Top Nigerian rapper, Olamide Baddo, has gotten himself a new look yet again and it’s not as serious as was the previous one – the “Eleda Mi” singer has apparently taken off his rockstar kinda haircut which became a trend some months back among the youths.
Playing guest at a show recently, the rapper looked as casual as can be as he donned a green sweat shirt and his usual sunshades – he also met Veteran actor, Kanayo O.Kanayo ahead of their concert in Courtesy of Glo.
LIKE most teenagers, Adrienna Wembi had a choice to make of when to sleep with her first proper boyfriend.
But unlike most, the then 18-year-old took the unusual step of deciding she would only take things to a certain point – and at the age of 26 she still hasn’t changed her mind.
Adrienna Wembi said she made the decision not to have sex until she met her soulmate when she was 18
Adrienna has never regretted her decision to wait until she meets her soulmate – although she says men don’t believe she’s still a virgin because she is so “attractive”.
Speaking to the Sun Online, Adrienna, now 26, said: “When I come across people, they don’t seem to believe me because of my appearance.
“I’m attractive and the way that males approach me makes people think certain things about me.”
The young woman said she wanted other young people to know they didn’t need to feel pressured into having sex
Adrienna said the decision wasn’t easy but she was determined to stick to her convictions
“When I tell some people they think I’m lying but I don’t want to have sexual intercourse with anyone until I know they are my soulmate – that seems to impress people.”
The young woman, of High Wickham, said people mostly asked her how she resisted, and why she had made the decision.
She said: “I’m only going to have sexual intercourse with one guy, the guy I will marry.
“I made that decision when I was 18 and I have kept to it.”
“I was in a relationship in high school and because I wasn’t willing to go past a certain point, we broke up – I wasn’t willing to go to the next step to sexual intercourse.
“But if I was to lose my virginity when I was 14, how many guys would I have slept with.
“When you find the right person that is your soulmate, then you can go ahead. “Otherwise, you’ll end up having sex with everyone and I don’t think that’s right.”
According to a recent study, the average age that people lose their virginity in the UK is 18.
But Adrienna, who said she wasn’t motivated by religion, said she wanted young people to know that they didn’t have to rush, adding: “I thought maybe if I share my story I can help other teenagers.
“They can know that they can wait and save themselves from heartbreak.”
The aspiring hairdresser said her family was proud of her for sticking to her convictions.
The 26-year-old said that her family supposed her decision
She said: “I’m not saying it is easy.
“If you have a boyfriend, it’s really tempting, it’s not easy at all.
“When you’re 15 you don’t need to rush but take time to analyse and see if they want a sexual relationship, or if they are after a committed relationship.”
The alleged killer of 22-year-old South African Girl, Karabo Mokoena’s, Sandile Mantsoe has appeared in court today after he was arrested yesterday for the brutal murder of his girlfriend, Karabo.
According to new revelations in court today, Karabo’s father, Tshepo Mokoena says Sandile’s family was seen on CCTV cleaning the apartment where he murdered her and leaving with a linen.
Sandile Mantsoe will remain in custody and his bail application will be heard on 24th May.
“You are going to burn in hell‚” one woman from the court gallery shouted as he was led back to the holding cells of the court during a short adjournment. Mantsoe appeared unfazed as he headed out.
Mokoena’s family seemed emotional when they saw him appear from the cells. A woman dressed in black shook her head as her eyes filled with tears.
Since yesterday that the story broke, it has been trending and generating lots of reaction from people online.
Not allowing the drama from her issues with her estranged Husband, Lanre Gentry to get to her, Embattled Nollywood actress Mercy Aigbe has given a shout-out to her step-daughter, Adeola Oluwabusayo Gentry to turned 20 today.
The award-winning actress who recently removed her husband’s name “Gentry” from her social media accounts took out time to celebrate her ex-husband’s daughter despite the bad blood between them now. She wrote:
Wow it’s the big 20 for my love @_gentry_a_ , Adeola mi, oya aso ebi loading
Happy birthday my darling, may the lord continue to keep you in good health and abundant blessings….. have fun darling
Adeola Oluwabusayo Gentry is Lanre Gentry’s daughter, she is a beauty artist and a Banking and Finance graduate.
