I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband’s Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It?
Anytime i have disagreement with my husband, he would always tell me that “I WL GO OUTSIDE, PLENTY BABES DEY OUTSIDE DAT NEED MEN AND I WONT EVEN SPEND MUCH B4 THEY OPEN THEIR LEGS”. I always feel hurt by this statement because I believe that we should BOTH be committed to make our home work. If i wont go out there to look for men why should he?
My marriage is just 2yyears but i have never enjoyed 1month happiness. My hubby would prefer to stay late @work because he doesn’t want our baby to disturb him with cry cry. I’m a sit @home mum, I resigned my marketing job because I want to have time for my baby but now my husband would not give me money anytime we have misunderstanding, not even for my baby too.
I have called his parents’ attention to this but his people call me “ABOKOKU”. That because he is married to me doesnt mean he should not enjoy himself, afterall, there are times someone is tired of eating rice and you would want to taste beans and other varieties. His father (57yrs) still has concubines which his mum can’t do anything about. But the truth is that this thing is wearing me out emotionally.
I AM MARRIED BT LONELY
No ask him but in a polite manner
Yes
He’s caring because he’s carrying them for prevention of transmitted diseases.. his a good husband.. carrying for emergency Hahaha
let me laugh little #hahhhhhhhhh
Zainab S Abdulaziz hahaha hahaha hahaha emergency action abi
Lolzzz
Hmmmmm! I wonder if u guys no what ur saying, are u guys supporting men dat are cheating or what
Hmmm gud husband indeed! Really scared of getting married bcos of all dose comments.#oluwaisinvolved
If u can’t over look, then under look it. Hmmm, u are lucky he uses condom, what if he goes necked? Abeg allow my man ministry to move forward, but we men self can be unbelievable a times, u have a wife at home and u can’t keep ya dick at home. Rubbish!
Lol
Funny
Just see what ur saying, so d man deserve an award right for finding condom with him… Shame on u for ur respond
dats not a fair saying. make ur man ministry move forward. which kind ministry b dat
Guy we guys ar different. I love the part u talked about we guys.
My dear they will notoooo may God help we women
No you suppose to downlook it
Use it to cook dinner for him
Daniel u funny o lol
Hahahah… As she dey confused naw mke we hlp her wit ideas. Lol….
My dear forget dat mata
Put him in prayer cos one day God will touch him and he will stop it and confess and also beg u or forgiveness don’t go and complicate issues dt u will regret 2morow
Prayer warrior
Overlook it to save marriage, and make urself submitive to him.
So u guys want women to die in silence or with one disease or d other all in d name of marriage and who say dat most of those men cheating on their wives aren’t being taken care off very well by their wife’s
My dear you don’t have to mark your husband like that do not put your your eyes in most of the things that he does over look some so that you will live long because if you start marking him too much you will die before your time and he will still leave
Stop paying his bills, go marry another man .
My dear pls over look it and move forward unless u want him blind ur eyes
Hahahaahahahahahaha blessing o,
Hahahahaha y are u laughing bros
Why do you think he’ll blind his eyes?
Becos she might talk to him angrily and end up with blinded eyes
Blessing Lilian no kill me with laughter oooooo
Buuuuuuhhhaaaaaahhaaa
Hahahahahaha
Na lie i talk?@Joshua
God will touch him one day
My dear just be prayerful.
No, try and ask him.
U shud be hapi uses dat at least u r on a safer side men r alwz men no matter hw gud thier wife looks dey wil stil update out dere jus 4get it
ask him nw,is he nt ur husband?if ur husband sees smtin lyk dat or if a man snt u a txt wont he ask u to explain urself,thrs notin bad in askin,beta to ask instead of dyin in silence,even if ur husband is gonna lie abt it still ask In a Polite manner,n wl also advise u improve ur action on d bed ok
Thanks for dat view. I wonder what is wrong with those people advising otherwise including female too as if they can do dsame thing they are telling her to do. Men can really be disrespectful
hmmm tks Uchendu Lizzy Chinasa,,it is well wt us all ijn
More knowledge in Jesus name. U are amazing
Tks Chukwu Mary,Uwc
Tks Durotimi I say Amen to ur Prayer n also wish u d Same
Pump action right, funny.
smiles
put pepper on it n give him to wear
No oversee am
is it the full pack or just a single sachet; if its d full pack count how many is inside to know if he has used any,if some is missing that’s when u shud be worried but if its still complete,it means he’s about to embark on a journey;my dear start fasting and prayer!
Na so
Story! what if he bought two packs and it’s just one remaining?lol
anyhow e be,she still need d fasting and prayer! dry one at that cos danger lurks around
What fasting and prayer again nah, can’t d man fast and pray him way out… Must she be d one doing dat when d man is doing it with his clear eyes and mind or maybe ur trying to say he is being used by devil
Hahahahaha
Uchendu Lizzy Chinasa… Its just wisdom
Buy more and put on his pocket
My darling over look it and go into prayers, if u ask him any it, I will defend him self and there is nothing u will do abt it,and he will still continue were he stop his games okkkk try and me happy and pretend u didn’t c or saw anything. Love u
Na wa oh! Nigerians and prayers if where prayer is not required.
All she need to do is to be tactical and tactful about it, speak to him in a calm and respectful way.
Wot has prayer got to do wit dat
Social media’s Pastors
Pls don’t mk me laff,its dis same pray,overlook dat hs made men terrible now,ask women who ve prayed over cheating husbands for years if dey ve seen any changes?we africans we deceive ourselves alot
I wonder oooh, it surprisingly me dat is lady dat is talking in dis manner. Are u encouraging d men to do more or what?
Mtcheeww,ndi uka ekpele. Faith without works is dead ooo
Eseosa Marian Asemota my sister u have made a lot of sense I looked at ur profile I see ur married so I can talk to u may God never give u a cheating husband we Africans really deceive indeed
@ Joy Amen n also wit u
Chinasa I m not encouraging men to do more OK. But if u find ur self into dis problem, will u bit or fight him or kill him abi,i m still saying nothing pass God. Even if u use any tricks to ask him, he will lie abt it to defend him self, so just look unto God and make ur self happy.
If u put ur mind,u will die early and he will marry another woman sharp sharp in Six months.so I advice u to over look it, and be happy, enjoy life. One day God will touch his heart.i still love u all.
God bless your home Rita Amaka Owoh
Amen,
God bless u Rita. I love ur advice
Thanks nne
I saw mine last Friday I pretend I never see anything…Am glad he uses condom….You might see the worst if u approach him ….so keep it low ….I have nothing problem once he takes care of my kids b me…I don’t lack anything…if I try to show him I saw something he might bring d woman home n nothing I will do about it…..I allow peace to reign.
Wow!! I love your kind. Do you have single sister that I can marry? So,when I play she won’t get pissed and never talk about even if she finds out…#playsafe
Lolzz not every woman will endure …She might b my sisters but with different heart….I believe God will touch him.
You are a good woman correct house wife material unlike some your own life is simple ????✌✌?????
When God is on ur side he give us d heart to endure n overcome all temptations
Kudos to u, l like ur thinking
Wow…Unbelievable
You think that because you have a soft heart
I like such woman, you are Good..
Fighting never solve any problem but silence do alot of things…two wrongs dnt mk a right one must b stupid for peace to come in….But fight will make things worst that none will b alive to tell d story.
Hehehehe…..Okay na
Venus Pwetty,upon sey you fyn like this nai ur man still dey look outside. Some men don’t really know what they have until they lose it,but with the true love you have for him God will surely touch his heart and change him completely not to look at another woman but you…God bless your home dear….
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Amen my dear Joshua Egberi…. You know marriage and it’s story …different stories good n bad …no woman should think she gt married to a saint…even if u give a man 100per what he want a cheating man will always be a cheating man…But is left for a woman to pray out her man …show him.love n care …a man with conscience must come around one day n realise his mistakes.
God help u sha. I pray ur man should b urs nd urs only
Amen dear
Thanks everyone
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True talk
Sideso Lauretta
So sorry for your loss
Peace Ogbonna,which one be loss here?? Abi na you be the side chich??just asking ooh….
Peace Ogbonna I did not loss anything…..Joshua Egberi you very funny
Lol
Venus Pwetty,investigate her very ooh but you be cool wife shaa so you no get time.. as long as your marriage dey go well…
More knowledge in Jesus.
Aunty u are amazing. #nice comment.
Tnx Joshua Egberi I will investigate her hahaga
Durotimi Joshua
Peace u said. Wat of HIV
No silence in infidelity Ooo. Aids is real
Linda Uche she said she thank God because he uses condom, which prevent Hiv.
May be next time he we b carried away and may not used the condom, do u thought of that?
Which kind talk be dat one say u knw go ask am, if u ask am, she might bring her home, dat one na talk??
That’s my opinion my dear if he can bring her home better ….I don’t fight over a man …a man is entitled to as many woman as he wants wether he loves or not if he wants to bring a woman home he will…N when u fight her your husband’s family might even team up against u n deal with u…You might even lose that position that made u to fight in d first place….he can go out with them but our monthly lab will say it all when the time comes…..
I love u..Venus ….I pray wen I got married I will have a heart like urs ..
Tnx my dear Blessingrikki Amadi u will surely have by God’s grace
I wish to have this patient u endure , bcos daz d secret of marriage . u re indeed a wife material and a mother @ Venus Pweety
#jushuaegberi guy u too much, pls ask her ooooo!! She fit b d side chic. LMAO
Did your so called husband paid your pride price? Or wed you in court? Well my des you married women make marriage scaring for we single. Why should you be afraid of confronting you husband? Oh because he will live you? Mmmmmm are you working? Or are you just a house wife? Girl wakeup and stand your grand; men are dogs, so treat them as one. Have dem change in your command.
