Girl shares whatsapp chat with married woman warning her to leave her husband
Twitter user, Simi shared the chat above she had with a married woman via her husband’s phone.
See more of her tweets below:
President Buhari Arrives Morocco – See How He Was Welcomed
President Buhari arrives Morocco ahead of climate change conference COP 22 in Marrakech on 14th Nov 2016.
Meet Emir of Kano’s incredibly beautiful 19-year-old wife (photos)
When you meet people like Sa’adatu, it is easy to believe beauty resides in a specific place. We understand beauty is lurked in every corner of the world but glancing at this majestic queen has us thinking she has enveloped every form of beauty in every fiber of her being.
Don’t crack your head too much, all we are saying is: she’s more beautiful than words can express. Sa’adatu Lamido is the daughter of the late Lamido of Adamawa, Muhammady Barkindodo-Mustadafa.
As part of the royal family, she was mandated to be joined in marriage to the current Emir of Kano- Sanusi Lamido Sanusi.
As a well brought up princess, she became the third wife of the emir in secret ceremony held in Yola at the age of 18.
The queen is currently enrolled at an undergraduate program with a university in the UK where she is studying computer science.
She is set to complete her degree in 2019, when she will turn 21 and her marriage to the emir will be fully effective.
Pending when she will mother a prince of pure royal blood, here are pictures of the amazingly gorgeous queen that will make you fall in love.
Top 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Are Scared Of Calabar Women!
Okay, to be clear folks, this post is in no way at all, made to tarnish the reputation of Calabar women as this category of Nigerian women are known to be one of the most hard working and independent women!
But for certain, whether you do know or you don’t have the slightest clue, there are some attributes to Calabar women that makes most Nigerian men really frightened when they hear about or see them, let alone be in a relationship with them.
These are some of the reasons that have crossed our paths from time to time.
1. Height.
Although, it’s not general among all indigenes, but Calabar women and sometimes, men, are known to be of short heights. This body physical disadvantage makes some men scared to date them especially men who have a thing for women with considerable height. Long legs are sometimes turn ons you know?
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2 year old girl injured in school expelled because her dad reported to the police
According to rights activist, Emeka Ugwuonye, who got the complaint, Miss Doxa Etim-Esin is a KG 2 student of Remmok School, located at 57, Sarah Faboyede Street, Bucknor Estate, Transformer Bus Stop, Oke-Afa, Isolo, Lagos.
Her mom was quoted as saying:
“Apart from being in the school within school hours, we also paid for after school care to be provided for her until we pick her up later in the evening.
On Tuesday, October 25, 2016, I got to the school premises at about 7.30pm and upon checking her body, I noticed her right eye was bleeding. I was alarmed! I beckoned on the small boy she was left with and all he could say was….”I dont know what happened. It’s not our fault.”
At this point, I was left with no other option but to raise an alarm. The proprietress’ daughter came out and maintained that whatever happened to my daughter was not their fault. At this point, I was so traumatized to keep calm.
I kept demanding for explanations but got none. The proprietress’ husband came out at that point to say I had no right shouting in his premises and then ordered me out of his residence.
One of the daughters also flung my child’s school bags at me insisting the accident was not their fault. I reported the issue to the nearest police station and the next day, the school management was invited. .
The DPO charged the teacher and she was detained. We made it plain that our displeasure was basically the fact that a 30-month-old child had an accident where adults were around and was left without even first aid treatment for the next 5hours.
To our greatest surprise, the school, on Monday, November 7, 2016, inserted a dismissal letter in her school bag which was to be effective the very next day.”
Love must come with money – Ghanaian pastor warns men
General overseer of the International Central Gospel Church (ICGC) has advised in a direct message that men should love their wives not just with words but also money.
Teaching his congregation about giving in the church, the founder of the International Central Gospel Church (ICGC) said: “Love gives, love shares.”
Pretty soon your wife is going to say: ‘Where is the love?’ These days because women, too, can do what men do, you also don’t tell your man: ‘I love you, you know I love you.’ Show it! Because when you say you love somebody, men if you tell a lady, ‘you know I love you sweetheart, you know I love you babe,’ or whatever you call them these days, ‘I love you’, where is the money? Love must be followed by giving. Don’t just do mouth mouth. You must show it, Otabil states.
