Wife of Vice-President Yemi Osinbajo, Dolapo Osinbajo has revealed that she once worked in the slums in Lagos among area boys and prostitutes.
She spoke at the Anti-Substance-Abuse Programme in commemoration of the International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking in Abuja recently.
A statement by the organisers of the programme quoted the wife of the Vice-President as saying the event reminded her of the time she spent with some area boys and prostitutes in Lagos.
Mrs Osinbajo said, “I wanted to watch the drama to relive the memory of the times that I spent working in the slums of Lagos among area boys, prostitutes, people who had been rejected and those who seemed lost already. As the drama went on, I could identify some people that I knew so many years ago.”
Businessman, Wale Jana, who is also a member of Pastor Fatoyinbo’s COZA’s church, has shared how he was without a car three years ago.
He narrated in his recent post how he used to carry taxis everywhere he goes without having a car, yet he keep on serving God and sowing seeds but today he has three different Mercedes benz.
He wrote;
#RemembranceWednesday
This post is to encourage someone who is believing God for a car.
The Word works! One of the problems with Christians these days is that they no longer try to know God for themselves. Try this; read your bible everyday and when you see a scripture that appeals to you BELIEVE IT! Do you know what’s going to happen? In few years you will explode! The moment you get the Word in your spirit, you are like a time bomb, its only a matter of time before you explode, God never disappoints! It may tarry but it will come to pass.
My first ever Mercedes Benz in 2013 was a 4th hand and I bought it for 520k, it could turn to the left but it couldn’t turn to the right. So if your house is on the right we no de come your house be that ���� I struggled to buy this car ooo, plenty skabash
Every morning and night I would stand at my empty car park and quote scriptures “God has met all my needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus, not my salary, not my effort but His riches!” God had told me that the first of everything He gives me is a seed and so when the first car came I had to sow it as a seed and I walked home! That was the longest walk in my life and things got complicated after that.
Learn this; when you sow a seed and God doesn’t show up immediately, it doesn’t mean there is something wrong, God doesn’t work with your timetable[b]! I didn’t have a car for 3 years after that, I walked and carried taxi everywhere![/b]
Looking back today, all my cars are Mercedes Benz and I give out a Mercedes every year!
Ladies and gentlemen the Word works! If you will just hold on tight, God will show up! It is certain! Some of you may see this as a show off but thats your business but for those who get it, this is me acknowledging God’s faithfulness and giving Him the glory.
Tag someone who should read this. You too can be a social media evangelist. Please share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. #ThankYouJesus
Frodd was all tears after narrating how he got into the BBNaija 2019 Pepper Dem house.
Frodd narrated how he was placed on performance improvement plans by the company he was working for after failing to meet his monthly sales target since late 2018.
He further explained how his boss told him that he will be laid off if he fails to meet his target for the month of March 2019. He said he was worried but his mum believed in his abilities and after missing the first day of audition in Lagos, he decided to audition on the second day.
Frodd also gave insights how his best friend urged him and even supported him to go for the audition with the small token he had on him. He gave a vivid explanation of all he went through to get into the auditioning hall.
He said he had lost hope after auditioning but was surprised when he was chosen and the rest as he said was history.
He had barely concluded his story when his emotions gave way and he began crying. He left the room close to the garden and moved to the second room close to the bathroom to let out all his emotions. He was joined by Mike, Nelson, Tacha and Ella who came to console him.
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The Nigerian Senate has set up a committee to probe Senator Elias Abbo for allegedly assaulting a woman in Abuja in a sex toy shop.
The decision was reached on Wednesday in Abuja.
The senator was seen in a video clip published by Premium Times assaulting the lady in a sex toy shop somewhere in Abuja last May for telling him to calm down during a confrontation.
Nigerian Singer, Waconzy has shared his thoughts over the rape allegations against COZA Pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo by Busola Dakolo, wife os singer, Timi Dakolo.
Addressing the issue, Waconzy said public apology could not help heal her and in view of this, Timi Dakolo has successfully Disgraced his family for putting the issue out on social media.
