Twitter User Shares Guidelines To Identify Lagos Boys You Should Be Weary Of.

Lol… do you agree with her or nah? Take a cue from her guide though, it’s Valentine and I’m sure you’ll be needing em!

Lol… do you agree with her or nah? Take a cue from her guide though, it’s Valentine and I’m sure you’ll be needing em!

The heartbreaking story was shared to Laila, it reads:
Hello Laila, please I have this true life story from someone with lessons to be learnt that I will appreciate if you can share on your blog. I am sharing this anonymously based on the woman’s approval. I really hope BVs can also send their true life stories as well so we all can learn a thing or two.
It was just 7.am on a beautiful monday morning after a busy weekend as i prepared for the day activities, i heard a beep on my phone, obviously from the sound i knew it was a whatapps message and i quickly took a glance and thus the message read.
Dear Sir, i have read about your counseling and advices to people and how you motivate them to be their very best, you are doing a great work. Pls can i share my story and experience about life with me? I want to ease the thought of an ugly past each time i go
down memory lane.After some seconds i replied provided it is convenient to you, i will be glad to be at your service but you have to send through my mail so i can easily read through. I drop my mail and bid whoever it was a happy day and left for the day hustling.
Approximately in about three hours time i discovered i have a message but this time around the icon displaying on my phone is for a mail. I opened it and began to read.
Dear Sir, my name is ************ the second child from a family of five and the second by birth. I happened to be the first daughter, it was a big and one happy family growing up. We may not have been wealthy but were contented as dad always provided for our basic need with the support of mom. Things were going fine until that fateful day.
Vividly, it still seems like yesterday but is over twenty something years now. On that afternoon, mom has visited dad in his shop to get some money probably for the days meal but on getting there, she caught dad and his mistress cuddling and kissing inside the shop. It was a great shock for mom for a man she had been married to over fifteen years right in front of her making out time with another woman.
With raged in anger and betrayal of their matrimonial vow, mom went into fight with the mistress and dad as well but for the timely intervrntion of the neighbor alot of damages would have been recorded and maybe one of them may have died that day. This wasn’t the first time mom and dad are engaging on a fight. Angrily, mom left with the words in her mouth you will surely come home and meet me as i was made to understand by the neighbor days later.
I didn’t know how it happened but what i saw when i rushed home was dad lying motionless on the floor and all i could hear was call the police, it was then it dawn on me that mom has killed dad.
I saw neighbor holding her and all she was saying and shouting in tears is “i didn’t know what came over me, it is the devil oh, i didn’t mean to kill him oh”. That was the day a part in me died as well.
Even though infidelity was a sin to God, was that a justifiable reason for mom to engaged dad on a fight to the point of hitting him so hard with an object to take away his life? was all i could muttered in my heart. Not quite long the police arrived and dad corpse was carried away along side with mom handcuff and taken to the station. It was a day i cried as never before and only wish it never happened.
Month later dad was buried and mom still facing prosecution in prison, life became unbearable for us, for everyone abandoned us to our fate and we were left at the mercy of God and some good people. But again another tragedy struck……
Mom was rushed to the hospital and was diagnosed with high blood pressure with fever, few days later she died. I think mom died because of the guilt she felt about dad’s death and also been afraid of imprisonment and leaving behind the children. Face with this realities i became a shadow of myself and hated life so much to the point i almost commit suicide.
Life became so tough and difficult for us that i had no option than to survive, this is how i got into prostitution. I remember those cold night in the city of port harcourt how i stood on the road with a friend who introduced me into this life style though she later died as we heard. I did many despicable things with men not because i was happy or choose to but was left with no choice and more also i needed the money.
Ordinarily, most of the men who went through me wouldn’t have and i wouldn’t have dreamth of it happening if things didn’t turned this bad. For over four years i became a runs girls and was taking care of the family who didn’t know the nature of my job but was happy. Yet in all this there was no genuine happiness in me.
Today, big bros is a graduate and my immediate younger sister is in her finals all thanks to my effort but it was all to my own detriment. Now i understand that in life everything comes with a price. Everything i did inorder to survived has adversely turned against me. With tears i write to you not because i am afraid to die for i know we must all die someday. I cry because this wasn’t the purpose of God for his children.
The doctor said to me to be strong that with God all things are possible and there is nothing difficult for Him to do after series of test and diagnoses has proven that i am suffering from leukemia (cancer of the white blood cell).
This is how my life has turn out to be, at mid 30’s no husband, no child, no investment. It is a world full of sorrow and pains. I know i may not have longer years to live again as the Doc said unless if there is a miracle. Pls help me and pass this message so others can learn from the mistake we found ourselves in life, there is no justification for going into crime or unholy act no matter the circumstances in life.
Always cherish your home and never give the devil the chance to manipulate your actions. I pray as i end this memo that i found peace and favor in Gods eyes. Thanks for your patience in reading through.

