All people already divided into those, who are in favour of abortions, and against them. However, it’s not surprisingly, because not everyone can bring oneself to this step.
Also, not everyone sees the right to judge somebody’s decision.
Whether it’s good or bad, but every woman can individually make a decision – to give a birth to a child or not.
Yet, a practising psychotherapist Tatiana Ohneva-Salvoni explained how actually an abortion can affect a woman’s life after, because obviously, such operation will leave its mark.
1. Influence on couple relationships
Even if a decision about making an abortion is mutual, it doesn’t mean that a couple will absolutely forget about it and live happily ever after.
The fact that they turned out to be unprepared to create a family, already shows that there are some problems which this couple can’t overcome. The trust is harmed, as well as the confidence in the future.
There’s even a special term in psychology that after the abortion a woman “aborts” her partner from her heart too.
S*x, being an important aspect of dating, is an area men particularly love to lord over. Men by default are egoistic, having a poor s*xual performance rubs hard on their ego.
Most men love to be in charge; even the calm ones seem to have a different attitude when it comes to s*xual escapades. Men love to display their strengths and show their skills when it comes to s-x.
It is not only embarrassing to get in the act and spill the beans even before digging deep, it is humiliating for ladies to want more without being able to deliver.
Premature ejaculation not only inhibits the s*xual satisfaction of both the man and woman, it withers their zeal for s*x until their s-x pattern changes.
Men have however grown beyond this limitation. They have found ways to improve their s-xual health and prevent premature ej-culation from holding them back. Find some of the things men take to prevent premature ejaculation:
5. Revnol (Refnol)
Also known as the blue pills, this drug is being used by many men to boost or improve their *-xual health. It has also been reported to be used for ladies as it makes them more charged s-xually.
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Oh! And this is how the witchcraft of make-up ruined the happy ever after of this purposed bride-to-be – Just days after her marriage, an Arab bride was dumped by her husband after he saw her with no make-up.
According to a psychologist who counselled the unidentified woman, the 34-year-old Arab groom divorced his 28-year-old bride, because he believed she did not look as pretty as before the wedding and accused her of deceiving him by using so many cosmetics, including fake eyelashes.
Dr Abdul Aziz Asaf, consultant psychologist, said that his clinic received a request from the woman to help her overcome her psychological suffering after her divorce.
Dr Asaf did not reveal the woman’s identity for reasons of confidentiality.
According to Gulf News, the groom took his bride to Al Mamzar Beach for a leisurely swim but the outing turned tragic when her face became wet and her makeup reportedly washed away.
The groom said he could not recognise his wife after the make-up was gone.
The bride wore artificial eyelashes and had undergone cosmetic surgeries before the marriage. The couple’s engagement lasted for six months.
Dr Asaf said the bride told him that she intended to tell her husband the truth about her but it was too late. “The groom immediately divorced his bride and refused any attempt to reunite them again,” Dr Asaf said.
He is known to be one with partying loudly and extravagantly, Manchester United’s Paul Pogba and Nigerian-Cameroonian singer, Dencia reportedly kept guests at a top hotel awake by “loud sex moans” coming from their hotel room bedroom.
Businessmen and women had cried foul over the loud parties he has held at the city’s five-star Lowry. Now it emerges he has been scoring in the bedroom between 3am and 4am.
The extra-time sex sessions with Paul Pogba’s new squeeze, African singer Dencia, have caused a stir among well-heeled guests.
One visitor to Manchester said they complained to the Lowry staff about his sex moans, but nothing was done so they switched hotels.
The guest, who asked not to be named, said:
“We stayed at the Lowry and saw Pogba and Dencia together. You can’t miss Dencia, she is loud and flash. We were staying near them on the third floor of the hotel, so saw them coming and going from his room at the end of the hall-way. I settled down to sleep at 2am after getting in late. There was loud hip-hop music blaring from his room and lots of giggling. It eventually quietened down but between 3am and 4am there was unmistakable moaning and groaning to be heard. They didn’t seem to care who heard them. It went on forever. It sounded like a porn movie. A few times we heard moans of ‘Paul, babe’ it was very uncomfortable. It was impossible not to hear because she was very loud. The source stayed at the Lowry from September 24 to 30.”
