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I stopped a church bombing on Christmas Eve — Mama Boko Haram

Mama Boko Haram

Hajiya Aisha Wakil, known as Mama Boko Haram because of her closeness to the members of the sect, tells KAYODE IDOWU that the insurgents are tired of fighting.

What is the relationship between you and the Boko Haram members?

People started calling me Mama Boko Haram when insurgency was at its peak in Borno State and the insurgents were bulldozing Maiduguri, killing and maiming everybody in the process. It was during that period that I was invited to a women’s conference where the participants pleaded with the terrorists to stop the bombings. Somewhere along the line, I referred to them as my children, and my sons. I also asked them to see me as their mother. That was how people started calling me Mama Boko Haram.

My relationship with the group started before the insurgency. My husband is from Shehuri North in Maiduguri, which is very close to the house of Mohammed Yusuf (a. k. a Shekau), the founder of the Boko Haram sect. I also had an Islamic teacher who was also my spiritual father known as Baba Fugu. His daughter, Amina, a friend of mine, married Yusuf. So, I was very close to Yusuf because of my friend, Amina, his wife. Yusuf was a young man who was just preaching and encouraging Muslims and non-Muslims to be closer to Allah and live peacefully together.

You were initially not a Muslim and you are also from Enugu State. What can you say about your new found faith and love for the North?

Anybody can come to the northern part of Nigeria and make it his or her home. I got married to a northerner and I have three kids.

Some people allege that you do not have any link to the Shekau’s faction of the Boko Haram sect. What is your reaction?

If those people know the real Boko Haram, they should tell us who they are. Did they ask Shekau and he told them that he did not know me or that he had never heard about me? Or did they ask members of Shekau’s faction and they denied me? Shekau is a kind person, if he does not know me, he would have come out to say it. If he does not have a good relationship with someone, he will come out to deny the person publicly.

What can you say about the fractionalisation of the group now? How many fractions does Boko Haram have?

I really do not know. I know we have Habib’s faction. There is Mamman Nur’s faction. There is Shekau’s faction. There are other smaller groups like Bukar Mainok’s faction, among others.

Do you have a relationship with all these factions? Can you link someone up with them?

I will not answer that question for security reasons.

Do you really think that the Federal Government should hold dialogue with the sect and listen to their agitation?

What are they agitating for? Is it the continued killings or is it their mode of prayer that they want to force on everybody? Is it reasonable? Is there any compulsion in Islam? Do you force someone to be a Christian? Nobody can force anybody to accept any religion, principle or ideology. I don’t know what they are agitating for. If I know clearly, I would probably know what to say.

So what is your understanding of the group then?

My understanding of the group is that they are young people who claimed that they were provoked. They said nobody listened to them and that they had to transfer their anger and vent it on innocent people. That is the only thing I can say about them. They were angry. When I heard the rumour about their intention to revolt, I called Mohammed Yusuf. He told me that they were betrayed. Up till now, I do not know what the betrayal was all about. He said they were angry because somebody made them angry and they wanted an apology. They said the trouble started when security operatives shot their members because they did not wear crash helmets. As if that was not enough, they said some security personnel shot at them during the funeral procession of one of their members killed by police bullets.

How exactly are you mediating between the sect and the government?

I am still appealing to them, telling them to embrace dialogue because there is no way they can stay inside the bush and expect anybody to listen to their request. It is when they come out of the bush and sit face to face with the government that we can iron out the contentious issues.

You were once declared wanted by the Department of State Services. Why and how was it resolved?

They said I knew where Shekau was and that they wanted to get the Chibok girls out and resolve the whole issue and that I was not releasing the information at my disposal. I was not arrested; I went on my own to meet them. They heard me, I told them that I was not hiding and that I wasn’t hoarding information in my quest for peace. I also told them that even when I went to the bush to meet with those guys and someone asked me about the trip, I always revealed the details of our interaction. But if you ask me where they were, I will not tell you that; I will tell you I do not know. Actually, I do not know because they usually take me there in a blindfold inside a car with strict instructions that I should bow down my head throughout the trip.

Mama Boko Haram

How?

They would deliberately drive round for hours until they are sure that I have become drowsy and possibly slept off. How do you expect me to know where they had taken me? It is also the same process when they are bringing me back. As a matter of fact, what is the purpose of telling the DSS where they are? Can’t they go and look for them? Sometimes, when I go to them in the bush, I spend about three days, and at times, a week. It is a pathetic situation. You see them sometimes shedding tears, anxious to be reunited with the society. They usually confess that they are tired of the life they are living. Anybody who knows my history will know that the boys, when things were still good, were staying in my house. In those days, if you came to my house, the gate was always opened to everybody. I never discriminated against anyone. We were living together, and even whenever I was going somewhere around in Shehuri North then, they would carry my handbag and call me mummy and asked what I had for them.

They would tell me what they wanted to eat and I would give them money to go to the market. We would prepare the food and eat. They were like kids to me. Some of them, I did their circumcision when they were boys of just seven years old. So they grew up seeing me as a mother.

How come you were doing circumcision?

It is not that I was the one cutting their foreskin. They used to bring the person doing the circumcision but I would carry the children while the pain lasted. And when they removed the foreskin, we would slaughter a chicken for the boy in order to calm him down. I assisted in the healing process too.

What was the relationship between you, Ahmad Salkida and the third person declared wanted with you?

Salkida was a friend to Mohammed Yusuf. Though I never knew him, I heard from Mohammed Yusuf that he had a journalist friend and that, one day, he would introduce me to him. I was then looking forward to the day that the meeting would take place. He (Salkida) used to follow him around. They were really close.

I have never met with Salkida but shortly before they declared us wanted, I spoke to him on the telephone. I drew his attention to what was happening to his friend’s group made up of young men who I refer to as my children and I asked him how we could resolve the problem.

He expressed his dissatisfaction with how the whole thing was handled by the security personnel. I told him that we cannot just give up like that. I then advised that we do something. That was all. We did not speak again until we were declared wanted and we met at the DSS headquarters. I also visited him when he returned from Dubai. That was the first day we actually had an opportunity to discuss. Bolori, who was also declared wanted, is a poor Kanuri boy. I engaged him to help me interpret whatever people say in Kanuri language. I used to take him along whenever I want to talk to the Boko Haram boys. That was the relationship between us. When we went to meet the Chief of Staff (to President Muhammadu Buhari, Abba Kyari), I went with him and that was it.

Do you think that a peaceful resolution of the Boko Haram war is still feasible?