“Timi Dakolo successfully disgraced himself, his wife, children and family name. Who told him that public Apology/judgement will help his wife heal from pain?” the singer questioned.
Embattled Senator Elisha Abbo has reacted to the backlash he has received since CCTV clips of him assaulting a woman in a sex toy shop in Abuja went viral yesterday July 2nd.
The Senator, who represents Adamawa North Senatorial district, has claimed that he was also beaten at the sex toy shop.
While it was reported that the incident occurred on May 11 after the lawmaker walked into the sex toy shop with three young women, the lawmaker said he was at the shop because his sister had been assaulted there.
The 41-year-old Adamawa Senator who claimed that the 10-minute video was incomplete, added that it is an old video and occurred before he became a senator.
He also said that his team will release a ‘robust’ statement on all that transpired in the viral video to the public. He told Channels Television;
“We will soon release an official statement to the viral video which happened before I became a senator where my younger sister was beaten to a pulp in a shop and I was called upon there; where I had to call an ambulance and a policeman to come to the scene and it got out of hand I was also assaulted.
It is an old video, but we will soon release a statement to that effect. It was my sister that was at the store and she was assaulted; in fact, she fainted in the shop but they compressed the video and cut that part out of it.
They took her out to resuscitate her, the one standing with a cap is a doctor, the doctor had to come to give her life. My sister is not in the video, it was completely cropped out of it.
This is a political season and now I am a politician, before I was not a politician but now the reality of the fact is that I am now a politician and politicians are not people who are liked, they exhume things of 20 years and they hang it on their neck now.
As I said before we will release a robust response to everything, and we will also ask for the entire video to be released since they have the video. We will seat and discuss the video. Just to be clear that video was taken long before now and it was released just as this point.” he said
Popular Nigerian Dancer, Kaffy The Dance Queen, has condemned Naira Marley’s latest dance style, and trust the singer to respond to her criticism.
The dance style, tagged, “Soapy Dance”, is a dance that mimics a man ‘masturbating’, and this has seen men act immorally in public, even to the extent of sexually harrassing women in the process of doing the dance.
Kaffy said the dance is a “disgusting immoral dance”, for adults and especially for kids. She said it “should never be encouraged.”
She added: “This is a No . #myopinion As dancers we should also speak for what is right we shouldn’t encourage this for the sake of trend. Esp when it’s not even censored away from kids ,as an adult sef it’s offensive. #rubbish.”
Dancer, Don Flexx also joined in condemning the dance.
But a number of people criticized Kaffy and her supporters. They told her the ”One Corner” dance from Ghana was a hit and no one condemned it yet she’s trying to condemn something a Nigerian came up with.
Naira Marley reacted by dropping several smiling emojis on a comment left by an IG user who said, “sorry is too late, soapy has taken over”.
Justice Mahmood Abdulgafar of a Kwara State High Court sitting in Ilorin on Monday, July 1, 2019 turned down a bail application filed by a self acclaimed herbalist, Jamiu Isiaka who is standing trial over alleged thirty million naira fraud.
The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission had on June 11, 2019, arraigned Isiaka on a four count charge of fraud, conspiracy and impersonating some senior government officials including the Group Managing Director of the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, Dr Maikanti Baru, Senior Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Mr Femi Adeshina, a national commissioner of the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC, Amina Zakari among others.
He pleaded not guilty to all the four count charges. Ruling on the bail application on Monday, Justice Abdulgafar said the accused person have failed to show sufficient evidence of why the court should use its discretion in admitting him on bail.
“The Applicant (Defendant) did not furnish this honourable court with material evidence as to why the court’s discretion should be exercised in his favour and accordingly denied bail”.
The Judge however ordered for accelerated hearing of the case and adjourned till 9th of July, 2019 for further hearing. The accused person is to remain in Mandala prison pending the hearing and determination of the matter.
The herbalist reportedly sent several documents, which he claimed emanated from the NNPC and had the names of some top government functionaries like, the GMD of NNPC, Dr. Maikanti Baru, Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Mr. Femi Adesina, National Commissioner with the Independent National Electoral Commission, Mrs. Amina Zakari, among others in order to defraud a Korean National.