The guest said:
“The first day I saw Paul and Dencia together was the evening of September 24. Dencia wore black outfits and always had boots on. The first time I heard the sex noises was between 1am and 2am the following morning. I could also hear them on the nights of September 27, 28 and 30 – on that occasion as late as 4am. If it wasn’t loud music from his room it was loud moaning. The music was as annoying as the sex because it was vulgar hip hop. I checked out on September 30. I will never go back to that hotel again. The next morning they left the hotel in separate cars. We thought it would be a one-off. But two days later same thing happened, with loud music heard until late, even ahead of a Manchester United game. The night after the game the same thing happened. There was loud music and at 2am and lots of friends there. And moments later the moanings started again. This time it was louder than ever. It sounded as if there was wild sex going on in there. It lasted for two hours. I noticed Pogba’s girl in the hotel the next day. I realised she was Dencia and began following her on Instagram and Snapchat. She wasn’t hiding the fact they are an item. She is very flashy just like Pogba but I must admit she is very pretty. Pogba happened to score his first goal when she came to stay, so maybe something good came out of the sex the night before. We complained to hotel management and they said they will talk to him. That was the first night but nothing changed. So we just switched hotels. He is a very nice person and always says hello with a smile on his face, now we know why.”
Manchester United midfielder Pogba and Dencia have been spotted together in LA, cruising the city in her famous pink Rolls Royce.
The 30th episode of A3 Sessions features JarHead who pleasures our ears with amazing covers of Mr Eazi’s “Skin Tight” and Mark Morrison’s hit “Return of the Mack”.
Heart-wrenching images show a screaming young woman flogged in front of a jeering crowd for breaking Islamic laws as floggings reportedly spike in Indonesian province.
An unidentified woman screamed out in pain as she was caned 23 times in Indonesia’s Aceh for breaking the province’s strict Islamic law forbidding intimacy between unmarried couples.
Aceh is the only province in Indonesia that enforces sharia law and people face floggings for a range of offences, including gambling, drinking alcohol and gay sex. She was one of 13 people aged between 21-30 – to be flogged on Monday at a mosque.
The woman was allegedly caught standing too close to her boyfriend. She received her harsh floggings for getting to close to a fellow university student who was also whipped.
Ms Elita keeled over in pain at the end of her lashings as she had to be carried off stage and taken to hospital.
The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission has arrested the wife of former Minister of Aviation, Mrs. Precious Fani-Kayode in Ado Ekiti and her 8 months old baby.
UPDATE: Read the press statement from Femi Fani-Kayode detailing the incident that took place today
This govt is sick and cowardly and so are the EFCC. If you have a problem with me face me and leave my family alone. My wife traveled to Ado Ekiti to see my friend and brother Governor Fayose and his family.
They were on their way out of town when they went to Access Bank in Ado Ekiti to get some money. When they got there my 8 month old son Aragorn and wife Precious Chikwendu were illegally detained, brutalised and put under arrest on the orders of the EFCC at a bank in Ado Ekiti today.
She has never had any business with me, she has never been formally invited by the EFCC or asked any questions about her transactions and neither have they written to her on any issue even though they are always sending letters to my house and sending people there.
If Buhari wants to deal with me why doesnt he face me like a man obstead of trying to harm and hurt my 8 month old son and wife.
Had it not been for the intervention of Governor Ayo Fayose they would have been taken them away and subjected them to all manner of harm and indignities simply because she is married to me.
This was an account that has 200,000 naira in it and that has never had more than 500,000. She has operated it since 2005 and she stopped using it in 2013. The account has no connection with me and I did not know it existed till today.
In an attempt to starve and harass me and my family all my accounts and wifes accounts have been frozen. Now they are resorting to arresting peoples wives and children for no just cause. I thank God for Gov. Fayose and the people of Ado Ekiti who stormed the bank and freed my wife from this illegal detention and attempt to kidnap them.
Had it not been for the governors intervention and prescence the bank would have been burnt down by the crowd. My family have since left Ekiti state.
This is Buhari’s Nigeria and we will resist his wickedness and tyranny. We intend to sue the bank and to sue the EFCC for this illegal and wicked action.