Controversial Zambian Prophet, Anointed Benard, popularly known as Commander 1, last week asked his church female members to bring various soaps to church, so that the soap can be anointed by a special prayer.
Church members majorly females trooped into the church with different colours and shapes, for the Prophet to pray and get it converted to supernatural soaps.
It has been alleged that the once the soap is prayed for it will to enable the ladies lure men into love relationships, among other uses of the “supernatural” soap.
Prophet Anointed Benard claimed that once he prayed for the soap it become “supernatural” and it would help the ladies in sorting out various problems in their relationships.

Ghanaian actor Chris Attoh and his gorgeous Nigerian actress wife, Damilola Adegbite are celebrating their 2nd wedding anniversary today.
The couple got married on 14th February 2015 and have a son together. Chris shared this lovely note to her:
“Dearest Dami, Our anniversary is a celebration of the mistakes we made in the past, memories we are making today and all the happiness that is in store for us in the future. I don’t know where I would be, if you hadn’t supported me this far. if it weren’t for you, Our house would never have become a home, Our child would never have understood the meaning of family without you. I continue to experience true love because of you. Today, as we celebrate our anniversary, I just want to say thanks for everything baby. These past years, I pray I have been the kind of guy that an amazing woman like you truly deserves.
Today is the perfect moment to say Thank You for all the sacrifices you’ve made to keep the boat of our lives afloat. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to discover that a beautiful wife with a beautiful heart equals a beautiful life.
Happy anniversary sweetheart, and a happy Valentines Day. Nii.”

Ex-Super Eagles captain, Joseph Yobo and wife, Adaeze yesterday, Monday 13th welcomed welcomed a baby girl.
The couple already have two sons. He announced the good news on his Twitter page, he wrote:


This is just as hilarious as it’s adorable – the little girl apparently left her father a note, questioning her old man why he hasn’t paid for their TV subscription yet.
Lol… at such age, she sounds like a boss! Hehe

President Buhari and President Donald Trump at 3:45pm today had a phone conversation and details of their talk have been shared by PMB’s special adviser on Media & Publicity.
Read:
“President Muhammadu Buhari this afternoon from London spoke to President Donald Trump on telephone at the request of the American President.
The conversation was cordial and President Buhari congratulated Trump on his election as President of the United States, and on his cabinet.
The two leaders discussed ways to improve cooperation in the fight against terrorism through provision of necessary equipment.
President Trump encouraged President Buhari to keep up the good work he is doing, and also commended him for the efforts made in rescuing 24 of the Chibok Girls and the strides being taken by the Nigerian military.
President Trump assured the Nigerian President of US readiness to cut a new deal in helping Nigeria in terms of military weapons to combat terrorism.
President Trump also invited President Buhari to Washington at a mutually convenient date.FEMI ADESINA
Special Adviser to the President
(Media & Publicity)
February 13, 2017.”


Seriously… why would such a pretty lady do this to her face? So many thoughts comes to one’s mind when they see this picture… where does she work, or school? Are her folks alive? how does she wash her face?…
*sighs* SMH

Nigerian singer, Terry G, replied trolls who called him out for being in possession of a fake rolex which he showed off on his IG handle.
The trolls had sent a picture of the rolex watch he posted on his handle to luxury designer, Malivelihood, who said it is 110% fake.

The singer is less bothered whether the watch is real or fake, all that matters is that he bought it with his hard earned money.

Nigerian Twitter user, @TheZenMonster, has offered a 50k reward for any information leading to the arrest of his friend, who he alleged, stole the car he lent him at Yaba, Surulere area of Lagos.


Narrating how it went down, he said he has 2 cars, and allowed his friend to drive the said vehicle only to receive a funny text message from him minutes later.