The Transition Committee Chairman of Awka South Council Area, Mr. Leo Nwuba has handed over an abandoned boy picked up by good samaritans at the back of Girls Secondary School, Amaenyi, Awka to the Ministry of Social Welfare, Children and Women Affairs.
The hand over took place at the Local Government Headquarters Awka. Four children between the ages of nine and fourteen years discovered the abandoned baby while on a snail hunt at about 10pm Last Saturday.
They were also at the Local Government headquarters to identify the child before the handing over for proper care.
The child was dumped at an erosion site behind Girls Secondary School, Amaenyi Awka, suspected to be immediately after birth where the children found it in a black sack and alerted their elder sister who quickly took the baby to a hospital for immediate attention before handing him over to the Local Government.
Simply Tacha is currently one of the most popular housemates of the ongoing BBNaija Pepper Dem.
Simply Tacha is an Instagram sensation and social media influencer who has made her way into the BBNaija house.
According to those in the know, Tacha has always wanted to be on Big Brother Naija. And she’s one of the trending housemates on social media alongside Mike.
The 23-year-old native of Cross River, who loves to call herself Port Harcourt first daughter, came into prominence after getting a tattoo of Davido’s OBO crest on her cleavage.
The move got attention from the singer with an Instagram follow. She has since maintained the relationship with the singer’s crew. Already, Naira Marley, Bobrisky, Moesha Buduong and Wofai Fada, Twyse and Davido’s brother, Adewale Adeleke are some of the popular stars already rooting for Tacha.
As if that was enough, Tacha gained the public attention again she was in the news for allegedly staging her own kidnap as well as release to gain recognition. She neither confirmed nor denied the allegation.
This spunky housemate is familiar with the controversy terrain so much that she might remain a recurring topic with each of her moves in the BBNaija house.
Talented at making strategic money moves, Tacha readily flaunts her sexiness on her Twitter and Instagram accounts. She is proud of her body and teases her followers with her boobs at every given opportunity.
Tacha has been at the forefront of being comfortable in her body. She has – according to one of her videos on Instagram – 35 strokes of stretch marks on her boobs and she readily flaunts it to her followers at any given opportunity.
She served some of her dripping sauce at the opening when she was interviewed by Ebuka before being ushered into the BBNaija house.
Tacha is sexy, sassy, spontaneous, loud, interesting, goofy, and fun and her social media pages are evidence.
Admitting to having anger issues, Tacha, who describes herself as being goofy, aims to be the most real housemate that BBNaija has ever had.
Unknown to many, the loss of her mom weighs heavily on her. The loss has however taught her to be strong.
In the house, Tacha will be bringing the ‘drama’ considering her do no harm but take no mess watchword.
The Ignatius Ajuru University of Education graduate says she hates gossip mongers with a passion and detest guys who lie.
On what she intends to do with the prize money, Tacha says she will invest in new business ideas, increase her family’s standard of living and start a charity foundation.
Emily Eric, the wife of Nigeria’s youngest senator, Elisha Abbo, who was caught on camera assaulting a woman at a sex toy shop in Abuja, has supported her husband, as she says he’s innocent of all ‘allegations’.
In a video which has since gone viral, Senator Abbo can be seen slapping a lady repeatedly before asking an armed officer to take her away.
In a post which she shared on Facebook, Abbo’s wife, Emily Eric wrote;
“I stand with you babana
And we will always stand for truth
My husband is innocent of what people are saying against him” she wrote.
The post has since been deleted from her Facebook handle.
A South African lady, Adri Hugo who couldn’t contain her excitement, took to her social media to celebrate her househelp of 8 years who recently graduated with a first degree in Psychology.
Adri who said her househelp, Annamore Mabhii is an inspiration to her, revealed that the 31 year old is a mother of three, with her youngest child being only four years old.
She concluded her post by revealing that Anna graduated amidst some challenges she faced, which includes her son undergoing two major surgeries for a brain tumor.