I believe in God and I pray a lot. I believe in prayers. If we pray, these kids are not more powerful than God. I do encourage people to also pray about it. There is one adage in Igbo that says if you drag a stick and the stick drags you, you leave the stick and run for your life. They (Federal Government) keep telling me that they have dragged the stick (Boko Haram insurgents) and that the stick has dragged them and it is now for them to leave the stick. But I keep telling them that this is not a stick but human beings and we have to continue to drag them. These are Nigerians, our children, our brothers and sons. We cannot just leave them like that, because leaving them like that would create more problems. I believe it (the insurgency) will end; they (the insurgents) wanted it to end. Anytime I talk to them, they always ask me when the war would end and would also seek to know how it would end.

Are you advocating an end to this military solution?

The shootings and killings have never solved any problem. Very soon, it will be 10 years since the war started. Scores of soldiers have died in the process. I had to involve myself in the peace process when I saw people coming from all over the country and even white men to fight war. Some say only a fierce battle could end the war but I am of the opinion that we should not continue because of our kids.

They planned to bomb St. Augustine’s Church on December 24 last year. One of them called me on that day to find out whether I had travelled. There was a pickup van loaded with explosives in front of the church. I told the caller that I had not travelled and I immediately rushed out and saw the boy that was to carry out the suicide mission. They had already prepared him for the exercise. He had already been given the injection and prepared him for burial. The boy was just moving and murmuring. I quickly called the (Boko Haram) boys and told them that I can see a vehicle parked and that a boy was moving towards it. They told me that the boy was the suicide bomber. They asked why I did not travel again and I told them that my brother, a reverend father, visited Maiduguri and that we would be travelling together after Christmas.

I instantly told him that I was right inside the church (targeted for bombing) with my brother because I brought food for him. I told them that I was not ready to leave the church, daring them to do their worse. They were then confused and asked what I wanted to become of the boy they had prepared for the suicide mission, and I asked them to send the boy away to the nearby bush; after all, he had taken the oath to die, so he should go and die alone. They asked me to leave the church premises but I told them that I wouldn’t go until they had diverted the boy away. After some time, they told me the boy had left and one of them said, ‘I can see your car driving out’ but I didn’t go with my car. This is to show how God works. God planned this. I do not know where a black car came out from that made them to believe I was around the place. So they drove the pickup van away. When I did a follow-up, I learnt that the boy had died because he had taken an oath and they had given him an injection preparing him for death. If you take the injection, you can never be yourself again. I then warned them that on no account should they target places of worship for bombing again.

Do you agree that the Boko Haram has been technically defeated?

They do not have that energy anymore. If you look very well, that energy is no longer there. They are gasping for breath and looking for a way out. They are always asking for the road. They are looking for the road to come out. They want trusted roads and not betrayal. If you sit with them and talk, they will tell you. They hardly trust anyone and they say they do not want further betrayal and are willing to remain where they are until they get Allah’s help. They have, however, told me that they trusted me because I meant well. I have taken some of those that were declared wanted to certain quarters to negotiate and the outcome of the negotiation was good.

Why do you think there are still bombings in the North-East?

Maiduguri in particular has become what they call Makkah, the headquarters of the North-East, and that is why we are experiencing bombings unlike Bauchi, Adamawa and Yobe, where there are pockets of bombings.

I have always told them to come down and look for their mallams for peace. They have mallams; they have elders in the area that can talk to them. They have women and other individuals who can talk to them. There are even wheelbarrow pushers that can talk to them. Government officials should come down and meet them. They are ready for dialogue but they want sincere persons, not betrayers, to lead the dialogue.

Some government officials are saying Shekau is hardened. Is he not a human being? Shekau is a human being, and if you watch him, he is always calling Allah and believes he is fighting for Allah and this Allah will touch him. Government should follow the right way and the battle will be over.

Do you think Nigerians’ condemnation of the $1bn to fight insurgency is justifiable?

If government can put any amount into the insurgency war, they should go ahead and do just that. It is important that this insurgency ends because it is affecting everybody and once this thing is brought under control, you will see things becoming normal.

What is your assessment of the insurgency war under the President Muhammadu Buhari administration?

I cannot but clap for him. At least in Borno, we are sleeping very well. If you had come to Borno when this thing started, you would not be here by now (3pm). Everywhere would be vibrating. But since (President Muhammadu) Buhari took over, we have been sleeping soundly. We are now moving around up till 10pm. We now do our shopping in the night; unlike before that everywhere would be closed by 4pm. Buhari has really tried.

A report claims Buhari paid €3m for the release of the Chibok girls. Were you privy to the arrangement?

I do not know.

Are there any ongoing plans to secure the release of the remaining Chibok girls?

Of course, government will not sleep. We will also not sleep until the remaining girls, including the university lecturers and the police officers who were kidnapped when they were carrying the corpse of their colleague for burial, are released. Nigerians are not sleeping, nobody is sleeping.

Are you involved in some of these moves to get them released?

I will not answer that question.

Do you think the North-East Development Commission can be effectively used to develop the war-torn region?

It is for the rebuilding of the damage done by this war. I believe and hope this would be achieved. But do not underrate human beings; you will still see pockets of saboteurs.

The Nigerian Army said it has incapacitated Shekau. Do you believe that?

I don’t know. Am I the Nigeria Army? Ask (Chief of Army Staff, Tukur) Buratai.

How do you think the society can heal the wound of Boko Haram?

What can society do? The wounds of World War II healed gradually and it has healed. We too will heal; what can we do? Is it to say we will not forgive and move on? We have to move on. If you fight with any Kanuri, he will tell you to be patient and once that word is used, they cannot do anything. They will look around and say the person that did this is “our own blood.” Kanuris have kind hearts. They do not hold grudges; they do not want anything to destroy their faith and life. We will heal; we will forgive. I know it may be difficult for some who had lost almost everything, but with time, they will heal.

You recently created a non-governmental organisation. What is it all about and how do you think you can assist in the healing process?

I have gone round to see what could be done to assist the people and to find out what the problem is. I have found out that because of this insurgency, many things have gone wrong; drug addiction is common among other vices. I have come to the realisation that if something is not done now, the situation could get even worse and we may have another problem on our hands. I have been able to talk to the victims and have come to the understanding that, if something is done for them quickly enough, it could take them away from drug addiction and prostitution, among other vices. I discovered that the only way out is to form a local NGO and this is what I have done. And with the way we are going about it, we are going to rescue some people from damage, or at least, complete damage. I am working with the Borno elders and I believe with the assistance of all, we will help heal the wound.

What assistance are you receiving from stakeholders?

It is just to help out, to help internally displaced persons and non-IDPs, victims of insurgency who are not in camps but are worse off than IDPs in camps. My NGOs will go down to uproot them and help them. I do not have problems with stakeholders. They are even rooting for me. One of the elders here, Alhaji Abba Mustapha, even said ‘Aisha is a daughter, a Kanuri born somewhere who later traced her home and made a return’. And this is shared by almost all Kanuri. They believe I am one of them. It is only that I cannot speak the language. I am happy the elders are supportive, the traditional institution and government are equally supportive.

