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Ex-Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama is going contrary to the biblical doctrine that states that a woman or man should not divorce their partners on any ground except adultery, even if that person is an abusive union.

She wrote on her social media handle:

So today on d train I get to talk with this nice lady. She’s been through so much in her bad marriage. Somehow d police gets involved and she’s removed from that unsafe environment especially as children are involved. D issue now is one of d many Pastors whom she used to run to for help and prayers now tell her That” If she decides to end d abusive marry, D Bible says she is not allowed to remarry???. Ok so if that’s what d bible says then she suggests that what she would have done was after he beats her, she would have waited for him to sleep then she should have tied him up and beaten him up too or done worse to him?
So I ask Did D Bible truly say one should stay In an Abusive marriage riddled with lies, cheating and adultery??? Did d bible or d People that wrote d bible not get a revelation on that? Is it fair??? If that’s d case then I would probably agree on an eye for an eye. Since its not biblically? Religiously or Christianly to leave? Then when d man hits, wait and endure till he kills you then he will be forgiven or wait till he’s probably asleep then strike. Abi?????. ?????? #live #love #learn
Have a blessed Day Dearie sssss???

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597 COMMENTS

    • For no reason should a man hit his wife… Dis is d mother of his kids we are talking about…. Moreover he is not her dad neither is he her creator to lay hands on her.

  40. that can only happen if ur husband sleeps like a dead body.. bt wait a sec. y shld ur husband beat u, is he mad.. if he does that, just get him his fellow men to beat him up.. or better still settle ur scores amicably.. lolz bt men shld learn to stop beating their wives.

  66. Can’t stp lafin….i wonder d kin slip wey d man go slip sotey him no go no say dem dey tie am. Na only samson dem fit do dt one bcuz of dililah’s lap….dt kin tin

  72. It’s better to go back to your parents house o and settle the matter from there. Cuz if you try that alone and he wakes up it is well with your soul.Its one thing to get beaten once and it’s another thing to get beaten constantly, if e pass once mbok it’s time to say goodbye,don’t hope for change.Thats how a woman in phc ended up dead cuz he beat her to death,buried her inside their one room apartment and ran away till today,it was the smell of the decomposing corpse that drew the attention of the neighbours.If it ain’t working,seek help and leave.Your strength is no match for his anger.

  96. I suggest you use cuffs… That Nigga might wake up whilst you are tying him and BOOM…

    With gratitude to God for a life well spent, we the family of Mrs. XxX regret to announce the untimely and vicious passing of our dearly beloved sister who died from severe internal and external bleeding, brain hemorrhage and multiple broken bones and lacerations whilst trying to act on Victoria Inyama’s advice …

  118. ha this one na witch may God not let me meet such o wait till i sleep if devil come use pass beating nkor or na person wey dey hypertensive,i think you kill am you say na devil work.

  127. You tie him up while he’s asleep, and then you beat him up. Then when you are done, you untie him to stand back on his feet with his hands free, or leave him tied up forever? Lol.

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  140. Wow,this advice has been on my mind since, if he beats me,I will mix sleeping tablet, when he sleep deeply,I will tie his 2 legs 2hands,flog him ehhhh, that in d future when he remembers it,he won’t even dream of touching me again

  145. So…after you have tied him up and beaten shit out of him…what happens the next day? Would he sit back,clap his hands and welldon or he retaliates and later sends you packing??? Who lose? Two wrongs cannot make a right.

  167. Pls madam publisher/poster I would like to know if you are married at all, easier said than done, two can’t be mad at a time and my advice to the ladies in the house both married and unmarried please do not give a thought to such advice.

  170. Stupid advice, which imbeciles husband will allow his wife tie him when asleep that will not kick her with full force amidst awake. That woman will think is kangaroo that kick her. She will receive second face of beaten like hell.

  189. wel her suggestion is a gud one! that is tut 4 tat rule, but i hv a simple question 2 ask her. If u tie ur husband while he’s asleep and beat him up, will u stil live in d same house wit him?