A User on Nairaland has shared his “Jehovah-witness themed pre-wedding photos”. He revealed he dated his fiance for 2 years, before proceeding to propose to her. He wrote:
Two years ago I met her. Just managed to come off the breakup of a 5 years relationship, and I promised myself to marry her two years after we start dating. I prayed to Jehovah to help me achieve this, and he did help!
Here I present to you some shots of my pre-wedding pictures. Look deeply and you will see my joy. I am not the best person to love, but she sure makes it easy.
Am grateful to her for many things, but more grateful to God for everything. May he bless our union and that of everyone else.
Delectable Nollywood Actress and model Damilola Adegbite has revealed she recently underwent a surgery some weeks back.
The mother of one is thanking God about the success of the surgery, and also revealed she has now got a better understanding of how fragile life is.
She wrote:
Flashing back” to a few weeks ago, going into and out of surgery. That was one of the most scary and eye opening events I have experienced ? (I will share details in my next vlog)
Fast forward to today, I am alive and well, and most importantly, I have a better understanding of how fragile life is and how it all can be taken away in one split second.
Consciously choose to be grateful for the things you have. Be kind to one another, forgive yourself and others for mistakes; remember nobody is perfect…neither are you,embrace everything and everyone who makes your life beautiful!
It is my birthday in a few days ?I have sooo much to be grateful for. I know you do too, if you count your blessings, you will be surprised how many they are. ?
Nollywood Actress, Lizzy Anjorin has added her voice the to rate at which domestic violence increases. In an Instagram post, she wrote:
If you are above 30 and you are still single and haven’t taste marriage before and you are taking side in Marital issues, my dear you need MFM deliverance.
Do you pray for your Uncle/Brother/Father to spend all his life in prison bcos of Marital issues or will you pray for your sister/mother to die in the hand of any man???.. Before we kill domestic violence, let’s kill the domestic animal in us.. some of us cannot even tolerate our house help, Inlaws even our own family not to talk of our life partner.
Note, we are all ANIMAL bcos some of us cannot even yield to our parent advice/corrections. Let your relationship that bring evil, sadness and didn’t add any value to your life between your husband/wife/family even your parent END in PEACE not in PIECES.. I won’t stand by anybody, I stand by peace..
I will be glad if Government can enforce 6months counselling on Marital Affairs before any Marriage.. A broke husband/boy friend is not different from a mad man in ARO(Psychiatric). A broke man is an evil to himself and a demanding wife/girl friend is a witch in disguise believe it or leave it.. Don’t forget 07-07-17 is Owo Nairabet Movie Premiere @Ruby Gardens Event Centre Lekki 4th Roundabout..
The singer was given seven (7) days to tender an unreserved apology over the defamatory statements he has made against 2face and his manager, Efe Omorege, or be dragged to court.
Speaking exclusively to LIB today, Blackface says he has received the letter from 2face’s lawyesr but vows never to apologize.
“They sent me that letter some days ago asking me to apologise. Rastaman apologises to nobody man. Rasta will never apologise to them because they are filled with evil and fuckery so they should go to hell and anything they want to do they should do but I know that my lawyers should have served them already.
What am I apologising for? Somebody takes your music and then you apologise? Is that for real? They are really playing with themselves and I think the manager is putting him in a whole lot of trouble.
They know they are in a whole lot of trouble. They took a lawyer from Oshodi bridge to write something for them who does not even know how to weigh the case and know what to even write. Illiteracy is around them. They are crazy. They don’t even know what they are doing “he said
Continuing he said “The evidence is there that they sang my song and somebody else published it. It is my song and somebody else published it. I am not even talking about African woman right now. I am talking about Let Somebody Love you.
That song shouldn’t have been released without my permission because it is my song. The manager went to publish my song. I don’t know what kind of pilfering they are doing because they are industry crooks. They are robbing the industry of a whole lot of things. That is what they are doing”he said
A lady is currently trending after she was videod on tape saying these words: “If a guy licks me up when I’m on my period, I’d respect him more”.