You won’t believe where this mallam gets his suya meat from
A mallam was caught and stripped naked for reportedly stealing meat from a butcher’s shed in Enugu, recently.
According to Facebook user, Egwuatu Chukz, a Hausa man was caught stealing meat from a butcher’s shed in Ogbete market, Enugu state.
The Hausa man was said to have casually strolled into the shed, brought out a sack and started stuffing large chunks of meat into it, completely ignoring the fact that there were other people around.
According to the butchers, they had gathered and prayed over the ‘mysterious’ disappearance of meat from their shed, one week before he was caught in the act. He was also accused of using charms to perpetrate his crime. Read what transpired according to Chukz, below:
“BREAKING: NOTORIOUS HAUSA/FULANI MAN CAUGHT STEALING MEAT WITH THE AID OF CHARM IN THE POPULAR OGBETE MAIN MARKET. On 12th of November 2016 in the above named market in Enugu, Biafra land, a notorious Hausa/Fulani man was caught after stealing meat weighing over 22 pounds, at the market abattoir located at Akwata side.
Information reaching the family writers, states that this Hausa/Fulani man has been perpetrating this act for a long time, only that he used to be invisible when performing the evil operations, but as God may have it, one of the largest quantities of meat got missing, before he was caught today. The butchers in the area opened up to find out what has been behind the usual missing of meat, therefore the whole meat sellers teamed up together for fasting and prayer which lasted for five days.
However, after their prayer some of the meat sellers (butchers) were convinced that the regular missing of their meat wasn’t an ordinary or physical issue to tackle, so they all teamed up to be vigilant both in the realm of physical and spiritual.
In the morning of Saturday 12th of November 2016, at about 8:30am, about the time the butchers display meats for sale, a young man holding a sack walked in majestically towards the place where some of the meats were packed, and began to pack meat without anybody’s consent and after loading the huge amount of meat inside the sack he came with, he raised it on his head and started walking away with the meat. After moving about 12 feet ahead, one of the meat sellers called him back, and tried to interrogate him.
The Hausa/Fulani man refused to answer and this drew the attention of the audience. After several attempts to stop the man, the crowd succeeded in stopping him and asked him how he managed to have access to the meat and he couldn’t give any reasonable answer to the questions.
Few minutes after he was caught, his clothes were collected from him and the crowd saw some african charms which he tied onto his arm and leg.
The charms were forcefully removed from his body to stop him from disappearing. He confessed that he has been doing this for quite some time and during all his operations, he uses the charms to transform himself into an invisible being and that’s how he makes his own money and business by roasting the stolen meat for sale which is popular called “Suya meat” in Nigeria.”
“Help! My husband wants to kill me with sex”
A woman has cried out over her husband’s incessant demand of sex which she cannot meet up.
According to her, she is in desperate need of help as she cannot match her husband’s high libido which has left her sex life in shamble.
See how she wrote her complains below:
”I am married to a very nice man who takes good care of me. He loves me and I also love him very much. However, he has a big weakness with his desire for sex. Whenever we go to bed, he wants to have sex and for him it does not matter whether I am in the mood or not.
‘When I am not ready or nearing my periods, I try to make him understand but he almost always goes beyond reason and forces himself on me. Every time this happens I am left feeling used and abused. I know it is my duty to satisfy his sexual needs but I don’t like the fact that he doesn’t care whether I want it or not. Now I no longer enjoy sex. “Please advise me. I have nobody to talk to about this issue.”
My Father Broke My Head When I Dumped Islam for Christianity – Pastor Iginla Shares Interesting Experience
Pastor, Joshua Iginla, the Senior Pastor of Champions Royal Assembly, Kubwa, Abuja, has recalled his ordeal in the hands of his father when he converted to Christianity.
Iginla, who said he was born into a Muslim family, said his parents did not take his conversion lightly.
In an interview with Vanguard, the cleric said, “My conversion began at the city of Jos. It was very strong because I’m from a Muslim background and my father’s name is Lasisi Disu Iginla and every one of us from my elder sister to the last were all Muslims.
“We have names like Radiatu, Abdul lameed, Abdul Lasisi, Bilikatu, Risikatu, Abdulfatai.
“My conversion didn’t go well with my father because he was not happy about it. Then I lost a lot of friends because I was a very stubborn barrack boy and some of them made jest of me saying ‘in few days, I’ll return to my senses.’
