The first openly gay church in Nigeria, House Of Rainbow, on the 2nd of September celebrated their 10th Year Anniversary and they say celebrated it with pride.
Nearly 60 people were in attendance at the event which happened in London.
Jide Macaulay, Nigeria’s first openly gay pastor who founded House of Rainbow Fellowship on 2nd September 2006 said:
It is the case of the rejected stones becoming the cornerstone. Our theme was Testimony, Grace & Glory.
For 10 years we have been active creating safe spaces for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals,
Transgender, Intersex and Queer people to worship, and celebrate God, just as we are.
In this new decade we are proud to announce the growth of our mission, Eight leaders in Nigeria, Three in Ghana, Two in South Africa, Two in Uganda, Two in Zambia, One each in Botswana, Liberia, Tanzania, Malawi, Sweden and United Kingdom respectively.
Facts about the church:
32 people attended the first meeting which took place at Ikeja Capital City Hotel Ikeja Lagos.
On the 31st December 2006, House Of Rainbow hosted the largest number of LGBT people of faith gathering in Lagos for the New Years Eve celebration. Over 200 people attended.
There are currently 13 active groups with 17 volunteer local leaders, 11 cities and in 7 countries, Nigeria, Ghana, Malawi, Lesotho, Burundi, Zambia, and United Kingdom.
House of Rainbow has two groups dedicated to LGBTIQ Muslims in Nigeria and Ghana respectively.
House of Rainbow has performed over 10 Same Sex weddings or blessings in the last decade in Africa and Europe.
House Of Rainbow printed and distributed over 10,000 copies of Pocket Devotional for LGBT Christians.
House Of Rainbow now include fellowship to LGBTIQ Christians and Muslims
The Nigeria Media and some other unknown people attacked House of Rainbow in 2008, resulting in brutal assaults on members and death threats.
Almost seven years after the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) handed over the N2.8billion Chelsea Hotel to the government of Bayelsa State, the hitherto money-spinning edifice is rotting away in Abuja.
The hotel was seized from the state’s first civilian governor, the late Diepreye Alamieyeseigha.
A Federal High Court, Lagos in 2007 ordered the forfeiture of the hotel by Alamieyeseigha after the ex-governor was sentenced for corruption.
Besides the hotel, the EFCC sold other Alamieyeseigha assets in Nigeria and realised N3, 128, 230, 294.83billion; $441,000; E7, 000 and £2,000.
The money was remitted to the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), in accordance with the law, for onward delivery to the state government as ordered by the court.
Former EFCC Chairman Mrs. Farida Waziri on September 7, 2009 handed over the hotel to ex-Governor Timipreye Sylva in Abuja. The thinking was that it would be a source of revenue for the state.
Seven years after the asset was returned to the state government, the hotel has become a haven for miscreants, men of the underworld, rodents and reptiles.
Shady activities are being perpetrated at the abandoned hotel, which poses danger to some shopping malls and banks in the Central Business District of Abuja.
Some of the miscreants have stripped the hotel of vital materials, which has no security.
An EFCC source, who spoke in confidence, said: “As at the time we handed over the hotel, in 2009, the asset was worth N2.8billion. We returned the hotel to Bayelsa State with another asset at No. 2 Marscibit Street, Off Aminu Kano Crescent Wuse II Abuja which was valued at N210million.
“We took a step further by instructing Diya Fatimilehin and Co., former managers of the hotel to provide the state with detailed inventory of assets of the hotel.”
“It is unfortunate that nothing has been done in the last seven years. The land where the hotel is sited attracts either up to N800million to N1billion in Abuja. Yet the asset is allowed to lie fallow. “To the source, the fate of the once throwing hotel is a typical case of how the anti-graft war is being “frustrated and rendered meaningless”
“A former Chairman of EFCC, Mr. Nuhu Ribadu worked day and night to bring Alamieyeseigha to justice but the efforts have come to naught,” he said.
Asked if the EFCC can query the state government on why the hotel has been abandoned, the source said: “Well, there is not much we can do because we have done our best.
“The state’s funds were looted and used to buy the hotel; we traced the loot and recovered the assets. It is left to the state to live up to its pledge to make judicious use of the asset or sell it.
“We have been expecting a status report from Bayelsa State on how it has spent the recovered funds and the utilisation of the returned assets.”
Upon the receipt of the hotel in 2009, Sylva said: “The Bayelsa State Government will not be able to manage the assets by itself. The fund that the state government will receive will also go to building what is called the Transparency Plaza, in the middle of the Yenagoa Central Business District, so that this plaza will be a monument that will be a constant reminder of today.