They have no right to do this. If they want to see my wife all they need to do is to invite her. We have nothing to fear. They do not need to be so primitive and barbaric to people.
Friends and relatives of Tabitha Wachuka, a student at JKUAT took to social media few days ago asking anyone with information concerning her whereabouts to come forward.
According to a Facebook post by her uncle, Elijah Mwangi, the university student disappeared on Saturday, October 8, shortly before police raided a birthday party she was attending alongside her friends in Juja town.
Those who attended the party said they noticed she had disappeared after they assembled some minutes past midnight.
After days of relentless search, her lifeless body was discovered floating inside a septic tank that is not far from the venue of the party she had earlier attended.
It is still not clear whether someone killed her before dumping her body in the tank or if she fell into it while running away from the police.
In an update on October 13th, her devastated uncle broke the unfortunate news on Facebook, writing:
“I ‘m sad to announce to u that this gal who went missing from sun and I posted on my wall requesting your assistance to find her,has just been found dead in a septic tank…may she RIP”
Tabitha will be laid to rest on Thursday, October 20th, at 10.00am two days before her birthday.
Lydia Meredith has opened up in an interview with Rolling Out about how her life was affected when her husband, Reverend Dennis A. Meredith, came out as gay.
The two divorced in 2008 after they struggled over his infidelity while they were married, but they have remained on good terms. However, she admitted that it took her years to recover after her husband left her to be with a man.
Speaking on her new memoir called The Gay Preacher’s Wife: How My Gay Husband Deconstructed My Life and Reconstructed My Faith, she said:
“I want to share some topics that I feel need to be addressed for women who find themselves in situations like I found myself in and to help them and to show them they can get through it.”
Meredith admits it has taken years for her to heal since her husband abandoned her and left her for a man.
“I wasn’t paying attention because I am a recovering workaholic,” she defends. Lydia lived in a state of denial even though her husband was arrested for soliciting sex with a man, and sought a fellow minister to bail him out, never calling her.
She went on to admit that she missed the warning signs, saying,
“Yes, I miss[ed] them. I am not a tracker. There are some women who are investigators, who will pick up the phone if their [mate] is not home at a certain time and if they are not calling. That’s a problem. I am a professional woman working as a senior engineer for a Fortune 500 company. I was living my life, married with three children.”
“I loved my husband … I still love him. He left me for another man. He told me he wanted to live the rest of his life as a gay man. At that time, I didn’t know he was in a relationship with a man, a man that he’d fallen in love with. Most of the time when we were in therapy discussing his struggles with same-sex relationships, it was never a relationship; it was always [just] sex. This particular time it was very different. He had fallen in love with a man.”
While she was living her life, she also missed the signs that her middle son, who is now the minister of music at the church where his father ministers, is also gay.
Her husband now leads a congregation of over a thousand members, many of whom are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.
“The church needs a new kind of ministry – one steeped in the ministry started by Jesus – free of bias, discrimination, hate or prejudice,” she said.
Excerpts from her book
“I was one of those preachers’ wives who sat in the pew on many a Sunday morning while my “real” life was a fraud. i discovered several years into my marriage that my husband was cheating on me–with men–numerous men. (And women too, I later found out). But I stayed. I stayed through the broken promises and the humiliation because I believed and hoped that things got better. I watched my husband stand in that pulpit on Sunday morning, preaching one message and living out yet another. I needed answers.
“The first place I turned to for answers were God. I prayed. I wept. I prayed. I wept. I prayed and I wept. God woke me at 3 a.m. I sat straight up in the middle of my bed. … What did Jesus really say about homosexuality? What was Jesus’ message about gays?
“I prayed my entire young life for God to send me a husband–God Always answers my prayers–why did I end up marrying a gay man?”
An 88-year-old man from Niger State, Bello Abubakar Masaba, with 97 wives and about 190 children, has said that he is able to meet his wives’ sexual needs because “God has given (him) the power and strength.”
Masaba, an Islamic scholar and healer, was detained in 2008 for failing the keep the Sharia Law of not marrying more than 4 wives, told newsmen over the weekend in Bida, Niger State that every time he comes across a new ‘Miss Right’, he marries her.
“In his wisdom, God has given me the power and strength to give them the sexual portion they need. If I didn’t satisfy them, they would leave,” the octogenarian said to DailyPost.
