Talent manager and Ubi Franklin’s fourth baby mama, Sandra Iheuwa, yesterday held a baby shower to celebrate her pregnancy.
The soon-to-be mother gathered with friends as she celebrated the occasion and shared photos on social media – However, some critics shamed her for holding a baby shower despite being unmarried and she replied them.
She wrote;
“So i see some jobless people that can’t even provide 3 square meals for themselves not to talk of their family calling me shameless for celebrating my baby given to me by God regardless of how the baby came along.
Yes, I will be shameless because I am proud of whom I am as a woman who takes care of her kids singlehandedly with no help whatever. My kids school fees is over 2.1 million a year for each child I pay that with no shaking if you have anything negative to say about the way i chose to celebrate my life and what God has given to me I bet you should book an appointment with me in person and tell me with your mouth that is if you have the guts to approach me in real life than hide behind your phones to spew hate and jealously until then i will continue to block all you negative mofos. This is my first child out of wedlock and i will celebrate however I like whether it hurts your soul or not if you think my baby shower was extravagant wait until my baby turns 1 then you will probably kill yourself out of hate and jealousy. I am not the only woman who got pregnant out of wedlock who has celebrated or done baby shower and i don’t see any negative remarks or is it because I am an independent woman??? cos most of this hate comes from women and its a dam* shame. Y’all want me to hide in shame but i am going to burst your bubbles i have lived in the United States for over 17 yrs my mentality is beyond different from what you are used to…..if the father of my child denied responsibility it is my duty as a capable and able mother to provide for my child and make sure my baby never lacks and besides non of you motherf*ckers talking sh*t feed me or my kids so why do y’all care so much??? Just like one dead blogger called me “Loud and Confident” let me correct you I am outspoken and confident I know you ain’t used to outspoken women. Some of you have committed over 10 abortions with dead children hanging over your heads and y’all are judging women for keeping a baby without being married…..marriage kill you.
See what she wrote below;