The video which was shared by KraksTV has been met with mixed reaction, with many calling on the Law enforcement agencies to arrest her and lock her up.
The video has been view more than 100,000 times on Instagram. Watch The Video Below:
Femi Fani-Kayode, FFK has just shaded the hell out of Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo over a statement the latter made yesterday.
Recall, tweeted this morning apparently to shade the acting president, the Vice president spoke at the Emir’s palace in Katsina and claimed that the President treats him more than just being the vice-president.
He said:
I feel very much at home in Katsina. Moreso, because this is the State of the President who has taken me as a brother; in fact the President has taken me as a son in the way he treats me.
“I pray the Lord will preserve our President to continue to lead, as the nation has voted him to do. He seriously believes in Nigeria unity”.
Reacting via a tweet on Thursday night, Fani-Kayode said Nigeria was in serious trouble.
“The President treats me like his son and his brother”- VP. A 60 year old man can say this? We are in trouble,” he tweeted.
A Lady, a 400 level student of Kwara State University has reached out to us to help her post an assault she suffered in the hands a guy identified as Omobolaji Ogundepo (Pictured above, left) popularly known as Bolojay, who apparently, is also a Final Year Student in the same University.
The said lady, pictured below, revealed to us that a friend of Omobolaji named Idrees Sanusi asked her out, but she declined.. Then Omobolaji who had nothing to do with the whole “thing” confronted her, and battered her for not agreeing to date his Friend, Idrees.
The Victim, Identified as Mariam, said she reported to the School’s authority, but nothing was done to salvage the situation, as it is said that Omobolaji has some kind of influence in the school.
Omobolaji Ogundepo
Mariam has been querying Idrees for the whereabout of his friend, Omobolaji, but he claims he doesn’t know his whereabout.
The incident happened on Monday, 8th of this Month, May, 2017.
Nigerian Music Legend, 2face Idibia, has had enough of blackface’s bullshit, and has spoken back at him over his incessant accusations.
2baba, in a letter through his lawyers, demanded for an unreserved apologyy from the singer over his defamatory comments.
In the letter dated May 5th, 2017, obtained completely by way of str8upbangin, it said that Blackface, actual names “Ahmedu Augustine” can also additionally face prison sentence if he refuses to make an apology and desist from making false statement about 2face and Efe Omorogbe.
Relationship Blogger, Joro Olumofin has shared the story of a rather hurt man who dated his wife for one year before marriage only to find out on their wedding night, that she’s got a male organ.
Read The story below:
Hi Joro
I have been sitting on this same spot since last night wondering how I got myself into this. We dated for one year and she did not for once let me see her naked insisting on no sex before marriage. How foolish I was. she’s so beautiful and I thought it was worth the wait. Im confused.
We got married on Monday and before the reception I begged her to let me have a taste of the cookie and she refused and I agreed because a *a little suspense is always good”. Imagine my shock at night when I saw my wife with an erect penis. I almost punched her/him.
She said she was born that way but for Pete’s sake why did she hide such a thing from me. I can’t stop crying. I built my life around her. I’m weak. I can’t even tell my friends. I feel like visiting the lagoon or just taking otapiapia. Joro please help me, you and you followers. I need to hurt her equally. I spent almost 2 million Naira on a wedding to see a dick? This is too much. Help me.
I’m gradually losing my mind. She claims she didn’t tell me because she didn’t tell mee because she didn’t want to lose me, for Christ’s sake, what do I do now? Where do I start?
An update has it that the woman has surgically removed the penis…
Hi Joro, thank you for taking out time to post my previous message. I’m the guy that wrote to you about my wife having a penis (turns out she also had a vagina, she’s a hermaphodite)
I read every single comment on the post and while some thought it was funny, I honestly found solace in most of the comments. Thank you all.
To the situation report, I went to her dad and expressed my displeasure at being deceived and he asked me if I remember him always asking if she had told me everything about her and I kept saying yes (because I thought she had a dark past and I wasn’t interested in knowing). He said he wasn’t in a position to tell me she was born with a penis.