“But my father rejected me outrightly. I could remember that he threw me out of the house in the middle of the night. It was a painful experience, curses were laid on me and I was treated like an outcast.
“My journey to glory was painful. Infact, my father’s mind set and was that as time goes on, probably I will become a Mallam like the rest them. The night I came back with the bible i thought my father didn’t see me not knowing he had actually discussed with my other siblings and told them I went to church.
“He was angry. First of all, what he did was to drag me in, used the military belt to beat me up and broke my head, I was bleeding and he chased me out of the house. It was very painful.
“I remembered my father disowned me and called me a bastard and a disgrace.
“My mum was always supporting my father, saying I should listen to whatever my father is saying, but she wept the night I was leaving. You know mothers are precious, they don’t want to lose their son but she was behind my father.
“She was just saying I should adjust and renounce this thing and whatever my father says is what I should do.
“The experience of the conversion was very strong and I told them that I believe in Jesus.
“Of course, I wasn’t lazy, I did security job, teaching job, I carried blocks, I already started training in a Nigerian depot before God intervened so my story isn’t a story of a man who just came to ministry overnight.
“I’ll simply say my story was that of grass to grace. Grace is an unmerited favour of God that brings a man out of obscurity, qualifying the unqualified. I feel God loves me so much, he has used me to show the world that you don’t need to belong to some cabal in the ministry to get to the top if he is behind you,” he added.
“Each time he carries the children (twin) on his lap, his manhood will rise up”
A housewife in Abuja, Francisca Okechukwu, on Monday filed for divorce, accusing her husband, Tony Okechukwu, of sexually abusing their six-year old daughter.
In her divorce application filed at Jikwoyi Customary Court, Abuja, Francisca, a business woman, alleged that she had, on many occasions, caught her husband fiddling with her daughter’s private part.
“I caught my husband touching my daughter’s private part, his biological daughter”, she alleged.
The petitioner told the court that she had been suspecting her husband of the act “ because of the way he carries the twin daughters.
“Each time he carries the children (twin) on his lap, his manhood will rise up, and if he is not satisfied with that, he will go and pull off his cloth and tie his towel,” she told the court.
The petitioner also alleged that her husband might have had carnal knowledge of her daughter.
“There was a day the twin had a nap in their father’s room in the evening but when they were having their bath the next morning, one of them was complaining of a pain in her private part.
“When I checked her, I saw a cut which pained her for over three days,” she added.
She therefore begged the court to dissolve the marriage and grant her custody of the children.
The husband, Okechukwu , also a business man, however denied all the allegations.
The Presiding officer, Mr Labaran Gusau, adjourned the case to Nov. 16th for hearing.
These Are The Top 10 Richest Women In Africa!
Africa is a continent where women are generally not allowed freedom to exercise their experience and ideas when compared to their western counterparts. Though with the influx of higher standards of education, African women are beginning to experience freedom and the opportunity to become more enterprising.
Ten women have proven their worth, standing out to become the TOP 10 RICHEST WOMEN IN AFRICA and employers of thousands of people through companies and ventures that they manage.
This list profiles the top 10 wealthiest women in the African continent.
10. Elisabeth Bradley
Elisabeth Bradley, whose father, Albert Wessels brought Toyota to South Africa in 1961, sits comfortably on more than $32 Million. Her source of wealth is from investments in companies and assets. She is also the vice-chairman of Toyota South Africa Limited, a board member at blue chip companies such as Standard Bank Group, Hilton Hotel and Roseback Inn and a director of AngloGold.
5 things that are destroying your teeth – You are definitely guilty of number 4
We all want to be healthy but sometimes, our lifestyle and habits are doing more harm to us than good.
Take, for example, our teeth. A lot of people hardly ever visit dentists and some people put things in their mouth that end up ruining their teeth.
You should know these five things that destroy your teeth so that you can avoid them, or at least, cut down to a minimum.
1. Sugary drinks
While this might not be news, you should also keep an eye out for drinks disguising themselves as healthy. Juices, though fruity can hurt your teeth. If you have to, it is better if you use straws.
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ASUU Declares One Week Warning Strike Nation Wide. (Photo)
According to a memo by the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU), another prolonged strike looms in the nation’s universities as the union will be embarking on a one week warning strike starting from Wed November 16.
