A Nigerian bride’s response to her husband’s surprise gift has sparked online interest as she opted to prioritize the cash gift over the heartfelt message attached to the gift on their wedding day.
In a heartfelt video, the dressed-up bride received a surprise: a customized pink box filled with bundles of ₦1,000 notes and a handwritten note from her husband, just as she was preparing for her photo session.
The bride’s eyes seemed almost on the verge of tears after discovering the mint notes in the box. The lady was emotional but resisted her urge to cry to avoid smudging her facial makeover.
Following the unboxing, she demonstrated a practical preference for cash gifts by tossing the attached handwritten note and proceeding to count the number of cash bundles.
Instead of being touched by the heartfelt message, the bride showed greater appreciation for the monetary gift.
Some Internet users suggested the man should have hidden the note beneath the cash bundles, others accused the bride of being a materialistic woman for prioritizing money over her husband’s emotions.
Below are some reactions,
@ossybrown The note is more important than the money but y’all just too materialistic these days. Smh
@special_abdul The note was the most important part of this gift but she first fling am.
@armstrong_umoren Too much unnecessary drama going on here. Mtcheew. I wonder what would have happened if he only sent the note, and sent the money later….
@morgano204 She got emotional with the money, aunty read the damn note.
@bims_sweettreats He should have put the note under the notes
American internet personality, rapper and model, Rubi Rose, recently shared her fondness for Nigeria during an interview with Almera Danjuma at an event in Lagos state.
When asked about her favorite aspect of the country, Rose responded,“Nigerian men are my favorite thing about Nigeria [laughs]. I also love the food.”
Rose, who is currently visiting Lagos, expressed her appreciation for Nigerian cuisine and culture. She further revealed that she has been given a Nigerian name, Oluwa Ruby.
This statement highlights Rose’s positive experience and affection for Nigeria, particularly its people and culinary delights.
Here are some of the comments curate under the post:
Aadunnie: Lagos boys are never beating the allegation I love them
Skenchyy: Yakee girls Dey always value but our girls Dey use us do shakara
A Nigerian woman made a stunning transition from being a regular club-goer to becoming a mother within a year.
The endearing video showed the woman @amaka_ky in 2023 enjoying her nights in the club with a thrilling dance routine that featured amazing leg work and repeated backside movements.
Later in 2024, @amaka_ky was filmed squatting like she did during her club dancing performance while sporting a large pregnant belly. The woman’s severe back discomfort was indicative of labour contractions.
The viral video showed the progression of events from being a carefree clubber and nightlife queen to concentrating on parenting.
Netizens jokingly suggested that she went into labour within a year due to her seductive dancing performance at the clubhouse.
On TikTok, users pretending to be women shared their stories of transitioning from having an active social life to becoming mothers in less than a year.
See reactions below,
@RAMATyou dance abi you no dance?? you shout harder abi you no shout ??
@soberdrunk88 Person nor fit shake nyash like that 4 club make he nor quick carry belle..
@NKIRUKAEeeeiiii I wasn’t expecting thisv congratulations mama
@dominion_14 It is now “we are inside” not “we are outside”
A Nigerian woman’s unconventional method of billing her talking stage partner led to her being blocked on social media after she sent a picture of herself next to an empty fridge.
The viral video gained attention after the lady used a picture to express her needs rather than a straightforward appeal for money.
On TikTok, @oo7fashion shared that her social media contact immediately ended after she sent a picture of herself posing with an empty refrigerator in response to her talking stage partner’s request for a photo.
The picture showed the lady sitting next to an empty refrigerator, highlighting her lack of food and her need for financial assistance.
Her talking stage partner interpreted the picture as a subtle request for money to cover her daily needs, as it’s become common for women to ask their talking stage partners for financial help.
Internet users have praised the woman for using images to convey her wants to prospective suitors instead of using words that the typical man might grasp.
See reactions below,
@fullofelegance When you chose to use psychology on him
@zainabyawa Because if you use mouth tell am e no go believe I like this picture
@mari_am_365 why una dey do like this, if u no like person just tell am say u no like am
@Sarah Ada539 you did nothing wrong he’s just not for you
@Mosio Someone like me is your Air Con bad the weather is really hot Frr is that why you left your your fridge open?
A Nigerian lady has turned heads as she compared her appearance while dating a Yoruba man versus an Igbo man.
The young lady’s remarkable before-and-after video, which went viral, revealed how her appearance changed with Igbo and Yoruba partners. The lady transformed from glowing to gorgeous.
The lady had non-robust feminine features and looked attractively thin while dating a Yoruba man. In the viral clip, the lady showcased her physique while holding an inexpensive handcrafted bag.