”As soon as the fund is accessed, we will like to ask you to come to Bayelsa State to lay the foundation of this plaza.
“We will welcome your close monitoring of the expenditure of this fund, after all without the instrumentality of EFCC, we would not have accessed this fund, so it is only good that you know exactly what we are doing. We are running an open government; our budget is on the website, anybody can access it. We are fully committed to transparency and to partner fully with EFCC.”
As at press time, rodents, reptiles, rodents, miscreants, drug addicts have taken over the hotel.
It was gathered that many posh cars and Sport Utility Vehicles (SUVs) massed up in darkness at the hotel at night for what a source described as “nocturnal deals”.
A concerned bank executive said: “The activities of some miscreants at the old hotel premises constitute security threats to commercial entities in CBD, including choice malls and banks nearby.
“Security agencies and the police should have more than a passing interest in some activities at the old hotel.”
Late Corper Dayo, a member of the National Youth Service Corps, NYSC drowned on August 27th after he accidentally slipped of a boat while boarding a jetty to the community where he was serving.
His body was found two days later floating in the river. The deceased was laid to rest on Friday, Sept 2nd.
A Facebook user shared the photos along with a tribute.
“Corper Dayo was someone who didn’t say more than 100 words in a day.
Corper Dayo was someone who never looked for trouble.
Corper Dayo was someone who smiled in French
Corper Dayo was someone who always seeked the face of God.
We the Isaka, Port Harcourt corp members sadly bid farewell to our friend who was one of us but lost his life last week Saturday.
Corper Dayo crossed the river to have a haircut in preparation for the next day (Sunday service) but unfortunately did no make it back to us after his haircut because he reached the island and accidentally slipped off the boat as he was trying to climb up the jetty leading to the community where we stay.
We cried our eyes out in prayers begging God to rescue him while the searcher swept the river. Unfortunately according to the wish of God, he was only found two days after floating in the river. Corper Dayo was finally laid to rest on 2/09/2016.
We say may his soul rest in perfect peace. AMEN
I also use this medium to urge our fellow corpers who are posted in riverine area to be very careful and also put on your life jackets no matter how small the river may be”
Popular Nollywood sweetheart, Mercy Aigbe, has revealed that God and a powerful determination has been the reason why she has managed to sustain her marriage.
Aigbe, who is currently in her second marriage, got hitched to popular hotelier, Lanre Gentry, also on the same tally.
Speaking with Encomium, the actress stated that her successful marriage is down to having a focus.
“It has been cool and it’s been God all the way. Before I got into it, I had actually made up my mind that come what may, I was going to stay married.”
“Although, I won’t say there weren’t some challenges along the way, I am just being focused. And I have been praying about it and God has just been helping me. So, it’s been God all the way.”
For her husband, Lanre Gentry, it was not an easy task getting the woman’s attention. He reportedly had to pay a huge sum of money before getting Aigbe’s consent for marriage.
He narrated an incident where he promised to pay a lady the sum of N50,000 so that she can convince the actress to talk to him.
According to Naij News, “On getting there, I met one lady, Bimbo. I was inside my car. Bimbo called her out. She refused. I now told Bimbo to talk to Mercy, that if she agrees I will give her N50, 000″, he said.
Beyond the screen, not much is known about Rita Dominic because the Nollywood star keeps her personal life away from the media.
Many times, fans bombard her with questions, the most popular being if she has any child of her own, a question that rear head each time the screen goddess shares photos of children on her Instagram.
Now, Ms Dominic has given fans the opportunity of a Q&A session, where she responded to questions posted on her timeline.
When asked if she has any kids of her own, she said:
“No, I don’t. But I’d love to. I love children very much. I am working on it, hopefully.”
On her beauty regimen, she said:
“I don’t know how to answer that question (but) I drink a lot of water, I work out a lot. I try to eat right when I can,” she said, before noting, “Don’t get me wrong – I love food.”
She further revealed that she is not married yet. When asked if she is dating someone presently, she blushed and said “It is my personal life…actually I was dating someone in Germany…but nah, let me not talk about that, it is my private life” You can watch the rest of the short Q&A here on Facebook below:
Almost everyone knows the useful honey. Although, there are so many useful properties of cinnamon too. It lowers the cholesterol levels, improves the complexion, increases the blood flow, it is very beneficial for the heart, intestines, stomach and the most important thing – it is best for burning fat in the body.
