There’s this belief that if a guy, particularly Nigerian, loves a girl, he’d do anything to keep her, like be celibate and all… just to profess his love for the girl.
But this Facebook user, Victor Daniel, has taken to his page to oppose the motion, as he says, if he actually loves a girl, he’d definitely ask for sex cause “love and sex is connected“.
He shared on Facebook:
If I love you, I will ask for sex. Forget that “if he loves you he won’t ask to get into your pants” talk. I’m being honest as I can.
I’m sexually active and one of the ways I express my deepest emotions is through sex. Love and sex is connected and if you love someone, you will be sexually attracted to the person.
Before I start any relationship with a girl, I make sure to let her realize that I am sexually active and sometimes I may seek sexual relief from her.
Stop downplaying sex. The importance of sex to me cannot be overemphasised. I will not enter a relationship with a woman simply for the sex. No. But if I fall in love with you, I’m also going to establish a sexual intimacy with you.