Conversely, the lady had an attractive, feminine appearance that demonstrated her Igbo boyfriend’s material and financial support.
The widely shared video demonstrated the individual experience of changing appearances when dating individuals from diverse ethnic backgrounds.
Many viewers who flooded the comment section criticized the lady for comparing the men to her physical attributes. Many conjectured that she didn’t date a generous Yoruba man, thus, she seemed frugal.
Internet users assert that some men from other tribes who don’t care about their women’s financial demands are considerably inferior to Yoruba and Igbo guys.
Some shared comparable experiences dating guys from other ethnic groups, while others argued that a man would treat his girlfriend well regardless of his tribe.
Grammy-winning Nigerian artist, Burna Boyhas revealed what he plans to do against trolls who disrespect him online.
This comes after the singer arrested another Nigerian artist, Speed Darlingtonfor defamation. The whole ordeal had caused quite the controversy online.
Recall that Speed Darlington had gone missing for some days a few weeks back, after much speculation online it was revealed that he had been arrested and was in police custody.
The reason for his arrest where the defamatory statement he had issued against Burna Boy, with the latter unwilling to let this slide. After much back and forth Speedd was later released with his lawyer warning other Nigerians to be careful of what they say online.
Following this incident, Burna Boy took to his Instagram page to give notice to all his trolls that the old days are gone, and if anyone makes any false statements about him he is ready to sue.
In his words;
“The streets ain’t what it used to be. The old rules no longer apply. No more sliding. Just sue your opps to court and their money.”
This bold declaration has caused varying reactions online, with netizens becoming divided about it.
Read some comments below;
@lah__gh0st.x19If I go missing na you, If you go missing no be me
@omzynificentAkpi would think Burna is referring to him now. He would jump on this and ride on it for weeks to remain relevant online
@lean_magicat last, Burna timberland go rest… No more formatting people’s brain
@__logo_____1Who this one dey tell story Abeg pack somewhere
A Nigerian man of God, pastor Ayeni Tunde addresses single women against being so desperate for love that they chase men instead of the opposite.
The pastor condemns the modern act of women chasing a man to treat them better or even be in a relationship with them. According to him, they need to know their value as women of great substance and worth.
He encourages women to have a good dose of self-esteem because it is its lack that makes them beg for men’s validation.
Pastor Ayeni cautions the women too of stooping so low to date men with no potential to the extent that these men treat them without respect because they find them (women) too available and desperate.
Many nod their heads to the teachings of the pastor and here is what they have to say about it:
skiezz_nma: God bless you sir, desperate girls man follow you talk for afternoon evening you don wear polo Dey cook nonsense that’s why they don’t value some of you
dimstores01: Instant noodles got me
c.o.m.f.o: God created Eve for Adam stop chasing men its not a woman’s nature to dictate what a man must eat or want he wants to decide
A Nigerian couple who went viral for getting married two years after meeting in the club has inspired many with their magical love journey.
In an interview with @bellanaijaweedings, the bride, @Temmiey_, shared how she met her husband, @elvis.ogbe, at a birthday celebration for a mutual friend at the club in 2022.
She didn’t take his love approach seriously, according to @Temmiey_, despite their brief interaction and touching exchange. He kept checking in on her on Instagram, but she claimed he was anonymous.
She said,
“That spiralled into a conversation with him proposing to see me again after a year. A week later, we went on our first date and after a long and interesting conversation, he changed my name on his phone by adding his last name to it. It has never changed since then.”
Later in 2023, she shared a prayer link with her friends and randomly sent it to him, to which he instantly replied, asking how she knew he needed prayers. The prayer link resulted in a date and a committed relationship.
In a surprising move, he changed her name on his contact list by adding his last name to her name which hasn’t changed to date.
A Nigerian man has sparked online interest after marrying three wives on the same day in a grand-style traditional wedding.
The widely shared video captured the man with his three wives at a Muslim wedding ceremony intended to bring the three of them together.
In another clip, the three wives were recorded wearing matching outfits to showcase unity as co-wives in their husband’s house.
The women didn’t show signs of joy or disinterest in their husband’s choices; they opted for silence.
Viewers have flocked to the comment section, with many assuming that the man recently married his third wife and chose to snap photos with his three wives.
The purpose of their marriage is unclear to Internet users, who wish the man luck and success in his polygamous household.
