Billionaire Businessman, Obi Iyiegbu, whose popularity in the mainstream media has soared since he held a lavish funeral for his mother, has replied those saying he is into money rituals.
According to the Businessman, what people see today are results of consistent hardwork.
In his interview with BBC Pidgin, he said ;
Miracle no dey give money because that pastor needs the money more. Native doctor no fit give money because his children are the ones who fetch water from the stream. How can he give you what he doesn’t have? Work hard. Work hard.
As for those asking him to “cut soap” for them, he told them to work hard and be consistent.
“Cut soap” is slang used to ask a successful person to give you a bit of what they are using that makes them successful. It originates from the claims that some young fraudsters visit ritualists who give them soap to bathe with for optimal success.”
“If you are in your 20s, work now. I am 46 years. I have done my first half. I don’t know why someone who is just 20 years will say he has not made it when he still has 50 years 60 years ahead.”
“There is no soap to cut for anybody, there is no soap anywhere, work, pray, be good, make your own soap.”
Nollywood Actress, Praiz Sam has written an open letter to Nollywood filmmakers, asking that they stop portraying Igbo men as ritualists.
She asked filmmakers who fall under this category to “glorify the hardworking part of Igbo men” as it is beginning to look like a norm to portray Igbo men as ritualists.
The actress wrote;
A Letter to MY NOLLYWOOD!!
Dear Nollywood, How are you? Hope you’re doing great? A quick one!!
Please ,can we glorify the hardworking part of IGBO MEN, in our movies?? Instead of “RITUALS” alllllllll the time!! I mean, people are beginning to see it as a norm and if you really want to look into it yeah, IGBO MEN IN NIGERIA ARE THE MOST HARDWORKING MEN!!! Yes I said what I said!! With my FULL CHEST!! “Even the ladies”
Let me take you back to the comments about (the #Oba celebration of life ) The comment section was filled with a lot of Negativity!! Wow ! So an Igbo man can’t make clean money again?? I don’t understand it… I have stayed in the midst of them ( they talk about business , 80percent of all the times, always very calculative)… I mean, we (Nollywood) are MINISTERS TOO!! we preach through our movies and subconsciously get into the minds of people !!! So ,I beckon on our writers to please showcase more of “REAL , CLEAN, GROWTH STORIES “ not just for the IGBO MEN! But especially for them, because we kinda gave them this Look, through our movies!!
Ps: I’m not dating any Igbo man oh! Just saying the Bitter truth “THEY WORK VERY HARD, and that part of them DESERVES CLARITY “
Photos and videos from video vixen, Bolanle and her ex-husband, Lincon’s lavish wedding party has resurfaced following their messy split.
The now estranged couple got married in February 20221 and in less than 6 months after they were joined in a lavish celebration the duo who have a 2-month old son together have parted ways.
Popular Nigerian singer, Zlatan who Bolanle featured in the visuals of his hit song, ‘Peperdem’ graced the event and also performed at the glamourous wedding party.
Meanwhile, during an Instagram live session after Lincon allegedly sent his wife, Bolanle packing he stated that he regretted spending so much money on his wedding with the video vixen.
“I married Bolanle For Clout, if I Spent The Millions I wasted on our wedding on Instagram Promo, I would have been very popular by now.” He said.
On December 10, 2005, Kechi Okwuchi, a 16-year-old high school senior was aboard Sosoliso Airlines Flight 1145 that crashed, killing 107 people on board. She was one of only two survivors. All of her classmates died, leaving her the lone student survivor.
She survived and she hasn’t stopped telling the story of how her life changed forever.
She emerged a finalist at the twelfth season of America’s Got Talent in 2017 and her popularity has soared through the roof ever since.
However, she still has the scars from the crash, and she wears it proudly.
Kechi recently took to her social media page to share photos of how she was ‘one year after the crash’ and ‘what she looks like right now’.
