Popular Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe has revealed the qualities that make her fall in love more with her husband.
Speaking in an interview with Punch News, she stated that her husband was not a typical Nigerian man who had a big ego and was always respectful and understanding.
According to her, they were both stubborn but they always respected each other’s opinions and didn’t argue unnecessarily.
She added that the fact that he always apologized to her whenever he was wrong made her fall in love with him more.
She said,
“We disagree. I am very stubborn, and he is also stubborn. However, we respect each other’s opinions, and we don’t argue unnecessarily.
Rather, we argue sensibly, and then we don’t look down on each other. Whenever anyone of us makes a point, we both think about it, and figure out the best way to do things.
Our relationship is built on mutual understanding and respect, and that has been helping us.
He is actually a very understanding person, and he is not the bossy type. He is a good listener, and that makes him a good leader. Whenever I talk, he listens. He tries to reason with me, and we meet in the middle.
I like his smile and dark skin. Beyond all that, I like his person. He is a very wise person, who communicates a lot. I believe that communication is key in a relationship because it helps understanding.
I don’t like people that don’t talk. If you don’t talk, I wouldn’t know how you are feeling or what you want me to do.
I also like the fact that he is very understanding. Whenever he feels that he is wrong, he apologizes.
He is not the typical Nigerian man, who has a big ego. He is not egoistic, though he is strict. I like the fact that he is strict, because I like people that have morals and values.
Also, he is a great dad, who loves children. He loves to make the people around him comfortable. He is selfless as well. To cap it up, he is a fine man.
I cook for my husband. I do my wifely duties. Whenever I am at home, I always want everyone, including my husband and kids, to feel and appreciate my presence. Whenever I am at home, everybody is happy.
And when I am not around, they miss me so much. I always make sure my family enjoys good food, and other beautiful moments with them.”