Masaba failed to obey the order by the Sharia Court, which said that he should let go of 82 of the 86 wives he had at the time (2008).
The case dragged into an Abuja High Court and he was released after 57 of the wives testified that they married him willingly.
Recently, there were rumours that the 87-year-old ‘spectacular’ polygamist died after a brief illness. Vanguard contacted him and he dismissed the rumours of his death, saying “I am still alive, bubbling in good health.”
Masaba, who dismissed the rumour on phone yesterday, described the rumour as a deliberate act by his detractors to bury him while still alive. He said:
“My dear, I am still alive, hale and hearty. At least, you can hear me speak and certainly, a dead person cannot speak. The rumour is baseless and can best be described as the work of my detractors because they envy what God has done and what He is still doing for me. I am seated outside of my house and I am speaking with you live in Bida without any problem with my health. What I am doing is divine. It is an assignment and I will keep doing it till the end.”
The images you’re about to see shows the surprising moment, an enraged hotel guest kicked down a man’s door and beat him up in the middle of the night because he was having sex too loudly.
CCTV captured the moment a guest, named locally as a businessman called Zhang, took out his frustrations on another guest at a hotel in the city of Beihai, in China’s Guanxi southern province.
The attack took place in the early hours of October 13 after Zhang and a group of his colleagues had checked into the hotel ahead of a meeting the following morning, local media reports.
But at some point during the night Zhang was woken up by a couple having sex loudly in the neighboring room, it is reported.
Zhang then went into the corridor to tell the couple to be quiet, but instead received a barrage of abuse back from another man, named as Lei Mou
As the confrontation got louder, Zhang’s colleagues make their way into the corridor where at least ten of them were filmed waiting outside the door.
Eventually Zhang kicked down the hotel door, before dragging the male guest out while punching and kicking him, and stripping him to the waist, Daily Mail reports.
The group were then caught on film in the lobby where the attack continued, before police were called and split it up.
Zhang eventually agreed he had over-reacted, before agreeing to pay 15,000 yuan to Lei to settle the dispute.
The beautiful immediate past Miss Imo State Queen, Stephanie Korie, in the photos you see, was two nights ago allegedly humiliated by an army man at a graduation party of her friends.
She shared her story as thus:
“Nigeria has turned to something else where men treat women with no respect. I’m so disappointed with our military; they treat women with no respect . I’ve been hearing stuffs about the things they do in Aba, Abia State but didn’t believe until it happened to me tonight.
I actually went to my friends graduation party with my younger sis in my school, when all of a sudden some guys started fighting. I wasn’t comfortable so we had to go out and we were about leaving when a guy approached me (army officer not dressed in his uniform ) and asked me of the people with us.
I was surprised because I was invited and didn’t know much people in the party. But I didn’t answer him then, he told me he would slap me if I don’t tell him. I was surprised and asked him why? Before I could tell what was happening he gave me a dirty slap.
Now I’m wondering; do men go about slapping any female they see? or the men in our country have lost the respect they have for women? It is a big shame for a soldier in the Nigerian army to act with such irresponsible behaviour. And when he was asked why he did what he did, his reply was “do you know who I am” #StandAgainstMilitaryIntimidation #MenShouldNotHitWomenForNoReason #TheMilitaryShouldProtectAndNotIntimidateOurWomen”
A group of Nigerian deportees from Libya have revealed harrowing details of their thwarted efforts to illegally travel to Europe.
Fifty-two of the 154 who were deported from the North African country last Monday shared their sordid experiences publicly at The Synagogue, Church Of All Nations (SCOAN) in Lagos State on Sunday 16th October where they had come to seek ‘refuge’.
According to Tracy Stephen, an Edo-State indigene, the treatment they endured in the course of their journey was nothing short of inhumane.
“My mother borrowed N280,000 to finance my travels,” the young hairdresser explained, surrounded by a bunch of other disheveled deportees, mainly female teenagers. “I deposited the money to the man that said he would take us abroad, although I never saw his face. He said I would be in Italy in two weeks.”
Tracy travelled from Edo State to Kano before being “packed like sardines” into the back of a Hilux van.