Ekereobong Favour Davies we wed n I school n do business am well n ok….and am never scared of him or him throwing me out….But is a decision I mk fighting never solve any problem …it makes things worst n u shouldn’t be scared of marriage I pray u will find d man dat love u n any day he cheats n u find out ..just kill him with that u will b a hero ….a hero is not one that go in front of the war a hero is one that cm with peace…am not to destroy my home cos my emotion r controlling me…am to control my emotions ….not the other way round….I will never fight my man cos he cheats…I never get married to Jesus Christ my husband is a man n 95per cheats n I won’t kill him cos he cheats nor confront him….hw know how he gt there n I believe some day he will bring himself out ….am so ok …when u look at how far u hv gone n look at the future of ur kids you will know u hv something greater n bigger than chasing a cheating husband ….allow him to cheat cheating is free….anyone can cheat is just what u choose to do ….some men cheat cos they want to cheat…some women lured their men into cheating…some cheat cos the wife r dirty…some cheat cos of their nagging wife….some cheat because they r not getting d sexual satisfaction…different reason why men cheats….So u don’t stop a man that cheat by putting up a fight ….it won’t help it rather it will worsen d whole thing…..just pray u won’t find urself into d hand of such men…some will say never they will kill n deal with d man but if it happens to them they will only cry without doing anything rather than callin on God’s intervention n wisdom to handle it ……No one wants trouble but atimes we allow our temperament to control us….a woman cuts off d husband manhood because he wants to take another wife he is cheating with…now no one is blaming the man but the woman were is she today….I might want to react n den u will over do it which will mk u say oh had I know….there r so many ways my hubby is good at n I appreciate him I won’t kill him or mk trouble with him cos he cheats ….N forgetting his good deeds …we should learn to overlook n forgive some certain things ….what if d man decide to tk another wife u will kill him be dat na….my dear I just choose to n that’s my decision which no one will mk me change it or do what I will regret…If u carry marriage matter for head u gocarry die young n d side chick will b married as a wife maltreat your kids…is better u mk some sacrifice for ut kids n their future….If u can’t take it anymore just transfer d love to your kids n move on with ur life ….Till things get better every human got conscience n one day he will cm around.tnx
C guys its all depends on how u confront ur husband. As for me if he does it in my presence I will or if i saw him I will, but if he hide it from me that is where I we never border. Cos am only protecting what is mine dat my own view
Exactly if he brings a woman home N u saw them is different from confronting him cos of what u heard…the condom I saw fell from his pocket when I want to hang his cloths…So condom felling off ain’t my business….I only picked it n put it bk there n I never saw anything…am fine n ok…not everything u see u ask or react to…But u react when u r bn matched on d leg …not cos I saw ..
Yea dat u are right
My dear insecurity has killed u chai am sorry for u and think ur doing him a good thing by not saying a word because he take care of ur kid’s my dear that is free can’t u work to take care of ur kids than dying in side
Pls madam venue try and make your marriage a home not a prison or cage….how can you swallow nonsense or in the name of not losing your hubby? Don’t worry one day he will forget the condom and have unprotected sex… see you and STD even still numerous unknown step children… I pray he doesn’t dig the pussyof desperate side chick that will inject you put of your home with nothing…
Obi joy I think u should leave it for me like that
Honestly am diz jealous type….I cnt stand it o…although i won’t fight n insult him bcox i cnt do dat…Wil jt give him attitude ….I pray God gives me the strength 2 solve problems wen I get married in a peaceful way without anger
Am still single but what Mrs Venus Pwetty said here was pure truth ,plz my advice to this mother Venus Pwetty to also pray for God intervention and more wisdom ,I love your faith and you are indeed a mother coz you put your hope on God not human ,I prayed that one day Your man will totally changed by His Grace
My sister you get mind, I can’t keep that to myself, I will ask him. But in a mannerful way. May God help women oo. #SMH
Amen to that Ikunna Amarachi
Vivian Chileziem
Anabelle Amadi my dear surely he will give u…what we ask God is what he give us…No woman pray for a cheating man but if we find ourselves in such situation we should try n handle it with care …
Condom dey burst o n anything can happen. Pray seriously that God change him. Good luck.
abi HIV….u have to talk and stop giving excuses for him talking care of u and ur kids. let him knw that u are aware…..
Venus love,you are a wife indeed ur type is rare I must admit I love courage..you are very right.the only thing that will change a man from cheating is prayer and God’s intervention..fighting him,giving him attitude won’t change him..may God help us
Sorry to say, it looks like you also do cheat, that why you do not care about is infidelity. You’ve to confront your husband and remind him of his oath and
promise he made to you on the altar of God. Did you sign up for a polygamous marriage? Allowing your husband to share you with some ghost or what ever, you should be careful and take caution. I pray for you that your husband mistress do not turn into your arrival.
Girls are desperate. If you’re truly a woman of God and respect the dignity of marriage you will stand your ground. Am not saying you should kill your husband but make him understand and put him in his cage.
Exactly Chigozie Okenu giving him attitude and fighting will mk it worst ….is better u asked for God’s intervention…those that said am scared of confronting him or training d kids …to u people is easy but till u step in to marriage then u know what to do …a man might decide to change n you started giving him attitude he will now say since my wife act funny let me just go n bring in d woman home so she will b giving him d joy he need ….then d wife will sleep with his attitude….you might divorce n marry another he will b faithful but will beat u every morning n night….in life we dnt get everything we want something must be missing that’s d challenges of life.
Ekereobong Favour Davies think when u marry yours u cage him n kill him …keeping it low doesn’t mean I cheat …maybe when u marry yours n he roam d street naked go naked with him
Be happy hes just protecting himself from ladies seduction, leave ma guy alone jor
So will u kill ur self because of dat?
Pls sis,overlook it to make peace reign or rather buy him more.Den go into prayers,may God see us thru
I totally disagree with u..unless u did it for him to know u know what he’s doing. N even if u buy him CD, if he likes it raw, u can’t do shit about it because u ain’t there with him.
You should be very happy n pray he makes use of them always
underlook it
Ask him what ! It seems trust your husband so much. That’s revelation to dispute that love. He furnicates simple.
Ask him what ! It seems trust your husband so much. That’s revelation to dispute that love. He furnicates simple.
Yes forget about it
Ask him what ! It seems trust your husband so much. That’s revelation to dispute that love. He furnicates simple.
You should even be thanking God dat he use condom
Gboju
So?
Overlook it my sister else if you approach him, he might not even apologise which is more painfull and even if he does, that will not stop him and any other time you try talking to him about it again, it might turn to something else. So just pretend not to know,(the good part is that in reality, you know) and go on your knees to scatter d relationship, I bet you it works. Hardluckf
The condom is for you my dear
I will advice u to pls pls nd pls buy more for him OK just put them in his pocket u don’t need to tell him anytin when the time comes he will talk
Hmmm…thank God your husband is careful and uses protection… At least you are some percentage save…
Yea, for now. Just tell him “Baby I’m glad you use condom, it means you are concerned about our health. I love you”
Then watch his conscience kill him, don’t yell about it. It with worsen things.
I like your comment
lovely
Good advise..
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lol. thats worse than yelling at him
Nice one.
Wow.. That’s called kingdom wisdom, from God
True talk dear
Easier said than done
Do u think is dat easy like u just said but dat was unfair nah
But can u do what u just said?
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The man go freeze… Could make him change if he is not doing something right
Dey deceive urself
It is not easy but to me that’s the wisest thing to do. Most Nigerian men cheat and you can’t make them stop by yelling, nagging and making unnecessary noise.
So I would rather endure the hurt, be tactful about my decisions and save my marriage. Than nag like a street woman and loose my man.
Hell Yes!! I can do this and even more.
Wise word
Wwaaoooo
Hrh Queen Annie Ugorji you are a real babe…you know the medicine to this deadly disease that affect men so much… I will contact you for concoction
Some comment has if its easy that way the man in question is not ur boyfriend but ur husband, it will only take the grace of god and wisdom to approach your man.
Emma Teaknos Tosin you are a big time asshole, I aired my sincere view and what I know I can do. If you don’t like it, take your smelly self off my comment. #Ewu
Cool
Nice
Hrh Queen Annie Ugorji I love you
Good idea
Best comment ever
Its not that easy to take in… But if you can, he will respect you a lot’ I personally can’t be so polite to him when it comes to extra marital affairs.
Please everyone commenting and liking, I never said it is easy but if you truly love your man and wants to keep your marriage. You better start learning to be polite and handle sensitive issues calmly and maturely.
Anyways, happy marriages are not for those who can’t make sacrifices.
Una food evening
Hrh Queen Annie Ugorji I believe this is easier said than done. I also wouldn’t have liked Emma Teaknos Tosin ‘s comment if not of your response my sister. I honestly, hope that you will do these words of yours when the time comes. It is seemingly the perfect answer to a cheating husband. However, you*r outraged response to the phrase made by Emma, made me doubt your ability to be strong enough and ignore the most difficult trial for a woman (you and I) to ignore or create humour out of an already bad situation. I expected that from someone with your kind of unique comment.
Marriage is a bed full of roses,u know roses comes wit thorns,u jus have to slowly remove d thorns so that u can enjoy d roses.
Ugochi Ahuchogu Emma insulted me and I had to put him in his place.
Don’t expect me to treat my husband the same way I will treat a disrespectful ransom guy. I have nothing to loose for putting him in his place but I will have a lot to loose if I treat my husband in such manner.
Different situations attract different measures, don’t assume you can predict me. #Oshe
Great advice
Wow
great one honey
I did exactly that and it work for me.
Thanks Toun Basirat Alli you are a strong and mature woman.
