This photo is currently causing serious buzz on the internet.
The photo shows a young lady obviously serving as a maid of honour at her friend’s wedding as she is seen weeping profusely in the photo as the actual bride calmly walks behind her with the groom.
Social media users have since commented on the viral photo while offering differing views.
Many suggested that the young woman is too happy for her friend thereby causing the tears to flow.
However others maintained that the young lady is crying because she has feelings for the groom and may have even slept with the man and so was sad because her friend has overtaken her.
What do you think?
She missed d opportunity….mehn she’s damn jealous
Joy
U for ask her
Jealousy
She might not be jealous buh she just wish is her own wedding
Fact
U are right
I am emotional but I pretend not to
Exactly
Jealousy
Apeloko
Pains and wish
All join sha!
Tears of joy and regret too
In her voice… ‘God when will it be my turn’
Am hungry oooo
Yabaleft what do you think?
Joy..
Just praying for her turn
She did that bcos she will miss her somuch n again her Frd will nolonger v tym for her like when she is single
Why are you crying abi don’t u know u will see your man, wipe those tears and God will surprise you
Even me as I am Here I almost burst into tears
Last I heard was her sister now her friend wy all de twist story
That moment when the remaining single girlfriend you have is getting married, leaving you as the only single girl in the squad with no serious relationship.
Exactly my sister
yes! I think u may b right
True
You speak with your brain jare. U are so right
U have spoken for me i don’t need to comment again coz u said it all
for her to b cryin lyk dis,, hmmm who knws if d groom n bridesmaid has once dated or smtin ,,,,trust nobody
Well u can’t tell
abi o
Now I know u can turn news upsidedown! D gal crying suppose to b d bride but something happened n her guy marry her friend! …tell us exactly wot happened so dat we can know how to tackle d issue! Yaba!
Maybe the guy toasted her first and she refused.
Ehhhh then she went as far as being a chief bridesmaid?no naw! She should be a sister or bosom friend,so missing her might cos their tears
It’s possible that the guy toasted her first she refused maybe then the guy was broke but on the other hand her friend fell for the guy…..lo and behold it’s their weeding .
Hmmm I smell something under the carpet
The groom was her ex lover who she called a broke ass the guy is now a rich dude… To cut the long story short this same guy she dumped is the same guy marrying her bestie what a shame I was there…
Story for the Gods
Hmmm
Story story
Lai Mohammed Jnr oya clap for yourself???
Hmmmm na wa o,, u where there indeed.
AMEBO GO AN MARRY UR OWN
Hmmm liar
U beta shut up b4 one winch for facebook curse u nd yur own case might b worst
It’s not true
Bibi Mary Amakime very funny
Ur lie lie stand like carrot
Ur truth z made in nigeria
HahahahahahHahaha Bibi Mary Amakime j dey feel you, Lai Mohammed Junior. Hahahahahahaha
Lol. Oh my…
You were there!
Mayb nt jelosy…mayb,” O lord when will my man come?”
You are right cos this is every girls wish.
Dis is Nt Joy Bt a jealousy….She might have rejected d groom when he was broke nw d guy is rich nd married 2 her Frnd,She is nw regretting it…..Wat a pity!!
That’s not true
Hahaha!
Exactly Sarah.
Lol
Your opinion tho
Hmmmm
Na wa for una sef, so judgmental
Hmmmmmmm just passing oooo
#NonsenseComment
That’s not true. If it’s jealousy u will notice hatred in her eyes she won’t cry that much…if it’s jealousy she might not even attend the wedding….two things are involved may be she was heartbroken in a serious relationship 2. She might be so close to the bride and feeling lonely some friends are like that… I don’t see tears of hatred here at all.
That’s not true pls
U get mouth o
Everyone aint like u
Funny comments…no lady will accept d role of bridesmaid for her ex boyfrnd…..lol I see tears of joy
Correct
d bride might b her sister and as usual in naija maybe one wizard might av told dem no one will ever get married in their house..and now God has done it…e reach to cry
No! I know a guy who’s ex was his wife’s bridesmaid…..I’m serious no jokes
Tank u
Thanks. Na u get sense d foolish ladies saying nonsense. Na so dem dey sleep with deir friends boyfriend that’s y dey are thinking dirty
She is just happy
No talk like that o
it could be the both.lold
Lols
I strongly believe it’s joy, a lot of people are very emotional even I myself cry over little things. I cannot come and be having chest pains because I don’t want the tears to flow.