More details soon.
“I Will Make More Money Than King Solomon In The Bible” – Billionaire Businesswoman, Folorunsho Alakija.
Nigerian billionaire businesswoman, Folorunsho Alakija has revealed that she will make more money than the wealthiest man in the Bible, King Solomon.
The business tycoon made this known on Saturday, November 12, 2016 at the KICC facilitated wealth creation platform which held in Lagos.
Alakija said:
“I will make more money than King Solomon in the Bible. I am working towards that and with his grace, I will.”
Alakija, who gave tips of making and sustaining wealth at the platform also revealed one of the things that has helped her grow in wealth has been the ability to be a go-getter.
“You can’t afford to be laid back, I’m not saying you should be aggressive without a purpose but I’m saying there are ways to be aggressive positively and I can tell you that you have to make that move, put yourself forward and be ready to face all hurdles,” Alakija said.
According to Wiki, Alakija is currently is the richest African woman and also the richest black woman in the world after unseating Oprah Winfrey as the richest woman of African descent in the world.
After Their Parents Banned Them From Marrying, Couple Wed 65 Years Later. (Photos)
A couple who called off their engagement because the bride’s parents did not approve of her groom have finally married 65 years on.
Davy Moakes, 86, and Helen Andre, 82, fell in love while studying at art college and got engaged in 1951.
But Helen’s parents did not want their daughter to marry an artist and called the wedding off two years later.The pair drifted apart and started their own families – meaning their love story had to be put on hold for over six decades.
But after Helen’s third husband passed away she managed to track her teenage sweetheart down online. The couple married on Friday and are currently enjoying a two-week honeymoon in Cyprus.
Davy said:
“It’s so strong the love between us. Even after all this time, it still feels the same.
“It’s just perfect, it’s just how it was. We’re no spring chickens so we decided if we still had these strong feelings for each other then we best get on and get married.”
Helen added: “I couldn’t be happier, all my dreams have come true.”
“When I was 19 and my mother and father stopped me marrying him I was heartbroken and I never stopped loving him.
“I’ve never found out why my parents didn’t really approve of him, I think there were several reasons but really they wanted to decide who I married – not me.
“They were quite Victorian like that. I have loved him my whole life. “Now I’ve got him. I’m enjoying every minute of it. I feel like a teenager again, it really is like nothing’s changed.”
Davy and Helen were aged 21 and 16 when they met while studying together at Chesterfield Art College, Derbs. They got engaged but her parents Aaron and Gertrude West disapproved of his career and called a halt to the wedding.
Davy’s father, Edward, arranged for the lovers to meet secretly at a wealthy landowner’s dance in 1956. But when the Wests caught wind of their plans, Helen was locked in her room.
2Baba’s Sons, Nino And Zion’s Agbada Game Is Everything! (Photos)
Well, since their mom is from the western side of the country, I guess they have a little bit of “Yoruba Demon” in them – Zion and Nino, 2Baba’s first sons, look every bit of adorable as they both don Agbada in new photos.
It’s funny how the younger one, Zion, is in the photo tryna stop his older brother from stealing his shine… he’s like “yo bro, I got this!”
Lol… Cute children.
Can You Give This Adorable Pre-Wedding Photo A Caption?!
This is just lovely… I’m digging the casual urban style game they’ve got going on here… between, can you give the photo a caption?!
Lol… See The Response This Dad Gave To His Heartbroken Daughter That Has Gone Viral.
Recently, a teenager, Daleynee was heartbroken about a boy… after she was on the phone for a while, she received a text from her dad.
Daleynee posted the text she got from her dad on Twitter, and it has since gone viral.
Lol…
See Hilarious Response Given To Dr Sid’s New Dyed Hair Look.
The MAVIN’s recording artiste has for a while now, been rocking this dyed hair look and one can’t easily tell if it looks good on him or not, but you can for sure tell how hilarious this response a fan gave is!
See what the fan wrote below:
Music: Adekunle Gold – My Life
Urban highlife sensation Adekunle Gold has returned with #Mylife, one of the hits song from the album, #Gold.
Led by the hit first single “Orente, Pick up, Ariwoko” the songs on this album have been described as some of the most confident pop records to be recorded in recent history. The urban highlife artiste who is currently on tour in United State.