I like dat statement
Loll..its like u dnt know there are hardened men….dey will say i love u too sef…nd frgt dt u ppl ever tlked bout it
You are a genius
@ Queen u re so tite. 4 d fact dat he uses condom u re lucky & shud be gra8ful 2God ma dear
You must be a genius
Sister I don’t know you but since have been reading peoples comment in my life, yours is Fabulous. I mean you nailed it.
Thanks lovely people
Nice comments
Me hehehe I can’t keep calm ,my God he will get it hot .
Lol.. Then you better be ready for more hotness
My friend cook his favourite for him.atleast he remember to use his rain coot .I like him. may God keep you guys together
@njong Gloria, babe u have to try ok. His guilty conscience will flog him more but let him know that u know. But when u begin to shout, it’s like he has seen all u can do. E no easy n we don’t pray for that..when I mean that, I mean “to find out” lol
Wow wonderful advice
Dear, God Bless You
@ d ownner of dis comment, are u really sure dats wat u will say? u jst comment, I don’t knw ur mind, or do u think its jst easy to keep quiet!
wow,nice one @ annie
Nice one dear best response
Hrh Queen Annie Ugorji, if.you couldn’t handle an unwelcome reply publicly, if you can easily lose your cool to a comment on social media, if the time it took you to type this outburst at Emma Teaknos Tosin did not calm you down, then I seriously doubt that you can heed your own advice.
Best comment ever!!! ?
U hv said it all
Correct
Annie the Badt gal. U slays
Are u really sure u can handle dis with ur replies to people opinion.
#uchendulizzychinasa, would u rather behave like a bitch, a nag, n a street woman than handle sensitive issues like dis with maturity n brain. Most times big issues could b solved with simple solutions to avoid catastrophe.
Bulshit
Funsho Akinnurun what business of yours is it if I can or cannot handle the problem?
I aired my sincere opinion, so if you don’t like it OE you think it’s impossible for you to do why not leave my comment. It’s not by force to comment, and if you talk to me anyhow I will response anyhow to you. You are not my husband or boyfriend, don’t expect me to be polite to you when you are rude to me.
U are right dear
You are very wise my dear, how I wish all women will learn from you,, Proverbs 14:1 God bless you, made my day!
Thanks so much Nnakwe Isreal Chinedu God bless you too
U are very Wise I have no doubt u will have a successful home
You both are very wise
Is a nyc idea tho,but is hard to do…..
Wise comment,love that
Wat abt d I don’t cares dat don’t av conscience ?
It’s very easy to say but in reality it is very hard to do what u just said now
I settle my friends and there husband’s wen they have issues, I give them advice that most times work for them but don’t know how to do same when I have issues with my husband
All the same, nice advice!
#Cqomfort #Ernest time my darling. She said it all already. Just wat #Ifunaya #Trixie wrote:
u have to try ok. His guilty conscience will flog him more but let him know that u know. But when u begin to shout, it’s like he has seen all u can do. E no easy n we don’t pray for that..when I mean that, I mean “to find out” lol
Thèse Words Will make any man think twice
Wise counsel. But I’ll add that she should also take it to God in prayer,while not neglecting her duties as a wife.
Confirm
I love ur idea
I had nver thought of dis
This is amazing
Jesus Christ! He deer not cheat on me. If he tries it, I will cheat on him too. Then when we are tired of cheating, we either part ways or he learns to be responsible. Marriage can never thigh me down. What causes all this nonsense is when you don’t have a quality education and not contributing to the welfare of the family. Women should stop being house wives. Work, make money and see him respecting and needing you more.
Ask him fast bt in a gentle way. U no say we women he bad mouth
Ask him dear don’t listen to those cowords that think they are smart.
Don’t ask him,better find a way to handle the issue.
I wonder, some women are dieing in silence while some are being infected with different diseases by their cheating husband
He is her husband? Scared of him or what will happen.? He is a cheater
Offorja Davison which way can she handle it? Tell me
Sorry, your husband stole that wallet, please forgive him, is not his wallet.
The wallet is yours I know.
The way some women here are sounding shows how stupid we can be! It’s u pple that give these lunatics the morale they use in doing whatever they like..am sure u are happy their likes are praising u for ur wonderful contribution.
Now, for ur information, u have every right to ask ur husband what a condom is doing in his pocket but before that, u should know that if he loves u, he will lie n may later tell the truth (very rare) n ask for forgiveness. But if he doesn’t, he will give u the answer u wanna hear in a very mean way. Now, whatever he tells u, make sure u don’t create a quarrel out of it. Or better still, bring it out of the pocket n drop it on the bed for him to come pick it up n if he pretends not to see it, remind him of his property n see his reaction…Or u put it in ur belongings where u know he will see it. Let him see it n ask u the “expected question” n then u throw it back at him n see how he will melt. Don’t tell me that stupid crap that u won’t show him because u fear his reaction. U married ur spouse, lover not ur dad or boss. Nonsense!!
Don’t mind dem…… sounding Soo timorous!… rubbish. I don’t even know how to begin… Abeg make everybody dey his or her lane… hissssss
Men always do things like dis and ger get away with it but just imagine if it were to be d woman, I guess she would have being in her father’s house by now… What a society we live in but let all d men no dat we are all equal before God be u a man or woman and dsame punishment and judgement we shall all face
by d time I put it in my belongings he might b d one accusing me of infidety and might not admit d truth. what about dat. it should b out of the solution
Ifunanya Trixie They Asked You To Coment Not To Tell A Story Abeg Slow Down….
I totally disagree wit u my dear. @ Ifunaya Trixie.
Just pray ur hubby don’t cheat when he does u will see is not as easy as u see it….You will look at ur kids n how far u hv gone then u realise is better to keep it low n look after your kids and forget whether he cheats or not
Tanx darling …Leave pretenders abeg!
Mebrennie Imoisi that’s the reason u put it there na lol…u don’t even get the point. Yes let him accuse u n then u will be like “oh so this thing I found in ur pocket is used for cheating…oya tell me who u have been using it on” I tell u, he knows his condoms..so he will know u were the one that took the CD he was looking for the last time lol
Benny Ginny can u pls tell the difference between comments n story telling as u call it..no be the same comment. I know u find it very hard to read…so y complain? I know u are a guy n I hit u guys hard n its paining u..sorry ok! But I’m sorry am a really blunt person
Cathy Eshiet good for u..I hope it works well for u ok
see vex
Venus Pwetty u know this is one thing I hate about human beings..read what I said oo before u will read only half n say I said u should fight him or seek for divorce. The Bible says “a wise woman buildeth her home while the foolish destroys it”.. Everything I wisdom. Anyway, I will advice u read everything I wrote because if u did, u won’t write what u just wrote. Tnx
Venus Pwetty look let me tell u something, all guys will cheat..no matter how u wanna deny it. But pls he shouldn’t be stupid enough for me to see it. If ur man cheats to ur face, my sister he doesn’t love u..n that’s going to be because u either forced ursef on him, or u uses pregnancy to tie him down or u married his money (so he knows u a gold digger) or he’s just irresponsible 100%. But a reasonable man will make other girls know that he don’t joke with his woman..he makes them know they are nothing but his whore(s). N a reasonable man doesn’t allow his mistress to keep him off home till late. Whether he cheats or not, I biliv he cheats or will cheat.
Lol from d way u re sounding, I doubt if u would last 2months in ur marriage @ Ifunanya Trixie
Anyway, we all have different views on issues
Hmmmm
Till I are in for it then u know what it’s all about but for now let’s focus on d future n pray something bigger than us don’t come our way….that’s all my dear..
Till u are I mean
I may be unmarried but I have seen alot out of pple’s experience dear n I know wisdom is the best. U know ur man…as a woman, u should know how to handle him. As for Cathy Eshiet and @venus don’t worry, just keep an update with my life n see for ursef. I don’t brag..but I will never low myself to this mentality of urs. I hope ur style works for u.
what if some one is trying to separate them and frame her husband so she have to approach the issue with manner
you got my thoughts exactly.
oh its ok. women who ar married knows wat they are passing through. be in it to scan like we know experience is the best teacher tho sometime we don’t ave to wait 4 dat. And besides its easier said than done. stop ramping or ranting watever its called
Ifunanya Trixie. It appears u re not married but u hv raised salient and marriage saving points. Thank u.
In all of it what every woman should know is that a man unlike a woman naturally goes after women bcos of the God given features which women possess and flaunt seductively for men to see, and by this most men fall into wanting to taste and thereby cheating on their wives with exception of very few.. 3 out of 100. Therefore, there is no good balance of probability that if u do anything unwisely and u separate from him, the next man u will meet will not as well cheat on u and even display it to ur face, which ur previous husband may never hv done.
Being that as it may, its pertinent to critically examine ur husband to decify his reasons for cheating and carefully handle d issue of cheating in ur family with utmost wisdom bcos its a common thing with most men but it’s better dat d man respect his wife so that she doesn’t get to know and thereby hurting her.
Cheating can also come as a repercussion on some women who when they were girls had also dated or slept another woman’s husband. Now too someone must sleep with ur own.
Finally I encourage every woman who notice that her husband is cheating not to fight her husband or leave him, but to take the case to God in serious prayers and fasting (infact 14days atleast), cry to God and He will answer. Reorient the spiritual level of your home, spent quality time to pray for ur cheating husband for God to intervene n redeem him. Also see to it that u show him more love and attention now than b4 including deliberately wanting to sleep with him (kerewawa) almost everyday even when he is not in the mood. Do this kerewawa wit him regularly, put him in d mood even when he is not d mood, by touching and caressing his lollipop to initiate actions. If u can do this almost everyday and back it up with intense prayers continuously for 1yr, forget, u will sure redeem ur hubby even if he was a male prostitute b4 u married him. God bless u
Ifunanya Trixie, wait until you marry your own lunatic.. Cos that’s your description… Like what someone said ‘you can’t last 2 months in marriage…
U guys are out of ur f*king mind. That’s her opinion pls respect dx. Stop violating human rights.
