Ladies are known to naturally love flirting and this might go a long way to cause a strain in guys.
The truth is painful but must be spoken nonetheless. I’ve heard some complaints from some friends plus some of my past experiences.
Ladies, if you don’t have plans for a guy stop the following:
1. Stop calling him “sweet names” like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc.
We know you’re a “lovie duvie” but please, control it…don’t give him false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.
2. Stop visiting him on skimpy clothes and buttoned shirts
You visit a guy whose ear NL has filled with topics like ‘How ladies behave when they want to get laid”. If you don’t have plans for him, quit sending those signals. Remember: To every sequence, there is a consequence.
3. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls
You don’t want to marry him, yet you get jealous when he’s making headway, relationship-wise. You’re not his mother, biko. Friends sef have limits.
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