“I put my heart and soul into the creation and performance of this record and I can only hope that I am giving fans what they wish for in #Mylife” Says Adekunle Gold
Stream and download #Mylife below and pick it up the album on iTunes now.
DOWNLOAD Music: Adekunle Gold – My Life
Donald Trump Reveals He’ll Be Paid Just $1 When He Becomes President.
The billionaire businessman has said he won’t be receiving the the $400,000 salary when he takes office in January.
Instead, he will take a nominal $1 as required by law.
In his first interview since his shock election win, Trump sat down with CBS News’ Lesley Stahl at his Manhattan home to film 60 Minutes.
During the interview, Trump was grilled on a wide range of issues, many of which he had been outspoken on during his controversial campaign.
Pastor Apprehended By Police For Shooting Colleague Dead In Osun.
A pastor, identified as Timothy Abiola, has been arrested after he allegedly shot dead a fellow pastor, who was also his friend, Pastor Bamiji Ilori.
The Police Public Relations Officer for the Osun State command, Mrs. Folasade Odoro, who said this in a statement on Sunday, added that the reason for the action had yet to be ascertained.
The name of the church of the two pastors was not stated, but the PPRO said Abiola shot his colleague with a locally-made gun. She stated that the gun had been recovered by the police, adding that the incident happened in Ikire, Osun State.
She said that the suspect was arrested following a report made to the police by a relative of the deceased cleric.
She said:
“Ilori had confessed to the police. Investigation into the killing has started and the suspect will soon be charged to court.”
She stated that the remains of late pastor had been deposited at the Catholic Hospital’s morgue in the Oluyoro area, Apomu, for autopsy.
Renop Omokri Throws Shade At PMB As Trump Names Some Cabinet Members.
Former Special Assistant on new media to ex-President Goodluck Jonathan, Reno Omokri, has once again thrown a shade at President Buhari.
In a new Facebook post of his, he reacted to Donald Trump naming some of his cabinet members even when he hasn’t been sworn in as president.
He wrote:
“Donald J. Trump has not even been sworn in, yet today, he named some members of his cabinet. That is real change, not the reverse change promised by someone who waited for 6 months after his swearing in before naming his cabinet consisting of an Agriculture minister who studied French and other misfits!”
Senator Dino Melaye To Sponsor Bill Stopping Tribal Marks On Children In Nigeria.
After this photo of a child with fresh tribal marks got viral with an outcry from people slamming who ever allowed them do this to the child, Senator Dino Melaye has reacted to the photo saying people should support his bill to stop it.
He shared the photo and said;
“This barbaric act must stop. National Identity card is enough to identify where individuals come from. Support my bill to stop this ….”
Mark Zuckerberg Recounts What Happened On His First Date With His Wife.
Facebook pioneer, Mark Zuckerberg shared the cute photo above of his wife, Priscilla Chan, recounting what happened on their first date, 13 years ago.
Mark and Priscilla have been married for four years and counting now – they tied the knots in May, 2012.
APC distributes bread to entice voters in ondo state
Just few days to the November 26 gubernatorial election in Ondo state, the social media has been flooded with picture of APC-branded loaves of bread.
The bread is labelled Aketi 2017, the alias of Mr Oluwarotimi Akeredolu (SAN) who is the candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC). Reports claim the Aketi 2017 brand of bread is being distributed in Ondo north senatorial district of the state.
It was however, not ascertained at the time of this report if Akeredolu was directly behind the production and distribution of this bread or his supporters from Ondo North. See photo below:
See the Injury the bouncer Oritsefemi attacked sustained as Quilox releases statement on what actually went down
Read the statement from Quilox nightclub below:
At about 2am on Saturday, 13th of Nov. 2016, Oritsefemi came into Quilox without prior reservations or table bookings. Tables are allocated to customers who have made prior paid table bookings in advance of their arrival except such customer is a patron or member of the club. . .
However, Oritsefemi who did not fall into any of the categories above approached a patron’s table-of-six, and pleaded to be accommodated, with the understanding that other guests of the said patron were still been expected.
In a surprising turn of events, Oristsemi who was drinking from the patrons bottle, attempted to sit 8 of his guests at the table, the surprised patron strongly rejected such effrontery and invited the bouncer guarding the floor to intervene. . .