“We were 48 in the van which was supposed to take only 8,” she recounted.
The subsequent three-day journey through the Sahara Desert was hellish.
“We didn’t sleep nor eat or drink water,” she said, describing how dead bodies lay strewn across the desert floor, evidence that countless others attempting the same journey had woefully met their end.
Arriving in Sabha, Libya, Tracy reminisced on her first drink of water in more than 72 hours of the harsh sun.
“The water was dirty but we didn’t have any choice. We drunk from the well before we discovered there was a dead body inside.”
Hidden under a makeshift ‘watermelon truck’, the journey continued until the group reached Tripoli where they were encamped for months along with hundreds of other illegal immigrants awaiting the dangerous sea crossing to Sicily.
“We ate only once a day – scraps of food which only filled the palm of your hand.”
Vulnerable girls were raped regularly at gun-point by their traffickers.
When her turn finally arrived, Tracy was horded onto a flimsy rubber dinghy. A boat meant for less than 40 swelled until 140 had boarded – young children and babies amidst the adults.
“There was no life-jacket and none of us could swim,” she said.
Reaching Italian waters with no rescue boat in sight, the captain decided to retrace his steps back towards Libya when disaster struck.
“Fuel ran out and we were in the middle of nowhere. No food. No water. Just the sea.”
One of the immigrants on board soon died.
“We were afraid to throw the body out of the boat because it would attract sharks,” she said. After three days adrift, the make-shift boat was eventually sighted by the Libyan coast-guard.
“They arrested us all and sent us to prison for three months,” Tracy divulged.
Through the facilitation of the International Organisation for Migration (IOM), she was deported back to Nigeria last week.
“I wished I had not left my home and country,” she tearfully confessed. “These are the same clothes I have been wearing for the last seven months.”
Tracy’s experiences echoed countless more who recounted their tales including Osama Osifo, a 300-level University of Benin student, who said that he was kidnapped in Libya.
After several torture sessions with his older brother on the phone listening to the sound of his screams, a ransom of N250,000 was paid to secure his release. Whilst incarcerated, his elderly father died “because of the shock”.
“I thought Nigeria was hell when I was leaving this place,” Osama stated after he was eventually deported following several months of suffering in Libyan prison. “I now see it as Heaven.”
“At Lagos airport, the IOM provided two buses – one to take us to our State and one to take us to Synagogue,” the albino stated. He opted to come to the church.
Precious Chioma sold all her possessions and travelled with her two young boys to Libya. However, she soon resorted to drinking her own urine and feeding it to her sons to survive the harsh conditions she met after being captured under the ‘watermelon truck’.
At the church service, N10,000,000 ($33,000USD) was given out to the group on behalf of ‘Emmanuel TV Partners’, with each of the deportees receiving N150,000 ($500USD) alongside two bags of rice to “start their lives afresh”.
Pastor TB Joshua used the opportunity to advise youth.
“It is where God wants you to make it that you will make it, not where you want to make it or where you admire,” he said.
He also advised people not to be deceived by the seemingly ‘flashy lifestyles’ of many who will be returning to their homeland during the festive season.
“A decorated slave is not only a slave but a big fool. Be careful – appearance out there is deceptive. Warn your children!”
Article by Ihechukwu Njoku; a freelance citizen journalist.
The 21 freed Chibok schoolgirls have aired out their ordeal in the hands of the Boko Haram insurgents and how they lost hope of ever returning to their families.
A thanksgiving service was held yesterday, 16th October, 2015, at the Directorate of State Services (DSS) facility in Abuja, where the girls have been kept since last Thursday when they returned.
Gloria Dame, who spoke on behalf of the girls after the service, recollected how they went without food for “one month and 10 days’’ in the bush.
Speaking in Hausa, Gloria, who is Number 139 on the Bring Back Our Girls (BBOG) movement’s list of abducted girls, said their survival in captivity was an act of God.
“I did not know that a day like this will come that we will be dancing and giving thanks to God among people.
“For one month and 10 days we stayed without food. I narrowly escaped bomb blast in the forest.
We are praying to God to touch the heart of Boko Haram to repent and we are calling on Nigerians to pray and fast for the release of our remaining ones in captivity,’’ she said.