Ashafa Gbenga Omotayo E dey pain u oo gaga oo! Hope u will come for my wedding. When I call lunatic..it’s the men that cheat. So if u are one, then u are a lunatic in capital letters
Morgan Laddy God bless u Sir.. Some men have brainwashed these ladies that they are so blind lol. Thank k God atleast pple like u that read n understand still exists if not, I would have been battling with what I don’t even know what to call them. Thank k u very much Sir
@ Morgan “kerewa”
Adekunle Adebayo exactly my point..how which Facebook has voice recorder. It’s not everything they put in typing u know. The situation is very broad.
Ifunanya i dmt think weight of cheating. Do u thnk its easy to stop? Dnt u knw dere is a spirit behind it.do u think comfronting him will stp it.. D only tin dat can stp it is devine intervention,showing love n care,always remind him of hw much u love hm,atleast to save ur home. I wouldnt blame u bcos u cnt differenciate btw hubby n boifrnd.pls keep ur so called ultmost wisdom aside n learn frm d married one, and belive me 98 percent of married men cheat bt u wont notice it bcos of hw d wife is handling it. Handling it ur own wisdom way will bring a chattered home, n he will beat hell out of u or even sent 6feet under. U re still a learner.BE CAREFULL,
Julius Gerald E Mekdon n keep ur motherfucking mouth shut up. Make ur own stupid comment on ur space..dont come here to throw orders around. Until I am married, I owe no motherfucker submissiveness.. N trust me, it’s only my husband I owe that to. As for others, if u give respect, I give it..but if u don’t, am very good at giving it back
U talk too much Young lady
.@ Morgan Laddy funny you, look at the way you just made mockery of we ladies better repent now or I pray to God to expose your krukere way to madam. ..
De Moon Harris abi sky abi planet…n u don’t? Really? Awwwn, am touched!
See it’s not by force to write on my wall..there’s unlimited space on the outer space where u comment in ur own box. Stop coming here to write trash on mine. Facebook really need to give license to permit or restrict stupid replies on ones comment
Ifunanya ur type n ur so called ultmost wisdom ends up beaten to hell.pray it neva happen to u.ur wisdom is wot is needed in a family. U can only do dat one for ur boy frnds house.
Julius Gerald E Mekdon stop ranting boyfriend because u are still someone’s boyfriend. N God know say ur not my type because na me go first kill u. I hate tyrants like u n I pity that poor girl u claim u are engaged to. Hope u don’t tell her stories tomorrow because of d way ur dancing joystick will go n give somebody’s child belle. Look, am not those small girls u use to deceive n u beat them..if u dey wash their head, me, I dey light head! Lekwanu! Biko give way make I see better pple
Am jus advising u ifunanya
Pls i dnt do boifrnd anymore.an happily married nd thnk God i did nt marry ur type.
Stick it to ur ass dude..didn’t ask for it u know. My parents are still very much alive n can get first hand info. U don’t give me shit n try to act polite the next time ok. I stand by what I said n if u didn’t read it fully (which of course u didn’t) then I will advice you to go n read it well n not glance at the first 3 lines. Thank you. Same goes to evry other pokenoser. Am sorry, I have a very bad mouth but that’s only when u push me through the wall…I always bounce back. Pls save ur breath ok..am done talking to u
U can’t even marry my type because like I said, I will kill u first. U are happily married but ur status reads engaged..#oloshoawka awka girls won’t allow ur joystick to stay one place..keep dancing around. Don’t give the poor girl disease pls
During my single days i use n dump ur type cos dat nonsence n fucking wisdom n atitude of urs is nt wot a man cn keep asin mariage.
Osefoh B Nkiruka… I doubt if u wholly read through what my reply is, ant its specically directed to Ifunanya Trixie. However, there is nothing there that made a mockery of women except u belong to d group that dated or slept with married men b4 getting married or u wish to use a hammer to kill a fly that perch on ur son’s testicles ok. Furthermore, i need u look at my profile very well and better advice ursef on ur comments. I belong to a distinguish group, and my wife knows who she is married to, alrght. I’m not boasting of being a saint and i wont, its God. She know and understand that I’m human, but again she knows l love and respect her dearly, and l’m for her till d end of time. Hence she will never blow the roof bcos of mere say or she sees certain thing. My wife will politely ask me and she knows i will sure tell her d truth, and she will advice me or call me to order calmly like one of her babies or like my mother would do. That is my angel for u Ok.. God bless u
Hehehehehehehe I know some sharper guy stole her from u..bear the loss ok. Sorryyyyy!
Morgan Laddy that’s good. I understand everything u said ok. N that’s my stand but u know most pple wont read n they will just conclude. Later they will blame waec, jamb, lecturers for failures. Like I said earlier, don’t go fight with ur husband oo..do everything with wisdom.
Before some toothless bulldog will come to show themselves here.
U will b nna ga anu if u keep it up. Miss ultmost wisdom. #ISI KA AKPU!!!
Sharrap there, ashawo awka! It’s only in naija marriage is celebrated like award! If not for Bible n parents sake, marriage will be the last thing on my mind because those that are in it are crying n like that Calabar girl said earlier…u use because of the kids n stay back. My dear, I have a fragile heart n don’t like things disturbing my heart. I live peace of mind more than anything in this world..that’s y I rather stay with a starter with potentials that is peaceful than a wealthy bloody fool who will make my life a living hell
I sometimes see my guy’s comments on issues like this on some pages n am like..God thank U for giving me this precious gift. Hope to share the IV soon for those that last 2 months in marriage abi na 2 mins in bed!
This boy Julius Gerald E Mekdon u like me too much. Mr husband, go n sleep n leave Facebook slayers’ inbox alone. Be a good hubby to ur wife ok..not when she sleep, u will sneak out ur phone to chat dem awka runs babes. #olosho
Merit Onuoha. Thanks for d correction.
He is free to du wt he want
Hmm. There is serious war here.
Nawa o, women with their wahalaaaaa, I don tire!!!!
Babe ****chop knuckle****Gbam!!
Just pray you marry a loving husband… So we don’t read your story on Facebook someday….
Hahahhaha #juliusgeraldEmekdon, still dey win ooooo! For dis war.
Exactly my point girl
Na wao nobi small war for here
I wonder wot will happen if na ur type wey 2face marry. Only God go save ur step children.#nku ukpaka#
Just passing by
Ifunanya,u b my type jare,carry on..oya badbelle tok rubbish
Niggaz fear wise babes
@impact I hope I don’t hear ur obituary too
Marriage is not for everyone. Pls note dx : It is meant to be enjoyed not endure.
@julius am not as stupid as u are to marry 2face even if he like make he fine from now till tomorrow or has all the money in the world. I love children very much so it will stupid of me to take my grudges out on the kids. Akwuna-nwoke
Sound serious.
Ifunanya Trixie my personal person. I like you o. Lol @ e dey pain you gaga!
My people stop taking panadol for another person’s headache, just saying.
U should be happy
try using the same soup to eat garri for 11 months , you will get tired of the soup , you will even fall sick…man needs some extra love… and you should be glad he uses a condom.
You talk like a kid. Are u alright?
Pretty Cynthy saying out loud the reality which people don’t like to talk about makes you feel uneasy????
R u sure is not his colleagues dat put it without his notice? Don’t ask him pls. Maybe u need to tell us his dat happening.
Over luk pls
Well my dear I will advice you to pretend as if you did not see anything because you will end up feeling bad if he tells you the truth and trust me he will definitely lie to you and I know you won’t like that unless you want to hear the bitter truth at least he is using protection.
Is ur hubby a kid…… Besides condoms ar 4 protection…….
My dear don’t be in a rush to ask,pretend like a foolish person for now,after some few days ……time him when both of you are in good mode then …make fun of it,…..it will look like joke but the truth will comes out …..small..small they will tell you the truth, not by ash words
Your searched for that so manage it like that
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Atleast be grateful he uses one…i beg overlook and probably get him more.
Hez cheating and no nagging or sweet talk can stop him.
Accept him and be prayerful,with prayer he can stop it.
And make sure u are satisfying him too,though they are not satiable.
Lolz
Use look it,u Neva used am b4?
U ar about breaking ur marriage by public ur private issues, wat advise do u want?
You better thank God that he’s using condom, some will not use at all and the next thin they will give you infection.
lol abeg no overlook oooo that man dey light fire ooo
At least he use condom
of curz not are u stupid
Gv yo guy too
The woman who was married to a man for 50 years without a fight was interviewed. Interviewer: madam, u had been married for good 50 years without a fight, what is your secret. Then she replied: I don’t search, because if I search I would find.
U are a fool for such a stupid lies
Lolzz funny they fight but always settle it without people knowing …I can b mad at my hubby on anything but the first day I found out my hubby is cheating I was so happy that I went to shop for him ….atleast I know am not married to a saint
@Pino must u insult? We r here to learn…
Hahahahahahahahah some girls can lie for Africa oo. Hiaaan, sister easy oo! This zobo too hot for person to drink?
As some men dey cheat, naso some women dey do too, but na man own pay pass!
Pino Ituah y d insult?
wowwww
It’s not only search and see that causes quarrels nooooow haba! For 50years no fiiiiight? Even angels do quarrel
So what??
I marvel at the comments…. especially that of the women…. lemme eat my dinner jare…. nonsense.. mtcheeew.
nooooooo don’t over look it… extra look it
What if he went for HIV rest and the condom was given to him? Have you forgotten that NACA and SFH are also sharing condoms daily for prevention of HIV. It could be he was given.Bc men hardly put condom in wallet instead they hide it in their cars. Where u can never see
hmmmm. correct but not an excuse
Go and kill yourself na.