You can use cinnamon as a supplement for many dishes. For example, a quarter of a teaspoon to every meal, you may replace sugar with cinnamon fully or partially or make an extraordinary mixture for weight loss and drink that regularly.
If you make this weight loss drink with cinnamon you should drink it before bedtime. You surely have all the ingredients that you need in the kitchen and you will get up in the morning with fewer pounds.
The Recipe
Every night before going to bed, you should consume this mixture of honey and cinnamon. If you are using this drink regularly, the weight will be reduced even in the fattest people.
If you regularly consume this weight loss drink, it won’t allow the fat to accumulate in your body.
Former beauty queen Mrs Ibidunni Ajayi-Ighodalo opened up about her search for a child in a rare interview with Thisday’s Nseobong Okon-Ekong.
The wife of Trinity House founder and accountant, Pastor Itua Ighodalo also talked about dedicating her life to helping others through her Ibidunni Ighodalo Foundation, IIF by funding IVF treatment for couples who are hoping to have their own children.
When the CEO of Elizabeth R got married in 2007, her expectations were like those of every many married woman, to give birth to children. Her wedding to Itua Ighodalo, was celebrated, even if it was attended with a heat of debate from his previous union.
Nonetheless, friends and family members rallied round to give them the much needed support, while other interested members of the public attracted by their individual and combined eminence followed with keen enduring attention.
Close to one decade on, the loathing generated in some quarters at the onset of their relationship has definitely receded.
The rumour mill which spewed torrents of lopsided and coloured tales that caused the couple a lot of trauma, even if a bit, has withdrawn, but the pain of those turbulent years live with her still. For one who keeps to herself, the scrutiny of her marriage in the public, led her to sew-up. She reduced the number of persons she called friends to a handful, becoming more and more engrossed with her husband.
“I have heard stories of in-laws calling the woman painful names. Those are hurtful things to say. There are names you don’t want to call a woman that is looking up to God.” Mrs Ighodalo began…
She continued to share her experiences.
“People may not want to be mean, but they don’t know that certain statements and body language hurt. When you are waiting on God, you can be sensitive to what people say or do and they might not know it will hurt or hit you. It is good to raise awareness and understanding about childless couples. Friends and relatives should be a bit more sensitive to women or couples who are waiting on the Lord. I know that because of our culture, the pressure is so much. The shoes of women who are waiting on the Lord are not very easy shoes. Emotionally, mentally and psychologically, hormonally, when you are going through treatments, it’s a rollercoaster-you deal with in-laws, society, friends, there’s a lot going on.”
“People who get married and have children don’t know how lucky they are. I mean you are even careful not to get pregnant again, you are so blessed by God, you should thank God every day. It is not easy to find yourself in a situation where your friends are doing school runs, you don’t know what that is, you don’t even know what your first trimester is. The friends you had bridal showers with are having baby showers, it takes the grace of God to remain sane, honestly.”
On her 35th birthday last year, she decided to turn the lemon that life had thrown at her into lemonade. It had become her fashion to write a wish list on the day she was born and then tick-off the accomplished ones on her next birthday.
Every year, she scored high on every point, but one: The issue of childlessness had become a sore point that could not be addressed.
She had prayed and sought different avenues for a medical solution, but the problem just could not be wished away.
Although she enjoyed the understanding and love of her husband and in-laws, the quest for a child consumed her.
“I had tears in my eyes when I told God, ‘you know what? This is enough. You are going to do it when You want to do it, in Your own time and if You are not going to do it, let it be left undone. This is You. I trust You. Right now, it’s ok, I’m going to live my life. I found out that I had stopped living, because that was all I wanted. I said no, I’m going to be happy, live my life and leave it all to God. I’m grateful to God for my own family, for the family I’m married into.”
Those statements to God with tears in her eyes opened a window to air her bottled emotions.
It lifted a huge weight off her shoulders. As she cleared her mind of the cobwebs of trying to have a baby, she was amazed to receive one of the most altruistic ideas with clarity. Her husband was no less enthused when she shared the idea with him.
“My focus now is to help others, one at a time. I want to make a family happy and with the help of God, their prayers would be answered. I know the pain and what it feels like. It will give me joy to see them jumping and rejoicing, saying that they are expecting their own children. I have seen it happen. I have seen the two sides during my course of treatment. I said God help me, let me do this. When you focus on helping others, you don’t know the blessings that come back to you. It is difficult but I said Lord you have put this in me, You have to provide. You know when God gives you a vision, He makes the provision. I have been amazed at the response. It is unbelievable.”