  196. Before u do that gather every thing together both ur bag ,leave the door open incase if the rope loose ,u can b able to run for ur dear life . If he catch u sorry will b ur surname .no say i no talkam

  198. Dat 1 Gud nw..Tie him up nd beat him,Then Wat happen d next morning if he wakes up?Am sure u won’t stay 2 live 2 tell d story….If it works 4 u dat doesn’t mean it wil work 4 other women o…Ur advice is bad my dear sis!

  207. try your husband one day with that manner …I like your advice.. inyama….incase you have not noticed your husband is a kung fu master he will use you practice snake in the monkey shadow that night

  218. Foolish Victoria,u dont have parental trainin at all.are u tellin women to be rude and disobedient to their husband?i think u are frustrated and u want other women to be frustrater too

  222. Really!!! Good advice!.. then he won’t have d power 2fight back.. let him feel wat it feels like 2b beaten.. #Mbok on d process of beating and d rope loosen, hmmm, make sure u can run……….. Asin run 4ur dear life….Infact, after that, pack back 2ur parents house.. but first beat am back.. lmao.#Y must he beat u first..!?

  234. There is a difference between separation and divorce! The bible may say divorce only based on chastity and adultery, but why is no one talking about the abuse women go through! If you as a woman try and things don’t work out, move out of the house even if you want to remain married! Wait, which is better, leaving the man and eventually settle or unsettle the issue or staying in that house, live in deep grudge and eventually be sent to untimely grave? Have we forgotten that grudge can take one to hell? He takes your life and sends you hell with the accumulated grudge you have against him,behind you, he eventually repents and makes that same heaven!! Remember, what ever will make you not make heaven or lead you to hell, cut such off, so the bible says!! Are you a learner???!!

  239. After reading most of the comments from the women I realised that majority of Nigerian women will die single, that is even if they managed to get a husband they would be divorced.

  249. And when u tie him up and beat him too make sure just just kill him okay so he won’t even wake up again …. Cos if he does you are dead.. #hissess any woman that goes with this insensible advice that this woman said, is an animal

  250. And when u tie him up and beat him too make sure you just kill him okay so he won’t even wake up again …. Cos if he does you are dead.. #hissess any woman that goes with this insensible advice that this woman said, is an animal

  252. Hmmm…. Instead of tying him up, its better to use hand cuffs to cuff both his hands and legs then beat the hell out of him because if she uses rope or anything dat becomes easy to lose and dat man sets himself free hmm na 3rd war be dat o

  254. Everything concerning the husband the wife is in charge of it. Things like food,drinking water, washing his clothes,bathing water, etc. Don’t you think it will be very easy for a woman to take revenge on her husband if she want to? But I tell you, a real heaven sent woman will never do what you’ve advised. She’ll always forgive her man and pray for him to Change. Your advice can even lead a devilish woman to kill her husband in the process of revenge. If this is the best you can advise, then I wonder how your home will be like.

  268. I try to lure him for sex and then tell him, we are going to have a new fun for sex called tied me up, then he will accept the tied up after 2 rounds , then after tieing him up, I beat him with his boxer smoothly.

  292. And by the time the rope lose during the process of beating,,,pray ur ancestors answer u on time….dnt Even try to lock the door before beating so when he roar u can run out and scream for help.. thanks

  294. Hmmm wat an advice,y wud a man beat a woman in the 1st place?i tink women shld learn nt 2 step on dia ego cos men r nt completly made wit patience,sumtimes they act b4 they tink….

  304. I really don’t understand at fast they use to live each other like crazy but after the knot (marriage)things change the husband beat the wife and the wife can’t talk to anyone coz pple will point finger at her and say that she is the one who bought him so she suffer alone please please please parents let’s learn to understand our daughts coz 70% women in marriage are facing that challenge…..may allah grant us paradise

  316. Wise women dont retaliate fight, there protect their husbands, there seek for peace, there are submissive in nature, respectful. Read more proverb31vs10 down.