What is your final word?

To insurgents? I cannot but continue to beg them. What is it they want that they cannot come out and say? What is it that is hurting them for eight years, and they cannot come out? They preach to us to forgive; if you see them, they continue to say forgive. Do not hold anger against your brother overnight. What are they holding there? I am begging them, they should come out. The military does not have the intention of killing them. Nobody has the intention of killing them. The military has to do what they are doing in order to save civilians and property. Security want them to come back home for we are not fighting war. Enough is enough. They said if they come up, they want to go for training. Whatever you want, come out and government will provide for you. If government asks that you contribute money to establish them in business, won’t you do it? Nigerians will do that; we need peace. Government should look for those they are listening to and talk to them. They will come out. Shekau is a human being. Barnawi is a human being. Nur is a human being. Mainok is a human being. They should talk to them; they will come out.

Culled from PUNCH

Why Funke Akindele’s name was removed from “Avengers: Infinity wars movie”

– Reports reaching us now, is that the “stunt” was pulled by a hacker, who has indirectly made Funke Akindele a viral celebrity sensation.

Few days ago, Nigerian media went agog with news of Nollywood actress, Funke Akindele becoming part of the cast for yet to be released Hollywood superhero film “Avengers: Infinity War”.

The actress’ name was added to the movie’s website, and given the role of a member of the Black Panther’s guards, the ‘Dora Milaje’.

Funke started trending on twitter and many of her fans praised her for the hardwork and consistency she’d put in the industry so far.

However, while we were still basking in the euphoria that our very own Jenifa was about to become a global star, we were hit with the news that the actress was never contacted to feature in the movie.

It was gathered the stunt was pulled by a hacker, who indirectly made Funke Akindele a viral celebrity sensation when Nigerians spotted the name. 

The sources further revealed that the actress couldn’t acknowledge the report after it broke on Wednesday, because no role pass was made to her. The hacker’s mess has been fixed, and that’s why she’s no longer on the cast list for the movie.

Avengers: Infinity War is an upcoming American superhero film based on the Marvel Comics superhero team the Avengers.

The movie is produced by Marvel Studios and distributed by Walt Disney Studios Motion Pictures. Avengers: Infinity War is intended to be the sequel to 2012’s Marvel’s The Avengers and 2015’s Avengers: Age of Ultron and the nineteenth film in the Marvel Cinematic Universe (MCU).

The film is directed by Anthony and Joe Russo, with a screenplay by Christopher Markus & Stephen McFeely.

In Avengers: Infinity War, the Avengers join forces with the Guardians of the Galaxy to confront Thanos, who is trying to collect the Infinity Stones.

Avengers: Infinity War is scheduled to be released in the United States on May 4, 2018, in IMAX and 3D. The sequel is scheduled to be released on May 3, 2019.

A week after he begged God to take his life, Nigerian stage 4 cancer patient dies

A Young Nigerian man – Edu Val, who had been battling stage 4 cancer for over a year, passed away in the early hours of this morning in Lagos.

Edu was in so much pain a week ago that he begged God to take his life. His twitter timeline is proof of how much he was suffering and how heartbreaking it was to see his mother cry over his condition.

For the past few days,  well meaning Nigerians had been donating blood to him at the Holy Family Hospital, Festac, where he was receiving treatment.

May his soul rest in peace.

See his posts on Twitter prior to his death.

“My parents still beat me at my age. I’m 23 this year” – Nigerian Lady cries out

A Young Nigerian lady has written to Popular Blogger and Psychologist, Joro to reveal how she still gets “beatings” from her parents at her age.

Read what she wrote below;

Good Morning bro joro, please I need you to post this as soon as possible and please hide my identity. I’m a Yoruba lady, 22 years but will be 23 this year.

My parents beat me up at any slight mistake, keep malice with me after and still expect me to beg. I don’t have problem with the begging cos they are my parents. I can remember the one that happened in 2016 with my mum. I just graduated from school and wanted to learn a voc.

I chose smth, she said no that i have to learn smth else. I said i’m now a graduate and at least I should be given the opportunity to choose a trade to learn.

She stopped cooking my food separately after they are done with theirs. Then one day she decided she’s not giving me food again and i told her it is not possible that am i not her daughter and we started exchanging words and she beat me blue black.

I couldn’t take the beating again and i collected the cane from her. And she started shouting and crying that I’m the one beating her, I couldnt sleep at home that day, slept outside. She reported me to people in the church, they caled me and I explained my part, but you know an adult can’t lie.

I was asked to beg and I did. So many similar cases took place after then. Now fast forward to 2018, I finished my service Dec 2017 so I’m still at home applying to everywhere applicable. On Thursday at night, I was in the sitting room only for me to see my dad with cane in front of me and before I could say anything, he started beating me. He said I didn’t tell my siblings to put off the gen cos we use 2hrs at night and we used 2 hours and some mins that day. So because of that I deserve to be beaten.

The following day which was a friday, nepa restored the light so I put on the necessary things but didn’t go to his room to put on anything. Only for him to tell my sister to remove all my appliances from the socket that I shouldn’t charge in this house because I didn’t put on the light and TV in his room. Throughout that day, he didn’t talk to me. So I knew another round of malice is on it’s way.

On Saturday morning which was yesterday, I carried my bag and told them I’m going back to where I served. They were like did I discuss it with them before, I said no, but they knew i’ll still go back cos my loads are still there. My father gave me tfare and I left the house. 

Only for my fiance to call me to go back to the house, but I said no, I’m going cos he doesn’t know what I’ll go through, I explained to him and he claims to understand but I don’t think he does, I sha entered the bus and started traveling, when I got to half the journey, my fiance’s mother called me to please go back home and apologize, for what again, I’m the one that’s hurt right now, but I didn’t want to argue with her, and I said okay. I came down from the bus and entered the one going home. I got home and I apologized, though they’re still keeping malice with me and giving me attitude.

Joronation, Please I just want to know if this is how all youths are been treated or I’m the one with a problem cos the thing is driving me crazy with no one to hear me out, as an adult cannot lie. Thank you.

“I won’t dump a man because he doesn’t last in bed” — Actress Praise sam

Its no news that women usually cheat on their partners if they are not good in bed or have little or nothing down there to work with. But this curvy lady (Praise) disagrees.

Though over the years, science and experience have proved that women are stronger and last longer in bed than the male folk; not because they are on the receiving end while the men exert energy while doing the entire job, but because they are naturally created that way.

Little wonder why many relationships hit the rocks because most men are unable to satisfy their partners sexually. But same is not the case with curvy and busty actress, Praise Sam Ogan. Dumping her partner because he can’t satisfy her in bed is not an option.

In a chat with Potpourri, she explained in insightful details, reasons why she will never dump a man she is crazy in love with all because she desires a partner with horse power in bed.