SAN Mary Edem, you are needed in Supreme Court
#Mary #Edem i like ur reply.
He is free to du wt he want.
Calabra n akwa-ibom girls who are mistresses know how well to cover up for their pay masters oo. Ok he went for HIV test because he suspects that his wife have carry the virus lol
Wonderful
Ifunanya… you don’t go for test for anybody. And besides u could just be in the company of friends who are doing the test and u thought it wise to join. After all… it’s free. And point of correction… it’s not every girl who can stoop so low to dating a married man.if urs is cheating and u comment out of anger… pls kindly remember the vow”for better for worst”. It’s a post and anyone is free to comment as far as u don’t call people names. The last time I checked… there are mistresses in all the tribes. If Akwa ibom girls are outstanding then there is something about every Delilah in a man’s life.
All dis answers is soo annoying . D post break my hrt ,talkless of. Dats y I hate to be married. I jst dnt no y, but if is a woman nw he will send her packing. God is watching my dear husbands n wives, I dnt no wat u ppl r doing, u ppl dnt no wat u r doing to us d singles. U r telling us dat marriage is all abt cheating.making d singles to hav fear for marriage. Husbands put ur self under d shoes of ur wives, and pls hav a hrt, hav God fearing. Think abt d children, an respect ur home’s for God sake. Tufwkaw.
Yes so u won’t get high BP
Just imagine it as balloons and move to another phase .
Yes ooh, don’t ask him and overlook him for now. it may be a test to u.
Yes oh. You should be glad he’s using condom for his side chicks
He is playing safe u beta thank ur God and keep praying for him he will change dear men are the same everywhere
What if the Condom was given to him at his work place…..But sha stil ask him over dinner or in ur bed room….jus use ur woman magic nd sort it out.
Ask him….d earlier d beta
A senior friend of mine saw such in her husband bag wen he came back frm an outside duty.she never complained, never said a word but she bought a packet of condom and dropped it in his bag as she ws arranging the husband’s cloths.but wen he came back the next weekend, he went on his knees, asking for forgiveness. Use ur head dear!!
Have seen the movie before.
U don’t seem serious, what’s the name of the movie?
are u DE 1 person to experience that ur a disgrace to woman wood, n most u post marage is 4 better 4 worst fuck u
Don’t overlook it
My dear pls ask him he z ur husband
Wetin u find go his wallet in d 1st place? Learn hw to respect his privacy
Bros you sounds as if the man na your guy
U no go understand…. Things like dat dey cause a lot of things in marriage well well
#Fact
Before nko? Thank God he remembers to use protection when cheating..
It’s for you
You are lucky he has condom, you are free from HIV. It could be that he does not have sex with anybody but just keeping it incase he is harassed. Thank God you having a good man like him.
Lol
Lol funny but stupid.
Hmmm,
Kill him
U are Lucky he is even a careful man. U can ask questions buh no fight. All u need to do is to pray for him to change.that’s all. True love wins
U should be happy that he used condom since he decided not to be faithful
Men men
Always pray for him and ur marriage
Thank ur God 1st dat He still remember to use Condom….. Thank Him 4 considering ur Health @least…. Men re just Meeee
Silence is what u shd keep and Thank God he uses condom.As long as he takes care of you and kids(if any)then there is no need to get mad.All you do is keep praying for him cos ur prayers matters alot in his life ….
Well said sis jor
The man dey play away match just talk to him finish no fight am oooooooo
It ‘s like datooo,thank ur stars that he still make use of protection.
No o, ask am, u go tell me weda tif de gree say him be tif .even wen dem gbab am red handed .. At worst he go say dem give am as complimentary gift
If der’s any name more dat overlook I wil just advice u do. Is part of som f dem my sister
Hum
Stop sniffing around his things or you will get a heart attack!
Hahahahahahahaha
Stupid yabaleft!
How those this support gay marriage?
Proudly gays.
Absolutely we gays are short of words because we don’t know anything stupid marriage between man and woman
dat is men 4 u so dnt ask him
I have seen 1 in my hubby’s bag i asked him abt it.He lied 2 me bt i knw his conscience was nt at rest throughout dt week! I only gave him a piece of advise.
Thats good… Wisdom my sister.
u just told the whole world ur hubby cheats, this is social media madam don’t wash ur dirty linen out side.
You saw condom in his wallet don’t mean anything he can use it to set trap for you to know the kind of person you be, am not trying to protect your husband but is what my mind tells me
D way u always do
You want to search my wallet also?
Don’t pick up quarrels with him but, let him know you saw it in his wallet . Smile over it, his conscience will defiantly judge him.
men of nowadays don dey cause women to fear. no woman is ready to do anything. don’t worry all bcos of let peace reign I pray another woman not take over ur home. u no ur man enough. u no d tactics to approach him dat will nt cause any conflict u do it as a woman. if women of these are like this already then there is problem ahead. I can’t just and watch my man have other ladies. what if I do the same
First get off Facebook and pray to God. Drop it where you are so sure that he will see it. Watch his reaction. His reaction will determine if you have to remind him of what he saw on top of his pillow case. NB: try to talk calmly and don’t raise your voice please. I know how you feel. Don’t keep quiet if you can’t keep it to yourself. Talk to your husband and remind him of his marriage vows. Don’t accuse him, because he will just go defensive and might even become nasty towards you. Report him to God and no one else. If you tell your friends, some will mock you and some will go after him since they now know his weakness. Don’t tell your family because they will loose respect for him. If you tell his people, they will tell him and they will use as their dinner discussion, while your husband will detest you for betraying him and making him walk naked. Remember, don’t shout. If you do, only few men will beg you sorrowfully. Others, will fly into the arms of a mistress (and make her his confidant)
So, if you wish just drop it where he will see it and remain silent while praying. This is the advice I know my very good aunt would give.
I know that you are hurting right now and it’s good you cry in your closet and just pray. I do not want to generalize but “most” are unfaithful and that’s why there is problem in marriages. Some women disgracefully are even now worse than the men. I pray for you to be strong and wise in this vulnerable time in your life. May God’s angels surround and protect you. May God’s peace fill your broken heart and mind right now. Please, forgive him and never bring it up in the future. My heart breaks along with yours . Be strong. One more advice, since you’ve discovered this. Don’t allow females (colleagues, friends, sisters, cousins, house help) to cluster you especially in his presence. Don’t encourage unnecessary friendship of these females with your husband. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Men have always been like that,overlook it woman.
Jeez! Even married ones?
Yeah
From the comments , The nerve at which women sugarcoat men’s madness
truly hurts! Would your advice be the same if she was positive due to his unfaithfulness. Rubbish! and for the Mumu people saying she should “thank God, he uses comdom” who told you he uses the condoms sef? Having a condom is one thing, using it is another ! obviously sticking your dick in every thing that has legs and a hole makes you a man not the obvious self control, morals and values..cheating is a taught and accepted behavior to most males. If the husband was the one who found the condoms in wife bag am sure the comments would be different! Men expect so much from women but little is expected from them..that’s an issue. I blame women for low expectations and standards..
Honestly, am feeling u cos even devil knows dat I will not accept dat from my bf how much more of my husband… Some women are d cause of dis
Uchendu Lizzy Chinasa asin ehnn my dear, just hear them saying ” forget it and be happy he uses condom! ” rubbish! If na me I go buy my own condom and start using it let us see, how sweet it is, to have a taste your own medicine , what if the said man has an STD and he’s protecting his wife or side-chick together , I hear thank God he uses condom. No wonder most women die of deadly diseases in marriage . Desperate housewives no dey hear-word, I wonder where self love and value went??????
Thank you my sister
Sensualidad Su… Its well wit u oo
Morgan Laddy it’s well with your mama’s brain cells too.. Mstewwwww
My sister, Tell them dead brains! @sensualidad the guy meant no harm oo @morgan. U misunderstood the poor man lol. Some girls
Thanks dear……U don finish d matter
Facts…….
Tell the in secured women who think their whole life revolves around men
May God bless u my dear
I like u jare, u nailed it
Pray for him because prayer is the master key, but never forget that all men are cheats ! so you have better grow up and take charge of your own life in a Godly way… Move on like nothing has ever happened… May God help women all over the world.
Not all men pls…..
Stop making things worse
Plz n plz am not a cheat I beg ur pardon
Hahahaha… Talk true ooh
My dear sister. Pls, over look it n move on with ur marriage. Any body wey tell say e easy for outside, make u no believe them ooooooo. Secure ur parade n take it to God in prayers. Good luck!
No, just underlook it.
No don’t ,kill him
Call Police for him
Get your own condom and make sure he sees it, or better still pack your load and go.
don’t ask questions, give it to him and say sorry.u been in a happy marriage since. don’t start an argument.
Mmm men …
Just overlook it or else you leave him. Because of you catch him, he will leave you and he catches you, you will leave him. So you make your choice.
Overlook it, men will always be men.All men cheat,all men lie.You can never trust a man when it comes to women All men are thesame,They are all dirty fuckers who always want to put their John Thomas inside any vagina they see.You just need to accept it and move on with life.
pls get that shit out of your head, not every man that cheats,
The matter tire me
Hmmm! Where do you get that from?
@cosmos.From the society.That piece was base on facts and observations which make some sociologist arrive at that conclusion.Numerous experiences here and there,so many stories from different women all very familiar.
Idris Rita E not all men cheat biko.
Ok @Durotimi
Responses you give to Whatever challenges you have at home, makes you either a better person or a bad person. In responding to challenge, bury your pride, aim higher do not listen to advice that will bring up your pride. Remember with pride come failure. Pray God to enable you overcome your challenge.