Sharing the before and after photos, she wrote ;
(Wonder if I should tag this as sensitive content…?) I stumbled upon the picture on the left on my laptop a couple months ago, and i have been contemplating this post since then. I remember I stared at it for a long time that day. Time makes me forget just how extensive my burn injuries were, and how devastating the effects were to my body. I realize this may shock some of you too. The pic on the left was taken a good year after the plane crash and by then, intense scar tissue had formed, esp on my face. I took the pic on the right a few mins ago and made these before/afters, and I marvel at how far God has brought me. I am the result of the hard work of multiple surgeons He brought into my life, nurses, physiotherapists, and love and care from my family, my mom especially. This is what progress looks like, guys. 2 pictures, 14 years apart. I’m grateful that I lived long enough to see it. I decided to make this post so that you guys can marvel at God with me. I want someone who reads this to see that true progress, genuine growth, and lasting change cannot happen overnight. Most of the time during the journey, maybe like me, you won’t notice changes because day by day they’re too minuscule to make a difference. But if you give yourself a fighting chance, if you find the right kind of support on your journey, one day, definitely one day which right now may seem so far away, you will look back like I did this morning and hopefully…you will smile I heard this in a song and it stuck with me: The night will definitely come. But so will the morning I never post things like this arbitrarily. As always, please be encouraged.
Plane crash survivor and singer, Kechi, shares her Before/After photos as she marvels over how far God has brought her since the incident.
A Nigerian man has taken to his social media page to praise his Wife who sacrificed her sleep as she waited late for him to get back from work on his first day.
The man who works as a driver for a popular ride-hailing app, said on his first day, he got home around 1AM and she was fully awake waiting for him, despite the fact that he’d called her hours ago to go to bed and not wait for him
HE shared photos with her and wrote ;
Started Bolt last week and I got home late on the first day, my wife was fully awake even after I called her around 10pm to go sleep and not wait for me…
I was so touched to meet her awake by 1am, I wanted to cry… Told her not to try it again, she did it again next day. Lol’
A young Nigerian man identified as Jagbefume Oriagioge, has reportedly committed suicide after he was accused of defiling a minor in Agbor, Delta state.
It was gathered that the deceased, a 45-year-old alleged dedicated usher at a branch of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Agbor, also known as Freedom Hall parish hanged himself in his room at Iregwa Street, Agbor on Saturday, July 17th.
According to reports, Oriagioge, popularly called Pastor might have taken his own life after being accused of defiling one of his neighbours’ minor daughters.
Nigerian Tribune quoted a neighbor of the deceased who spoke on condition of anonymity saying,
“The deceased was suspected to have ended his life as he could no longer bear the shame of allegedly having carnal knowledge of his neighbour’s female child (minor) and which was discussed at the community palace. The deceased was somebody who was not free with people to really tell who he was. We called him ‘pastor’ because we felt he was one.
“But the news of him sleeping with the female child of his neighbour is what we do not understand and now he has ended his life perhaps out of shame.”
Spokesperson of the State Police Command, DSP Bright Edafe, who confirmed the incident said the remains of the deceased have been deposited at the mortuary of Central Hospital, Agbor for autopsy.
A toddler got rescued after floating nearly a mile out to sea on a rubber ring off the coast of Tunisia.
According to reports, the toddler’s parents had reportedly become “momentarily distracted” and by the time they noticed what was going on, their 1-year-old daughter had been blown out to sea by strong winds.
Officers were quickly called to save the baby, who was unharmed but in tears. Video footage shows the moment the tearful one-year-old was rescued and reunited with her parents.
According to local reports, the incident happened just after 5pm on Saturday, July 17, off a beach in Kelibia, on the country’s north east coast.
A Facebook user who shared the video, wrote, “Bravo and watch your children while swimming.
Local authorities also urged parents to be vigilant and not to take risks during expected weather changes in the area, Shems FM reported.
President Muhammadu Buhari has stated that the unity of Nigeria will be better for the country, notwithstanding the differences among her nationalities.
He made this known in Daura, Katsina State when corps members deployed to the town paid him a Sallah visit on Tuesday, July 20.
In his words ;
“Not only the cultural differences but also physical differences and this is what makes Nigeria. That is why I feel strongly about NYSC and I will always wish you the best of luck. And I thank you for your service to the country.
“It’s better Nigeria remains united”
“I assure you that, there is much better of a Nigeria and rather than a fallout.”
Actor Victor Osuagwu says he has been seeing his mum in his dream demanding for a reburial following the news-dominating burial ceremony, Obi Cubana organized for his late mum.
In his words,
Which kind trouble be this, ever since Obi Cubana buried his mother, I have been seeing my mother in my dreams, the minute I close my eyes, my mother will appear saying I should do a “re-burial” for her, where would I see the money for that ?”
The estranged husband of Nigerian video vixen, Bolanle has continued to spill shocking revelations about their marriage which lasted only six months.