“When I was going through some treatment, I would get to the clinic and someone who has just done a pregnancy test was being told that it didn’t work, it was always so devastating for me to hear them wonder aloud where they would get money for the next treatment. I have met women who came to the hospital to get the treatment but they couldn’t afford it. Some couldn’t even afford the test to know what was wrong. I have also met women who decided to share their burden, this is how financially draining this treatment can be. If you have extra eggs, you can sell them in exchange for the treatment. When women share eggs left from a successful IVF on another women or they use the woman’s extra cycle that has been paid for, these are ways women support one another because getting an egg donor can be very expensive.”
“It is so strange and funny, but when you sit back and think about it, every family has somebody who is waiting on God for a child. The person might be your cousin or mum’s sister. There are certain ways we will treat the person. But do you know that there are certain ways we treat somebody else coming into our family with the same issue? We don’t treat them the same. It is not intentional. If you have in-laws who are not nice to you, they will think it’s your fault. They will call you names, talk down on you. If your in-laws have somebody in their family who is waiting, they will never speak to the person like that. We really need to have a support system and also learn to put ourselves in other people’s shoes.”
The graduate of Microbiology from the University of Lagos is using the platform of IIF to award grants for fertility treatment such as In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), Frozen Embryo Transfer and Intrauterine Insemination. She was forced to change her initial plan to help one or two couples when she received tons of applications. The plan has now changed to accommodate 28 couples.
“There are some couples that have applied that have been married for between 20 and 25 years and when I read their history, they have come to a point where they are tired. I even found out that it was their family that applied for some of them. A lot of people have asked me why I don’t face my life, why am I trying to be Mother Theresa. What is it? Is it that you have so much money you don’t know what to do with it. I can’t even explain it.”
Remember the man who was arrested after he named his dog Buhari?
Here’s an interesting up on the whole matter.
Lawyer/Human Rights Activist, Inibehe Effiong (pictured left) who was involved in Joachim Iroko Chinakwe’s case (Pictured right) after the latter was arrested when a neighbour filed a complaint against him for naming his dog ‘Buhari’ just revealed via a series of tweets that his ‘client’ has just named his new born daughter ‘Aisha’.
You all can put 1+2 together before you bash us for insinuating what’s not!
The Director of Muslim Rights Concern, MURIC, Ishaq Akintola, has called for ‘fair treatment’ between Christians and Muslims in Nigeria.
The professor of Islamic Eschatology said Nigeria is not a secular state as according to him, it does not recognize religion.
In a chat with the Punch, Akintola said, “I still insist Nigeria is not a secular state. It does not recognise any religion at all. An example is the Sallah holidays. Although Christians used to enjoy Christmas and other holidays, there was no Sallah holiday for Muslims on Eid el-Fitr and Eid el-Kabir days during the colonial days. We wrenched that from our oppressors’ hands after a long struggle.
“Another example where freedom has come our way is where Nigerian Christians compelled Muslims to operate Christian financial system with its riba (interest) which is haram (forbidden) for Muslims, yet they refused to allow Muslims to practise the Islamic banking until a former governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi (now Emir of Kano), belled the cat by introducing Islamic banking.
“What exactly do I mean? Nigerian Christians have been enjoying everything they need since the British took over the country and colonised it. They have the Christian common law while they object to Muslims having Shariah. They enjoy Christo-Western education while they restrict Muslim children’s access to Islamic education. Christians are free to do whatever they like on Sundays but Muslims are chained to their workplaces on Fridays. That chain must break. Freedom is our cry.
“The government supports both Christian and Muslim pilgrimages. Christian and Muslim prayers are said at official functions. The preamble of the Nigerian Constitution leans heavily on God. So, we are a multi-religious nation. It is when Christian leaders want to pull the wool over our eyes that they claim that Nigeria is a secular country.
“We must widen the horizon of the quest for self-determination. They hold Christian court or church marriage whose certificate is recognised by law whereas mosque marriage certificate is not recognised. Christian schoolchildren use Christian school uniforms but Muslim children are disallowed from using the hijab. Muslim women are denied driving licences and international passports in Nigeria on account of their use of hijab.
“There is an urgent need to straighten this lopsided system. It is not working. Nigerian Muslims still remain oppressed today because they have yet to be emancipated in the four examples above. There are more areas of oppression. But there are one or two aspects where the Muslims have been liberated.
“So you can see that it is all about struggling for liberation. It is like a master-slave affair. Those who sit on the necks of Muslims are reluctant to set them free. But we will get there whether the oppressor likes it or not. It is interesting to note that Christians know that a Muslim commits a sin each time he collects or gives riba yet they never freely allowed it. What do you call that? Do we love our neighbours?
