A nursing mother has taken to social media to lament about how her husband gets to live his normal life in contrast to her baby-controlled life.
According to her, even though she and her husband made their child, he gets to go to work, and anywhere he wants to, unlike her. She has been m@d that she has to be with their child every given time: “I am stock, I can’t go out, whatever I have to do is around my baby…in fact, I am worn out”, she added. The fact that the husband gets to live his normal life and she doesn’t has made her feel stock and upset.
She is not upset because she doesn’t love her husband or her children or because the husband doesn’t help, but because she bares 95% burnt of everything. Because she’s always taking care of the baby, when she got back to her job she had to go back into training again so she could relearn new things that were brought in place in her absence. At the same time she’s thinking of how to navigate her children’s school schedules. She confessed that it is a lot to deal with.
Tiktokers have shared their opinions under her video:
Maido Leave him. Just break up with him, you deserve better
theneye.nwa This is the reality of patriarchy and motherhood that’s why I opted out lol I’m too selfish for that life.
Brave Once I marry, nothing about my family life or private life is ever coming to social media. The ability to resist the urge to talk about family issues on social media is a skill. Meanwhile, if you want freedom, don’t commit yourself to marriage. Pls, stay at your parents house and be free.
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