understand how you feel about my opinion, but it is just how I feel.”

The post has since continued to spark mixed reactions, with many sharing their own experiences about family and self-care.

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An Influencer on X (Twitter) has sparked reactions online after he disclosed that a man he offered financial help to lost all the money to betting.

According to his tweet, the man whom he had never met reached out to him on the platform, claiming he needed a small push to grow his business and promised to repay the money on an agreed date.

He also claimed his wife had recently undergone a cesarean section, a fabricated sob story that the influencer believed at the time.

Moved by the plea, the influencer said he transferred ₦2.2 million to the man, expecting him to invest it in the stated business.

However, he later discovered that the entire sum had been squandered on betting.

The man has since reportedly pleaded for forgiveness, while his wife offered to repay the money at 100,000 per month.

The influencer said he has handed the matter over to the authorities for resolution and lamented that the experience has made him skeptical of online requests for financial assistance.

Below are some reactions;

“Werey said money is with BetKing.”

“The audacity and sheer wickedness! Reeks of ‘do your worst’“

“This is terrible. I have a story to share, too. But not today, most of these online help don’t end well. Made me realize a lot of people don’t necessarily need money to grow, they just have the wrong habit, the reason they are financially static.“

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A Nigerian lawyer has sparked a debate online after advising married women to secure their future by purchasing properties in their own names.

According to her, people often overlook the financial vulnerabilities women face in marriage, especially in a society where polygamy, separation, and divorce happen.

She advised women to remain committed and positive in their marriages, while also making smart and independent financial decisions.

Adding that contributing to their husband’s personal projects, such as building a house, doesn’t guarantee loyalty or marital stability.

The lawyer concluded by saying her advise was specifically for women, and if a man chooses to add his wife’s name to his property, it’s entirely up to him. However, she maintained that women must not shy away from owning assets independently.

A part of her post read;

“Yes, be positive and give your marriage your best effort, but at the same time, make wise and logical decisions that protect you if things ever go wrong. If you support your husband’s projects, do it from a place of love and faith, not as a guarantee of loyalty. Contributing to building a house with a man won’t stop him from taking another wife, cheating, or even walking away if the marriage falls apart. A house is not what holds a marriage together.

A lady has taken to social media to share how her wedding was called off three weeks before the due date over her refusal to address her 11-year-old sister in law as ‘aunty’

The post, shared on Facebook by a relationship adviser, Adefemi Taiwo Damilola, garnered the attention of many who debated the matter.

According to the bride-to-be, it all started when she asked her fiancé’s 11-year-old niece, Temilade, to help her zip up her dress.

She had called the girl by her first name, which didn’t sit well with the mother-in-law, who requested she address Temilade as ‘Aunty Temilade’ as a sign of respect.

The bride, who revealed she was a master’s degree holder and nearly two decades older than Temilade, argued that it was inappropriate to call a child ‘Aunty.’

However, her mother-in-law reportedly insisted that all family members, regardless of age, should be addressed with ‘Aunty’ or ‘Uncle’ as part of tradition.

The disagreement escalated when the bride-to-be also greeted another niece casually, prompting further complaints about disrespect.

Her fiancé, who took his mother’s side, accused her of allowing her pride to get in the way when she refused to comply.

The dispute ended with the mother-in-law sending the bride out of the home of her husband to be, calling off the wedding, and the fiancé blocking her on all social media platforms.

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