  336. Nne! U funny wel well oo, the advice you ar givin 2 d world is not good. Learn this, wen he is angry dont say anytin avoid tins dat wil mak him beat u, sing songs of worship and if he ask u question ans in a calm voice then resume ur song again and wen u notice he has calm down, go 2 him and say sorry he wil change wit time and he wil alway respect u.

  357. This advice is so stupid, what if it backfired or you succeeded the first time, what happen the next day? Mrs “wisewoman” Iyamah, is that what you do to your husband?

  361. No don’t tie him just wear pant and legis b/4 you sleep and close your legs 4like 4days no beating way pass that one to a man that his Jack knife is in function B’by girls

  367. Women are gifted when it comes to mouth nd men are also gifted when it comes to beating oo. So evryone is saying men shouldnt exercise their beating then women must not exercise their mouth wrongly oo. There shouldnt be any justification for women using their mouth wrongly at men. I rest my case.

  377. We just dey talk, truly speaking it’s wrong for any responsible man to beat his wife but the question is what is her offense and even if something like that comes up the best thing for that lady to do is to seek for their family intervention or self settlement other wise only God knows what can happen ooo i rest my case.

  380. This beating of a thing is not good enof,_my formal neighbour in akure did it he beat d wife to d comma but d following day,d woman went to d market nd bought pepper up to one paint she blend it with blender,she boiled water nd turned d pepper inside it nd pour it on her hubby d man almost die even till today his skin still look somehow nd since then he never try it cos he is now scared as d woman threatened to pore acid next any time he beat her up cos of girl friend again.

  384. Two wrongs have never made a right.It is better to caution him and talk to him even if he is wrong.Please seek God for peace to reign then dialogue with your husband .
    What if is your wife who beats you ?

  396. Men please stop beating your wife /girl friend ooo there are other ways to clear her doubt, eg not eaten her food, not touching her at night or better still just quit and walk away because women are Bounch trouble that’s better …he who has ears let him hear.. Shikinna

  397. hmmmm. atimes revenge to men use to solved some issues in marriage. but not raising hand to beaten. it’s forbidden for a woman to do that… revenge in a way that he will feel the pain of his actions.

  399. Chia,this woman u re funny,will u kill him before u start tying him,who told u he won’t wake,when u start from the hand he will wake before u gets to the leg ,same thing when u start from the leg so this one …….I no follow.

  400. 2 wrongs can’t make a r8!
    Men, pls do not beat ur wife.
    Women ,don’t try to tie ur husby 4 retaliation , mmmm,,,,,,! Mistake fit happen in d process of trying to tie him. Eweleeee!
    Mgbuluba go keseleooo.

  403. No God fearing woman will take ur advice, ur advice is to scatter marriages. I
    f u r a problem to ur husband to husband, pls handle it itself! If you can’t handle it, u can seek advice.
    Allow others ! They know how to handle dia problem.
    STOP IT!
    VERY BAD ADVICE

  409. I pray that God will give his children their lives March partner not the once that lay their hands on their wives, so this Ur advice destroy marriage, two hands can never make a rid, no matter what our husband is the head of the house we most obey them, a reasonable man can never lay his hand on a woman he paid her pride price

  413. All this celebrates, i don’t think they reason or reasons before opening their mouth to talk, this arrogant attitudes makes majority of them single mothers. They maltreat man, praying for Mr saint for their daughters, it’s not possible. As far am concerned two wrongs never make a right. We woman should learn to control our mouth. Being silent does not make us fools, but gives way for peace to rain. Men treat your wife the way you want your sisters and daughters to be treated and wives treat your husband the way you want your son’s and brothers to be treated.

  423. If I beat a man back as adviced, he’s lucky, dt means I still love him, and will beat and leave a mark for him as a reminder, uhn if I leave him with the physical abuse as in beating my own back to my satisfaction, I swear he better pack and run for his life. If u like insult me here, dts my own, if u like u can buy ur own husband pankere or kobokobo to beat u o. Na ur life. Outta here.

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