“Do you call that freedom of religion? Isn’t there some element of selfishness in that? Didn’t Jesus teach loving the neighbour? I remember that a particular bishop from the East led his followers in a public demonstration against the introduction of Islamic banking. Ridiculous, isn’t it?
“As for the claim that Muslims are being favoured by the present administration, that is large-scale falsehood. Even Nigerian toddlers know that Buhari is religion-blind. He is not a fanatic. He just wants to fix Nigeria.
“How has the present administration favoured Muslims? The facts are at our fingertips. Take the South-West as an example: there are six states there and each has a minister. Only Babatunde Fashola and Adebayo Shittu are Muslims. The rest are Christians. Let CAN tell us if that is not so. Do you call two out of six a favour? And that is just a tip of the iceberg in Buhari’s administration.
“The parastatals are replete with Christian chief executives. But Muslims are not complaining. Nigeria now has about 35 ministers out of which only 17 are Muslims. Tell me how the present administration has favoured Muslims. Is CAN using mathematics or mathemagic?
“Personally, I believe that we are cutting our nose to spite our face in this country. We should allow government to pick the best candidates for positions in order to get maximum performance. We should not always be thinking of religious or ethnic leaning. Muslims have tried as much as possible to maintain this principle but CAN is always making a noise because of its grip on the press,” Akintola noted.
Olupinla Idowu, a female pastor and founder of a Cherubim and Seraphim church at 52 Okesina street, Ijoko area of Ota, Ogun state has been captured by officers of the Nigerian police force after her prostitution ring was discovered.
The 54 year old was paraded before newsmen at Eleweran police headquarters in Ogun state. Investigations showed that Olupinla specialized in contracting or in local words..”pimping” male customers for the girls aged between 14 and 16. The girls live in the church premises with the woman whom they call ‘mama’.
How she was caught
Olupinla met her water-loo after 3 girls were rescued by police officers.
Her Modus Operandi and Confession of victims
One of the victims, a 16 year old girl confessed that the woman used them to make money. She said
“We are about 10 with Mama, and she always arrange men for us to have sex,She created apartment within the church premises, where the men sleep with us. We charge N500 per sex in which Mama will collect N300 and give us N200.”
The girl also confessed that abortions were carried out on the church premises, admitting that she herself has had 5 abortions.
She revealed that each girl made an average N1500 per day inclusive of Olupinla’s share. Ogun state commissioner of Police, Ahmed Ilyasu, told newsmen that the girls have been taken to a hospital for checkups and treatment and the woman will be charged to court on child abuse and human trafficking offenses.
Hussein Emmanuel had his eyes gouged out by his friend and other accomplice for ritual.
The 18-year-old from Sara village in Tafawa Balewa Local Government Area was deceived by his best friend identified as one David Arafat who had promised to secure a job for him in Port Harcourt, Rivers State.
According to Daily Trust, David allegedly connived with another accomplice, Jerry and led Hussein to a river in Sara village where they attacked him and gouged out his eyes.
Emmanuel Iliya, the victim’s father disclosed said that David asked his son for money in order to assist him to secure employment in Port Harcourt. The devastated father said he borrowed N5,000 from a friend in order to assist his son make the journey.
An uncle of the victim, Haruna Iliya, who spoke to Daily Trust said that the suspect knew the victim through another friend, Amos Munga, who has travelled to Ibadan.
He explained that the victim was earlier taken to Abuja by David, whom he said has a wife and a child there, but the victim was sent back home by the suspect to look for more money for his onward journey to Port Harcourt.
Bauchi State Police Public Relation Officer, ASP Mahmood Mohammed, who confirmed the incident said that the police will provide details on the issue later as investigation is ongoing. The suspect is still at large.
The parents of Ese Oruru, the 14-year-old girl who was abducted and impregnated by one Yunusa Dahiru, who took her to Kano, have alleged that there were plans to steal their granddaughter, by some young men.
The development came barely six months after Ese was rescued and reunited with her loved ones.
Her parents raised the alarm in an interview with Sunday Punch on Saturday that there have been persistent threats by some people to take away their teenage daughter’s three-month-old baby girl.
They explained that their fear was based on recent events, one of which included an assault to one of Ese’s siblings.
Ese mother, Rose, said, “Towards the end of July, a man traced us from the court to the Police Officers’ Mess in Yenagoa (Bayelsa State capital). We later overheard him talking in Hausa language to someone on the telephone that he had located the place where Ese and her baby were staying.
