Blessing stated that choosing to cook, clean or wash for a man doesn’t make them wife material. She said instead of doing do all that, women should focus on developing themselves because marriage is for companionship, not slavery.
According to her, women should focus on empowering themselves so that their partners will not outgrow them. Adding that, women are the reason why men use and dump them because they are scared of developing themselves and being independent.
In her words;
”Dear women, cooking and house chores does not make you a wife, go and develop yourselves, house chores, cooking for him, washing for him, doing all those busy bodies does not make you a wife, you need to develop yourselves.”
“Marriage is not slavery, marriage is for companionship and when you are companioned with somebody, you need to learn how to communicate. It is you women that has made a lot of men turn you to slaves, because many of you women are sacred of self-development.”
A lot of men have dumped you today and you are wondering why in as much as you have been cleaning and washing for them, it’s because they have outgrown you, a man can now afford to pay for those things that you do for him.”
“What would you hold on to if a man decides to let you go? But if you develop yourself, you empower yourself and you become independent.”