“That is nothing now! There are so many ways to work on that; I can’t leave a man I love because he doesn’t last in bed. For the fact that I love him we will work on it; the world has gone past that.

It’s just like asking a man to leave a woman because she cannot cook; what happened to teaching her, or getting a private cook to coach her indoors? Love is a beautiful thing, little things like this got nothing on them”, she said.

Speaking further, she confessed that she would only leave a man who can’t satisfy her in bed if he is proud and not ready to learn.

“It’s no lie, I have been in such a relationship before and I helped my man; I can never leave a man for such reason, except he has got pride and refuses to be helped, then I’ll leave him to his faith”, she concluded.

Jidenna reacts to Trump’s Sh-thole Comments about Africa

ATLANTA, GA - SEPTEMBER 17: Jidenna attends the BET Hip Hop Awards 2016 Green Carpet at Cobb Energy Performing Arts Center on September 17, 2016 in Atlanta, Georgia. (Photo by Marcus Ingram/BET/Getty Images for BET)

Singer Jidenna has in a series of tweets responded to US President Donald Trump‘s comments where he described Haiti and African nations as “s—hole countries.”


Jidenna wrote that although he’s not a fan of discussing Trump, comments like Trump’s most recent actually give the US more power.

He wrote about living and working in predominantly Haitian neighborhoods and thanked the country for teaching him more than the “s—hole president” ever will.

See his tweets below:

I don’t like talking bout this f–kboy cuz it gives him more power…but comments like #ShitholeCountries etc. are actually giving US more power. You can’t have Moses without Pharoah. ?

I pray that we as Africans & people of the African Diaspora continue to work tirelessly to build more beauty in our land(s) so that no one can find any single reason to call our nations #ShitholeCountries. Let this be a catalyst for courageous leadership and righteous governance.

I’ve lived & worked in predominantly Haitian neighborhoods for more than half my life from Mattapan, Boston to East Flatbush, Brooklyn. I want to thank you ?? for raising me via your Diaspora and teaching me more than a #ShitholePresident ever will

?? was the First Nation in the African Diaspora to win its independence. It paved the way for freedom fighters not only in the Diaspora but on the Continent. ?? will always be a beacon of light for me in the face of the neocolonialism that tries to create #ShitholeCountries

Nigerian lady cries out after she was ignored by the rich bachelors in her church

A Nigerian Lady, Gloria Omommaty Kennedy has aired out her frustration after “all the fine boys with cars” in her church left immediately after service ended.

Here’s what she wrote;

“All these fine boys in church that will just jump into their cars after service and drive off, how is it doing you people self????”

“That is how all my make up and packaging just wasted for nothing, wharisdat self, somebody will be eying you people and be waiting to come shake body pass after service, you will just come and spoil it by running out as if hot shit catch you.”

“I am very angry, before I could drag my hills outside, all the cute swagallicious guys don drive commot, na all these kpako niggas when go treck with me reach house kon remain. I kwukwu did not mind them, you cant be ugly and poor, choose one and save your future.”

“Let me go and rook for where to eat rice, so my hot blood can calm down.”

“Chai, this is nor fair ko jare”

Lagos state government files lawsuit against AY & Davido for tax evasion

The Lagos state government has reportedly filed a lawsuit against singer Davido and comedian, AY Makun, for tax evasion.

A report by Punch revealed the entertainers have had a long-running battle with the Lagos Internal Revenue Service (LIRS) over alleged tax evasion.

Davido was reportedly charged before a Lagos high court in July 2017 while AY was said to have been charged to court in 2016 for failing to file his tax returns.

DMW’s boss – Davido is said to have told LIRS officials that he pays his taxes to Osun state government since he is an indigene of the state while AY said he makes his tax payments to Ondo state.

An Official of the Lagos state Government had this to say on the matter;

“Remember that Davido said he made N500m from his N30bn concert recently. We must know how much he paid to the LIRS. AY too said the same thing.

The comedian claimed to be paying his taxes to Ondo State, where he hails from. It seems these celebrities don’t understand that the tax law stipulates that you must pay your tax to your state of residence.

Anyway, we are already in court. Others will soon appear in court if they don’t obey the state tax law. You can’t be making money in Lagos and refuse to pay tax.”

“I am making money, you’re making noise,” — Rapper CDQ blasts M.I. Abaga

Nigerian rapper, M.I. Abaga during the Soundcity MVp awards on the 12th of January at Eko Hotels in Lagos urged all rappers to “pick up their pens and start writing”.

M.I Abaga

Watch the video below;

https://youtu.be/waWymOSp0kU

Apparently, CDQ does not share the same sentiment as M.I. Abaga, as he took to the gram to blast the rapper. The indigenous rapper posted in Yoruba; “Egbon e lo joko jur. Film ni gbogbo eleyi ten act yi. Nothing like Naija Hiphop. Hiphop is Hiphop…. a wan pawo eyin pariwo”.

CDQ

Which translates to “Bros, go and sit down. You’re just acting for the camera. There’s nothing like Naija hiphop.. Hiphop is Hiphop. We are making money, you’re making noise..”

See screenshots below;

“I regret getting married” — Gifty powers

One of Big Brother Nigeria 2017 controversial housemates , Gifty Powers or simply Gifty, has in a new interview with PUNCH revealed that she regrets getting married.

Recall, She recently penned down some words of advice to her fellow women on relationship and men generally on social media.

She took to her Instagram story to write ;

You don’t need to break your head or cry to God to give you a GOOD/FAITHFUL man + you don’t need a complicated set of rules in searching for him. If he truly loves you, he will go extra miles in making you his love forever. Never expect a man to be faithful to you. All what you should do is be an amazing gf/wife

Well, in the Interview, she opened up about her life after the Big Brother Naija show, her acting career, marriage and other things about her.

Read excerpts from the interview…

Background

My grandfather is from Obosi in Anambra State. He is a Reverend Father and a barrister. He married my grandmother who is partly Liberian and Sierra Leonean, and they gave birth to my mum before they got divorced. I am my parents’ first daughter, but I’m the second child. I grew up in Ghana, Accra precisely.

Education

For my post-elementary education, I attended St. Theresa International School, Accra, Ghana. For my tertiary education, I attended University of Legon, Ghana.

Acting

I first knew that I wanted to become an actress at the age of 15, but my mum once told me that at the age of five, I used to apply her lipstick and stand in front of her mirror to act. However, I joined the movie industry in an absurd manner. I can’t remember the exact year but on a hot Saturday, I drove in my friend’s car to buy some things. While driving, someone hit the car and I became angry. He apologised and introduced himself as a movie producer. He gave me his complimentary card but still I insisted that  he fixed the car. The following week, I went to a location and I was given a sub-lead role.