See some people’s reaction on the issue:



The phone conversation between the U.S President, Donald Trump and medically unfit, President Buhari, has sparked controversy as a lot of people don’t seem to believe it actually happened.
Nigerians took to their social media account to air how they felt about reports of the phone call. Some reactions below:




A 35-year-old man, Sunday Ushie, on Monday confessed to killing his purported ‘girlfriend’, identified as Nnena Samuel, and went ahead to have sex with the corpse, Punch reports.
The incident happened on January 26, 2017 in Adijinkpor village in Ikom Local Government Area of Cross River State.
Ushie, a cocoa farmer in Akparabong, confessed to the crime, saying that she never gave him the opportunity to have sex with her while alive.
He said that he invited her to his house and killed her with knife before having sex with the corpse. The farmer, who said he was regretting his action, blamed the incident on the devil.
He said,
“It is the work of the devil. I do not know how. I am the one that killed her. I killed her with knife. She was my girlfriend and I knew her for just two months before this incident happened. I slept with her corpse after killing her.
It was strange sleeping with a dead corpse. I never had sex with her when she was alive because she never gave me that opportunity. I was always giving her money but she didn’t allow us to have sex.”
The suspect had invited the deceased mother-of-two out in the night of January 26 and took her to his apartment. He was said to have killed the woman when she refused to allow him have sex with her.

Tonto Dikeh in a reply to a concerned fan’s open letter has revealed that she and her husband, Churchill Olakunle are no longer together and he has not called to check up on her and their son since she left.
She also said she blocked his access to her for the sake of her emotional stability. Read what she wrote below:
“Dear ‘concerned’ fan, Good day.
How are you and your family? My regards, love and greetings to them.
Now to address a little bit of your letter, firstly I say I do appreciate your concern. Then I move on to say thank you. When a woman leaves her husband, she takes her child because absolutely nothing else matters to her but the child. This is what I did and I happily give all access for his father to see him. Now my question to you is that did your source also tell you that he has never called for once to Ask how his son is doing? I will admit, I personally blocked his access to me for the sake of my emotional stability. But nonetheless he has the nannys no, my assistants contact,my part time helps number, and many other mediums of reaching the son your source claims I “took away”. He could use all possible mediums wisely if he wished to.
Secondly I will let you go on the ill talk on smoking as I would love to believe you were just sent and ignored my drug test result or you never even saw it in the first place..
As an acclaimed “concerned fan” I expect you to pray and not to indirectly throw “concerned” shades..
What goes on in my marriage and home is my personal life, i’m grateful for all the years of support you all have been giving me but when it comes to the matters of the heart have enough respect to let us go thru our moments alone.. Like I said earlier your prayers for wisdom on both parties wld be more appreciated. No one knows what goes on behind close doors…I chose to make you believe and see what I wanted you all to see in order to protect even those that did not deserve protection. My dear friend that’s called marriage!!! God bless you immensely for even thinking about my family, God has never failed, God never sleeps nor slumbers, He is a just God. He never brings us this far to leave us, We will be ok.. Once again thank you so much my “concerned” friend and have a blessed day!!!”
Read The Letter Below:
I have been a long time passionate fan of you – Mrs Tonto Dikeh Churchill or do I remove the surname? Your movies from your early days of breaking into the nollywood industry arrested attention anytime, as the toast of most industry movie directors for scripts. As one of your fans, it bleeds my heart to hear of the unpleasant stories coming from your home especially as you used your fans influence based to react at any latest provocation as if you are lead actress in a home movie.
My dearest Tonto Dikeh, we your fans are instrumental to your fame. Your marriage breakup is the prayers of some of your colleagues and those your actions have offended directly or indirectly. I expected that any challenge in your home should be kept private and away from social media. I want to believe that God blessed you with a loving husband who seem to give all you want but though, there is saying that he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. Truly, your fans in Rivers state are proud of your height in the industry but we plead that you let sleeping dog lie.
The accusation and counter- accusations of smoking while breastfeeding, negative reactions of destroying properties and alleged infidelity from your husband – Olakunle Churchill can not be confirmed by the public. We draw our conclusion from the buzzes on social media. Beware of those you draw close as your friend especially in relation to your marriage except we will eventually write a movie script about your home, marriage and social media influence and sell to major directors like Chico Ejiro, Teco Benson, Tchidi Chikere etc with a caption ” Last Celebrity Marriage”
It’s sad to think that the supposed settled marriage crisis in your union still persist indirectly as feelers have it that you choose to subject your husband to emotional torture by taking the child – King Andrea away from him because of his affection for the little boy. My prayer is that you don’t take your beloved son to another controversial Maurijuana smoker’s home as attacked .My sister, which I choose to call you, please the drama upon drama in your home if true can be attributed to you going back to your old life of smoking. When you got married, we your fans were happy that you finally settled down inspite of our supposed believe of your reckless movie life but alas, it’s truly a reflection of your life in marriage even when we thought motherhood has changed you. Advising you to borrow a leaf from some notable scandal free celebrity actresses would not have been good considering your status, but am forced to tell you to screen into their marital life.
My beloved super actress, the tag ” controversial actress” which you got stuck with you since your early days of smoking in movies, close intimacy in acting and bad girl disposition do not make us believe is your true reflection but a conscious impressive interpretation of your roles. For the sake of your son – King Andrea and the love show from your husband as posted by you each time on social media, just put your home together- indeed, it’s your responsibility. We are happy the family crisis is been silient and we strongly believe there is peace at home now. Besides your peace at home, the gist of you breaking things in your mother -inlaw’s house and pushing her down in attempt to calm you down is not only disgusting but embarrassingly misleading if we truly have to believe that.
Well, I do not know much about your husband maybe because he is not a showbiz person but perhaps a philanthropist. But I think we might not judge him from social media stories. With time his true identity will be known, not only then we can write to him too…. value what you have which you made us believe he is your lovely Mr X, your irreplaceable Hero and your protective superman.
Mama King, he that has ear let him hear, for the voices of the fans are the voices of fame or destruction.
I rest my case
Joel Ikenna Mascot
University Of Port Harcourt
Rivers State.