Bolanle’s ex-husband, Lincon during an Instagram live session claimed he married her for clout and has another wife who he describes as a good wife in South Africa.
“You’re a second wife and we both agreed… why are you stressing my life, I get family for South Africa… I married you for clout”. He said.
Bolanle who’s a video vixen that appeared in the music video of popular Nigerian singer, Zlatan’s “Pepper dem”, got sent out of her 6 months marriage by her husband, identified as Lincon who accused her of being violent — Lincon took to his Instagram page to make a video accusing her of of being a violent person and as such should return to her parent’s house.
Lincon went on to claim that in course of their 6 months marriage, Bolanle hasn’t been appreciative of the things he’s done for her. The husband also referred to her parents, stating that her mother’s violent nature made her father run away from her.
A young Nigerian man identified as Ohida Ismail and his mother reportedly died following a fatal road accident in Okene, Kogi state.
It was gathered that the young man, a chattered accountant from Kogi state and his mum were coming from the hospital where he had taken his mother for routine medical checkup, when they got involved in the accident which immediately took their life.
The unfortunate incident reportedly happened in Okene on Monday, July 19th. According to a close friend of the deceased, Yushau Shuaib, the mother died immediately while Ismail passed away while arrangement was being made to take him to a better hospital.
A nephew to late Ismail, Baba Isyak also confirmed the incident in a post shared on Facebook today, Tuesday, July 20th.
“At this time yesterday Ohida Ismail was alive when he took his mother for a routine medical check-up. Unfortunately, while returning home after the check-up to prepare for Sallah festivity, the obedient child and beloved mother had an accident on the road,”
“Shuaib Bin Mohammed, his cousin, who always joins my family for Sallah, especially in preparing the Ram Meat, called to inform me that he had gone to attend to the accident victims in Okene.
By the time he got there the mother was died. While arrangement was being made to transport the son who was unconscious elsewhere for a better medical treatment, the son too died.
May Almighty Allah forgive their short-comings and grant them Aljannatul Firdaus. To @shuaibu bin Mohammed, family and friends, please accept our condolences even as we will surely miss you on today’s Sallah festivity, our prayers is for all of us because we have final destination in life. Shuaib wrote.
The family of a new bride have been thrown into mourning after her painful exit just four days after her wedding in Benue state.
The 31-year-old woman, identified as Ate Joy Veronica, and her husband, Irabor Samuel, reportedly had their traditional and court weddings on June 25 and 26 respectively.
Sadly, their joy was shortlived as Veronica fell ill on June 28 and passed away the following day, June 29.
The Marketing graduate has been laid to rest in her hometown, Mbarikyor Wadoor in Gwer Local Government Area of Benue state, on July 10.
Friends and family has taken to Facebook to mourn her demise.
Popular singer, Runtown and his South Sudanese model girlfriend, Adut Akech, have reportedly broken up.
The celebrity couple were an internet sensation as they used to share loved-up videos and photos on their respective Instagram pages. However, it appears their love has waxed cold.
Adut Akeck, who is one of the most successful African models in the world, dropped a hint about their relationship during a Question and Answer session she held on her Instagram page recently.
A curious fan had asked if she is single and Aduk revealed that she is “single and ready to mingle”.
“Yes ma’am single and ready to mingle or whatever they say. Jokes but yes I’m single”, she responded.
This comes just months after she flaunted her diamond engagement ring.
Meanwhile, it was gathered that Runtown deleted all her pictures from his Instagram page and blocked her four months ago. So Adut’s revelation confirms that their relationship has been over for months.
Big Brother Naija star and entrepreneur, Ifu Ennada has once again taken to social media to release sultry new photos of herself.
This time, the reality TV star left little to the imagination as she strips to just her underwear and a matching high-heeled shoe.
Sharing the photos, the skincare specialist wrote, “I Am Born Again And The Spirit of God Lives In Me.”
However, the caption didn’t sit well with many of her followers as they warned her to leave God out of her shenanigans.
In reaction to this, Ifu shared more photos and apologized to those offended by her caption.
She wrote,
“Guys I’m Sorry if The Caption of My Last Post Offended You, I’m a Child of God, but I guess the Caption wasn’t appropriate…
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Now can you please stop insulting me? I don’t have strength for clapbacks and I’m running temperature.”