She wrote,
Annamore Mabhii, or Anna, my faithful househelp since 2011, tonight received her ba degree in psychology ba hsss. She is such an inspiration in my life! I have so much respect for her. She is humble, hardworking and conscientiously and treat everyone with respect. She is a mother of 3 and her youngest (NOW 4 years old) has been diagnosed in March 2018 with a brain tumor. He had two brain surgeries and is recovering. In the Middle of these difficult circumstances she still worked at me, took care of her family and achieved her lesson, without complaining one day. May God bless her.
Police in Cambodia has released the photo of the two-year-old girl eaten by crocodiles on her family’s farm in Siem Reap province’s Siem Reap city, Cambodia on Sunday, after she wandered off into the enclosure alone.
Captain Chem Chamnan, municipal deputy police chief, identified the victim as Rom Roath Neary. She was found dead at her family’s crocodile farm in Siem Reap city at 10am on Sunday morning.
“Her father only found her skull in the crocodile enclosure, where she was killed by crocodiles,” he said.
The mother is pictured holding the skull of the girl after it was picked up from the crocodile farm.
Lieutenant Och Sophen, chief of Siem Reap commune police, said that on the day of the incident, the girl was home with her mother.
Lt Sophen noted that the family had recently welcomed a newborn baby. As the mother was busy taking care of the baby, she lost sight of her elder daughter, he added. When the father came home at 10am, he found his daughter’s skull in the crocodile enclosure, he said.
“When he came back home, he couldn’t find his daughter in the house,” Lt Sophen said. “He found a skull in the crocodile enclosure. He confirmed that the daughter fell into the crocodile enclosure and that the crocodiles killed her, leaving only her skull.”
Lt Sophen noted that the family had built a fence around the farm, but children could still fit through them.
“His farm is located behind the house, and the small girl came to play around and fell in while her mother was busy taking care of another daughter, who had just been born,” Lt Sophen said.
“We convey our condolences to the family. The mother hugged her daughter’s skull in shock,” he added. “We appeal to all families who have crocodile farms to pay attention to all family members, especially small children.”
Media personality, Toke Makinwa, has with many other Nigerian celebrities, reacted to the trending video of a Nigerian Senator, Elisha Abbo assaulting a lady at a sex toy shop in Abuja.
The CCTV footage from the sex shop, which shows the Senator physically assaulting the lady, surfaced online on Tuesday and it’s been generating serious reactions from Nigerians.
‘I am so tired of being tired’ Toke Makinwa wrote, adding that, ‘we ask for a chance, we preach not2young2run, we shout and shout and just when we get excited that we have some young people who can represent us and effect real change, Elisha Abbo goes and does this’.
A serving senator, I hope the people of his constituency come out in numbers, I hope @muhammadubuhari @profosinbajo the president of the senate, the speaker of the house, @rt.hon.femigbajabiamila the Nigerian police
cc @opetodolapo @nigerianpoliceforce and everyone comes together to get him out of the office immediately, Oga @dinomelaye pls check your colleague, he must pay for this
Paul Mukendi, a renowned Congolese Pastor of Parole de Vie evangelical church in Quebec, Canada, has been found guilty of a 9-count charge of sexual assaults.
His victim, a 31-year-old woman who came into his care after his mother “gave her as an offering” to him when she was still an under-aged teenager, had accused him of sexually assaulting her for 14 years (2002 to 2016).
While Pastor Paul Mukendi claimed that the victim is “motivated by financial gain” and fabricated the entire story, she stood her ground as the trial began on June 4.
The Congolese Pastor was found guilty by the Jury, as other women came forward with their own claims about being sexually abused. Judge Jean-François Émond who denied his lawyer’s request for him to be released pending his sentencing in September, opted for an immediate detention.
Infuriated youths on Monday set ablaze a police station in Obowo Local Government Area, after a trigger-happy police officer allegedly shot an unarmed young man, Ikenna Ukachi.
After killing the young man, the policeman abandoned his rifle and fled before the mob could a hold of him. The killing of the 25-year-old man triggered a massive outrage in the hitherto peaceful community.