See comments below,
@zainabb.zamann4 please someone tell me what is going on here he married three wives one time
@baahubali our big don’t want peace
@glamor366 long life prosperity more money sufficient grace knowledge and understanding
@msquarevehicles Omoh, All this 3 for you self May Almighty include yours among the best of all the time
A little boy’s unusual facial features have garnered widespread attention online as he attends a party with beards.
A video posted by a tweep @DAMIADENUGA displayed the little boy in an agbada outfit alongside his peers of the same age, who were all dressed in various traditional attires.
In the viral video, the little boy appeared unaware of the circumstances and had a shockingly large beard on his cheek that connected to his jawline.
Tweeps recognized the little boy’s striking facial hair as Prepubertal hypertrichosis, a rare medical disease marked by excessive hair growth that begins at birth and progresses throughout childhood, making it an unlikely viral phenomenon.
Below are some reactions,
@A_Namadee This is a condition pubertal hypertrichosis and it does not affect him health wise That’s if what he is wearing is not costume
@ChukwumaM11 Egbon at early age
@XbiyeO That’s natural, it occurs
@tifeoluwa_tife Why them they hurry the boy now, if he no die he go reach the adult stage himself now
@ezeguwachi_jnr I wish the boy know say Adulthood na scam em for no accept the rush
After the numerous controversies surrounding celebrity chef Hilda Baci’s cooking class that was launched earlier this year, a lady has come forward to share her experiences after taking the course and how it has changed her life.
The lady @amara_ogueze narrated in a video she uploaded to TikTok how she went from having no prior experience in cooking to becoming an expert chef after taking Hilda’s “Home to Pro” classes, which were aimed at teaching individuals how to prepare various dishes.
The video which showed the variety of amazing dishes the lady herself had cooked was a testament to the effectiveness of the cooking class.
With her newfound skill, the lady was able to launch her own brand turning her life around. She encouraged others to do the same and learn from the celebrity chef as well.
Viewers have flocked to the comment section to share their thoughts and congratulate her for her achievements, read some of them below;
A newly wedded bride’s excitement turned to dismay upon discovering a torn and tattered ₦200 note enveloped as a wedding gift.
The newly married woman @vek2toria revealed she was going through the envelopes her guests gave her on the wedding day.
She was stunned to learn that one of the wedding presents was a brown envelope that, unexpectedly, had an old and frayed ₦200 note.
The woman was disappointed and questioned how a visitor could present torn cash to a newlywed couple.
The ₦200 note appeared torn, with rough edges and cello tapes used to keep the currency intact.
Internet users claim the torn Naira note is diabolical, particularly for a couple, newlyweds starting their married life.
Many shared similar experiences and how guests leave empty envelopes on their wedding day.
See comments below,
@Oma this money isn’t ordinary
@oluwabukolaolaitan Mine was a knife with a red rope. wedidbteven open the gifts early at all cos we alrsy had all that we needed until the home started becoming hot…
@appleofgodseye.0 they gave you this kind of money and you’re laughing. hmmm my dear majority of what happens in nollywoodarereall
@Nurse_Debbyat least you saw money on my kid sister’s ceremony we saw about 4 empty envelopes
@chiamakarosemary this one nah juju oooo you even touch am
@BIG BABYThat y it is advisable to open the envelope in their presence nd take out the thing inside nd put inside bowl or anything before giving gift
@luchi empire This money na fit be one grandma way give you her last hope just to collect bucket
@amakadennis29 Reason my hubby and I refused collecting gifts from anyone and those who insisted n dropped something we dashed it out
@Anniberry 23 this was one of the reasons why I told my chief to tear every envelope there even totear wrapped gift mbok and I didn’t touch any envelope sef..
@BLESSED CHILDmine they gave me babe bed the person tore it putcharm on it as God may have it she forgot to sew it back she denwrapped it as a gift
A man has left single people astonished as he thoughtfully blinks his headlights three times to display a heartfelt gesture that says ‘I love you’ every time he drops his girlfriend off at home.
Sharing on TikTok, @niksnpats mentioned that with every drop-off, he flashes his headlights three times, whispering ‘I love you’ in his special way.
The video showed a sequence of events in which her guy repeatedly made the considerate gesture after dropping her off at home.
To match the sentimental phrases, the man, who owns expensive cars, kept flashing the headlights.
While some viewers were taken aback by the man’s opulent cars, others demanded that men work tirelessly to display more opulent cars resembling the man’s.
See reactions below,
@teeto_olayeni He’s lucky too cause you noticed the small efforts he makes .
As a single person,I have been through a lot this year
@anu0lu Brothers, you see say no be one car he get, use that information wisely
@eniolaadisatijani Low key, I want this to be us
@rinsohlar03 Now, imagine him leaving after an argument and still does it…I’d literally cry my eyes out….May this type of love find me!!!