The bouncer politely approached Oritsefemi and told him the patrons guests were still being expected, but Oristefemi, in a fit of unprovoked rage, slapped the bouncer then proceeded to breaking a glass in his hand and stabing him in the eye. . .
The scene quickly became rowdy as other customers rushed to the table and confronted the artiste for his violent behavior, our security team quickly stepped in to salvage the situation by carrying Oristefemi out of the club. . . Oristefemi faced by an enraged crowd outside and perhaps realizing the gravity of his offense pretended to collapse. The artiste and the bouncer were subsequently rushed to a nearby hospital..
The bouncer affected later pressed charges at Bar Beach police station, where Oritsefemi accepted his offense and pleaded for mercy, he was granted bail at 12pm on the 13th of Nov. and advised to report back to the station on Tues. 15th of Nov. 2016..
We were hesitant to release a press statement as several well meaning people have attempted to intercede on behalf of the artiste, but after his malicious and grossly false account of the events that occured, it is only fair that we defend the integrity and ethos of our organization.
Sound Sultan denies he was bounced from Quilox as claimed by Oritsefemi
Sound Sultan has called out Oritsefemi and his team for lying. He denies that he was bounced from Quilox club as alleged in the statement released by Oritsefemi’s management.
The statement which addressed the Friday drama that saw the ‘Double Wahala’ crooner beaten black and blue by bouncers at the club has been called into question.
Oritsefemi’s management confirmed the incident in a statement on Sunday and stated that the altercation between the singer and club security happened because he was trying to stand up for older colleagues; Sound Sultan and Rock Steady, who were disrespected and bounced from the club but he however earned severe beatings for the gesture. There were also a number of allegations of harassment and unkind treatment of celebrities at the high profile club in it.
Read the statement below.
“On Friday 11th 2016, at exactly 2am at Quilox Night Club. OritseFemi was attacked by a bouncer just because he was trying to stand for an older Colleague and a friend. OritseFemi was at the VIP corner when he noticed Sound Sultan and Rock Steady were being bounced from entering the VIP section of the club.
OritseFemi who was not happy with the bouncers behaviour stood up to ask the bouncer why he was putting up such attitude to An A list Artiste and a brother, the bouncer replied that An order was placed down by Shina Peller the CEO of the club that no A list Artist should be allowed into the VIP section, claiming the A list Artistes were not his costumers and they have no value at his club just because of his rift with Davido.
The bouncer told him to keep to his section or go join his colleague at the regular section. Femi accepted the offer to join his colleague at the regular section but was pushed back by the bouncer, Before he could say Jack the other bouncer was already rough handling him. Oritsefemi who was holding a cup of wine had to defend himself by slapping the bouncer with the wine cup, which gave the bouncer a scar on the face. Without waiting for explanation, the other bouncers in the club came in and attacked Oritse Femi and in the process of the attack Oritsefemi’s N8.5 million worth of jewelry was stolen by the club bouncers.
Femi was injured and held down by the bouncers, claiming they were waiting for the arrival of police. On the arrival of police, Femi and the bouncer were arrested and taken to the police station where the IPO in charge of the case ordered Femi to treat the injured bouncer which he did and even gave the bouncer extra cash for self-medication. The IPO also ordered the bouncer and the club management to provide Oritsefemi’s jewellery, which he hasn’t received till now. If we all will recall, this same Quilox was the same place Dammy Krane got messed up by bouncers, same club Davido got confronted by this same bouncers. What Kind of Club is THIS? Is that how our beloved Country Ambassadors should be treated? We should learn how to respect and support ourselves God bless you.
All MSN GANG”
Sound Sultan however took to Instagram to shut down claims he was bounced, stating that it was a misinformation.
He shared a picture of himself and Shina Peller, the owner of Quilox, and stated that he was in fact in the VIP section on Friday as always.
Nigerian Lady breaks up with her boyfriend because he booked her a N500k Economy Class instead of a Business class..
This is hilarious… and at the same time heartbreaking.
Above is a trending Whatsapp chat between two bros…
The boyfriend said he paid N500,000 for his girlfriend’s ticket to Dubai.. and even promised to give her N1million for shopping..
But everything went into the gutters when the girlfriend complained that he booked an Economy Class flight for her.. which cost him a whooping N500k, instead of a business class..