Music

I have appeared in a lot of music videos, that I have lost count of the number. It has been my mum’s dream for a very long time that I should become a singer. She tells me that there is a future for me in music, so yes; there is a chance that I may delve into music. I recently went to a friend’s studio and soon, I will be releasing something cool.

Lessons

While growing up, I faced a lot of humiliation with my mum and siblings, and that really taught me a few lessons about life that cannot be forgotten. Some people say to me that I’m not the only one that has suffered, but I believe that it’s not about how easily the words come out of your mouth; it’s about how well you can tell your story. I don’t have any challenges. Challenges are rather scared of me. If you cannot make the necessary moves while young, then you would have to sit in a corner and cry out your eyeballs while watching your mates doing what you should have done. Don’t blame the devil if you’re too lazy to climb that ladder.

Big Brother Naija

I had a great time at Big Brother Naija. I enjoyed the Friday game nights the most. I also enjoyed the tasks, the truth or dare nights, the shower hours, and hearing Big Brother speak. One of the lessons I learnt while in the house is that one has to be tolerant. If I were to go back into the house again, I wouldn’t show the insane part of Gifty Powers. However, making out with guys in the house was a strategy and I don’t regret it at all. I will do it again if I have to.

Breakthrough

A lot of opportunities have come my way after Big Brother Naija. Every second of my career has been amazing.

Marriage

I do feel like I got married too early. However, I plan to give details about what actually happened. It’s a big regret that I wouldn’t stop talking about. I thought I was in love but I found out that it was just lust. I didn’t make proper findings before saying ‘I do.’ I went through hell and I don’t wish the same for my enemies. It is part of my life’s experience and I’m glad that I conquered it all.

Mr. 2kay

To be honest with you, I don’t know how to define my relationship with Mr. 2kay. I’m still searching for a term to describe it.

Current projects

I have some employees who manufacture skin products. That’s because I have been asked several questions on what I apply on my skin that makes it glow so much. I also have Gifty Powers Lingerie for both men and women, though I have yet to launch it. I have a lot of crazy ideas, and it would shock you to know that I may even be aiming to climb the highest mountain in the world.

Romance

To be my ideal man, all you have to do is to be yourself. I can date and marry someone in the entertainment industry. Understanding is all that is needed to make it work.

Scandals

Whenever I read or hear negative things about me, I become amused. They also embolden me. It feels special to be wanted. Even an unborn baby has enemies.

Role models

I admire Kim Kardashian and she has influenced me in several ways. Aside from her maturity and strength, which are out of this world, I love her style. I also admire my mum. She was once a runway supermodel who practised abroad. Due to her experience and exposure, she designs my clothes. At 51, she has the strength of a 12-year-old girl.

Balance

My mum always tells me never to stop trying if I want to make it in life. You have to work till you are able to get what you want. My mum manages my company. She handles its operations whenever I’m busy with other things, and I pay her.

Fashion

I love to step out looking classy, elegant and sexy.

Relaxation

I relax by spending time with my nuclear family or by going to the club with my mum.

Source: PUNCH

“My husband was shocked at the social media drama after I deleted his photos” – Mercy Johnson

Nollywood actress Mercy Johnson-Okogie has disclosed that the social media reactions that trailed her decision to delete pictures of her husband from her Instagram page, left her husband in shock.

Recall, Last week there was panic among the actress’ fans that her marriage of over six years was in crisis after she deleted all photos of her husband, Prince Odianosen Okojie, including those they took together, from her Instagram page.

Although, she later insisted that her marriage was intact by posting a photo of herself and her husband in bed and reading the bible together.

Well, Mercy Johnson did not shed more light on the reason behind the move to sanitize her social media page.

The mother of three while speaking to The NET, has now revealed that deleting ‘old’ pictures from her social media pages is a routine she carries out from time to time.

She said:

“I usually delete all the pictures on my page from time to time and this time around, I didn’t just delete my husband’s pictures, I deleted photos of me and my children”.

Mercy Johnson added that the reactions that trailed the move on social media left her husband in shock.

“In fact, my husband is in shock at the drama emanating from social media. We had a photo shoot and of course you know the new year swag na, so I said to delete the old pictures I had, which is what I do normally, na im e backfire oooo”, she says in a mixture of English and pidgin.

“I will still celebrate 10 years with my sexy Odi by God’s grace and I appreciate all my fans for expressing their concern over the issue. God bless you all”, she added.

Negative comments don’t bother me — BBNaija 2017 Winner Efe speaks.

BBNaija 2017 Winner Efe

Winner of the 2017 edition of Big Brother Naija, Efe Ejeba, has revealed that he hardly uses the different social media platforms in vogue today and as such, negative comments from trolls on these platforms do not bother him.

BBNaija 2017 Winner Efe

In a chat with Sunday Scoop, he said,

“The truth is that I don’t know what is happening on social media. When I wake up in the morning, I pray, eat, record songs and I release them. I don’t hear what people say about my music. I am not disturbed about negative comments because it is normal for people to have different views about whatever you do.”

The based on logistics singer also said he could not remember having any dealings with an on-air personality, who called him out on social media during the week for disrespecting him.

According to the OAP, Efe didn’t honour an invitation for an interview even after they had reached an agreement.

Reacting to the issue, Efe said,

“I haven’t heard anything like that. Like I said, I am not a social media person. I visit social media once in a while because of the industry I am in. I only go online when I want to post things that are important to me and I log off immediately after that. The truth is that I cannot remember having such discussion with any OAP.”

BBNaija 2017 Winner Efe

The singer insisted that he had a good year in 2017 ,despite the insinuation by some music followers that he needs to improve on his music to compete in the industry.

“Considering where I am coming from, I experienced massive growth in my career last year. Right now, I have the attention of the people and that is the most important thing. But I hope to do more this year, which is natural for every youth that dreams.

“I don’t feel any pressure. I am just doing my music. If there is any pressure, it is from within because I try to push myself every day. This year, I plan to release more music and videos, and I will put the rest in the hands of God. The industry is growing and I am happy to be part of it at the moment,”

BBNaija 2017 Winner Efe

I didn’t lie about N14m stolen from me — Mr. Ibu

In what was an unexpected start to the new year, news made round that the house of Nigeria’s beloved comic actor, John Okafor, aka Mr. Ibu, was robbed and that he lost over N14m to the thieves.

While many sympathised with the actor, others also questioned why the actor would keep such a large sum of money in his house, considering the cashless policy adopted by most Nigerians. Some people also insinuated that the actor exaggerated about the amount he lost to the robbery.

In a chat with Sunday Scoop, the veteran actor made some clarifications. He said,

“When I said I lost N14m, there was a misconception that it was all in cash but that was not the case.

One million naira cash, and properties worth over N13m were carted away. Some of the items the robbers stole included gold wristwatches, necklaces and jewellery. They also stole shoes belonging to me and my wife, and a lot of other items.