A now-trending video captures an unknown young man feasting on a roadside sacrifice in a bid to satisfy his hunger.
The video recorded by TikTok user @gaffelect showed the young man squatting down beside the sacrifice which had been placed in the middle of an intersection, while stuffing his face with the contents of the sacrifice.
The young man who looked to be no older than his teens stood up quickly after realizing that he had been caught. His vague expression captured on the video looked to be one of guilt as he watched the car which had the person recording, go by.
Although his act is one of blasphemy, many did not condemn him but instead felt sympathy for the boy as they remarked that it was hunger and the deplorable situation of the country that could have led him to commit such an act.
Others took the situation less seriously finding humour in it and making lighthearted jokes about the situation. See some of the comments below;
@CapricornLord6 Who else noticed say sacrifice we no dey see am for junction again
@preccy Ajeh if I see the calabash I need am asap
@gucci.finger Woo nothing wey hunger no fit cause
@dammydc80 He Dey chop ebo akalamagbo Mode activated
A Nigerian father’s disapproval of his daughter’s long acrylic nails stirs marriage concerns as he claims she will scare off potential suitors with the nails.
In a video shared online, the lady @iamjust_vee revealed her dad’s outrageous reaction to her nails, expressing his annoyance toward her appearance.
The man exclaimed after viewing her long artificial nails, no sane man looking for a good wife would ask for her hand in marriage.
He added that a mother-in-law would instantly reject her as her son’s wife when her man brings her home to see her potential mother-in-law after she discovers her long nails.
The mother-in-law would break off their relationship because she would consider her a renegade woman or a street whore.
Many claimed that her father’s views were traditional rather than reflecting current fashion. Netizens suggested the father shouldn’t be angry if his daughter’s partner hasn’t complained about the nails.
Some criticized the lady for recording her father in a fit of rage, while others pondered the man’s response when his daughter chooses to get a tattoo or body piercing.
A Nigerian lady has shocked users online after she recounted the numerous ways her ex-boyfriend, “Yinka from Abeokuta“ caused her pain and heartache while they were still dating.
In a post she made to X (Twitter) the lady listed out 19 different things the ex-boyfriend had done to her, during their time together.
In the post, she hinted that what she had written wasn’t all he had done to her and that was still more. Her list has resonated with many women who shared their own experiences, speaking of their own ‘Yinkas’ who had left them battered and broken after the relationship ended due to how they were treated.
Despite all she had been through, the lady asserted that she was now healed and ready to take on another ‘Yinka.’ Her post read;
“I’m healed now. Send me another YINKA from Abeokuta who was born, raised, and now lives in Lagos.
– The kind who takes hours to reply to my texts with just ‘how far,’ yet chats with his ex and other women non-stop.
– The one whose phone isn’t on DND but ignores my calls without checking why I’m reaching out.
– The one who can talk for two hours straight only when he wants me to come over, then goes silent until he needs me again.
– The one who begs his ex to talk to him, even when she’s cursing and rejecting him.
– The one who excuses his chats with his married ex by calling it ‘Okafor’s Law,’ even though she has kids.
– The one who spends time with random women, including his employees.
– The one who lets me rest my head on his chest but texts his ex saying he’s lonely.
– The one whose family and friends know me, but he insists we’re just friends even after we started dating.
– The one who loves showing me off but has never bought me a single outfit.
– The one who hasn’t given me a simple gift in five years.
– The one who can cover his friends’ bills but has only ever given me a few thousand.
– The one who complains about any gift I buy him.
– “The one who gets upset because I have male friends.
– The one glued to his phone, watching Instagram reels and TikTok lives, and even sending gifts to streamers, but forgets to say hi until he wants intimacy.
– The one who has never said ‘I love you’ and, when I say it, just smiles and tells me to ‘calm down.’
– The one who was attentive as a friend but turned cold once we started dating.
– The one who asked me to ‘try harder’ to make him love me.
– The one who, when I finally sent a breakup message, replied with just ‘lol.’
– The one who constantly reminded me we come from different worlds, hoping I’d tire and leave on my own.”
I’ll stop here, for now. But, if life has another Yinka in store, let’s see.”
A Nigerian man fled his home after his mother ordered him to cut off his dreadlocks, but was caught off guard when she unexpectedly cut the locks with scissors during his visit.
In the caption, his sister @simply_b3ll4 stated that he chose his dreadlocks over his family, leaving home after his mother’s warning. He was unaware that their mother had other intentions for him during his visit.
