“What do you stand to gain?” – A woman has come online to advise men on the worthlessne$s of being step-dads.
She began with the fact that nobody talks about the psychological tortur3 that comes with being a step-dad – “we are not ready for that conversation, I know”. According to her, the life of a step-dad is a life of pretense: that step fathers live their lives pretending to be who they are not, doing things and tolerating things that they wouldn’t on normal circumstances. A step father plays the role of a father but has no authority over the child; he can’t discipline the child, and can’t tell the child what to and what not to do. Because if he tries to, the woman in question would feel like he doesn’t love the child enough.
People pretend and say it is okay being a step-dad, but if people who are caught up in it would be sincere and open up as to what they go through in the hands of those women and kids, you as a man wouldn’t wish to be in that situation. “Why do you want to a step-dad to a child that will definitely go back to his/her father? What do you stand to gain?”, she added.
She concluded that there is absolutely no single benefit in raising another man’s child. That the only reason one should agree to playing father to another man’s child is for the sake of humanity, else, it is not worth it.
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