While the service was going on, the parents of the freed girls arrived at the venue and were reunited with their loved ones after two and a half years with their abductors.
As soon as they arrived, emotions took over as tears of joy rolled down the eyes of parents and girls. Tears flowed freely as parents took turns to identify their daughters, while one woman simply carried her daughter on her back in happiness.
Minister of Information, Lai Mohammed, warned against comments which could jeopardise the release of the remaining girls.
He said President Muhammadu Buhari had proved critics wrong by securing the release of the girls. He said:
“There are many reckless analysts and commentators who are not helping the situation. We still have many of our children in captivity.
“Therefore we have to be careful with the kind of comments that we make. We must not make comments that will make the release of these girls difficult or impossible.”
Mohammed, who quoted from the Scriptures (Those who are with us are more than those who are with them), said those who doubted the sincerity and commitment of the administration to the safe release and the reunion of the abducted Chibok girls with their parents were disappointed.
He added:
“When the President said the Boko Haram saga will not be closed until all the girls abducted have been released and reunited with their families safely, those who doubted did not believe us so we thank God this day has come.”
He appealed to the parents of the girls who are yet to be freed to continue to exercise patience: “This is the beginning and we are very optimistic that very soon another batch bigger than this will be released. I want to assure you that these negotiations are ongoing even as we speak.”
The Chairman of the Parents of the Abducted Chibok School Girls, Yakubu Nkeki debunked some reports alleging that 18 of the 21 freed girls are pregnant and denied that the girls were radicalised by Boko Haram.
Some leaders of the BBOG movement who were shut out of the event expressed amazement that “some people” are too desperate to make political gains out of the entire situation.
“Our eyes are on the goal and not the glitz of photo opportunities,” Dr. Emman Shehu, one of the BBOG leaders said.
We all found it hard to believe after the news of the actor becoming an evangelist hit Social media few weeks back – but this photo of him preaching to a massive congregation further proves that he’s a changed man.
Who knows, we just might be hearing of his ministry very soon…
The gay rights activist, who is counting down the days to his wedding which is set to hold next month, shared this throwback photo of himself in 1999 when he says he and Denrele acted for Atiku’s wife.
He wrote:
“Day 13 of 30 days to my wedding of 30 things to be grateful for. The first time I put on a dress was at university of Lagos. I was drafted to act a role at the last minute as the character did it turn up. I am sure @denrele_edun will remember this event. We were acting for Atiku’s wife while she was visiting. Many times after that, I have dressed. I dressed up hosting many gay parties in #Lagos. In 1999, as a very young 24years old, I won the glamorous Miss Gay Lagos. It was an honour. As a man (yes, just in case some of you are confused) wearing a dress and heels and stockings is liberating for me. I am not a woman and I do not want to be a woman. When I wear dresses, I wear them as a man.m, and this is why it is very liberating for me. It connects with my vulnerability. As an African man, there is an expectation of what it means to be a man. Wearing a dress is also a statement of fuck you to patriarchy. I don’t do conformity. I live in my head and in my world. I would go naked and take a picture of it if I feel so good about it. Then came last year and I met @msposhp and she changed my world. She made me understand that beauty has no gender and a dress is a dress is a dress. The joy I feel when I take on the character of Ms Posh is overwhelming. She takes me to another level. Also when @obehinoir make her up, she transforms into this beautiful woman I have been dying to meet and know. Ms Posh is an act, she is only real in my head and in your imagination. That imagination if you let it loose will change the way you see women and treat women. As a man a dress, I have experience sexual harassment and verbal abuse and to me it is interesting how just a dress changed the way people treat me. Unfortunately, Ms Posh is not invited to me wedding, but I am sure, she will be standing next to me in my head when I say ‘I Do’ to my man. #samesexmarriage #samesexwedding #30daysofthankfulness #equalmarriage #weddingday #dragqueen”
A Nigerian soccer defender, identified as Izu Joseph has died after the conclusion of the 2016 Nigeria Professional Football League season – Joseph played for NPFL side Shooting Stars of Ibadan and was part of the team that finished the season in 14th position.