During his visit, the mother purposefully grabbed him by the dreadlocks, with scissors in her hand, ready to cut off the locks.
The unexpected circumstance evolved into a prayer session and hilarity as the mother fervently pleaded against all immoral acts involving men with dreadlocks. His siblings laughed aloud and confirmed the prayers as she prayed.
The mother believed that males with dreadlocks were involved in illegal activities, so she prayed against drug misuse, fraud, and cybercrime.
As the video went viral, many commended the mother for cutting off his dreadlocks to keep her son safe. Netizens suggested that the hairstyle could attract an unfortunate incident for the young man.
Internet users queried the man for residing with his parents despite being an adult.
A young Nigerian man shows off his unusual talent to the astonishment and disbelief of netizens.
In a video that has now gained traction on the internet, the boy reduced himself to a man with rickets. He moved with such originality that he would easily pass for such people with the physical challenge.
His legs were so curved that one feared the bones might break or jut out. The young man paraded for the better part of the video in such a state before he suddenly stood up, as straight as ever.
This skill has bewildered online viewers who could not tell his talent apart from one with such a condition.
The video moment was funny, especially with the unexpected switch at the end. Here are some reactions to it:
beeplibomedia: No let pastors see this guy oh….them go rent am sharp sharp for their program to perform fake miracle
accessoriesbym.o.a: Na this kin person f*k pastors dey use do miracle programs for church
meenah_07: God suppose make some of you naturally cripple cos e fit you pass make you dey walk normal
Nigerian parents were left stunned and bewildered after their children accidentally damaged the TV screen during midterm break, leading to prompt discipline.
Following the unfortunate incident, the kids faced the consequences of their actions as their parents firmly disciplined them for breaking the TV screen.
As punishment, the teens were shown in the viral video kneeling with their hands up over their heads.
With many colors and ink projected on the screen, the flat-screen TV was rendered worthless.
Parents have responded to the video with differing opinions, with many sharing similar experiences they encounter at home with their children during the midterm break.
While their parents can handle the teaching and training for the week, some Internet users posing as teachers expressed their pleasure for the one-week break from their pupils’ disruptions.
See comments below,
@morayobrown Day 1, the fridge is totally empty!!!
@floxymamar Midterm wey just start today even me wey never born don hear ham from my compound children
@elena_nel21 M scared in advance,dis lil girl of mine will make develop sore throat even b4 weekend, dat is 4 sure
@yewandefamakin Day one went well with lots of buy buy
A Nigerian lady turned an event into a celebration rather than an unpleasant moment with her amazing dancing performance, after accompanying her lover to his friend’s party.
In the viral clip, the celebration took an unexpected turn when she announced her arrival with a happy dance.
The other partygoers were left speechless when the woman forcibly removed her braided wig to show off her amazing dancing skills.
Her spontaneous dance was a beautiful expression of joy and happiness, which motivated a male dancer to dance on the floor. The young man’s falling pants, however, left his waist exposed while he danced, making him nearly nude.
The lady asked her boyfriend if he would pardon her for dancing in public at his friend’s party. She questioned whether other men would let their girlfriends make them look foolish by dancing in public.
While many criticized the male dancer for his immoral attire in a public setting where children might be present, others applauded the woman’s amazing dancing performance, which raised the party atmosphere.
Watch Video,
How she embarrassed herself when she followed her boyfriend to a party.
A Nigerian man is forced to deal with the aftermath of his failed relationship, which was not only his broken heart but also the permanent tattoo of his ex that was on his body.
A video made by @chriskanga777 showed the young man back at a tattoo parlour, aiming to cover up the initial tattoo of his girlfriend’s name.
The girlfriend’s name “Suzii” was creatively covered up by changing it to another word, unfortunately, the word the man chose was the name of a car brand “Isuzu.”
The video caption tells the story, it read;
“Love made him tattoo his girlfriend’s name “Suzii.” After seeing dust he is now a new Isuzu logo owner ”
The video, initially made on TikTok, was shared to other platforms like X (Twitter), causing it to go viral.
Many who have come across the video have found the situation hilarious, as they pointed out that the man is now a permanent brand ambassador for the car company, with some sharing their own bad tattoo experiences.
Read the comments below;
@Aircarfinal25 I hope isuzu recognizes this.
@monalisa_julie. RN Isuzu keh?
@SiLeNtPaiDd Story of my life I still dey beg my tat artist make he find one big tat wey I go use cover the Werey
@stainless Blaq 001 you for write am EZUZU
@hachanow hes forced to lie about isuzu being his favourite car brand
@oparator75 If Isuzu won’t appreciate him he will change to Suzuki
@max oseyabro is now a walking billboard ya Isuzu,,,im sure he’s a marketer
@Kevin C Wachez he gonna tell his crush he likes isuzu before she sees it.