Even wen u ask him he will lie DAT he does not belong to him so as for me just give him d condom by saying honey see wat I saw in ur pocket don’t act as if u are angry den u will see his reaction
You should be happy he uses condom..
Now that u know…
Make sure u give him a pack of condom everyday he goes out..
Not a big deal.. Every man cheats but d one who cheats with protection is d cheat with wisdom ..lol
.my dear go and cook for him to eat he has been rough handled…be happy u didn’t see the ladies pant.. Lol
not every man cheats pls
Are u speaking for urself or the entire men… Honestly?
Show me Ten dat doesn’t and I’ll show u a pregnant virgin
just say some men not all men
Confirm word most men r cheats
All men I mean all men cheat. A man can be faithful not more than One day
U most be greason,what are you doing with your husband wallet. I no that he did send you to go and bring it you went there urself.
Men are Neva satisfied even wen dey are married to a lady DAT who have everytin it takes to be a good house wife
Criously ? Hmmm so scared
My dear ask him hw come abut it’ in a lovly atmosphere and live d rest 4 his conscience 2 judge him! dn’t 4get men wil alwy’s b men’ wish u gd luck.
No under look it…..its fo ur protection.
You are lucky your husband always carry condom along
Yes pls do overlook it, so dat u won’t have Hypertension!!
Eeyah!! kill ur husband so dat d pain will ease… Mumu
Weird comment
you must overlook to have peace of mind…condom is for protecting not a sign of cheating
why should you judge him do you know whether he is doing company advert with it?lolzzz
Yes overlook it n thank God he has used condom.
this is simple, life goes on. But remember God is forgiven right.
My dear you should be happy…….
Yes tell him to give u. Ur National cake. My dear u need to talk God that he use condom. Else u will get some small HIV.
Ur own is even beter dat ur husband s using condom
No eat and digest it
Is not too bad may he got it for you
Yes…over look it only if you love your Home and want to keep your Home….And you will Thank me Later..Lol..#
nahhh try to ask him in a polite way
No o..carry inside your purse and be looking at it everyday ..oshi
Maybe is the one he used fuck you before you marry am
Yes ooo..bcs men are polygamos in nature.. My dear dnt give urslf hrt attack wif dat..at least he remembered to ues condom,you are safe oooo
Is your husband a lecturer?
May be he used it for practical
No ask questions my dear
My dear you should thank God that he used it….. Take a piece of paper and write this.. “MY LOVELY HUSBAND, I JUST REMOVED THE ONE YOU USED AND REPLACED IT WITH A NEW ONE IN CASE YOU FIND YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU MAY CONSIDER GOING RAW.. MY IMAGINATION OF MY DARLING HUSBAND IN ANOTHER WOMAN’S ARM MELTS THE SMILE YOU HAVE PUT ON MY FACE. WHAT HAPPENS THE MAN I GAVE UP ALL FOR? I THOUGHT YOU EQUALLY GAVE UP ALL FOR ME… BELIEVE ME, IT’S PAINFUL TO KNOW THAT I’M NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU, BUT IT’S MORE SCARY TO THINK THAT MY LIFE IS AT RISK IN YOUR HAND..
AIDS IS REAL.
CONDOM BREAKS.
I’M THE ONE WHO VOWED TO LOVE YOU TILL THE END OF MY LIFE.. I’M THE ONE YOU COME HOME TO MEET. I BEG YOU MY LOVE, DON’T BE THE ONE WHO DESTROYS US.. I love you very much…….
Yours ever, for the family.””
Put the note in a packet of condom and put it back where you found the one you are holding. Brighten up and forgive him…
I wish you success in your wish for his change. May God be with you and your family.
Pls overluk
Nothing to worry about. Heard condoms are very effective against pains so are used as painkillers
keep claim n enjoy your marriage belive me a man you finds a condom in his pocket or wallet he is just doing men thing.
Pray for Grace to handle it maturely, we can’t do anything without God
Over look it
U no happy say, him dey use condom, bcos u cannot tie his dick
If u like under look it
Over look and move on if you really want to be happy.
add more.
You are married but lonely. Smh…..
Well, its Better to be single n lonely than the other way around. I guess you guys had courtship, you obviously saw the signs and ignored them. That’s d result wen we settle for just anything In the name of I have to get married ASAP.
Abi……
Marriage is not for everyone
Pls make them understand oooo
Sideso Lauretta
Hmmm see comments, In fact i am speechless right now
Yes o haa he tried keeping it in he’s wallet. Betta tank God he’s using It
Yes,ignore it
Linus zumba.. U too sabi lie I beg clear make I see road jare. Na to dey forge stories dey rain now even pass d recession season1. You marry come carry your marriage matter come media say make we do Wetin? We be chief judge of the federation on marriage matter. Nonsense like say u no get family.
All the ladies in the comments section are saying my dear just pretend no such happen (overlook) that good show me a lady that can do such and I will show you a man who don’t Cheat…
honestly idc tho
Yh…over look it dear. It would have been pretty bad if he never used it. Talk to him later, maybe after four to five days…ask him and tell him how u feel just finding out what he did.
If you like
just tell him u love him the more
If u lik ooo
yes oh jut ignore him ………becus if u really want 2 start asking questions…….u melt start having problems…in ur home ………overlook and save ur marriage 4 d sake of ur children ……..z/#everyday of my life i wish I had a complete family while growing up
Overlooking keh!! Ha! We die there o. U de mad ni?
Long story just go to d market and buy padlock to settle d case finish
Yes with joy
Some comments are scary o. Stuffs like ‘ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT’. Hmmmm God help us o
No oh look it over
Madam as a woman of God, all u need to do is to over looked it,pretend as if u saw nothing and see the way he will be behaving towards you,by the time u start shouting it shows that u are asking him to go ahead to do more,back everything with prayer s and God will see you true.
if u ask me na who i go ask
Over looked it and asked him one day, if you are satisfying him in bed or not, and you should also put more effort whenever you having sex and not just to lied down, may be that’s where you are failing and some one normally fuck him outside, so check yourself
Yes na
Better den to go raw
Years, for now
Ma I saw some reactions remember that man and woman are not the same,please look into God the author and finisher of our faith,do not allow some one to take u out of your husband house,if it happen to them they know how to tackled it,God bless u madam
sure babe
98percent of men cheat…..they are always selfish…… Even if u ask him he will still lie… High level of immorality
Madam how did you come about the statistics above?? 98?? I disagree
Just ignore Raising Alarm won’t stop him from what he intend doing
You are very lucky he uses condom,be grateful,what if he goes necked like some foolish men who goes around spreading STDs and HIV,my dear it only the roof that shade us,it covers our nakedness,if we are to b exposed!, you could have seen he loves you very much if he uses the condom.
u support to be playing for him DAT may God garden him
Known don’t overlook go n fight,Engel mary
is nt new
My dear if am to say, i will tell you to overlook it bcoz my mum will always tell us to overlook some certain things that our husbands are doing for you to have a long life and run away from high blood pressure that does not make you a fool but for peace to rain. Men are some thing else, God will deliver us from their hands
Ifunanya Trixie. It appears u re not married but u hv raised salient and marriage saving points. Thank u.
In all of it what every woman should know is that a man unlike a woman naturally goes after women bcos of the God given features which women possess and flaunt seductively for men to see, and by this most men fall into wanting to taste and thereby cheating on their wives with exception of very few.. 3 out of 100. Therefore, there is no good balance of probability that if u do anything unwisely and u separate from him, the next man u will meet will not as well cheat on u and even display it to ur face, which ur previous husband may never hv done.
Being that as it may, its pertinent to critically examine ur husband to decify his reasons for cheating and carefully handle d issue of cheating in ur family with utmost wisdom bcos its a common thing with most men but it’s better dat d man respect his wife so that she doesn’t get to know and thereby hurting her.
Cheating can also come as a repercussion on some women who when they were girls had also dated or slept another woman’s husband. Now too someone must sleep with ur own.
Finally I encourage every woman who notice that her husband is cheating not to fight her husband or leave him, but to take the case to God in serious prayers and fasting (infact 14days atleast), cry to God and He will answer. Reorient the spiritual level of your home, spent quality time to pray for ur cheating husband for God to intervene n redeem him. Also see to it that u show him more love and attention now than b4 including deliberately wanting to sleep with him (kerewawa) almost everyday even when he is not in the mood. Do this kerewawa wit him regularly, put him in d mood even when he is not d mood, by touching and caressing his lollipop to initiate actions. If u can do this almost everyday and back it up with intense prayers continuously for 1yr, forget, u will sure redeem ur hubby even if he was a male prostitute b4 u married him. God bless u
The best advice
Thanks
U rock bro nice on
Madam, how you take know say na condom you see for oga pocket and or wallet. We no go trust you too, if be say you know condom too.
I wonder how women reply it means …….they need husband
Why should you? Burn down the house
However it goes either he is cheating on you or he is not,he took you as an appreciable asset and he loves you and would not want to cut your life short.
Yes my dear because if u start asking him its my bring in a problem in ur marriage ok
If u like over look if u no like no over look, do anyone way go favour u
What is the name of this movie, you never tell us the name of this movie, I want to buy it, hope it will be very interesting?
You should be very happy that your husband is using condon what if his using direct and give you sicknesses in fact your husband is the best man
But you are already looking at it
Yes na waiting you do ? You dey mad
Wat took her to his wallet women pls pray for ur husband n leave d rest for God, den mind ur own biz
Does he use condom on u? If no, worry ooo becos dat isnt a chew gum. If yes, y worried!
@gays this platform is beyond your knowledge. Its for married couples (men marrying women) so, stop humiliating yourselves. May God show you the right path and have mercy on your lustful souls.
Don’t you know that, condom is adult balloon?
Yes ma’am
Overlook it coz is for your own good
And mind you it’s his pocket not urs!!
