Popular media personality, Toke Makinwa has asserted that Nigerian men define a strong woman by the amount of abuse and maltreatment she can endure.
The seasoned TV host and Youtuber said this in a post she shared on her Twitter page on Tuesday, May 31.
According to her, the Nigerian society also encourages this ideology and believe strong woman should be long suffering and tolerate their partner’s bad behaviour.
Read her full post below,
“Nigerian men’s definition of a strong woman is long suffering, emotional abuse and a high tolerance of accepting bad behavior. You’ll hear them say “she turned the boy in me into a man”, that means her name is endurance, the woman has endured 😂😂😂.
Society encourages that sort of narrative, women are seen as strong by the amount of BS she’s has to endure till the man was ready to give her peace. When they meet the women who stand up for themselves? Society labels them as wayward and too opinionated. Who is Society again?
They automatically think being alone at a certain age means you are miserable 😂😂😂😂. Would you not rather be 55 and alone than enduring BS with someone? If that’s the definition of miserable, a beg which one will you rather be?”