Nollywood actress and philanthropist, Tonto Dikeh has shared more photos from her son, King Andre’s graduation ceremony which took place over the weekend.
It was earlier reported that Tonto’s new man, Prince Kpokogri, accompanied her to the ceremony and the actress couldn’t hide her excitement as she took to social media to share her joy.
According to her, attending school events without a man by her side had become a norm for her but now heaven has rewritten her sorry by bringing Prince Kpokogri into her life.
Sharing the photos, she wrote,
@DOING THIS FOR YEARS WITHOUT A MAN IN MY LIFE WAS BECOMING MY NORM AND THAT OF MY SONS’
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@kpokpogri YOU CAN’T DESCRIBE THE EMOTIONS THAT RUN THROUGH MY MIND AS YOU WALKED WITH ME TO CHANGE THIS NARRATIVE THAT WAS BECOMING MY NORM….
GOD HONOR YOU “OKO MI’
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INDEED HEAVEN REWROTE MY STORY AND MADE IT EVEN BETTER,
GOD HAS ANSWERED MY PRAYERS..
ITS A BIG CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR BABY @kingandre_dikeh
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INDEED GOD HAS DONE IT MY BOY….
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It’s raining CONGRATULATION Graduation in Gods Ordained (OUR) Family, One graduation down 2more to go..
Another alleged Winners Chapel pastor, identified as InChristed Michael, has also come out to claim that he was sacked by the church for generating low income in his branch.
The pastor, who was formerly Abubakar Zubair Michael before he became a pastor, claims he was a pastor of a Living Faith church branch in Lagos.
According to him, they were sacked because their monthly income was below expectation. He added that the Pastor who gave them the sack letter said the church was running at a loss because they finance their housing and other needs, whereas the income they are remitting is not “good enough”.
Speaking about the first pastor’s claims, InChristed revealed that apart from the over 40 pastors that were fired in Ekiti stae, 37 were fired in Lagos and 92 were fired in Benue State.
A Twitter user with handle, @soph_minnie has taken to the platform to share how a secondary school classmate of hers staged an arrest on their fellow classmate during a reunion party.
Reacting to a tweet of someone sharing about their own reunion and how it went well, @soph_minnie recounted that their group chat was always in disarray as it was a platform for intense argument and when they eventually decided to conduct a reunion party, someone brought a policemen to arrest a fellow following an intense argument in the group chat.
She wrote:
“Sigh, my own secondary school reunion, all we did was argue a lot in the group chat. Then on the reunion day, somebody brought police to pick up somebody that fought with him in the group chat.”
A Ghanaian police officer, got handsomely rewarded for returning GHc 2,000 the equivalent of N138,120 which he found lying at an ATM stand by mistake.
The gentleman, identified as Constable Prince Fordjour, received a total cash price of GHc 11,000 (N759,662) and other souvenirs at a ceremony at the Police Headquarters on July 16, 2021.
The Ghana Police Force narrated the impeccable gesture on their official Facebook handle, and explained that the officer was being rewarded not only for the amount involved but for his integrity.
Fordjour got a total investment fund of GHc 4,000 (N276,240); a gift voucher of GHc 1,000 (N69,060), a current account credited with GHc 1,000 (N69,060) and corporate souvenirs of the Stanbic Bank.
Inspector-General of Police, Mr James Oppong-Boanuh who was also pleased with Constable Fordjour’s action also presented him with a cash amount of GHc 5,000 (N345,300).
The monies put together totaled GHc 11,000 (N759, 662). Ghana police wrote on its Facebook page;
”Stanbic Bank Appreciates Police Officer for Honesty
Constable Prince Fordjour of the Police National SWAT has been presented with a special investment fund of four thousand Ghana cedis; gift voucher of one thousand Ghana cedis, current account credited with one thousand Ghana cedis and corporate souvenirs of the Stanbic Bank, for displaying honesty and integrity.
At a ceremony at the Police Headquarters today 16th July, 2021, the Stanbic Bank’s Branding and Marketing Manager Mr. Mawuko Afadzinu said Constable Fordjour on 5th July 2021 found cash of Two Thousand Ghana Cedis (2000.00 ghc) discharged by the bank’s ATM at Abeka Total with nobody in sight.
However, the constable reported the incident to his Police Commander, Chief Superintendent Theodore Hlormenu who in turn returned the money to the bank.
