“Why I chose to get married late” – Blessing Obasi
Nollywood actress, Blessing Obasi, has spoken candidly about her feelings of alienation before marriage and the reasons behind her delayed marriage.
Blessing shared her story on Instagram on Tuesday, February 6, in response to a talk show on the challenges and expectations faced by single women.
The mother of one explained that choosing to marry later in life was more than simply her decision; it also involved overcoming societal pressure, finding her own identity, and being resilient.
She wrote;
“You know, I had to jump on this conversation because, after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, I’ve finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.
Getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice; it was a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.
The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn’t a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It’s about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.
So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember: your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it.”