Long story short, she’s gone abroad for corrective surgery and it was successful and she’s due back next week but… I don’t love her anymore, the thought that she tricked me with the no sex before marriage thing to marry her is killing me. In my mind she’ll always be the lady with a penis and I don’t see me every having sex with her. Joro, you’re the shrink here, is there anything I can do to see her as a woman again? I don’t wanna have sex with her and start believing I’m gay *the thought I made out with her after the wedding makes me feel sick).
Divorce is going to be a last resort but I want to try my best to make us work. Help me Joro, how can I love her as a woman once more? God bless you.
Beverly Osu has taken to her Instagram page to share a video of herself twerking up a storm.
The 25-year-old video vixen made it known to her fans that she’s not in anyway having any worries and that’s what gives her joy.
In her words:
Doing what you like is freedom, liking what you do is happiness? No Worries,No Drama, No Deadlines on the beach.. On The set of #blackmenrock ??. Video credit= My Manager @tontoviva Music by @vybzkartel Ft @wizkidayo #WineToDiTop ? #Actor #onset #happykid #nature #beach #brownskin #bikini #goodmusic #danceislife #twerkout #melanin #GOE #waves #borntoentertain
Robert Mugabe’s spokesperson has responded to those who accuse the Zimbabwean president of falling asleep at public events.
He claims that the 93-year-old isn’t sleeping, but is only protecting his aged eyes from the bright lights.
George Charamba was quoted by the state-owned Herald newspaper as saying that President Mugabe travels regularly to Singapore to receive specialised treatment for an eye condition.
He said:
“I feel like a failure when there is this reading that the President is sleeping in conferences. No. At 93, there is something that happens to the eyes and the president cannot suffer bright lights. If you look at his poise, he looks down, avoids direct lighting.”
The spokesman made a comparison with Nelson Mandela whose eyes were sensitive to flash photography, saying:
“In the case of Mandela, if you remember, you were not allowed to even use flashes whenever he was in the room. This is what happens at 93 and Mandela, I do not think lived as long as the president.”
Acting President Yemi Osinbajo today gave some glimpses into the personal and official relationships he has shared with President Muhammadu Buhari.
On a visit to Katsina to launch the state’s Micro, Small and Medium Scale Enterprises Clinic, Prof. Osinbajo disclosed that the President had been treating him as a brother and son.
He stated that the responsibilities Buhari gave him are proofs that he seriously believes that we can live as brothers in this country.
The Acting President who earlier paid a visit to the Emir of Katsina, Dr. Abdulmumini Kabir Usman, also spoke about his close relationship with President Muhammadu Buhari at the palace reception.
One of the reasons why I feel very much at home in Katsina State is because this is the State of our President, President Muhammadu Buhari, who has taken me more like a brother; in fact sometimes more like a son than a Vice President.”
He commended the Government and people of Katsina State for being a role model in terms of peaceful co-existence of all ethnic tribes and religions in the State.
At the launch of the Katsina State’s MSMES Clinic, Osinbajo averred that the Federal Government’s newly launched Economic Recovery & Growth Plan (EGRP) places high premium on the nation’s capacity to grow it’s export potentials rather than continue on the unsustainable path of total dependence on import.
He said the focus of the Plan is to develop “the capacity of Nigerians to do everything that we need internally; to become a net exporter of the various things that we are importing today.”
Explaining Federal Government’s reason for the inauguration of the MSMEs Clinics that is now going round major cities in the country, Prof Osinbajo stated that it was designed to give small businesses the opportunity to meet with the industry regulators, to talk to them and to hear their problems.
He explained that the idea of the MSMES clinics which he has personally attended for the fourth time now is the Buhari administration’s effort to close the gap between MSMES and relevant FG regulatory agencies like NAFDAC, CAC, SON, BOI, FIRS and others and ensure that those agencies become facilitators of businesses not obstacles to business development.
Prof Osinbajo who declared the MSMEs Clinic open in absential of the President due to a follow-up on his medicals, was accompanied to Katsina by the Minister of State for Aviation, Hadi Sirika, Minister of State for Industry, Trade and Investment, Hajia Aisha Abubakar, Chairman of Federal Inland Revenue Service, Babatunde Fowler and Special Adviser to the President on Political Matters, Senator Babafemi Ojudu.