LOL, and they broke up! see The chat below:
Nigerian couple who welcomed set of twins twice in two years tell their emotional experience
A few weeks ago, Film maker/C.E.O. at LoveSeed Entertainment, Femi Adisa and his beautiful wife welcomed their second set of twins, barely a year after they had the first twin set.
In an interview with Kemi Filani Blog, the beautiful couple shared their story of love, sowing, faith, depression, disappointment, seeing Jesus and the big testimony!
Enjoy their interesting conversation below:
Having Twins:
Tomi Adisa: Yes, I was expecting to have a set of twins because I was surrounded by twins.
My mum had twins but she lost them. My step mum had twins twice but lost one from the first set. I was seeing so many twins around me; I just fell in love with twins.
My best friend in secondary school was a twin, Kehinde Ojo. I was just seeing twins everywhere around me. And when I do I hug them, play with them and give them something. Then after law school and about to settle down, I told God what I wanted. One of the things I told God was that I want twins as the first fruits of my womb.
For that, I started sowing seeds every month. I wasn’t in any relationship then, but on the lookout.
Then 2013, Shiloh hour, at the redemption camp, I was there. The program was for women looking for the fruits of the womb. I wasn’t married, but I was there.
Daddy G. O sat on some seats and asked us to sit on them and tell God what we want. I sat on one and reminded God, what I want; a set of twins as my first fruit.
Then in 2014, I got married. But my husband never liked the idea of twins. He prefers one child at a time but when I told him that I have been sowing seeds for twins, he just had to accept it.
We got married January, 2014, and in October of that same year, we had a set of twins; 2 boys.
Femi Adisa: …..I wasn’t really keen on having twins, but when my wife told me all she had known to have twins, I knew there was no way I could escape that. So, I just agreed with her. But we wanted a boy and a girl set. If that was the case for the first set, that was going to be it. No more babies; just the two of them.
Double twins? We never expected it
Tomi Adisa: For the second set, I never expected it. It was a knock out. After the boys, I just thought I would go one more time, have a baby girl and stop. I just wanted one child, a girl, then I also thought of having twin girls, then I liked the idea. But when I remembered the stress the boys put me through, I just knocked the idea.
Then one day, the Holy Spirit asked me, what I really wanted and I just told him that “Let thy will be done in our lives’.
Then I thought I would have just one baby and I was prepared for that.
Then, when I went for the scan, the lady was like ‘Awww, I could see two hearts beating, congratulations’. I thought she was joking until she showed me the screen, I was devastated and I started crying. It was not tears of joy oh.
I could remember the stress I went through for my first set. Then at that time, my boys just started teething, so I was weighed down.
My mind was not ready for another set of twins, I cried and cried and my husband was just there consoling me. For some months, I was disconnected from my pregnancy; it was too shocking for me. But after a while, I came around and got more focused.
The first set was twin boys, then the second set a boy and girl.
Life as a mother of two sets of twin within 2 years; I was almost depressed
Tomi Adisa: It hasn’t been easy for me at all. For the first set, it was kind of stressful; the shift was just too much. My aunt came to stay with me, I had a house help, yet I couldn’t cope, I kept falling ill. But later I braced up and faced the challenges. Then I did a lot of praying too to support myself, because I was almost getting depressed.
One of the things that helped me a lot was praying, then my husband too was my backbone and it made things a lot easy.
No regrets having double twins
Tomi Adisa: No, not all. I don’t have any regrets at all. But I had wished I could experience how having a single baby would look like. But the longing would have to go, because I’m done. I wouldn’t want to try again. I’m so done!
Labour room experience: I saw Jesus!
Tomi Adisa: During the first set, the inexperience was just there. I was seriously waiting for my water to break. Prior to that day, I had gone shopping and stressed myself out. My doctor had even told me to prepare my mind for a CS; because one was traverse and the other was bridge. I was sad because I really wanted to have the experience of having a normal delivery. Just like an African woman, you know.
So, that fateful night, I was in the bedroom and my husband in the living room, because I used to turn on the AC to the highest always because that’s the only way I could sleep then. My husband sleeps in the living room, as he couldn’t stand the room’s temperature.
I was in labour and had already started seeing blood, but I was still waiting for the water to break. So, when I went to the bedroom and told my husband, we called the doctor and asked us to come over immediately.
As we got there, they prepared me, took me into the labour room and I as operated upon.
But something remarkable happened that day while I was unconscious.
