A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to advise married men not to overpamper their wives because they will end up losing her.
The woman gave this unpopular advise to men in a video making rounds online.
According to her, men should desist from spoiling their wives or always do their bidding otherwise they will risk losing her.
She gave an instance of a man who quickly apologizes to his wife whenever they get into a fight, even when he’s not at fault.
She stated that the day that man refuses to apologize to his wife when she’s visibly angry, the marriage would become rocky.
Watch the video below,
The woman’s take has stirred mixed reactions from social media users who asserted that her statement is flawed. See some reactions below,
@kelseywealthy_ wrote,
“Ah🙄
Madam abeg speak for yourself, you people will just come on social media and open your mouths waa flapping tsk tsk😂😂😂”
@oliviaglloww wrote,
“This one is used to suferhead, from her father’s house to her husband’s house 😂😂😂😂😂
Continue my dear, the lord is your strength”
@superwoman9ja wrote,
“What is this one saying? Just want to trend. Allow people deal with their relationships in their own way.”
@ad_noble wrote,
“This one don suffer for marriage e don dey sweet am for body”
@db_naturals_ wrote,
“Some people have not experienced good treatment in relationships, all their life na so so toxicity… So being treated with respect seem foreign to them 😂😂”
For me she is right. Maybe the statement can be rephrased such dat it’s not only the man who shld know how 2 say sorry. Truly our women especially this generation of feminists tend to abuse the privilege.
If she was encouraging the women about the males I don’t think those women insulting her would still be insulting her. I believe they would have been encouraging her. Nigerian women why do you people hate hearing the truth?
A time will come when you people will marry your selfs if cares not taking.
I am so sure that, she doesn’t have Happy home
You don’t tell or advice people what to do in their relationship be it marriage of dating. Maybe your husband doesn’t apologize teach him to and stop expecting all men to be like him. Abeg try chop make you shaa see say country hard no be this thing you suppose dey tell us. Make i hear word Abeg.