“He said that they don’t want the baby to grow up with ‘these people,’ meaning us. My daughter ran to us when she heard that. I later sent my son to buy sachet water and he told us when he returned that he also saw the same man standing outside.
“I later saw this same man walking back and forth outside the officers’ mess, and he was still talking on the phone. His movements were suspicious. Since then, we have been living in fear.”
Ese’s mother added that the same man was with Ese’s alleged abductor, in the court premises during one of the proceedings, wearing a red cap.
She also said one of her children was assaulted recently while on a commercial motorcycle by some unknown persons.
She said, “The men sounded like they were Hausas; they asked her if she was going to the house the ‘government had paid for them.’ I didn’t know how they knew that. Before my daughter could rush into a tricycle, these men forcefully took away some of her belongings and the food she was bringing for Ese and the baby.”
The Orurus said they reported the separate incidents to the Bayelsa State Police Commissioner, who then ordered that the security around the Officer’s Mess be beefed up.
The number of police officers guarding the premises has since reduced, the family said. “This is why I am even more afraid now.” the mother told Punch correspondent.
“With this incident, I am afraid anything can happen, and I don’t want any of my daughters to be kidnapped again,” Ese’s father, Charles, said.
The Police Public Relations Officer, Bayelsa State Command, Asinim Butswat, in a text message sent to Punch correspondent, said the state police command “had not received any report of threat to the family.”
Sumbo Ajaba Adeoye, one of Tuface’s babymamas but now happily married and assisting her husband to lead a church.
Sumbo in this interview with Punch, spoke out extensively for the first time, revealing how she went into a fake marriage to cover up for the pregnancy she had for tuface.
How the child looked nothing like the man she married and how she had to run out of that marriage.
She later went to live with Tuface for three years, and in the process, she became pregnant again. Below is her revelation to Punch Spice.
How would you describe meeting your husband?
It is so funny because he had always been my pastor. He is someone I always went to for mentorship, so when he came across as wanting to be my husband, I was a bit scared. Even though I knew I was asking God for a husband, a father, friend and mentor, I did not know it was my pastor that was going to fit in because nobody was praying for his wife to die. When he made his intentions known, I thought maybe if I stayed away from church, he would forget about me. I realised that whenever I stayed away from church, I would lose my peace. I was a committed member of the church as well as the praise team leader.
Then, I started praying and fasting. I began to ask God if it was what He wanted for me. I knew my past and I told God I was going to drop my tall, dark and handsome for whatever He wanted for me.
Many will argue that having a second baby is not circumstantial.
That happened because we were in a relationship. I met Tuface when I was a student of Yaba College of Technology. I had just lost my dad and my mum was living in America. For someone who was a daddy’s girl, I needed love. This was the only person that was showing me love at that time. I feel I had that experience so that other young girls would not make the same mistake. I was 24 when I fell pregnant the first time.
When I got pregnant the first time, I approached the pastor of the church I was attending then and he brought me out before the church and judged me. I was asked to go and bring the father of my unborn child so we could be joined together. I brought a different person and we got married at the registry. Everything fell apart when I had a child who looked nothing like him and my mum came back from America to ask who gave my hand out in marriage because she was not a part of it. I had to walk out of the marriage which I arranged by myself. I moved back home and by age 25 I was already a single mum and a divorcee.There was so much shame and reproach.
It got to a point in my life that I felt that the Devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know, so I went back to my baby daddy and his mum talked me into living with him so he won’t have more women and babies. We lived together for three years and that was how the second pregnancy happened.
It was not a bed of roses while I was there because I was trying to put together what was not supposed to be. I think we broke up in 2009 after I had the second baby. There were other women who were also going to have babies for him around that time. I came to my senses like the prodigal son and I was so broken. I think my baby daddy was out of the country that fateful day when I returned from work and I packed all my things plus that of my children, and I went back to my parents’ home.
How would you describe being married to your husband?
It is a privilege that comes with a lot of glory and responsibilities. It also comes with a lot of glamour and commitment. It comes with its own challenges and God has equipped us to handle everything. This is not the Sunmbo that got married to Pastor Adeoye three years ago. I am a better person and I am now refined.
What are your pet names for each other?
I call him baby all the time but sometimes I call him pastor. He calls me baby or Desunmbo.
Senator Princess Stella Oduah has finally laid to rest the remains of her 28 year old, Maxwell, Chinedu Oduah-Etoromi, at exactly 2:15pm Saturday.