The trauma is still very much for my wife and kids. They are still in shock because the thieves knocked down the doors of the house and you can imagine the type of noise they would have made at the time they came, which was about 3am.”

“The total cost of all the things that were stolen is even more than the N14m that I said. I have no reasons to lie about that.”

“I live in a renowned estate for crying out loud, and we have different types of security in place. I am totally surprised as to how such an incident could have happened.

Right now, I feel someone gave the robbers some information. However, some arrests have been made already. We identified two of us those who were arrested from the CCTV footage.”

Singer Tuface tasks Federal Government to end Killings in Benue State .

Nigeria’s multiple award winning Singer Innocent Idibia AKA Tubaba has lent his voice in the call for the Federal government to do everything possible to end the killings in Benue.

During his performance at the Soundcity MVP awards which held on Friday, the singer who is an indigene of Benue state, took out time to speak on the killings.

Annie Idibia , his wife shared the video of him speaking and wrote;

God bless you baby… You Can Only Do Your Bit And Leave The Rest To The Most High.

Tubaba said ;

i like to say something, we cannot sit down, enough is enough, I beg our Government , stop the killing in Benue, one love

See a video of Tubaba speaking below ;

Banky W and Wife, Adesua share lovely photos from their vacation in Jamaica.

The most famous celebrity couple of 2017  are enjoying time together at the Sandal Royal Caribbean in Montego BaeJamaica.

They shared some lovely photos on IG.

Banky wrote; Blessed, and thankful.

Adesua Wrote: “Thankful… #onthebeach #beachvibes #Godcreatesthemostbeautifullandscapes”

Couple goals right there innt ??

Nigerian Lady customizes Davido’s photo on her ATM card

Nigerian Lady customizes Davido's photo

A staunch Davido fan, identified as Cherrish Matadi, has customized her bank card with a Davido photo.

The Fia Singer took to Snapchat to share a photo of the card See below:

Nigerian Lady customizes Davido's photo

From the photo above, the fan was so excited when her bank ATM card arrived that she called him Daddy!!

Below is a better view of the Card, bearing the card holder’s name;

This won’t come as a surprise, because sometime last year, a male Davido fan inked a massive tattoo of the pop star’s face on his chest including Davido’s famous HKN chain.

Nigerian Lady customizes Davido's photo

Fans getting tattoos of Nigerian pop stars is slowly on the rise, in June this year, a fan of pop singer Sean Tizzle tattooed the artiste’s name on his wrist.

Last year a Kenyan fan tattooed Ice Prince’s name on her arm. Also, May D’s girlfriend has two tattoos of him.

A die-hard female fan of Wizkid also has a tattoo of his face on her back.

According to the fan, Diana, her tattoo of Wizkid is permanent and she has no regrets having it!

Well, since it is the new trend, who is going to get a tattoo of YBL on their body ? , we would appreciate .. lol .

Bishop Oyedepo reveals what will happen to Fulani Herdsmen

Bishop David Oyedepo of Living Faith Church Worldwide, has placed a curse on Fulani herdsmen allegedly killing Nigerians in the country.

Oyedepo, while condemning the killings by Fulani herdsmen stated that Nigeria is in a ‘state of slumber.

Addressing members of his church during the ‘One night with the King’ telecast across the nation, on Saturday in Otta, Ogun State, Oyedepo declared that the ”perpetrators of the killings and their unborn children will not see peace.”

According to the cleric, although the country is not at war, there are some disgruntled elements bent on destabilising Nigeria.

His words, “Where are the security agents? You mean they can’t get the herdsmen arrested?”

”Those Fulani herdsmen and their unborn children will not see peace.’

“I saw this coming, documented it because God confided in me. I saw it in May 23, 1982.

”Nigeria is in a state of slumber and the politicians won’t say anything. They (politicians) are always looking for the next election whether people are dying or not.”

“I just want Kiss Daniel to suck my breast” — Nigerian Lady on Twitter says

Kiss Daniel gave an outstanding performance at the just-concluded Soundcity MVP Awards, which held at EKo Hotels and Suites in Victoria Island Lagos.

Folks on social media applauded his performance, with many of the opinion that he should have won at least one award.

A twitter user took to the social media to reveal that the singer gives her life, and all she wants from his is just his mouth on her two oranges.

She wrote on Twitter; “Forgettt, I want Kiss Daniel to suck my bre–t. I don’t need to date him, just mad gives.”

Davido sets his eyes on South African pantless dancer, Zodwa Wabantu

Nigeria’s singer, Davido is set for a collaboration with South Africa’s sensational dancer, Zodwa Wabantu, who normally dances on stage, without wearing a pant.

Zodwa Wabantu

According to the Zimbabwe’s Herald, the collaboration between Davido and Zodwa, who is known as Queen of Vosso, is being arranged by Afrotainment boss, DJ Tira.

The report said Davido had sought Tira’s help to get Wabantu to feature in his upcoming music video.

“Hello @DjTira I wanna ft Zodwa Wabantu on my upcoming music video. How can I get hold of her? “(sic), he tweeted.

No date has been announced yet for the shooting of the video.

Zodwa, a Durban-based dancer has been grabbing headlines for her racy outfits and habit of not wearing panties. “

The dancer was banned from appearing at the Harare International Carnival in Zimbabwe last year because the organisers wanted her to wear panties.

Zodwa Wabantu

Watch a video of Zodwa Wabantu dancing;

I don’t care about Reekado Banks — Lil Kesh

YAGI Boss, Lil Kesh has finally had something to say as regards Reekado Banks claims that he is a better musician than he is.

Lil Kesh

Recall Reekado Banks made a statement during his “Thank You Concert” in Ibadan where he said that he was better than Lil Kesh and that there was no basis for comparison.

It should be recalled also that the two artistes had a ‘beef’ at the 2015 Headies Awards. Reekado Banks took home the award for the Next Rated Artiste, which came with a new SUV and this caused a stir as some people had thought Lil Kesh would win the award.

Lil Kesh in an interview with Saturday Beats, said: “I saw the video online where Reekado Banks said that he was better than me, but I have nothing to say about that. I don’t care what anybody says, and I don’t have any feelings regarding what he said because I am just in my own world.”

“I was not scared when I took the step to leave Olamide’s record label. I am never scared; I just knew it was the right move, so I was never scared. So far, I think the steps have helped me more as a person and as a brand. For one, I am a better person mentally and right now, I am not an instrument for the growth of someone’s business. Instead, I am instrumental to my own growth.

“Looking at the financial side as well, it was a good step. I cannot say I would reap what I have sown immediately, but every move I make now is to ensure I have a brighter future. I am doing all this for the future.

“When I announced that I left Olamide’s record label, some people were sceptical, but I proved them wrong by releasing hit songs. To me, there was no option of failure; it was a win-win situation. That was my strength and my fans have been so amazing in motivatting me. Thanks to my fans. With little effort, the results have always been amazing.