Yesterday, Charles Okocha and his wife made headlines after the former shared a delectable photo/video of a light-skinned lady and declared her his crush.
On seeing this, Charles Wife went on to confront the lady on whatsapp, telling her to f away from her husband saying unkind words to her. In the chats, she wrote:
“Stay away from my husband. Before I deal with u bitch. Stupid husband’s snatching. I know you have been messaging him. He post you on Facebook. U r a cheap bitch. U think he care about you. he only want to fcuk u and dump your fucking ass. trash bitch like you that can’t keep ur shit to urself.
I will deal with u. u better stay away. you ugly looking like boo dog.
U better tell Charles Okocha that post ur pic on Instagram to delete if not all hell will brake down on u. ur husband will know. Never cross my line because I will get your ass luck up and Charles will beg me to bring you out ass ho.
This is exactly what I though you better tell him to delete your pic that he post on Instagram if you don’t want fire on top of your head. It’s best you do it now because I will go on Instagram same way I catch your number by his phone. same way I will get your husband number and tell him to warn you nasty duty bitch.
Now, the lady in question has declared she has never met with Charles. In an Instagram post she made yesterday, she wrote:
“Please am engaged and am a very responsible lady, am proud of my man..I DON’T JOKE WITH MY MAN! I LOVE HIM & I WILL NEVER CHEAT ON MY FIANCÉ, Am so bless&lucky to have my bannie..Have not seen Charles okocha in this life at all..Biko.am a beautician & My skin is beautiful anyone can comment on it or wish to have it. Why will one stupid lady attack me just because her man said he is crushing on my skin? LADY TALK TO YOUR MAN AM NOT INVOLVE ON THIS ONE, I DONT KNOW HIM At all, have not met him before & we ain’t friends ?”
I was dating dis guy 1st time slap! He Begged! Evry1 begged for him! I went back! 2nd time he beat me like a Drum! I never went back! NEVER https://t.co/K39xz1jUG4
Earlier today, Social Media was on fire after Debie-Rise endorsed a comment that said Efe’s music career was a dead end.
The comment reads: “This is an already dead career in rapping and even music”. .. and then Debie-Rise liked the comment, thus making it seem like she endorsed the comment.
Apparently, the Efe nation weren’t finding this funny as they lambasted her from all corners of the universe.
Now, Debie has taken responsibilities for her actions and apologized, even though she claims it wasn’t hers, she said she was sorry, and hopes to earn the forgiveness of Efe Nation.
She shared a video on Instagram with Bassey in the picture, and captioned it: “Love ❤ is our weapon!
Silence is our Strength ?!!Rising is our game!!! All the Risers, Can U Say Waaaawuuuu!”
Pictured above is a heartless man who allegedly killed and beheaded his son for money ritual. From what we could gather, the man apparently, reported his son missing to the Police, which of course prompted a search for the child.
The headless body of the child was later found in the fathers’ car with one of his foot chopped off.
The story was shared by one Taskar Gizago, but it was written in Hausa. Below is what he wrote:
“Ya Kashe Dansa Ya Guntle Kansa Da Kafarsa Domin Kudin Tsafi
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+Wani mutum a Jihar Filato ya kashe dansa, ya guntule kansa da kafarsa daya domin ya yi tsafi da nufin samun kudi.
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+Mutumin ya kai koke ne wajen ‘yan sanda, ya ce masu dansa ya bace, amma mahaifiyar yaron ta musanta. Ta ce mahaifin yaron ne da kansa ya fita da shi daga gida, don haka tana zargin shi ya batar da shi.
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+Da ‘yan sanda suka tsananta bincike, sai aka gano gawar yaron a bayan motar mahaifin nasa. An samu kan yaron da kafarsa a guntule.
A Nigerian Lady has taken to Twitter to share screenshots of how her Mother “deceived” her on Whatsapp. The lady with the twitter handle @_baesome at first thought her Mother’s phone was stolen judging from the “Broadcast message” she received from her Whatsapp Number..