In a spontaneous reaction, the youth marched on the Otoko Police Division to express their grievances. This attracted other angry members of the community which led to a mob action that resulted in the burning of the police division.
According to reports, the young man was shot and killed by the policeman at the EDS Plaza in Umuokeh, Obowo.
The angry youths blocked the roads passing through their community and leading to the police division with bonfires. On sighting the angry mob, officers and men at the Otoko Police Division fled their duty post for safety.
The angry youths then ransacked the police division, carted away firearms and set it ablaze.
The state Police Commissioner, Rabiu Ladodo, who confirmed the incident said that only about 30 per cent of the division was affected by the fire before it was put out.
The commissioner promised that he was working with the community leaders to recover arms and ammunition carted away from the police division.
“The trigger-happy policeman understands the gravity of his offence and had fled. He has been declared wanted and I have directed that he should be hunted down and arrested. He must face the full weight of the law. We have spread our dragnet, it is just a matter of time and he will be in custody.” he said.
Meanwhile, Governor Emeka Ihedioha, on Tuesday afternoon visited the community.
The Governor after visiting the Divisional Police Headquarters in Obowo which was set ablaze by the youths, also paid a visit to the bereaved family in Umuebea, Umuoke Obowo.
While consoling the family, the governor assured that the trigger happy policeman will be brought to book.
He charged the Commissioner of police in the state to fish out the cop, while urging them to ensure that all those who took the laws into their hands are apprehended.
He assured the deceased family that the Government will stand by them and support them at this trying period. He prayed God to grant the soul of Ikenna eternal rest.
The Governor was accompanied by the Deputy Governor, Hon. (Engr) Gerald Irona, the Imo State CP, Ibrahim Ladodo, the Chairman Council of Tradition Rulers, Eze Samuel Agunwa Ohiri, the Special Adviser Security, Mr Raymond Nkemdirim, among other Government functionaries.
The Chief of Staff, Chief Chris Okewulonu alongside other leaders of the area were on hand to receive the Governor.
Senator Elisha Abbo is currently the number one trending topic on Nigerian Twitter, after the Senator assaulted a lady at a sex store in Abuja.
Nigerians including public figures are condemning him for physically asaulting a lady in a sex toy shop in Abuja in May.
According to lawyer and public analyst, Japheth Omojuwa, Senator Abbo by his action, has shown he has the capacity to murder. One Twitter user pointed out that the video has shown how he treats his wife in their home.
Rapper M.I Abaga opined that Senator Abbo is a woman beater. Also reacting, Don Jazzy called on Vice President Yemi Osinbajo to ensure that such behaviour displayed by Senator Abbo doesn’t go unpunished.
Singer Banky W has called for the arrest of Senator Elisha Abbo who was caught on Camera slapping a girl at a sex toy shop in Abuja last month.
The CCTV from a sex shop showing the Senator physically assaulting a lady surfaced online today. The incident according to reports happened in May.
Reacting to the unfortunate incident, Banky W called for the senator to be arrested and made to step down as a member of the senate.
Read his reaction below
I’ve been saying that we need to pay attention to who we let into our National Assembly. Now we have CCTV footage of a SITTING SENATOR physically assaulting a woman in an adult toy store in Abuja, IN THE PRESENCE OF A POLICE OFFICER. Her only “crime” was saying “Oga take it easy” when he got aggressive with her female store owner friend. For that, he slapped her multiple times, and then made his policemen arrest her. This is an absolute disgrace. Pls repost and share until our Police force agree to #ArrestSenatorElishaAbbo – he must face the full wrath of the law.
This is what happens when we don’t pay attention to the people we let into our leadership roles.
This is what happens when we have a culture that subconsciously treats our women as second class citizens.
We have a lot to unlearn as a country.. about how we select/allow leaders AND about the way we treat our women. We must do better. We must be better.
Nigerian female barbie, bobrisky has called out all the men in the ongoing Big Brother Naija season 4, saying they all have small dicks.