” It is not about the amount involved but the gesture of the constable which personifies what the police represents in the community, which is the same as our motto ‘Service with Integrity’, ” he said.
The Inspector-General of Police, Mr James Oppong-Boanuh who was pleased with Constable Fordjour’s action also presented him with cash amount of five thousand Ghana cedis (Ghc 5,000) and thanked the bank for not keeping the news to themselves. The IGP used the occasion to encourage Police Officers to stand up for the right thing at all times even when no one is watching.
A suspected thief got nabbed at the birthday party of Ubi Franklin and Lilian Esoro’s son and the record label executive took to his IG page to expose the face of the culprit.
Ubi posted a video showing when the culprit was being interrogated – it’s alleged that the culprit is a serial thief who has been caught stealing at two different occasions previously but was pardoned.
In the video, Ubi can be heard shouting at the suspected thief after being caught again at his son, Jayden’s 5th birthday over the weekend.
“See this idiot. You wan come spoil my pikin birthday. You dey mad,” Ubi said.
Another man is heard in the video saying that that alleged thief was caught at an event a day prior after he stole a phone, but was spared.
Someone else as well, claimed the man was caught stealing in Harvesters Church.
Sharing the video, Ubi wrote as caption,
That’s the Thief.
Look out for him wherever You see him.
He stole at an event the previous day and he came to try same thing at my son’s party.
Thank God we were vigilant.
Nigerian media personality and self acclaimed “Baby girl”, Toke Makinwa has rejected anything that will not make her need a man that will give her money.
The controversial author shared a video of herself indulging in a karaoke session and then the song, she was singing goes, “Don’t need a man that’ll give you money.”
“Off that song,” the media personality said immediate it got to that part of the song.
She added, “What does this statement mean? I reject it in Jesus’ name.”
She recently spoke about her desire to get married again. The lifestyle vlogger during a question and answer session with her fans revealed she would love to marry again and give her children the family she never had.
“Do you ever think of having a child without marriage? or are you kin on marriage?” A fan asked her.
In response Toke stated that she wants to get married again and give her children a family she never had, since she lost her parents when she was only eight.
In her words,
“I definitely want to get married again, losing both my parents at 8 hurt so much. I’ll like my kids to have what T never had. Hopefully the universe sends me a good man/dad.”
Nigerian singer, Lyta’s UK-based baby mama, Kemi Ayorinde is not close to done dragging him to filth on the internet as she consistently lambastes him on her social media page.
A while ago, Kemi took to her IG page to drag him again following a conversation they had over the phone where he allegedly reached out to her to ‘forgive and forget’.
Challenging his audacity to make such a demand when he’s yet to apologize for his actions, Kemi stated that she will hold to the grudge she has against him till she dies.
In her words,
“This boy called and said forgive and forget??? Just like thatttttt? No apology, no nothing. It’s the audacity for asking me “why are you still hurt for me” like woow!!!
With everythiiingggggggggg?
Said already I’m holding onto this grudge till I die, you can go to hell bruuhh.”
Her stance to never forgive the singer elicited a number of reactions from netizens, which appears to have been a trigger for her, as she later went on and on about why she’ll never forgive the singer.
According to her, she’s battling numerous internal diseases because of him… She wrote on her Instastories still,
Aari doesn’t belong to you, doesn’t bare your surname, has nothing in common with you so don’t ever try to claim MY CHILD as yours
Do you want me to tell the world Aari is not your only child? Oops….
Go take care of your other child and worry less about me and MY CHILD. The next time you try to reach me for anything stupid again, I will spill EVERYTHING about you so DON’T and DON’T ever post my child AGAIN ever in your life. I fucking despise you.
Thank God I’m not based in Nigeria, would have taken my own life even before all these social media bullshit, having to take care of my child alone etc…
Just go take care of that poor girl and her child cause she’s the one suffering the real suffer here, stop worrying about me.
You cost me my life!!!!!! @official_lyta becuase of you I’m fighting multiple internal illnesses
A Nigerian lady, Bolanle who’s a video vixen that appeared in the music video of popular Nigerian singer, Zlatan’s “Pepper dem”, appears to be having marital woes as she’s been supposedly sent packing by her spouse.
Bolanle got sent out of her 6 months marriage by her husband, identified as Lincon who accused her of being violent — Lincon took to his Instagram page to make a video accusing her of of being a violent person and as such should return to her parent’s house.