I saw myself in a factory-like kind of setting, it was a cartoon setting; animated. Then, I saw Jesus, animated, it was not real. Then in my mind there, I was like, finally I’m heaven, I have seen Jesus. Let me just stay and not go back. Let me go back to the world, sin against God and not make heaven again, let me just stay. I honestly, didn’t know why I thought of that at that time.
So, when it got my turn, He said, no, I have to go back that it’s not my turn yet because of the ministry he committed into my hands. Then, I became conscious again. When I told my husband what happened, he was surprised and was like, so I didn’t even want to see the babies’. I told him I didn’t even think about them in that state of unconsciousness.
Then the second set was had through selective CS. We just picked a date, went there, had the operation and that was it. It was a lot easier because I have had the experience below.
Femi Adisa: I prayed all through the time my wife was in for a CS. The two sets of twin were delivered on a Sunday morning, I just had to connect to God and pray for safe delivery.
Our love story
Tomi Adisa: After law school, I was on the lookout. Then, I started working with Dove Television; The Redeemed TV station. I had a show that I was anchoring then, Our world; a youth program.
So, one day the producer introduced a young guy to the program, he has a music Studio and also doing lots of things. When he came to the show, there was nothing so special or attractive about him. He was just like every other regular guy. But during the show, I noticed his mind was very deep. The interview session was just so interesting that I didn’t want it to end. From there we connected. Starting as friends and here we are today, the rest is history.
Femi Adisa: Yes, after the interview, we exchanged phone numbers and continued to keep in touch. It wasn’t love at first sight, we were just friends and we used to hang out together.
A friend of mine even told me to woo and start dating her. But I said No! That Tomi is a very serious type (laughs).
However, when I got to know her better, things started working out. But before I asked her out, I had a 7 days prayer and God convinced me that he is meant for me but on the condition that her calling; her female ministry, she must stay through to it. That was the conviction that made me go ahead.
The ‘dramatic’ proposal
Tomi Adisa: After we started dating officially, we started making plans for marriage immediately. We met our respective parents and all that but I still wanted him to do the ‘official’ proposal.
So, my husband cooked up something very dramatic.
One weekend, one of my close friends that stays in Abeokuta, suddenly showed up to see me. I didn’t even perceive that anything was coming up. I thought it was just a normal visit. We were so engrossed with lots of gist.
Then the next morning, which was a Saturday, around 6.30, I heard voices of people in the window singing. Where I stay then is a very quiet estate, everybody minded his or her business.
So, when I heard those voices, I knew it was my husband. He came with his friend and one of his sisters. They were actually singing a song that he composed for me. I rushed out, trying to hush them to just stop but they wouldn’t listen.
I keep on hushing them to stop because only their voices could be heard within our neighborhood, but they didn’t stop and he was just smiling. That was when it clicked that he was up to something.
So, immediately, he went on one knee and proposed I quickly took the ring, wore it and said ‘yes’ to him because I just wanted the whole drama to end. I was so embarrassed, I felt the ground should just open and swallow me (laughs).
It was not exciting at all. I was just so embarrassed that when I remember it now, it just makes me frown and smile at same time.
Thank God he made an effort to give me a dramatic proposal, now I have a story to tell.
Somehow, it was embarrassing to wear his ring about. My parents even used it to make jest of me. But within me, I knew I had found a perfect match for me. I was fully convinced that he was made for me. He had lots of good qualities which I also desire for my children.
…And we were starved on our wedding day!
Tomi Adisa: That very day, nobody remembered to give us food. We were practically forgotten. They were lots of assorted food but we didn’t get any. We just sat down there watching people eat all our food and they didn’t even give us (Laughs).
Thank God for Mummy G.O, that came to our rescue. She brought us food after the whole ceremony, just while we were on our way to the hotel. She sent a driver to get us the food she made in her house.
There at the wedding hall, I had to beg an usher to get me a pack of juice and that was all we had during the reception.
Femi Adisa: Aside the starvation part, I was so shocked when we got to the church for the wedding. I was like is there another wedding or event going on here? Because every where was so filled up with cars and all that.
Fun time Honeymoon
We didn’t really go anywhere. We were in Lagos all through. We had lots of fun together and also got to know about each other. We still have plans to go on a destination wedding some day (laughs). But know we have to face the kids.
