Nigerian socialite, Pretty Mike has advised men with cheating partners to feel free to pour out their anger and not die in silence.
In a lengthy Instagram post, Pretty Mike stated that men too get hurt but the society is never receptive of men who share their pain. According to him, the society tags such men as “talkative or immature”.
He averred that often times men stay in relationships where they have been abused and cheated on because of their ego.
In his advise to heartbroken men, Pretty Mike stated that they should feel free to express their pain and pour out their anger, to reduce the long list of men who are currently dying in silence
In his words,
“Na wa ooh…. This our society where a man can’t express his hurt without being tagged a talkative or an immature man,how do u expect to know how many of us that have been hurt, abused and cheated on and yet stayed in a relationship ? Yes I’ve seen a couple of instances where the woman cheats and the Guy stays…
The fact that our ego, as men wouldn’t let us come out and cry about our women cheating on us doesn’t mean it never happened…….
Often time,the ladies gain sympathy when Dey share their stories with their friends, on the other hand, if a man shares such stories with his male friends he gains Mockery…..
Lastly, it’s easier for women to go online and cry foul and the response would always be in their favor; the usual “men are scum” phrase would surface, but if a man ever comes out, world people will say “He talks too much, Abeg alot of guys are currently dying in silence……
Oga Instagram community is here, feel free to express ur pain and pour out ur anger… You can’t be forming Lagos big boy, working super hard to provide for ur family and Dey will still be Fu*cking madam up and down and u can’t say anything because people will laugh u, if u allow depression kill u, Dey will cont the Fu*king in ur Lekki home and send ur kids to go and stay with relatives”.
See his post below,