Lol. Me too
Lmao
Lol
She is like God pls wen will it b her turn or maybe her friend is younger
Lemme guess what she was thinking “this bitch got my man” lol
Is like it get reason
Eeeyaah….tell her to come I will marry her
She wished it was her.I don’t think she was jealous
She might not be jealous….she might be d bride’s sister. …who knows if one useless fake pastor has said sm1 placed a curse on d family n no one will get married n naw sm1 is getin married…abeg e reach 2 cry…we are all in God’s hands….I wish her her own husband
I hop she don’t have any afear wit d groom
Admin you shuld ve asked the girl urself.
None of the two. She’s sorry for herself and worried that she’s still single and no sign of marriage soon. May God bless her with a good husband as well.
Am not seeing it as jealousy, it must be that they are very very close, an definitely that their gud time won’t be that much again be her friend has family and she’s under a man now, her movement now is limited, these are the things she’s remembering that is making her cry.
Some people are very emotional and quick to shed tears . It’s possible she thought of someone. A mistake she made or a betrayal or just a failure of relationship . It could be anything . Jealous people are hardly emotional.
She cried because the man proposed 2 her first but she turned down d request and her room mate accepted. So she end up being her bridesmaid.
Exactly@ Nneka. My maid of honor and I cried profusely at my wedding. Her wedding was 2 months later. We were going to miss each other so much….
Abdul Abdulrahman you are right may be they are sisters.
Abdul Abdulrahman True Jealous people are hardly emotional
Lol @ Sunday Daniel
It’s pure joy, I think the bride and bridesmaid have been thru a number of heartbreaks so finally seeing her friend getting married is making her cry
maybe the flower is pungent. #justpassingby
Na she know o
WHY IS SHE CRYING
hmmm maybe she is cryin bec r onw man as nt locate r
Tears of joy
Its joy…coz r bestie is getting married
So no more late out night with dem girls
No more late night gist
Dis is not real, how can d bridesmaid b in front of d bride and groom?
She might even be shedding tears bcos of the way they are close, that GOD should remember her too. It is not a new thing.
She wishes this for herself as well
It’s neither of the two. This is called frustration, pain, bitterness and regret. When will it be my turn? Why not me? What have I done to be standing alone? Why??? But God knows why? Wait for your turn. It will definitely come if you so desire it.
The boyfriend propose marriage to her and on her g.friend wedding day, the friend knew about it, so she was surprised and cried out of joy
No be today o all d beta guys wey approach u na freestyle u dey do time and tide waits for nobody dont worry d nxt guy na sure bet
Do not judge. l am viewing it in two ways, she might be smone who z Emotional. So, in dat case she might av been over excited, nd can’t hide it. And secondly, D bride might be her close pal, nd she z missing her already. lf it wer 2 be out of jealousy, she may not cry, but wl frown uncautiously. One wl not need 2 be told b/4 u knw dat she z not happy. Whatever, let wait tl 2morw, she go clear d hear. Abi?
Sure . Jealous people don’t know how to cry. They frown. Emotional people don’t frown they cry
Yabaleft!!! Wetin concern una???chai!shey make person no shed tears of joy again??
May be the bride is her sister now feeling how she is going to miss her. It can’t be jealous and can’t be joy but emotional cry.
Dats a tear of joy.
UR NEXT IN LINE
Its normal I cried when my friend got married too I felt so emotional what really made me cry was dat she was flying out of the country immediately after d wedding nd I was going to miss her so its normal
That joy when your ex get married to your best friend…
Only God can judje
She might think of herself as time is running out her and she ve not yet got her Mr right while her friend is already with a husband
Why don’t we say it this way!!!there’s somtin called ”’tears of joy”’somtymx we exchange happiness with tears so don’t judge the lady yet…
When all ur frnds are getting married.and guys are disappointing u, now she is ur best frnd
That cry is emotional
Maybe all her friends are getting married and she was like praying to God and from there tears started flowing n she couldn’t hold it back, it can also be tears of joy for her friend” God is the one that knows the secret behind those tears
U re right
You’re very right sis
God bless you for this comment
Yabaleftonline.com ll ans d question demself, nah market dem dey fyn.
Just giv dem 3days d reason for d bridesmaid’s tears ll b known.
Dis is pure jealousy……. Maybe she dated d guy before or behind her friend,and he left her and married her friend…..i hear someone said it’s tears of joy, for where! How many people cry’s dis days wen peoples are getting married? Even families does no longer do dat anymore but even happy dat u are getting married to leave the house……. So my friends be careful how are called ur friend or friends cuz those tears u called tears of joy maybe some else….. Things are happening.