“Life as a label owner compared to when I was under a record label is good, but I have more responsibilities now. Life is a bit tougher now because of the responsibilities; it depicts growth and leaving YBNL was a very big step in my life,” the singer said.

Ghana records 80% increase in HIV in 2017 — Report

The 2017 Ghana AIDS Commission report on HIV/AIDS infection shows an 80% increases in new cases.

The report also indicates that the Volta Region and Brong Ahafo Region topped the chart of HIV/AIDS prevalence.

The findings were revealed at the Commission’s two–day annual strategic planning meeting.

The Ghana AIDS Commission is, therefore, asking Ghanaians to be extra careful in order not to contract the deadly disease.

Director-General of the Commission, Ambassador Dr Amokowa Blay Adu-Gyamfi made a passionate appeal to Ghanaians to voluntarily test for the virus.

She asked persons living with the virus to stick to the approved anti-retroviral drugs because there was no herbal cure for the disease yet.

“We are not condemning them (herbalist), we are just saying that there is no herbal cure as yet for HIV. If you want to take them it’s up to you. But then take your anti-retroviral medication,” she said.

She said the activities of the gay community – the key population – are to blame for the sharp increase in HIV infection.

A large proportion of the new HIV/AIDS cases were pregnant women, the report also revealed.

Meanwhile Nigeria had the second largest HIV epidemic in 2016, with over 196,000 adolescents representing 10 per cent of the global burden said to be living with HIV/AIDS, according to a World Health Report.

The report was given by Mrs Esther Samuel, The Chief Matron, Lagos State Ministry of Health, at a programme by a Non-governmental Organisation (NGO) Lisa Demi Project, in Lagos. AIDS SYMBOL Newsmen report that Lisa Demi Project, initiated in the U.K., seeks address the sexual health issues through Talks, Counselling and Entertainment among others.

The programme, held at the Teslim Balogun Stadium Surulere, Lagos on Thursday, and title “ Let’s Talk about Our Sexual Health’’, is targeted at teenagers between the ages 14 to 24. Speaking on the dangers of unrestrained sexual activities among the youths, Samuel said the statistics from the health sector remained a concern.

Pretty mike steps out like an “angel” for a wedding in Lagos (video)

Controversial socialite and businessman recently turned heads and dazzled folks, when he stepped out in an “angelic” look for a wedding in Lagos yesterday.

See some photos below, as well as a video that follows;

video:

https://youtu.be/RsvFNQr6crE

Prettymike has been in the news for one controversial story or the other.. He became well know onsocial media, after the Lagos State Government arrested him for putting two ladies on a dog leech, after outrage from folks on Social Media.

That of course didn’t stop him from his controversial ways.. He also went on to drink beer from baby bottles, and then bought a snake as a pet, and named “it” Toke Makinwa.

..and now this? Perhaps we should just crown mike as the Queen of controversies, snatching the award from cross-dresser, Bobrisky.

“I find it hard to break up with her because her ‘privates’ is too sweet”

There is this babe i have been dating on/ off for close to 3 years now. We have had countless arguments but we always settle.

I find it hard to break up with her, because her private-part is so sweet!! Not all privates are the same to be honest. Her own is like cocaine.

Very fresh and clean. I dont know if it is lust or love but nowadays nothing she does is wrong in my eyes.

I have made attempts to take it to the next level with her but she said her people dont accept mbaise men. (She is from agulu, anambra)

The only problem i have with her is that she bugs me for money all the time but i have been able to handle it.

She prefers friends with benefits arrangements, of which i pay her a token. I am considering getting her pregnant to tie her down regardless of consequences.

Please i need mature advice on how to move on from her because even if i marry someone else. I will still be banging her which i don’t want to do.

“I am a Virgin” – Actress Wini Lazarus

Actress Wini Lazarus

Nollywood Actress Wini lazarus had a chat with The News Guru, and she revealed why she became an actress, ventured into agriculture, being a virgin, among other issues.

Actress Wini Lazarus

What made you venture into Agriculture?

I have always loved agriculture. While I was in the University, Agriculture provided funds for my school fees. So I combine agriculture and acting. I am passionate about agriculture. Agriculture made me who I am today.

Have you ever been a victim of sex for roles?

I am not a ‘Do or die’ actress. I am not desperate . Desperation makes people take advantage of you.

Have you ever been asked for sex in order to get a movie role?

Yes I have been asked and that was when I was starting out in the industry. I wasn’t hungry or desperate when I came into the industry; I was already a big girl

Actress Wini Lazarus

What drives you, passion for your craft or money?

I didn’t start making money from acting for over three years. Now I have paid my dues, I deserve to be paid. In as much as I am passionate about acting, I am also a business woman.

What is your opinion about premarital sex?

I am a virgin; I am keeping myself till after marriage. I don’t need to dress like a ‘Deeper Life’ member for anyone to believe I am virgin .I am a public figure, I need to look good for my fans.

Actress Wini Lazarus

“My husband sleeps with my 16-year-old Sister; impregnated her & aborted It”

A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally.

The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

“Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don’t take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn’t want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn’t visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..”

“I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn’t want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..”

“I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.”

“One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he’ll change..But he never changed, at times he won’t talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he’ll insult me and call me and my family names.”

“I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who’s 16. She told me that they’ve been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..”

“So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn’t changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason… I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.”

Regina Daniels Shares Photo From Her Matriculation at Igbinedon University today

Nollywood actress Regina Daniels weeks ago took to her Instagram page to invite her beloved fans to her matriculation into Igbinedion university in Nigeria, which was slated for January 13.

The actress wrote;

My matric loading….. 13th January…. Y’all invited. School ?….,,..

Now Regina Daniels who revealed in August that she gained Admission into a private tertiary institution in Nigeria, today had her matriculation ceremony.

The 17-year-old took to Instagram to share beautiful photos from her matriculation ceremony.

See below;

With the caption; “Happy matriculation to me ✌️It’s a new beginning Thank you lord”

“I dated her for 8 years, never had sex with her, after Her MSc, she dumped me”

Heard this and almost cried my eyes off. Each time I get to hear some ladies say, “men are scum”, I seldom keep quiet because I have loads of stories and experiences which when shared will not only silence them but may change their mentality about the “men are scum phrase.”

So, a friend visited my house days back, whilst gisting, he shared a story about a bosom friend of his, who almost committed suicide over the girl he dated. We will use Mr. I as the boyfriend and Ms. I as the girlfriend. I will try as much as possible to cut the long story short.

According to him, Mr. I had been dating Ms. I since 2008, he was in the university then, 200 level to be precise, whilst she was about finishing secondary school. And like many young lovers, everything was good and going fine except the usual “childish mentality” from both parties of course.