Which mean u are safe , he doesn’t do without, lucky you
Yes overlook he OK
My dear cheating is in their genotype
Aaaaah! Thank God his conscious of ur health by thinking of safety. Let him know u saw the condom but do not react. He will be the one confessing. Lol
Yes you have to over look to leave long dear no matter what
If u don’t Overlook it maybe course to leave is house
I can see there are prayer warriors in here.
Can’t you relax before typing?
What has prayer got to do with this?
We all know everything needs prayer but pls read the question again.
Naija sha #Smh
Sorry…
Men are just dogs ,they hv use cheating as fun rubbish…
If you have brothers they are dogs too
It is very wrong when little minded girls call men dogs because is men that open advances but girls send the signal first, and they do it with holes like you, so lets mind the way we throw our gender lashes
Hummmm
Ask him but in a polite way. It shows that he is playing save. If you throw tantrums..you might lose him….so easy babe..watch what you say.
Yes ofcourse! Pray for him nd ur family. So you avoid problems in ur life nd ur marriage. Ur children are more important to worry over than a condom,atleast he know he shld protect himself,its now up to u to check urself from time to time medically.
If u like! Or u ask4trouble4u shuld knw ur man
What are you doing in his wallet? You broke the rules. Find no evil see no evil
Beat him
Pls ignore that and build up your. Home
He protecting yu fi
My friend cook his favourite for him atleast he remember to use his rain coot .what if he do it without protection so be happy
Hmmmm. Love your husband for whom he is, I mean LOVE. These word can close your eyes on anything he does wrong. Men are polygamous by nature, they must cheat on you, that does not mean he doesn’t love you, be a friend and a lover to your husband and that is the only way you can live together. Women are stronger than man in carrying pressures, we can resist temptations and avoid them but men can’t , why, they cannot hide their emotions , sometimes, they don’t go after women but women lure them just to pull them down spiritually. Our men needs us , they need our support to overcome and to resist temptations. So, I will advise you to let him be but to buy more condoms and put in his wallet, you have just killed his conscience , please don’t put up a fight, you will push him to go and do more. Bless you
Hmmmm. when married pple r talking. u hv to listen.
Best advice ever read, u r a real woman.
Nice one
So u go like am as him dey fuck another pu*** with condom nawa for u
Truth somehow
@ Ifeanyi, everyman loves his woman and anybody can be tempted irrespective of his status. If my man fucks a woman and hides it from me it means he respects and value me , that means, it wasn’t in his heart to hurt me but, it happens. Every man needs his woman prayers, it keeps him going everyday . A good woman keeps a home and not destroys it. Love leads and rules. Cheers
Glad glad ur type of woman scarce oh!! Men dat doesn’t give u d rite to cheat oooo
True talk, Dats exactly wat to do just keep praying for them, except u will loose ur marriage to a woman that will pray an change him.
What about if he cheats on you with your Sister on your bed or you caught him with your best friend on your bed? You know things are easier said than done. You know when a man also sees you don’t harass him, you feel relax about his ways, he’ll feel he has all the freedom to do anything and that also can be dangerous. Men sometimes need to be harassed like children, so that when they recall their wife wouldn’t take it kindly they’ll think twice before going into that.
Madam Glad Glad you sure say this your advise work well when you and Oga newly tie the knot? Because you be me like person wey no dey take rubbish o lol. Though experienced is the best teacher
Hmmmm why don’t love stop him from cheating or even the fear of God abeg e do
Overlooks cos he took it in case of Human temptation…
No don’t overlook it call police, or anti drug force since na cocane you saw fir his wallet, or nobi una condom ?
U are lucky he is protecting himself,thank God for that
U can ask h bt in loving way ,evn if he dosnt answer u dnt feel bad nd dnt fight him cos u already knw he is cheating on u,wht p advose u tp do is to lopk for another job to aviod asking tpo much,hw can u bcme a full tyme hause wife wit d hardship nw.marry ur bible nw nd wit consistence prayer nd suplication u ll win evrytin bck including ur hppiness take note,dnt go to ur lnlaws again,
A
You people want her to pretend like nothing happened? If the man sees her will he also pretend? Men should stop cheating. I will ask and he cares let him make noise about it. Infidelity is a sin.
Congratulate him atleast he is not careles he has the mind to protect himself and you too my sister men will always be men there is no man who doesnt cheat but let them cheat wisely like your husband, my future husband hope you’ve heard what i’ve said.
Not all men cheats. Get dat OK!
Hmm na u sabi
i thank GOD for my kind of heart in marriage.i was adviced that men are polygamous in nature.with few references i accepted it naturally to avoid heart atack or high bp.no woman outside can be a threat to my marriage. exept am having child issue,but if GOD blesses any one with kids well mixed.i think am secure & any concubine out there is inferior.& has expiring date.for me i always tell my man am the only soup u will eat for ever whether hot or cold tasty or sour,no leave no transfer.also i never fail to look good cos men like packaging.
You are right dear
Don’t even tell him anything,bcoz if you do my darling you will just coz a fight.
just over luk it move on thank ur God that he use condom
Ova madam Pls overlook tins in marriage we all are walking toward perfection.
Just buy a carton of condom and add it to the one U saw in his wallet, am sure if he has living conscience he will quiet and decide not to cheat on you again. Warning don’t lambast him it will make him to continue.
No don’t over look it,swallow it(if u can’t get a brain)
Relax. Take a drink and make him use one on you.
Different advice on different kind of husband, its easier said than done, if you have never caught him cheating or seen such…you can sit him down and you guys talk about it, you have the right to be angry but don’t go overboard. ..if he is the cheating husband and you are used to him like that, good for you…the truth is that the society has placed the advantage on men to misbehave more than women, even your parents will tell you seeing a condom on his bag is not enough to end your marriage…but if reverse is the case, I mean seeing a condom on the wife’s pause hmmm…”the igwe must hear this”…the comments here will change drastically. ..in a nutshell, ladies please know your man and his values and how he respects you then try to keep your home together. ..marriage no be beans!!!
Yes over look it is one of dose tins still love him more and still give him dose respect dats where for better for worst dat u guys make at ur wedding vow comes in and continue to pray for him
DO YOU PEOPLE USE CONDOM NORMALLY?
If yes think twice before complaining.
If no keep the condom for sometime to observe his body language, then discuss it with him in a matured manner.
He is ur husband u know him better than we all on fb.
May God grant u wisdom to handle ur family issues.
Put urself together before confronting him
Yes na, thank God he’s protective.
Heartbreaking stories like dis make me wonder how women cope in marriage…
This is what you get when a woman did not marry her friend as a husband# if his your friend give me one reason why you will not ask him#
don”t kill yourself
Keep calm..dnt react…but let him know.
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in a relationship there is privacy policy wtf are u looking for in his wallet remember the saying be careful what you for kus u might find it
U should be happy he is concern abt ur health, how many of we men can still be faithful to our partners?even if we want to, who will take care of other ladies out there Dt are in need of men not boys?just continue to luv ur husband and learn how to live with the trend.
Jux passing. I cease my case
Save it
Please overlook for you to be peaceful and live in peace nd continuos love.
If u like u can kill him.
Ok ,guys if you caught your wife cheating on you what will be your reaction, don’t forget women are also human with feelings. I guess is time we find a way to retaliate. Days of polygamous in nature should be over were is the Gods words we hear.
Yes ooo overlook it bcs he care for ur health
Would advise the same ….he will definitely stop
Yes it’s protection of your own life
Pretend u see noting
Oh what a lovely and caring husban.. Is even making use of condom.. So nice.
Yeah girl over look it, do as if u did not see it, Be wise.
U guys hav time…… let her go hang her self… or go enter express
Yes keep on to yrself
Well for a man to cheat on his wife, it means he no longer love the woman anymore , the woman will feel disappointed and hurt, I pray she is mature enough to handle the suitation . Unless she cheats too that she will not get mad , ask him !
God bless you.
I’m a Guy and I understand ur point.
Hmm just remove ur mind from it do lyk u saw nothing and hope on God
Do wat ever u wana do wid it. Who cares? After all is ur decision to make.
Hmmmmn
Yes ooooo over luk it we ar in men’s word
As my husband I have every right to ask him what the condom is doing there, as a woman, if u cannot ask him that means ur cheating too, I can only ask God to give me the grace to ask Him politely cos it pains….. Starting from that day, I will make sure that I give him condom before going out….conscience is the best disciplinarian. no matter how he pretends his subconscious mind will always pinch him…. Don’t die cos of men too or develop sickness cos of them…… Cos they don’t worth dying for
no eat it
Just tell him honey am glad you use condom.
Chew it
I just like all the mature coment
You’re lucky your husband is even using condoms, that means he cares about you and your marriage. Just ignore it
Funsho, what happens to Bible principle?
I must make u known that I know so u stop sweet talking me that u only have eye for me, than i pray that u get what u have sow ,(God of camar) I don’t think is a bad prayer because if I do same I get what I sow so that my take on this because I hate cheating….
Tnk God he no carry disease com meet u …
Overlook it, some guy is like that God we change him
Is for u na
Look am passed out bcos u no catgh am any u wan go ask am wetin him de use condom do he fit tell u say na de new balloon so over look so dat u will not lose ur home
Kill yourself
You want him to contract STD?
Meaning? Are you saying it’s okay for her husband or a man to cheat so far he uses a condom?
No call ur husband Nd asked him with a cool mind
yes and don’t say anything and if you can get more for him do it
Yes for peace to reign oky.
overlook it fr peace
Be happy he is using one
Be happy that he is using condoms, there’s nothing to be happy about, make sure he explains himself and make him understand that he has to rebuild the trust In that marriage again. And mind your, it’s the hand that you give him now that he will follow, babe, it’s in their blood so you have got to change it by prayers and standing up, go out and mingle with friends so that he can suspect you and then see how it feels.