The cross-dresser who showed his dissatisfaction in the men, said all the male contestants in the show have small dicks after they all had ‘Jacuzzi’ bath last night.
Bob, took to his snap to share a screenshot of one of the male contestants, saying he has been looking for a guy that has a bigger one, but he saw none.
He shared;
Have been looking for the guys with DICK, while they were in the Jacuzzi but i guess all of them have small dicks. Have been looking at their boxer print.
In his other post he said the contestants should start kissing and fucking already, saying all they do is talk, which to him is dulling the reality show.
Nigeria’s youngest senator, Elisha Abbo was recently caught on camera assaulting a woman at a sex toy shop in Abuja.
According to Premium Times, the exchange which led to the assault incident occurred on May 11 after Mr Abbo, a member of the opposition Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), walked into the shop at about 6pm to purchase adult toys. It was learnt a lady he came with allegedly vomitted multiple times, prompting the shop owner to remark that she should have vomitted outside and not inside her shop, as she is not a child.
Senator Abbo who intervened, accused the shop owner of poisoning the store’s air conditioner which she denied. According to the shop owner, if the air conditioner had been contaminated others in the shop would have also taken ill. This led to a heated argument and exchange of words.
The shop owner was later seen at some point in the video, calling her father to inform him about the situation after the senator told a police officer who walked in to arrest her. The senator later told the lady to end the call and tried to collect her phone. The shop owner’s friend who was also present, intervened and asked the Senator and the armed officer to take it easy on the shop owner.
In the video obtained by Premium Times, Senator Abbo all of a sudden poured out his anger on the said friend. He slapped the lady repeatedly and asked the officer to take her away. The senator representing Adamawa North Senatorial District who claimed that the shop owner insulted him and called him drunk, even though they were friends, assaulted the other lady while the armed mobile police officer looked on and also made an attempt to arrest the victim.
Premium Times reported that the incident occurred, nearly three months after Mr Abbo became a senator-elect and a month before he was sworn-in on June 11. The assault incident was reported on May 14 at the Maitama Area Command Headquarters on Nile Street, and it was further learnt that the police told the victim to go look for Mr Abbo’s telephone number or they would not be able to do anything about it.
Talent manager and Ubi Franklin’s fourth baby mama, Sandra Iheuwa, yesterday held a baby shower to celebrate her pregnancy.
The soon-to-be mother gathered with friends as she celebrated the occasion and shared photos on social media – However, some critics shamed her for holding a baby shower despite being unmarried and she replied them.
She wrote;
“So i see some jobless people that can’t even provide 3 square meals for themselves not to talk of their family calling me shameless for celebrating my baby given to me by God regardless of how the baby came along.
Yes, I will be shameless because I am proud of whom I am as a woman who takes care of her kids singlehandedly with no help whatever. My kids school fees is over 2.1 million a year for each child I pay that with no shaking if you have anything negative to say about the way i chose to celebrate my life and what God has given to me I bet you should book an appointment with me in person and tell me with your mouth that is if you have the guts to approach me in real life than hide behind your phones to spew hate and jealously until then i will continue to block all you negative mofos. This is my first child out of wedlock and i will celebrate however I like whether it hurts your soul or not if you think my baby shower was extravagant wait until my baby turns 1 then you will probably kill yourself out of hate and jealousy. I am not the only woman who got pregnant out of wedlock who has celebrated or done baby shower and i don’t see any negative remarks or is it because I am an independent woman??? cos most of this hate comes from women and its a dam* shame. Y’all want me to hide in shame but i am going to burst your bubbles i have lived in the United States for over 17 yrs my mentality is beyond different from what you are used to…..if the father of my child denied responsibility it is my duty as a capable and able mother to provide for my child and make sure my baby never lacks and besides non of you motherf*ckers talking sh*t feed me or my kids so why do y’all care so much??? Just like one dead blogger called me “Loud and Confident” let me correct you I am outspoken and confident I know you ain’t used to outspoken women. Some of you have committed over 10 abortions with dead children hanging over your heads and y’all are judging women for keeping a baby without being married…..marriage kill you.