@emmo_munga Now he’s officially brand ambassador for Isuzu
A roadside encounter turned awkward as a woman pressed a lady to consider marrying her son, a graduate of Economics.
The lady @essie04 expressed dissatisfaction when the unknown woman approached her on the road and persistently urged her to marry her son.
The lady’s patience began to wear thin when the woman delayed her for a while before discussing her son’s marital prospects.
The woman claims that the spontaneous approach resulted from her interest in @essie04. While admiring the lady’s body stature, she wondered if she was in a meaningful relationship.
Speaking in the background, the woman stated that her son earned a degree in Economics.
The unknown woman asked the lady if she had a friend she could introduce to her after she was rejected.
In her defense, the woman disclosed that her son had brought his potential spouse but she wasn’t comfortable with his spouse’s physical appearance.
Below are some comments,
@cutees_oladayo Leave audacity for African mothers
@_oyiza Mothers ehn . The boy fit get girlfriend make the Mama dey find wife for him for village
@wuraaola_art She even ask if she has friends, mama don tire for her son we paint
@thedrinkcity Na her spec she dey find for her son what if the boy like it Bold and beautiful
A little girl quickly responded to her mother’s playful smack on her father’s arm, demonstrating her recognition of the daddy’s girl position.
Following the little girl’s warning against hurting her husband, the wife @reginaeuphoriahill realized their daughter was a true daddy’s girl.
The viral clip captured the amusing moment her mother playfully whacked her father on the arm to see their young daughter’s response.
In a heartwarming display, Genesis, a little child playfully strikes back at mum’s taunts by smacking her on the leg as her father bursts into laughter.
After her mother made another effort, Genesis immediately gave her a warning finger while speaking softly.
The little girl’s reaction has warmed hearts with netizens affirming the unfathomable love and tie between fathers and daughters.
See comments below,
@msquaredizzAs it should be!!! This would be me and my princess(es) someday
@oriarkusIt’s always mutual ooo. She’d do the same if the case was reversed
@princeivank that’s how girl children love their dads, mine wants to be everywhere iam and know whenever am going
In a long and detailed post to Facebook, a Nigerian lady has recounted her gut-wrenching life story, where she chronicled how her life and marriage were ruined by her own father.
At the beginning of her story, the lady Awele Ideal,explained why she had decided to break her silence. She revealed that her father, 12 years after disowning her now lies sick and bedridden and was trying desperately to reach out to her to make amends.
She revealed how he had selfishly put an end to her marriage because her husband did not meet his standards. How her stepmother had mistreated her for several years and how the father had finally disowned her after causing her so much pain and heartache.
In her story, she reaffirmed that while she had forgiven him years ago, she had no intention of ever seeing him again as he did not deserve it. She mentions that she is putting herself first and has forever cut ties with him.
The post was an indirect message to her father,and also a way of sharing her story with the world. Many have likened her story to a Nollywood drama, with all its twists and turns, with some even doubting if all she wrote was true.
She wrote;
“Dear Father, I was told this evening that you want me to call you but I told the Messenger to tell you that I won’t call you because I don’t want to have anything to do with you and I don’t care to know what you want to say to me on your sick bed. I forgave you long ago. I sincerely forgave you and everyone who contributed to all the torture and heartbreaks I had experienced in my life.
It’s been 12years since you did your worse against me for no reason at all just because you hate to see me happy. 12 years ago, you returned my Brideprice unprovoked. My Ex husband and I never wronged you in any way. Our only crime was that we were not as rich as your other children and in-laws and so you practically turned my husband (Ex) into your slaveee and for just the one time he refused to run an errand for you because he felt disrespected by the way and manner your message was delivered to him
You my father had told my younger sister (step) to call my Husband (Ex) and tell him to go and organize the water that will be used for cooking in her traditional marriage.I could remember vividly how he took that message on that fateful day. I was bathing my then 4months old Baby ChukwuMemofuma when my Ex stormed the bathroom stammering in anger that he has never been disrespected in this manner. I begged him to calm down and to put the blame on me because such insultwon’tcome if he wasn’t married to me, I also begged him to allow me speak to my so called step sister who delivered such disrespectful message to him without regarding my feelings or consequencesof her action (how will she regard me when I was nothing but a mere slave to her Mom my stepmother while growing up) I begged him to put all the blame on me cos his marrying me didn’t affect how they disrespected or disregarded me even though I am the firstborn child of the family.