Why are you talking as if ure not a woman? B4 a woman can use someone as chief bridesmaid dey must be very close and trust eachother. Na so u Dey sleep with ur friends boyfriend? Haba! Na d thing wey u dey do na? How can you think like ds?
This lady is silently praying to God and she is using that rose flower as her point of contact. Stop talking nonsense please
My dear are you there in her mind???? Miss right….. Let me hear word,u talk as if you don’t know girls of dis days……..not in dis generation any more and even if you are too emotional, look at dat pic very well.Talking about close friend of Chief bridesmaid,wat if d person u have in mind Marry’s before you, won’t u have a Chief bridesmaid again???? For me Chief bridesmaid can b any body around u as sister,cousin or any friend who is available.My dear just b careful,how many girls still dey introduce their man friend to their friends dis day or take their friends to visit the guy in his house????? No tell me ……….well I wish you all the best in life,d day u will get married ,invite d whole villagers and friends to b crying on ur head in d name of tears of joy o.d reason why you are talking like this is cuz girls have not deal with u yet. Not wait until things happen to you before you learn……learn from people mistake dat is me OK. Just b careful cuz d devil u know is better than the angel u don’t know,even if you want to shed tears of joy in the name of praying or feeling d whole thing…… Do it gentle in a manured way not obviously dat u are feeling bad.so my dear I am not talking nonsense I know exactly what am saying ok
But still it doesn’t matter mean ur right about the picture @ Ekwealor Princess Njideka you could be totally rong
it happens and it is not jealousy… I myself do cry alot in weddings..
She may be crying because she isnt married yet
To knw d truth i would have to c d lady so i can search her mind..mtcheww Nigerians..who cares,she is crying at a wedding. pipo cry at weddings all d time,whether out of joy or jealousy its her own nsobu.hian
She is like God when will it be my turn
SHE MIGHT B CRYING BECAUSE SHE IS GONNA MISS HER FRIEND COS HER MARRIAGE WILL CHANGE N AFFECT THEIR CLOSENESS N FRIENDSHIP…
BUT I BELIEVE D MAIN REASON Y SHE MIGHT B CRYING IS DAT AS A SINGLE GIRL OR A LADY DAT SHE IS DUE FOR MARRIAGE,, SHE MIGHT HV REMINISCE N REMEMBERED HOW MANY MEN DAT HV CAME ACROSS HER, D GOOD, BAD, SUNNY N RAINY DAYS,, D SACRIFICES, HER BODY DAT SHE HAS OFFERED,, SLEEPLESS NIGHTS,, HEART BREAKS N LOTS OF WARS SHE FOUGHT JUST TO MK THOSE MEN HAPPY BUT NONE OF THEM ENDED UP WITH HER BUT D FRIEND TURNS OUT TO B LUCKIER DAN HER..
TO ALL THOSE GIRLS DAT HAS KEEP IT WITH THEIR MEN,, MAY GOD GV U ALL D MAN OF U PEOPLE’s CHOICE. JUST PREPARE COS U RE DOING UR TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE N WEDDING BY DECEMBER
While crying she should go and marry NW, if she think is easy to get husband in this RECESSION
The girl rejected the guy when he had nothing even though he loved her, the bride to be being a best friend of her kept advising her to exercise patience for the guy but she refused, n later the guy got married to the best friend who accepted his proposal n waited till the guy made it, that’s why she is crying …. Her cries was just regrets it’s a lesson to some girls out there who think that everything should be “already- made”……a woman can still open doors for a man, a man with vision n focus is worth giving a trial.
If she has bn with the guy, she wont accept being the best maid in wedding, unless she was be friending her friend’s guy secretly before the marriage and she love guy but couldnt married him bcos he does not belong to her before and this could made her to cry
Bro the bride was a very good friend of hers, she ask her to be among her train n she accepted, don’t you know if she refuse people will know she is jealous even after rejecting the guy.
How are u sure its d truth. Are u her friend? pls lets not assume anything.
Some people are very dumb in school. And also dumb in their comment or sense of reasoning
So she refused to marry d guy cox he was broke yet d friend used as cheif bridesmaid? Y are ds foolish na?
Were you there??? See conclusion chai!
Were you there???
It seems you witnessed everything about the couple and the brides maid.
Hahaha…i can’t laugh o
Foluke Josephine Balogun if u ain’t dumb you won’t make that your first comment……you think everybody will come n lie in social media like you…anyway if I don’t know them I won’t have commented.