A Nigerian lady with the name Omotola on Twitter shared a photo of her little son engrossed in 18+ rated TV reality show, Big Brother Naija.
Judging from her tweet, she seemed to be excited and proud of her son and in fact, the newly opened official Big Brother Naija Twitter handle with up to 60 thousand followers also re-tweeted the photo.

However, many Twitter users have expressed their mixed reactions over the photo. While some saw it as cool, others have condemned the fact that the woman allowed such a minor to watch the show with all its explicit nature.
What do you think? See some reactions below:





Media personality, Funmi Iyanda has shared her thoughts on Beyonce’s viral family photo on social media.
See what she wrote:

“There is no deity like the mother. Orishas are not long suffering doormats or self flattening emotional martyrs. They are deities. Full of power, subservient to no one, knowing that only in her own fullness can she bestow gifts of life, love, energy and power to others. Only the most deserving man gets to be with her as long as he recognises his role is to embellish her.
In doing this he finds fuel to be a man of true strength and beauty. She doesn’t need completeness, she’s whole. In ancient Yoruba land, the woman’s worth is closely tied to motherhood but this is however not some simplistic, self congratulatory child birthing which lesser animal are capable of without fan fare. It is the ability to give life, nurture, energy and love to others. An ability which is only acquired upon coming into one’s full self and thus not exclusive of women who do not have or desire biological children. It requires that the woman is able to pursue enterprise, knowledge and progress as well as ownership of resources in accordance to her gifts, desires and inclination. Full power is not to be confused with possession of money or indeed wealth, although those will come. Any woman of full power is a giver of emotional, spiritual, medicinal, biological life and is thus a mother and therefore an orisha. She is self replenishing with the support she is able to inspire from the constellation of humanity she stays connected to. She is not an isolated self sacrificed cloying emotional mouse trap for her children, biological or otherwise. Her world is large. It is a nuanced, complex and beautiful understanding of womanhood and motherhood, more civilised, kinder and truer to a progressive human condition.it is one l too wish l had understood or been taught earlier in life. #orisha #yoruba #grammys2017 #beyoncé#motherhood #yorubamythology #nigeria”

Senegalese national and Liverpool player, Sadio Mane’s family house was attacked after he missed a penalty that got his country off the African Cup of Nations.
Sadio’s home in Malika near the capital city of Dakar, was attacked after he missed a crucial penalty as Senegal crashed out in the quarter-final of the competition against Cameroon.
His Uncle’s £25,000 car was vandalised during the attack.
Mirror reports that a source said; “They turned their fury on his car and completely trashed it.

“Mane’s uncle and his family have reported these persons to the police.
“We just hope they will get the punishment they deserve.”
However this did not affect the player, as he put up an excellent performance against Tottenham on Saturday.