I later called my stepsister to tell her that she was wrong to disrespect my husband that way and that she ought to have called me instead and I would have gladly assisted her with the errand. She argued seriously with me but later agreed to apologize to my Ex for peace sake. An apology I appreciated but little did I know that after my Ex left me while bathing our baby, and he called You my father to express his displeasure for sending him such an errand through your young(est) daughter, someone who is the 4th child whileme his Ex wife is the 1st child of the family.
You my Father apologized to my husband (Ex) for your disrespect and that made him calm. But little did we know that you had prepared the worse for us because that same day you took money to my in-laws house and flunged the envelope of money at my Father inlaw and told him that his son my husband (Ex) is no longer your inlaw and that if your daughter (me) wants to remain in that marriage that I stand disowned.
On hearing this ugly incident my heart broke a million times I went to my village to report to your brothers who followed me to my laws place but the only condition my angry in-laws gave them was for them to tell you to come back and pick up the money you threw on the floor of the old man’s house. But tilldate you failed to do it and called their bluff. I stood by my husband (Ex) and was determined to make our marriage work, but no matter how much I tried, sand sanddon already enter my Garri and my husband (Ex) and inlaw isolated me for the disgrace and shame they claimed I brought on them through my father’s conduct.
I managed to remain in my already shaky marriage and even decided to have one more child cos maybe that will unit us again but even the arrival of my last princess (Kasimma) could not bring back peace and love to my marriage. After suffering in silence for two more years, coupled with the drastic and ugly changes in the character of the man I once married, I decided to leave EVERYTHING I had ever worked for behind. And I picked up myself and my 3 Daughters and left my marriage with the little dignity I had left in me. I was only 31 years old, afraid to face the Future and I was hopeless at the time I took this bold step.
Father, you were not only an Enabler to the maltreatment I endured in my stepmom’s hands, your own wickedness on me was worse. And I swore several times that in my next life I will not cross paths with you even as a mere passerby because I won’t want to throw greetings at you. You hated me for no reason even though all I ever showed you was respect and submission as your daughter.
Two weeks after I left my marriage, I sent you a THANK YOU TEXT. Thanking you for your role and contribution towards the destruction of my once sweet marriage. You never responded to it. Only your Mother stood by me and you hated her for speaking the truth against you… That’s why I Love Grandma
I later prayed God to help me heal my tender heart and to give me the grace to forgive you and everyone who had stabbed me with unkindness and wickedness. God answered my prayer and gave me the closure i desperately needed and helped me to be able to forgive everyone and moved on with the broken pieces of my life… I moved on ALONE WITH MY 3 Daughters who were just 7, 5 and 3 years olds.
I got the closure I desperately needed from God. I got the healing I needed from God. I got the courage to face life again from God. God has been my only true source of strength till date I owe God so much.
Thank You Father, for without your hatred I wouldn’t have stumbled on my inner strength. So I FORGIVE YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. However, I am not your child Sir, you disowned me in 2012 when I chose to stand by my husband (Ex) and fight for my marriage because he never deserved the disrespect you meted at him and you had no right to shut him up from expressing his displeasure. Unfortunately, we finally Divorced and I’m in a better place today with my peace of mind intact.
To show that I forgave you a long time ago, when you celebrated your 70th birthday in 2022, I asked for your account details from one of your children and I sent you a big sum of money and a text message but you never acknowledged it or responded to my message even though you bragged about my gift but you never told me a “Thank you”. I did not regret being kind to you once more despite all you put me through but I made up my mind NEVER TO LOOK AT YOUR DIRECTION ANYMORE.
Thank you Father, but I won’t call you. I hear you are terribly sick and bedridden but I won’t visit you or call you. Keep whatever you want say, I don’t want to hear it. I wish you well Father. God be with you Sir.
I will stop here for now because I’m already writing a Book about my life to tell my Story. But I pray you see this before it’s too late.
NB: Let none of you piss me off with unsolicited advice on this post. If you try it, i will send you to my Block Industry straight. Be Warned.
Nollywood actress, Omoni Oboli and her marriage coach husband, Nnamdi Oboli celebrate their 24th wedding anniversary.
In October 2000, the couple exchanged vows. Gozi, Chizi, and Tobi Oboli are the three sons that Omoni and Nnamdi had together.
The 46-year-old movie producer and her husband became grandparents after their eldest son, Tobe welcomed his first child with his Caucasian wife.
Omoni posted a photo of them at their son’s wedding and a vintage photo of them on her Instagram page to commemorate their anniversary.
