A Nigerian lady has taken to micro-blogging website, twitter to recount her experience with her ex-boyfriend who gave her strict terms and conditions she must meet for them to tie the knot.
These conditions included ; Quitting her job, moving to the village for 1 month or going to stay with his sister so her character could be properly assessed.
Her tweet reads ;
One guy that wanted to marry me sometime ago told me I will have to go stay with his sister in Lagos or his mum in the village for 1month, for them to know my character (wife material), I asked him of my job and he said I’ll have to resign if I want the marriage to hold ??
HE wanted me to go to his sisters place, wake up early in the morning prepare her kids for school, sweep and clean the house, cook for them, wash thier cloths,take care of the house and the kids watch his sister go to work, for his sister to know if I can make a good wife and mother or go to his village and stay with his mum to sweep large compound, pound fufu, cook with firewood, and start washing black kettle and pot to know if I’m a wife material, for 1month
One guy that wanted to marry me sometime ago told me I will have to go stay with his sister in Lagos or his mum in the village for 1month, for them to know my character (wife material), I asked him of my job and he said I’ll have to resign if I want the marriage to hold ?? https://t.co/2jIsJMhCCb
— Kylarita (@Kylareetarh) November 10, 2019
I wonder what’s wrong with men these days. My guy asked if I am going to support his family (his mum, dad and siblings) before he can proposed to me. He want me to say yes or no before he knows what to do. But I told him I can’t
promise him that.