…Only for her to open the chat, and saw that she was totally played. She shared screenshots and captioned it; “Woke up to this. Was wondering who jacked my mum’s phone then I opened it and… ?”
Charles Okocha is married of course, and his wife saw this update… Next thing she did was to confront the Light-skinned Girl on Whatsapp.
In a whatsapp chat shared online by IB9JA, Charles wife wrote:
“Stay away from my husband. Before I deal with u bitch. Stupid husband’s snatching. I know you have been messaging him. He post you on Facebook. U r a cheap bitch. U think he care about you. he only want to fcuk u and dump your fucking ass. trash bitch like you that can’t keep ur shit to urself.
I will deal with u. u better stay away. you ugly looking like boo dog.
U better tell Charles Okocha that post ur pic on Instagram to delete if not all hell will brake down on u. ur husband will know. Never cross my line because I will get your ass luck up and Charles will beg me to bring you out ass ho.
This is exactly what I though you better tell him to delete your pic that he post on Instagram if you don’t want fire on top of your head. It’s best you do it now because I will go on Instagram same way I catch your number by his phone. same way I will get your husband number and tell him to warn you nasty duty bitch.
According to reports making rounds online, a Nigerian man simply identified as Johnny was reportedly murdered in cold blood after he returned to Benin City, Edo State from Italy.
The young man was reportedly shot dead after being attacked at his residence in benin, shortly after his return from Italy.
Details are quite sketchy, but we’d bring you more reports as the story unfolds.
In the video posted on YouTube, Bovi while performing at his just concluded Man on Fire Comedy concert made jokes about the way Banky W spelt “Marry” while proposing to Adesua. In His words: “The marriage dun dey already get problem” — “Fix it”.
This of course has garnered mixed reactions from Nigerians with many calling on the comedian to apologize for the jokes he made, which many tagged as “improper”.
Bovi, in response to those demanding for an apology, He said: “My face when they tell me to apologize over a joke they didn’t understand. Read my lips.. “eat ****”
A sincere female petrol attendant has looked beyond the hard times rolling over Nigerian economy.
The young Lady who solely depends on the minimum wage she receives at work expressed her honesty at the time it was most needed.
According to the customer, Mr Ubaka, the lady was paid excess N5000 over the proposed amount but she decided to return it instead of keeping it to herself.
Out of excitement, the customer appreciated her very well and as well asked that they take pictures together.
Solomon Dalung, Minister of Youth and Sports Development has shown fear and concern that universities in Nigeria may start producing “Imams and Pastors” due to the fact that they offer courses outside what they are commissioned to do.
During the inauguration of the Governing Councils of 23 federal universities in the country, The 53-year-old spoke yesterday saying it was the decision of the Federal Executive Council that the universities should stick to their specialties.
Specialized institutions include universities of agriculture and the universities of technology.
Dalung said:
“I am a member of the Federal Executive Council and I stand with the decision and the wisdom of specialized universities limiting themselves to their core mandate. The laws creating these universities are very clear.
What business does the university of agriculture have in producing lawyers and accountants? If we are not careful, in future they will produce imams and pastors.
We have so many universities of agriculture that abandoned their specialty and they are producing accountants and mechanics, they will soon be producing footballers.
After carefully examining the laws that created these universities, the Federal Executive Council took this decision. We came to the decision that these universities should concentrate on their specialty.
It was not an arbitrary decision. It has broad consultation. The AGF was invited so I think what we did was the best for the country for now.”
Chairman, House Committee on Tertiary Education and TETFund, Suleiman Aminu, also spoke extensively on the decision of the government to ban general courses offered by specialized universities.
He said:
“Some persons must be cut out from our universities of Agriculture and Technology but I don’t believe that decision has received the best of consultations across the country. I said it because we have received serious petitions disagreeing with this decision of the government.
The world over, there are several universities of specialized fields that are actually not restricted to that particular discipline measure. We have met with the public, particularly those that are very informed on this issue.
We have met with the representatives of NUC, JAMB and the vice chancellors and we will invite more for us to benefit from their knowledge.