The deceased was interred at the Oduah family mausoleum in Akili- Ozizor, Ogbaru local Government of Anambra State amidst tears and eulogies.
The Metropolitan Archbishop of Onitsha, Most Reverend Valerian Okeke,was represented in the burial mass by the Episcopal Vicar of Dunukofia Region, Very Rev Fr Theophilus Odukwe who presided over the mass with 57 other priests concelebrating. In their midst were 3 Anglican priests.
A half a year old baby girl was defiled & brutally injured by one 40-year-old deaf teacher in Potiskum, Yobe State, the culprit was arrested but was granted bail later – this motion has caused an outrage on social media.
The teacher, identified as Shaaibu Yakubu Abdullahi, by the Commandant of Nigeria Security and Defence Corps (NSCDC), Muhammad Gidado Fari, was arrested on September 1, by men of the NSCDC for allegedly raping the baby .
The NSCDC commandant revealed that the deaf teacher allegedly connived with his 10-year-old student, who carried the baby to him from her neighbour’s house and he defiled her, adding that although Abdullahi denied the allegation, he was identified by the 10-year-old student in a group picture of staff and student taken in the school.
Yari said the suspected rapist was arrested after a non-governmental organization, National Council of Women Society (NCWS), reported the situation to the corps, added that the matter has been reported to the state’s Ministry of Justice for prosecution as the case needs a professional in sign language to interpret.
The President of NCWS, Halima Kyari Joda, said the baby was taken to the University of Maiduguri Teaching Hospital for examination and proper treatment.
Nigerian music moguls, 2baba and MI Abaga, had their Buckwyld and Breathless concert last night – the event had a host of celebrities in attendance supporting the musical icons.
Wife of 2Baba, Annie Idibia was also present at the event and she blessed the guests of the show with the stunning look of her outfit, a quite simple and plain golden monochrome dress with stunning golden heel shoes to match.
Beautiful songstress, Omawumi, also wowed us with her lovely shirt dress and her signature Afro Hair, other notable celebrities at the event were Isaac Geralds, Ushbebe, Akpororo, MC Shakara, Sensei Uche, Olori Supergal, Kelly Handsome, Pita, Arese, Nonso Bassey, Ruby Gyang, Dice Ailes, CKay, DJ Nana, Funny Bone, Terry Apala, Pencil, Senator, Nedu, and many more
Stunning fair-skinned wife of P-Sqaure‘s Peter Okoye, Lola Omotayo turned a year older yesterday and not only was she celebrated by her husband, who gushed over her on IG, she had nice time spent with family and friends.
The beauty kept her birthday celebration simple as she had house get together party with friends and family. How nice… More photos below:
The couple’s moms looked lovely as they played guest at 2Baba’s Buckwyld and Breathless Show which was held last night at the prestigious Eko Hotels and Suites.
They put on some lovely mother-in-law bonding here in this picture though, as they both were a charming smile – the actress really has her mom’s smile and eyes though.
Ever since the 32 year old billionaire’s visit to the Sub Saharan countries, Nigerian and Kenya have been at war on Social media onto which country is way forward and better for the billionaire to visit.
No one is taking sides, but the poll has it that Nigeria Twitter has the winning count! Even the ex-minister of Aviation waded in on the war and gave one or two points.
Now this is just priceless, everything from the cute toddler to the mama even to the stroller! This photo is one in a quadrillion!
The ex-beauty queen and stunning model, shared this adorable photo of herself and her lovely daughter moments ago and it has since given us chills as we’re in love with every bit of it!
With many believing him single, the popular Mr Incredible rapper was always ready to tell anyone willing to listen that nollywood diva, Rita Dominic his is celebrity crush.
It has however been revealed that M.I Abaga has been in a relationship with Erica Okundaye, who happens to be the Human Resource Manager of Chocolate City Label.
Days ago she resigned from her job at Chocolate City after three years of service and the reason wasn’t disclosed.
However, one of the PR in the label revealed to media that Erica resigned due to her wedding preparation with M.I, the president of Chocolate City Record Label, and due to the fact that company policies won’t allow couples in the same organisation, one had to pull out for the other, and Erica has taken one for her alleged lover, M.I Abaga.
This is not the first case of internal affairs in the popular record label, as Jesse Jags, M.I’s brother and another member of Chocolate city, actually has a daughter with Ruby, one of the main vocalist in the ace record label owned by Audu Maikori.
We are so excited that we can finally tick M.I Abaga out of the lengthy list of Celebrity Bachelors.