She wrote,
“Over 2 decades later, you are still the one Thank you for loving me the way you do! I won’t be the woman I am today without you! Thank you for being the wind beneath my wings! Thank you for all you do for our family! Thank you for your strength and love that carry us! Loved you yesterday, love you today, love you tomorrow Always and forever Happy 24th anniversary baby ”
As she reflected on her twenty years of marriage to the same man, she conveyed her appreciation for his love and affection for her.
The couple’s admirers and colleagues flocked to the comment section with congratulatory messages and well wishes.
A lady has got people talking as she compiled a list of individuals who acknowledged her birthday by posting her pictures.
In the caption, @vickyglamsignaturebenin noted that following her birthday celebration, she compiled a list of names of those who kindly posted birthday wishes and pictures of her.
On the front and back of a sheet of paper with the header, “List of people that posted and wished me on my birthday,” the lady recorded the names of her well-wishers, as seen in the video.
As seen in the list, some people uploaded her image and wished her a happy birthday, while others chose to provide sincere messages.
Speaking in the background, the lady stated that she would post a greeting to anyone who recognized her on her birthday, and she plans to reciprocate by doing the same.
See reactions below,
@jaylodolls Me I no need write their names. I get am for my head. And energy will be reciprocated
@lammie_artt U get time you post me I post u. I get retentive memory pa.
@houseoftabitha My own na those people way dey delete after them see say you don view am
A lady proudly showcases the luxurious Gucci-Nike sneakers she received as a gift from her Odogwu talking stage at the gym.
In the video posted @fayi_baby_ she explained that her friend had been on a talking stage at the gym with a rich man, identified as Odogwu, who generously gifted her a Gucci-Nike sneakers.
In the widely shared video, her buddy was seen sporting the sneakers with two brand names displayed on the footwear; the Gucci name and emblem were prominently shown on one pair, while the Nike name and logo were displayed on the other.
With pride, her friend displays the exclusive Gucci-Nike sneakers, a token of appreciation from her gym admirer Odogwu.
Viewers noted that the brand name shouldn’t matter but the giving attitude does. Others conjectured that the lady was wearing old sneakers to the gym, which is why the man gave her a new pair.
Many claim that if he can get her to celebrate wearing fake sneakers, he can give her more gifts.
An abroad-based Nigerian man has questioned foreign ladies’ particular fondness for smelling and appreciating flower bouquets whereas Nigerian ladies appear less interested in them.
At a flower shop, the man @loko_omo_woli and a friend were filmed trying to buy something from the vendor when he opted to smell the rose bouquet.
The scent, which he described as terrible, caught him off guard as he took it from the shelf. He was struck by the smell and wondered why ladies overseas love flowers.
The scent reminded @loko_omo_woli of Nigerian edible fresh vegetables.
He exclaimed that he wasn’t surprised Nigerian ladies don’t seem to care about flowers because of the awful smell.
His countenance to the smell has sparked hilarious remarks with many asserting that Nigerian ladies prefer money bouquets to flower bouquets.
See comments below,
@rex_holluwayomi They spray them actually or perhaps i’m the wrong one
@_oyiza Some of us never collect flower before, we don’t even know how it smell
@ace_tlg Na Money Bouquet dem dey appreciate pass
@darksoftieii Fr that money for that flower send it to me let me use and buy bucket fried chicken
A Nigerian lady was astonished upon receiving an unusual gift of banana leaves from her friend to enhance her newly acquired residence.
The lady @toyin_gele wrote in the widely shared video’s caption that her friend gave her ornamental flowers to enhance the attractiveness of her new house.
She was surprised when her friend brought a pot of banana leaves for decoration after she received the flower. She claimed to have been given Igi Ogede, which translates to “banana tree,” and proceeded to feel the leaves before cutting off a portion.
Meanwhile, @toyin_gele was shocked and delighted at the same by her friend’s thoughtful banana leaves gift.
Viewers asserted that the ornamental flower the woman views as banana leaves is a bird of paradise, a costly and well-liked flower for house décor.
While some considered the strange gift to be a fetish item, others insisted on using the leaves to make bean pudding dishes.
See comments below,
@emavilar15 it’s not banana plant though. It’s called bird of paradise and it’s decorative.
@jasminepeters That plant is close to 50k if not more and you Dey tear am
@jindu_afina Use am wrap Moi Moi
@ayo.jnx Flower is a thing of the mind. If you think it’s a flower then it’s a flower
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: Lagos boys are never beating the allegation 
I love them 
: She’s already looking Nigerian
…I’d literally cry my eyes out
….May this type of love find me!!!
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or perhaps i’m the wrong one