The laws establishing those institutions must be reviewed. If you go ahead and do it without actually changing the Act, there may be little problem. We are not against this change if it would benefit the system and Nigeria.
We can assure you of our spot as usual but where there are concerns I think particularly are where the laws that established these institutions do not have very clear mandate. I think the Federal Executive Council should make consultations”.
Wow! Time sure does fly! My Daughter Renny is 20!! I wish you great wisdom, good health, long life, deep knowledge and whatever you lay your hands on will prosper. You will be a role model to your peers. Ann God bless you for doing a great job! Happy Birthday Renny.
Apparently, the 20-year-old wasn’t having any of that and he told him to F off..
What’s the meaning of this Sir? You didn’t tag me you don’t know my IG handle either. You’ve tagged other people and bloggers and you didn’t even have the courtesy to call me to wish me a happy birthday and you’re doing this online? What a pity. I would overly appreciate it if you stopped this. God bless.
One more thing sir, my mothers name is spelt “Anne” not Ann. stop being the rain on my parade and stop spreading lies. I have never insulted you. STOP THESE LIES
Cool FM OAP, Daddy Freeze decided to intervene putting up a screenshot of the incident on his own page and wrote:
Tackle your father with love and respect and your children will reciprocate.
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Dear Renny, whatever you do, don’t fight your parents battles on their behalf, make peace with both and all will be well. Love your dad, despite whatever you feel he may have done and love your mum too. I know you must be bearing hurt and grief, and I in no way undermine your pain. However, please if you ever see this, heed my instruction and all will be worked out by God, stay blessed.
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▪️Ephesians 6:1-4 KJV▪️
[1] Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. [2] Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) [3] That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. [4] And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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Children honor your parents, while the parents shouldn’t provoke the children is what the Bible says in the New Testament! ~FRZ ?
We have received exclusive pictures from a reader about a 60-year-old corper who is currently serving at Ika North, in Delta State.
Identified as Mr. James, he is fondly called “Daddy”. The pictures were taken during their monthly clearance at the local government secretariat In Ika North East, Delta State.
It is a new world order where technology rules everything we do. This why smartphones are very important in our lives and we do all sorts of things with it.
Some people go as far as sharing nude pictures with their trusted boyfriends. For others, they may mistakenly share the nudes online or hackers may take advantage of their phone’s insecurity to hack their phones or computer and splash the pix all over the internet.
And before you flip your fingers, the pix have gone viral and may have been viewed or clicked thousands of times. This can be very embarrassing and can lead to depression and then suicide.
You do not have to go down this route. Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency discuss the things to do if your nude pix appears online.
Get rid of all your gadgets
Perhaps this should be the first thing you should do. Get rid of your smartphones and gadgets. This is because the more you see the pictures, the more you will get infuriated and depressed.
Keep yourself in company of close friends
Never be alone in this type of situation. You will be very vulnerable and you may hurt yourself. You should call your close friends or loved ones to come stay with you or you leave your home to go stay with them. However, do not reach out to friends who will judge you.
Report to the police
If it is a case of revenge porn, you should report to the police so that they can take action. He should not share your private pix on the internet because you broke up with him. If he does, report to the police. Don’t say you will leave him in the hands of God because he will be revel and grin in what he has done.
Accept It
It is very difficult to accept such a thing but you have no choice than to. Learn from it and move on. It was a mistake. Anyone who loves you will accept you for who you are.
See a psychologist
See a psychologist who can take you through the process of psychotherapy to help you overcome the incident. This is one of the best ways to recover from the incident.
Don’t take revenge
Yes, you are very angry. You have the right to take revenge and do something nasty to the person who shared your nudes. Like earlier said, accept it and move on. But still, make a report to the police.
Right to be forgotten
This is a long shot. The Right to be forgotten is the right of individuals who have gone through a terrible ordeal to erase such an incident or ordeal online. In other words, when you search for your nudes, they will be unable to find it online. This is just to prevent continuous stigmatisation for the rest of your life. This is possible and only search engines like Google and others can take it off. You just have to contact them.