Lol… This is the height of it mehn! When one celebrity threatens another over Instagram likes… It’s baffling!
The Nollywood actor, who in mid-August, his birthday to be exact, welcomed a baby girl with his actress wife, Muma Gee, took to Instagram to call out MAVIN records boss, Don Jazzy, for not liking any of his Instagram posts since he started following him.
The actor shared on his page moments ago:
24th of December 2014 @donjazzy followed me on Instagram,up till now he has NEVER liked any of my pictures….abeg Bros why you follow me …tell me now or ….
He was appointed Emir of Kano, on the 8th of June, 2014 succeeding his late grand uncle Dr Ado Bayero. Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, an ex-governor of the central bank of Nigeria royal swag is nothing to be compared with!
The royalty’s outfits, shoes and cars are second to none! You can only want to become a royal highness when people like the Emir of Kano is your inspiration.
Some of the shoes he’s wearing, I checked their types on an online shopping mall and Oh! My! Lawd! I shook my head in humble admiration!
The Naira as of Friday, appreciated against the dollar in all the segments of the forex market.
The Nigerian currency exchanged at N422 to the dollar, gaining 3 points from N425 it traded on Thursday, while the Pound Sterling and the Euro closed at N535 and N464 respectively.
At the Bureaux De Change segment of the market, the Naira also strengthened against the dollar, exchanging at N415, and N535 and N460 to the Pound Sterling and the Euro, respectively.
At the inter-bank segment of the market, the Naira extended its gains, closing at N314.77 to the dollar, from N331 it recorded at the end of trading on Tuesday.
Traders at the market expressed hope that the Naira would appreciate further with the lifting of the ban on nine banks from participating in the forex market by the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN).
The CBN had earlier banned nine Deposit Money Banks (DMBs) from dealing on Forex for their failure to comply with government’s directive on the Treasury Single Account (TSA).
Nollywood fine Boy, Mike Godson is a fast rising actor that took over the industry with his acting prowess dusting aside the likes of Jim Iyke and Ramsey Noah.
His good looks and body structure is also a center of attraction which makes many ladies fall helplessly in love with him.
The actor who seems to be prepping up for settling down has choose to speak about the qualities he would need from his future bride.
In his words:
“Some time ago, i met a pretty girl in America and she said to me “Michael” i know you’d like to get married to the sexiest woman alive. A woman with the most adorable appearance, a model figure!!… I looked at her and smiled!! I smiled because that’s her opinion. I feel finding the right person is weigh more than just that. It’s not about, being with a model figure, or having a materialistic person as partner. Or basically showing off your partner for fame and attention. I think it’s about being with someone who has the greatest information in her head. Someone who affects people’s lives positively. Someone who would impact knowledge and power into your children. Someone who would engage her partner with intelligent arguments just to test his level of intelligence and eloquence. And above all someone who is close to God. Because if you focus on the materialistic things of life, those things that attracted you to that person, might not be there in 10 or 20 yrs. to come, so what keeps you going?? Truth is, the person you’d become in 10years depends on the knowledge you acquire, the books you read, the people you surround yourself with… no offence I am just a very deep person when it comes to the affairs of life and what should make it successful. May God give us wisdom #Amen. GOODMORNING FRIENDS!!.”
Pound for pound, few women in Nollywood, or even the entire entertainment industry can hold their own when it comes to going head to head in boobs contest with Bolaji Ogunmola.
The up and coming hot actress is so endowed in the bosom, that the likes of Cossy wouldn’t want to be in the same room with her for fear of competition. But for the Next Movie Star class of 2013, having big boobs can’t compare to having bigger butt.
In a recent chat with Potpourri, the sexy, charismatic and unassuming ebony beauty bares her mind on some sensitive issues relating to sex, relationships and her career as an actress.
“I am left handed, I like light-skinned guys and very emotional,” she says, describing herself in simple terms.
“I can’t date a poor man and would have preferred having a bigger butt,” she added but declined to comment further on why she prefers bigger butt to her humongous, captivating boobs.
Bolaji has only been on her acting journey for four years but the horizon looks good for her.
“I have been acting for like four years now but people say you start counting from when you started making impact. So on that note, I became relevant from two years ago. My first film was when I was in the university, that is the University of Ilorin. After which I got enrolled at Royal Art Academy. I was part of some of their projects like Okon goes to school, Unbedded Niece and some other films,” she says, beaming with smiles.
“Aure” crooner, Morell steps out with this new love record titled “Bullet” which features Choc City’s finest, M.I Abaga.
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