Mary… U follow for their Clique… Do u know dem personally… Make e no be say u read m online ooo cum dy yan iranu abacha
Lol iranu abacha fine na …Cynthia bae yes na I do.
Story for d gods
U for say story for ur ancestors mercy…lol
Madam story teller. Radio without wire
Na lie. Stop claiming you know dem. Stop assuming nonsense and reason with ur head. How can this ur story be true? Such thing can never be possible. Abeg carry ur apc lie lie commot for here.
No ex will ever agree to be bridesmaid and more so. No bride will even invite his groom ex to their wedding not to take of making her a bridesmaid. Person dey use flower pray to God. I also get emotional when im praying about something. So carry ur apc lie lie comot for here mehn
Foluke Josephine Balogun babies like you blab huh? If you don’t believe why not scroll pass, than behaving like a #nag u r, your a suspect in this case that’s why its paining you……please stop #nagging here cos I didnt tag or invite you to reply my message. See gobe oo ee? ….Off to get rope for you; so you can tie it to your neck….gush!!!! Have never seen such a #nagging woman.
Replying you is a waste of data. Im a woman. So im interested in d story. Women should support one another not bring a fellow lady down. #Madamisabidemall#
Enugu okpa dey shark u bah? That’s y u dey talk nonsense
Mind set!!! It’s always like this when two close friends are been tear apart like this.it always hurt.As for me there is nothing like jealousy or ex lover….She will miss her Bestie
There are two things involved. Is either the Age is not on her side and she supose to be married bfor her friend or she doesn’t have any hope of marring again maybe personal problems. God help her though
Perhaps they are lesby mates.
Why take panadol for someone’s headache. Mtchew.
It could be tears of joy
it could be two of them started life together right from their youth and now she is going to miss her
Jelousy over what kwanu! Who says marriage is an achievement. She’s happy for her friend Biko
She is crying cos She is gonna miss her friend, jealousy ke
Mad sad feeling.
Make i leave this issue to the ladies
Some people are very emotional and quick to shed tears . It’s possible she thought of someone. A mistake she made or a betrayal or just a failure of relationship . It could be anything . Jealous people are hardly emotional.
You are right
Best friend
Lol for we ladies dt cant stand hard times,the guy you dropped dt God later answered his prayers.choose your friend nd gave her the ring.so why are you crying
Regret
Mine dis so but is all jealousy don’t mind them full of jealousy they will remain like dat crying from one wedding to another God will surely punish them.
Av once cried for a friend like dis so is neither joy nor jealousy…is jux d feeling dat things ar not gonna b d same anymore
now she committed nd am gonna miss d good times we shared toether datz all
Absolutely my dear*
Its not jealousy. She is extremely happy for friends. And she wishes her marriage to happen soon too. She is using d rose flower as a point of contact . God will answer you dear. Ur wedding is the next online ijn
Not jealousy…I believe they are close and she might be remembering what her friend passed through before getting her man . OR …she is like, let hers happen soon with a silent prayer and tears.
I think both
It’s joy,,, she so much love ha frd ,,,,
Most pple talking about jealousy or ex i can boldly say u guys ve not experience true friendship. Do u know wot it means growing up together as friends or even sisters going through life struggles together and finally u see how ur friend is blessed and has achieved most of wot she wanted then u wouldn’t be happy for her to me is tears of Joy and thought of how she will be missed.
Its joy. I cried at friend Seunmade Falade Saraloge when she got married… Now am also married.
That is not jealousy, she is only reflecting back 2 when the both started there different relationship with there guys and now her friend is married wit same guy but her own break up wit her when is almost close 2 marrage and she love him so much. Remembering things lik this can make u cry and knowin that al ur friend are all married. God wil position u and u wil smile again.
It Was Just A Tears Of Joy, Because Dnt Want Her Best Friend To Leave Her
I don’t see it as jealousy, she might be crying and asking God when will my own be
Her reasons are best known to her. But what ever it is dear just let it go and move on…
baba dis is tears of joy na……she go miss her… na 2day una begin see dis kind tin? something wey i don see taya…
I think she’s tired of celebrating with others n she wants to be celebrated ….she don do many chief bridesmaid
I cry when am so happy si I think it’s joy.
May be the guy has been runs her b4
Maybe she is not married yet and she was chatting with God and she couldn’t hold the tears than to cry out if that is the case then i pray God provide her own spouse and also me
I guez som1 she loved broke her heart..seeing her frnd getting married makes her more emotional #she would have been the one #
What if she equally got laid by the groom without her friend knowing, and she is thinking of what she is about to loose or something like “why am I always being laid only for the true owners to take them away from me, why? Why? Why????????????????. Lol.
