Nollywood actress cum single mother of two, Adunni Ade gives her take on those people who always look down on women who happen to be baby mamas.
The actress says that most times its down to being in a miserable relationship or getting out and pushing for their child or children.
She wrote:
I take it personal when a person feels like they’ve got the right to speak on a person’s lifestyle, relationship status or what not. Just because some choose to be quiet about your dirty laundry does NOT give you the right to speak about another. Just like every other single mother or so called “Baby Mama” , it’s either a choice of being in a miserable relationship or getting out and keep pushing for their Child(Ren)
P.S so you know, a lot of single parent (male or female) do a great job providing for themselves and children than you who sits in a miserable, horrible, heartbreaking relationship. We are not to be defined by our relationship status! Your dedication, hardwork, persistence to your existence in this world should be your focus. Just because a lot of us don’t share our life story to the public does not mean we are not survivors. Face your life! Face your work! Be a great example to others! Be remembered more for the good and not bad.