Be thankful to God that ur hussy is careful enough to use condom.
Just thank God he used condom
Confronting him will not stop him chasing women out there play your role as a mother I mean real mother
Ask Google. ( But this issues makes me scared of marriage oh, God abeg oo)
No
If you know what is good and you love him let it go, you did not see anything
Use it
Fry d condom
Ask him in a peaceful manner and find out what you are not doing right to warrant him do so and start doing what he enjoys more out there. Show him more love and pray seriously that God change him. Even Condom is not a guarantee from contacting std’s, HIV etc… good luck dear.
I think I like ur comment the most lol it’s only a God fearing man or a man under some form of covenant who will not cheat.
First: Look deep know if yiu are starving him of sex , second: Just thank Him for using protection for your safety and I bet you he will think twice on cheating again.
My sister thank God ur husband uses condom like me I like listening to lies even wen I konw the truth if u want to ask him use wisdom anything I see in my home good or bad I take it as part of marriage so pls tread with caution
Over look him pls
..what about what I know and nobody is saying, well, one day, I will be making money out of my teachings and books. I have a dream
Mr Samson as for me I was washing his cloths n I saw de condom in his pocket.
He told me he was using it for illustration to de students meanwhile he’s English teacher.waaaaa hw£.
I thank God oooo for how far He has brot me.wen ur cup is full ,it will run over.My dear dnt worry at all
Dey always beg BT repeating de same tin beging beging beging till thy kingdom come zeg..
Pashew eeei men r fast oooo hahahaha u cee wt de guys are saying Joshua
Hez a good hubby, he knows how to protect himself , please don’t leave him
No….eat it.
Overlook? Lols just take him to psychiatry hospital before react bcos u need to knw if he is in his normal senses
Overlook it an keep watchin him oneday u wil catch him
This shit too much, am outta here!!!
Just pretend as if you never see anything that is just the best dear
Yes ooo my sister
Just thank God that he is very careful
People who are single have the best relationship advice
Ignored him & focus on your children.marriage is all abt been BLIND & DEAF as the same time.though is not easy but that is the best you can offer
Stop typing over look it for crying out loud. I’m burning right now.
To all guys typing over look it:
You find a condom in ur wife purse. Will you over look it?
Ahba! Think before typing naaaaah.
U have to be happy that ur husband is playing safe
Pray fr him bt dont giv urself heart attack or kill urself fr a man ,move on n pretain u did nt see it n focus on u n ur kids ,most expecially pray n fast fr him fr god to arrest him n do ur duty as a good wife God wil surprise u ok.i knw is nt easy cos if u ask him he wil play wit ur head n deny so dnt bother urself just leave it there fr him or throw it is a sign uve seen it n he knws if is ur duty to park n fix his cloths.just b strong follow ur heart n dnt spoil ur marriage fr another to come in ,men re d same bt few re choosen frm god to b faithful n pure.pray fr ur own no one is perfect n u 2.make ur home do d things he misses frm u whn u were single more dressng n sexy fr him.Bt pray n keep ur home n dont share wit people
4get oooooo
Wil u continue asking u wil kil urself silently my sister I knw is painful bt wht wil u do evn if u ask it wont change anything bt stories .pls pray n tell God to fight ur battle mak a room n pray b calng his name n talk to God ,put ur husband n front of jesus
Don’t ask him anything, but keep it where he know that you see it.
No, don’t overlook it, in fact! Kill him. You’ll end up a wido
Yes o with prayers
Am a guy but till today i still dont understand why men Cheat but i think the simple truth is that its women that makes men cheat.if you know a man is married and u stop him from comin close and even embarass him piblicly he will stop,and stick to his wife and on the other hand if bcos the man his cute,rich or handsome u find single girls running after him irrespective of the fact that they know he is married.so the bottom line here is that women generally make men to Cheat
When HIV strikes you blame yourself for not cautioning cautionables.
Yes.. Overlook it just make him notice u saw it.. And if he tries to explain.. Smike nd tell him u neva askd…
U hv to be happy and love him more because he is using Condom,na u know u are a d only woman eating is Cassava so respect urself
Yes overlook it and thank God he is even using condoms
Hmmmmmmmmmm to me any man that Married n still go on cheating on her has never married his wife he married his girlfriend. THE BIBLE SAYS THAT HER BREAST WILL SATISFY U ALL THE DAYS OF UR LIFE that is when u married ur own wife .king Solomon was a stupid man that Married 700 women n still go ahead cheating them with 300 girlfriends .this is fooly in the highest ranking
YES O. FORGET TOTALLY.
Why did u check his wallet?
Every body talk about men cheating on their wives what about women who cheat on Their husband ???? Anyway, madam call ur husband Ask him how come about the condom, U have all the right to know what is going on in ur family but do it in a mature manner
What are you looking for that makes you see it
yes,bks u ren’t sure of urself.seeing is believing.dnt ruin ur marriage do to what u saw
dont just overlook it challange him or report him to his parent
And so you want to tell me that you are going to addition problems to what you have my leave this things and moved forward with your life. Get some banku and okro stew and eat
Sorry dear what do u want to do, if l may ask u, u want to fight abi carry on and fight him, is better for you to overlook and pray to God to bring him back to u fully. Don’t relent in prayer.
Hmm u don’t no Wot to do run alway Pls. U did thank God that u see it
play cool and always advice him
Buy him more
Happy marriage include some sacrifices
Ignore it. Both of you used it. He forgot it in his pocket in attempt to discarding it.
U shld be tankful he use it, atleast he will be disease free
Be thankful that he is using condom some are so dump that de don’t even care if there is sexual transmitted Diseases
Na wetin make u put hand inside his wallet wuna de shear disame wallet wit him abi u one steal his money
Tnk God for ur life for he’s a very careful person who has his family at heart. So easy my lady
Don’t just overlook it unless ur his type (cheaters) .let him know u saw dat . First Question him in a good manner like
*honey(or whatever u guys call each oda) what’s this for? or
*I saw a condom in ur wallet
Then he will start to explain himself (the reason why for questioning him include dat a man/anybody can get a condom anywhere like dia was a day a health organization visited my school,after teaching about HIV and ways to prevent it, dey distributed condom to everyone.) so seeing a condom with him especially d first time doesn’t mean he is cheating. So first question him let him explain
If he is guilty let him know it hurts u, be angry and work away (don’t fight him ,don’t shout at him) let ur actions tells him ur not happy .if he loves u or has an atom of love for u he will come apologize to u. If u can forgive him(forgive him) don’t forget to tell him not to do it again. Dis words will always rings in his brain any time he wanna cheat or thinks of dat. Thanks
#lightOG
You should thank GOD he is using condom
He is playing safe
I guess it we make a lot of sense cause he is protecting himself cux of u
Consider it a dream, and forget.
Wetin she go find for the wallet???
You should be happy that he is a type that normally use condom
Keep it well he must use it to fuck you
If every woman can cleave to only one man. Many more men will achieve heaven.
Shu that one na talk u beta be api that he still remember to use protection….and go to the mkt 2 get him more and always check his wallet if it finished or not..den place a sweet kiss on his chick just to say tnx darling for being health conscious… and den relax to watch the film… my opinion tho b4 some ladies or married woman we start pouncing on me..so I guess am entitled to my opinion case close thank u…..n mind you it wat I’ll do cause I won’t just stress myself by confronting him since I know where it ll end…
Be glad at least he uses condom, some go free
It was not a used one. Maybe he went free or had several!!
Hahahahahahahaaa at the packet its always 3, so he went two rounds and kept one lol
You cud be right lyrn
It also looks he was in a hurry!!!
My dear keep quiet. Next time he is going out on a journey, pack for him some and remain quiet and if he finds and ask tell him you found before and you feel he needs it. All the best and tell him he means to you and walk away. Avoid catching the fish from the head
@Sensualidad su.. you don’t have to be insultive before proving your point…cutting off the head is not the solution to an headache… confronting him won’t change a thing just pray God don’t give you a cheat as an hubby dat all… n moreover woman aren’t fool we just being strong yea we all know that if it was to the other way round it won’t be dat funny…
No slap him
Woman mind how u tret ur husband by ur attitude, neatness to him am supporting him wot d man did is very bad in d sight of God bet some woman are very wicked, daity nd hatch to dia husband DT may cos man into such bad life
uyo ooo
Yes oooo even tnk him for using it
U should be very happy his using it
Thank God that he is using comdom and not direct firing.
Who is your husband tell me now!!!
i will ask him after some days
You shul be proud that he is protecting his self
Do wats is right and don’t give up
Marriage does not mean sizing up your hubby there’s the need for space and privacy if you had respected that finding condoms in your hubby’s pocket would have been an impossibility Wai
yeah ,pretend like u never saw anything. just try ..it’s hard though
Hahahahaha. Iaugh in swahili
Overlook it
You just over look it ok
normal en above all protected
Ignore that then pray for his change that is if you yourself is close to GOD The home maker let no one compare you into fighting your marriage, i recommend movie called ”WAR ROOM” . Is well
Ask him first
Yes now
So what is so special is he not meeting your needs? Your lady like trouble
me i will over look it and ignore him and try in my own part to make sure he does not go out anymore
He’s practising safe sex outside matrimony for which you should be thankful.
return it back to his wallet
No ooo kill him bcs dat shows dat he is cheating on u
Dey dnt deserve pity
It’s ok just be happy is protecting u’re life and him self.
Hmmmmm
Taking it serious may lead to something else. So be cautious.
Yes what else will you do
Over look and save your marriage
Let him no u saw cd in his pocket and commend him for his carefulness and watch his conscience kill him silently and ce him confess to u as if he is under torture.
Clap for him.safety consciousness for your sake