Things kept blossoming, everything soft and nice. She got into the university, a private Nigerian university, fortunately for Mr. I, it wasn’t one of those universities where phones weren’t allowed, so they kept communicating and in fact, since the relationship gradually started maturing, their love kept shinning bright like a diamond.. So bright that other male chyker’s couldn’t approach Ms. I because almost everyone in campus knew she was “bae-gaged.” Yes, she was that proud of her bae then.

Mr. I never missed the opportunity of leaving his university to visit her every weekend, notwithstanding the distance.. Oh, I forgot to tell you, he schooled in far away East, whilst she schooled in the West. And the journey from his university to hers took him 7-8 hours by road and of course, he always used road except extreme cases where he decided to use flight.

Not only did he risk his life plying bad roads every weekend just to see bae, he also made sure he got stuffs for her, food stuffs and sometimes money (He took it upon himself to bring provisions and money two weekends out of four, monthly). Indeed, bae was balling, no wonder she was so bae-gaged!

And whenever they were on break, back to their respective homes (fortunately they both lived in Lagos), he was with her almost every other day. In fact, both parents knew they were dating. Yes, and they both approved of it. Indeed, Mr. I was happy, he had the acceptance of bae’s family members and of course, the heart of bae (So he thought).

A couple of times, when bae resumed a new semester and Mr. I was still home, boss-man will take it upon himself to fuel his car and drive his woman to her uni, not only that, sometimes took provisions to bae’s siblings’ schools too. Mr. I was in love, so he just wanted to make her family members love him more.. Every guy who has truly loved, will know this feeling..

“Mans” was usually broke in school because of bae, you know, bae schooled in a private university and lifestyle was more expensive there. Of course, to please bae and make her family know he was man enough, Mr. I usually soaked garri in his hostel whilst he sent the food stuffs given to him by his parents to his girl.. Love nwantiti right?

Fast forward to his graduation, he got a job which wasn’t well-paying like that, but always made sure 50% of his salary went to bae’s account. Yes a whole 50%.. (It was at this point I literally started tearing up. A tear dropped from my eye and I am certain my friend saw this. If only he knew that I was tearing up because I couldn’t really fathom how mans was so in love that he forgot there is a difference between a girlfriend and a wife). Worst still is, he hadn’t even engaged her yet! Oh my gosh!!!!

Well, love was still there (so he thought). All through the years of dating, spending, killing himself to please she and her family, he never for once had any sexual relation with her. Never for once, because she claimed to be a virgin. The best he ever got was a kiss.. A kiss bruh!

Fast forward to when she graduated from university, Mr. I threw a big party for her. Hosted over 30 people (friends and family). Spent close to N650K on the bash (Unbeknownst to his siblings, he borrowed a huge sum of money from his friends so as to make the party a huge success)… And a huge one it was (At this point I started thinking, If only he had engaged her at the bash he threw for her, maybe things would have turned out differently)… Well, who knows, right?

Months after she graduated, he lost favour from his employers, so he was sacked. Things dwindled from his end so his usual 50% to his bae, stopped. 3 months after he lost his job, bae informed him she was going to study abroad, going for her masters’ program in Russia. (Funny thing is, she never told him when she even applied nor got accepted). Well, she apologised, he forgave and they were still chilling.

Weeks later, it was time for her to travel, he dropped her off at the airport, they did the usual (kissed and bid themselves goodbyes right in front of her fam.. Yes, they were that close you know!).

Chatting, skyping, doing all sort of things, all these lasted for 3 to 4 months of her stay in Russia. Things became bad afterwards, communication not only dwindled but it dissolved, “mans” was no longer getting attention, “mans” was confused yet still going to bae’s house to help out in one or two errands for fam.

To cut the long story short….. Few weeks before she was done with her programme, she sent a text, which read, “We can’t be together anymore, I am sorry.” …. That was all, 8 years and that’s all she sent. No explanation as to why she wanted to call quits. (Cold right?)

Mr. I lost it at this point, became severely depressed, in fact, he was almost going insane. He had to be on drugs. Severally tried suicide but luckily for him, his younger brother came to the rescue. He was eventually admitted in Lagoon for 5 weeks.

This was the period bae came back. Bad thing is, she didn’t even bother informing him she was coming back and worst thing is, when she eventually heard he was hospitalised, she didn’t step her foot in Lagoon hospital.. A cruel world right?

Right as we speak, Mr. I has been in and out of hospital, going through one or two crisis. He has lost touch of reality and become a shadow of himself, whereas Ms. I hasn’t bothered seeing him since she came back to Nigeria and in fact, is about to be wed in April 2018.

Love is a beautiful thing only and when it is true and mutual so children of the world, love with your heart, but use your brain!

PS: This is a true life story from a friend to be shared on TheInfo.NG.

Photos from Omawumi’s traditional wedding in Delta state

Omawumi traditional wedding

Sultry Singer, Omawunmi tied the knot traditionally with husband and father of her two children, Tosin Yusuf, in Warri, Delta state today January 13th.

Omawumi traditional wedding

The 35-year-old looked beautiful in her traditional attire for her wedding and in attendance were her friends and colleagues including Waje, Chigurl, Debola Williams, Mabel Makun, Mai Atafo and others are present at the wedding.

See photos below;

Omawumi traditional wedding

Congrats Ma.

Explained: Why Wizkid missed Soundcity MVP Awards 2017

wizkid missed soundcity mvp

A lot of things went down last night at the second edition of the annual Soundcity MVP awards, but One of the notable faces missing yesterday at the ceremony which was held at Eko Hotel and Suites, Lagos, was Nigerian superstar Wizkid.

wizkid missed soundcity mvp
Wizkid

Wiz, was at the debut edition last year, but he had to be in London to support a colleague, Ycee, who had his concert yesterday too.

While his new bestfriend, Davido, dominated the awards ceremony, Wizkid bagged the award for Digital Artiste of the year at the Soundcity MVP Award.

His former Label mate, Maleek Berry also copped two awards for Best new Artiste and Best pop .

wizkid missed soundcity mvp
Wizkid

Nigerian actress kidnapped by herdsmen reveals she was freed after 5 days

Popular Instagram Comedian and Actress, Calabar Chic has revealed how she was kidnapped alongside with her friends, by some heavily armed Fulani Herdsmen.

She wrote on instagram; “FREEDOM AT LAST!!!! GOD IS THE GREATEST! My friend and I were Kidnapped since Monday by some merciless heavily armed FULANI HERDSMEN.”

“The worst few days of my life! (Story for another day) But like I always say, God will never leave nor will he forsake his own.”

“Thanks to everyone who reached out to my family. Thank you. God bless you. MEANWHILE I WILL BE OFFLINE FOR SOMETIME AS MY PHONES WERE TAKEN TOO. I Will be back soon.”

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