Lincon went on to claim that in course of their 6 months marriage, Bolanle hasn’t been appreciative of the things he’s done for her. The husband also referred to her parents, stating that her mother’s violent nature made her father run away from her.
Watch the video he shared, alongside statements he made about her on his Insta stories,
A Nigerian couple, Mr and Mrs Daniel Chukwu are showing gratitude to God for the lives of their children, Princess and James, who gracefully survived a fire explosion, that claimed the lives of a bride-to-be and eight other children.
The fire incident occurred around 8:a.m on Friday, January 1, 2021, at Akaeze in Ivo Local Government Area of Ebonyi State. The fire was allegedly caused when a canon loaded with gun powder, left in the house had contact with fire.
One of the victims who was three years old died on the spot during the rescue operation and a report by Vanguard revealed that a lady whose wedding was coming up in few days also died in the explosion.
The Thanksgiving Service for the children that survived was held at the Assemlies of God Gishiri, Abuja on Sunday, July 18.
Mr. Chukwu shared with the congregation that he never expected what God did for him, neither did he know how best to appreciate God for the miracle of the survival of his children.
“Undoubtedly, this thanksgiving and praise to God will last as long as myself, my wife and my children live on Planet Earth. Expectedly, our children were left with lifetime evidence of the experience on their bodies, but neither me, their mother nor our close family members were bothered. We are just grateful to God for the gift of life,” he said.
“The survival of James, nine, and Princess, 12, from the fire explosion was a marvel to medical doctors and other health workers that attended to the case at different hospitals in Ebonyi and Enugu states, where the children spent months under the close monitoring of the health workers”
He further narrated;
“On the 1st of January 2021, at about 10:00am in my compound, at Akaeze in Ivo L.G.A of Ebonyi State, a group of people came in the name of New Year Celebration and started blowing gun powder (locally fabricated material that can destroy things and human being in particular).
“Surprisingly, the carton of the gun powder was packed in the parlour close to the area it was blown. Don’t know if i should call it carelessness, the sparked element traced down to the parlour where about ten (10) children (both mine and neighbours) were watching the television and set them all on fire. Before immediate help could come to them, they were all turned to black because of the magnitude of the injury sustained.
“They were all rushed to Abakaliki Hospital for medical attention. They spent six months in the hospital. Out of 10 children from different womb 8 died, the two that survived are my only children.
The degree of the burn was over 40% to most of them, and they started dying one after the other except my two (2) children (James and Princess). It was a heavy tragedy of the century, which no one can easily forget in a hurry.
At Abakaliki hospital, one of the doctors approached me privately telling me to make sure I don’t keep my children for long in the Hospital because the Holy Spirit ministered to Him to inform me to take them away else they will die under 48 hours.
To cut the long story short, within 2hours we were already at Orthopaedic Hospital, Enugu where the doctors and nurses rallied round on my children’s body to see how they can revive the situation.
I am here to testify to the Glory of God that my children are now medically satisfied and okay, they are back to Abuja to continue their education.
I thank all the people that contributed through Prayers, financial assistance and moral support. All Glory to our Father in Heaven, He alone can do what no man can do. He is awesome and Wonderful. To Him be all the Praise now and forever more in Jesus name Amen.
Ghana-based Gambian actress, Princess Shyngle took to her Instagram page recently to put her curves on display in a carousel of sultry photos she shared.
She wrote as caption, “Single but I’m wifey.”
Here’s more photos below,
The actress recently opined that she will never allow her man get a female bestie unless she is sure that he is 100 percent Gay.
Using herself as an example, Shyngle revealed that the first man she ever got married to was someone who was her bestie for ten years and all through that period, they had sex with each other despite the fact that he had a girl and she had a man.
There is no such thing as a man and a woman being besties
It does not exit especially in Africa it’s either they’re sleeping together or one is crushing on the other eg.
Unless the guy is 100% gay .
Do y’all agree with me on this one .. As for me there is no way in hell I will let my man have a female bestie , cuz I remember when I was forming bestie with someone for 10 years and his girl believed it she would actually let us hangout and chill and my man at the time also believed it and 10 years later we got married I can imagine what is going through their mind now … all my life I’ve tried having a male bestie but all want to smash at some point……… long story short never encourage or entertain your partner being bestie and sharing bed , taking trips with the opposite sex because they’re definitely fc.king oh unless he’s gay