Following the report of the West African idol 2nd runner up, Eric Arubayi’s death after a brief illness, his brother, Derrick Arubayi, has revealed the cause of his death.
Derrick who spoke to a vanguard reporter, disclosed that the late singer took expired malaria drugs which led to his death.
He is quoted as saying:
“He had malaria and typhoid, which was untreated. It later became worse after he took a medication that had expired and this triggered his liver ailment and afterwards, every other thing just followed at a fast pace before his death.
“The only thing that we had to say is that he lived for Christ. We just want the world to know that the name Eric Odafe Arubayi was for a reason beyond the West Africa Idol show. For that reason, God would make manifest even beyond his glorious ascension.”

There was drama at a cemetery in Ghana, when a mortuary attendant with the Tema General Hospital stormed the graveyard to seize a dead body over an unsettled balance of GH¢40 (nearly N3,000).
According to reports online, it was gathered that the relations were supposed to pay him for services he rendered.

According to eyewitnesses, the mortuary worker in the company of a colleague, stormed the cemetery while the body was being interred, seized the coffin, opened it, picked out the dressed corpse and started heading back to the mortuary.

The conduct of the mortuary men shocked mourners who had gathered at the graveside to pay their last respect to the deceased – Meanwhile, family elders in the company of some friends managed to save the situation which paved the way for the deceased to be buried.

– culled from National Helm

Some Policemen from the Azikoro Police Station, Yenagoa, Bayelsa State, detained a female meat hawker and forced her to pay N8000 after meat sellers in the area reported her to the them.
Nengi James shared the story on Facebook, read:
“Police Corruption : Police officers in Azikoro Police Station in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State detained a female meat hawker and collected Eight thousand Naira illegally from her. According to the lady, Mrs Joy Isaac, that some meat sellers in the area gang up and reported her to Police at the Azikoro Division for an offence yet to be mentioned and at the end they collected the afore said amount and released her. Meanwhile her daily meat sales worth thousands of Naira is being declared unsellable, uneatable, spoiled, and indeed a waste. Bayelsa State Commissioner of Police, please take Action now to save the image of the Police. The incident happened today, the 12th of February, 2017.”

The Big Brother Naija host, has apologized for showing up for the reality show’s eviction night with a noticeable bulge around his groin which set Twitter ablaze!
Twitter Nigeria had taken notice of this even while the show was still on, the host became a trending topic because viewers couldn’t pay attention to anything else.

Ebuka said he and his “lil man” were sorry so they tweeted this apology and these reactions from Nigerians are just hilarious. Below:








Below is the list of the winners at the 2017 Grammy Awards, which was held on Sunday, 12th of February, 2017.

General overseer of the Lord’s Chosen Charismatic Revival Ministries, Pastor Lazarus Muoka on Sunday reiterated his warning to women who are fund of adorning male wears such as trousers. He maintained that such women would go to hell.
He also warned women to desist from adorning their bodies with artificial makeups, as such unholy practices were sins against God.
He gave the warning while addressing a large crowd of worshipers at the just concluded international crusade titled; ‘From Sorrow to Joy” at the Chosen Revival Ground, ljesha, Lagos.
He said:
“I want to tell you, you don’t need extra eye, makeup or bangle or attachment at all. You don’t need to dress and show your nakedness, your ass, your chest, your armpit, your tummy, your waist, your lap….that is sin. Cover your body properly.
And if you are a young man and you are doing jerry coil and you make your hair like a woman, use some funny language…and when they ask you where are you from and you say Naija instead of Nigeria, something is wrong with you. The Bible tells us that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
If you are a woman wearing trousers that’s a sin. If you are a man wearing skirt and blouse, that’s an abomination. Search your life, repent of your sin and God will show you mercy. God loves you. It is not the will of God that any soul should perish.”

Some women cannot just let somebody shine in peace… Hian! Nawa oh!
So while this Twitter user was engaging in the hash tag #PostYourQueen, he proudly shared a photo of his bae and claimed she’s the only one he’s ever had sex with – another lady out of the blues just had to come remind him of when he slept with her in 2015.
The thread below:



If you watched the show few moments ago, you’d know for sure that the show’s host, Ebuka’s eggplants couldn’t go unnoticed while he was hosting – this of course, has caused the “Rubbin Minds” anchor to become a trending topic on Twitter this evening.

Some are quite happy with how “Blessed” he is, while some are just embarrassed for him. See below:






A man was trapped in the gutter with his motorcycle, after a horrible truck accident which claimed one of his legs – according to eyewitnesses, the terrible incident which happened in Sokoto road along Kano round-about, Zaria, Kaduna state, made residents of the area to mobilize themselves to save Bukhari Ahmed, who was badly injured.