None of the above. Maybe her friend’s wedding reminded her of her past engagement or r/ship that’s would have led to her wedding.
She’s just hoping 4 her own, tears of joy
Maybe she is in love with the guy
How is that jealousy?she is crying cos she will miss her best friend..
Maybe she is close to her and has see what her friend have pass though in the hands of men
My elder sis cried on my wedding day not because she is jealous but because she wants God to bless her too, maybe that’s the situation here…
I call it tears of joy, you guys may not understand, i cried at my friend wedding i was her maid of honor she was more than a friend but a sister to me through she was my senior but, you can’t see her in a place without me. So you guys should stop saying is Jealousy cos someone that is jealous of you, you can never see that person tears a specially in the public.
Pretty damsel, I which I can console you I know deserve it also.
Joy… I do that a lots @ wedding … u don’t force it … it just comes
She might nt hv a serious relationship, & all her friend hv gotin married. I also did dsam lst Saturday in my friends wedding BT no 1 notice me. It cnt b jelouse
She dey cry make God give her ,her own husband
Maybe she will be missing her friend
Maybe she wish she’s d one
Tears of joy. She wish that for herself. I don’t think is jealousy
Jealousy oooo
It’s can never be jealousy, to me maybe she is touched that’s all
It’s possible, she might ‘ve probably remembered everything Dat d bride passed through b4 d wedding became a reality. It also happened to me,
She is going to miss her dear friend, that’s all. I once saw my mum cry at her friend’s wedding.. Being an inquisitive child as then, I asked her she said her husband will be taking her to a very far place where they will live together. So she will miss her so much.
Two tins involved
Its a time of sobber reflection for her…within her she will B like(if i hadnt fucked up john could av married me)
de gal de mad……make she wit for her own.husband……Gods tim is de best……
its pure jealousy u need to see my friends picture during my wedding.its far was than this she looked like a vampire that lost target
Queen. U re funny. But re u serious?
YES i watched the video some days ago
sorry about the wedding story its true after i will send u the bridal picture
Inukwa!
Its more than possible, it could be joy.
Not jealousy it pains when missing a friend close to you it as happen to me when my closed girlfriend got marri we both cheer the tears of joy is a normal thing.
an forgiveness
I’d say both but she is not jealous of her friend but of the bridesgroom bcos he jxt snatched her bestie for real!!
May be she had an affair with the groom.
Act of jealous! Pray and your own will come.
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Thnks Nneka Nnakwu Nwachukwu, you got it 100% correct. When one is jealous, she won’t show it and won’t cry…you can only notice by their face and actions. I really cried on my best friend’s wedding, I dressed her up during her day, gave her the best make over, excited she was getting married, but did not know when I broke into tears before our coursemates and crowd because am going to miss her. Today we are happily married with kids and share our joy and pains. Odochi Adaugo Etunwoke Alakwe.
Just asking God wen is her own turn going to be
Its never jealousy. When u miss sm1 u r very with,it brings such tears. Awww! I remembered Ify cried on my wedding day.
She is the bride kid sister, and she is missing her already.
They might have gone tru prmary school together, secondary together, tiatary
They might have gone tru primary, secondary, Tertiary institution together, and on DAT faithful day,a frnd of her took a step ahead of her,crying naver meant she is jealou at all
She has bridesmaid more 20 pple so she needs her husband by fire by force
It could be either way; but most likely, just wondering how life without her best friend’s going to be… especially, perhaps, that she’s yet to be “located”?!?
It happened to me on ma wedding day my friend cried uncontroablly becose we where so close and she felt we wnt be seeing as often and so many oda tins we both cried but later we she got her self back. And now we are fine and she understands dat am now married we can’t be seeing like before and i don’t also go out with her like before. So to me I dnt see it as jealousy.
When even people are traveling for a short period don’t we feel sad? This is life long journey and so let’s give her benefit of the doubt she means well
The man might have approached the Lady in question before, Only God knows what could have happen maybe due to the boy financial inbalance the lady might turns him down or the lady is too proud and selective but later realised she has missed a gold for stone.
The man might have approached the Lady in question before, Only God knows what could have happen maybe due to the boy financial inbalance the lady might turns him down or the lady is too proud and selective but later realised she has missed a gold for stone…A lesson to every lady
While is only God can tell, we humans may said it wrong as for me is tears of joy because she maybe missing her already, is not easy to be single seeing all your friends getting married