A tweet by the Ibadan based club says:
“A Shooting STAR is gone! Izu Joseph is gone! Flamboyant defender is gone! RIP, brother. What a life! May God strengthen his family #Tragedy”
According to the club, he was shot dead in Bayelsa by soldiers of the Joint Task Force (JTF), who are locked in a long-drawn face-off with militants in Niger Delta.
The defender joined Shooting Stars three years ago from Bayelsa United when the Ibadan club were still in the second-tier Nigeria National League.
Father of one of the Chibok girls who were arrested in April 2014, Deborah Jafaru, who was the only girl who returned with a baby has explained how his daughter was taken and how grateful he is.
According to him,
“Unlike the others, Deborah had already finished her secondary school; she did not make her papers and returned to rewrite her WASCE when she was taken.
“She just got married two weeks before returning for her papers and they took her. Her husband has remarried now. They abducted her with pregnancy and she had my grandchild there but I’m just grateful to God and the government for returning my daughter and grandchild to me safely. Words cannot describe how I feel at the moment.”
Deborah is the only one among the girls who returned with a baby.
Mrs Rifkatu John, carried her daughter Jummai Bakwa, on her back, with her wrapper like a baby. She refused to leave her daughter throughout the event . She said:
“I never thought that I would see my daughter again in this life time; I prayed so much for her safe return and here she is finally. I just want to give God all the glory and thank the government for bringing her back. I pray that the other Chibok mothers have the opportunity to see their daughters again and experience the joy I feel today,” she said.
The girls have not been handed over to their parents completely because they are still undergoing some trauma counselling, The Nation reports.
The reigning king of Fuji music genre, King Wasiu Ayinde Marshall KWAM 1, also known as K1 The Ultimate, yesterday shared photos of his country home in Ijebu Ode where he posed with one of his exotic pets, an Ostrich.
The classic musician shared the photo and wrote:
Nice weather this afternoon in Ijebu Ode and my ostrich came out to have a feel of the good sunny weather.”
K1 is known to be a lover of peculiar animals, and his collection of pets include birds like peacock, parrot, ostrich and tortoise.
The Twitter user gives a very interesting theory to normal ladies with boyfriends being equivalent to prostitutes… In a tweet he shared, he says since all ladies who have boyfriends, have sex with and collect money from them, how are they any different from prostitutes…
Oh well, you know how people are with their despicable and controversial opinions eh?! What do you think though?#
Most Nigeria girls have never had a boyfriend, they've just had guys who had sex with them and gave them money which is equivalent to ashewo
Nigeria’s First openly gay pastor and founder of House of Rainbow Fellowship, Rev. Jide Macaulay wrote what you’d find below on his instagram page:
To be a homosexual is honourable, a gift from God. It is who I am. God makes no mistakes. Knowing the truth as a gay christian is liberating and gives me the most joy of my freedom.
I have paid the price for lying to be heterosexual. Pretending to be who you are will only harm you. EVERYONE was hurt, my father, mother, wife, son, my siblings, in-laws, friends and relatives etc.
I was FORCED to lie. I justified these lies with religion, culture, tradition and law.
I lied to myself for all of my adolescence, I lied to my family and friends. Because I didn’t know any better.
I lied to my ex-wife because I was afraid of telling the truth.
I lied in my prayers asking God to cure me of homosexuality instead of helping me to come to terms.
My religious belief and dogma nearly killed me. I wrongly married a woman and badly hurt everyone.
I suffered emotional and psychological breakdown and through it all I survived. – Reverend Jide Macaulay
It’s a moment of sorrow for the family of this pretty Nigerian girl identified as Jennifer Omalicha, a graduate of Nnamdi Azikiwe University (UNIZIK) -who died recently following after a fatal car accident. Her close friend who mourned her untimely demise wrote;
Am in shock…am lost….no u need to stop this prank…its just too expensive….Omalicha u need to tell me u are joking… Pick up your call… Pls just pick it up..you can’t just leave without a word…u can’t just leave like that…pls…d tears won’t stop flowing….it can’t stop flowing…still doubting dis news looks more like a film trick more like a Nigerian movie…babe u need to tell me u are safe somewhere…Omalicha rest in peace…keep resting in peace till we meet to part no more…..
Eni Lise balogun is a Lagos based beauty and skin expert. She is the brain behind the popular Lise Spa in Ikoyi and the owner of an A-List brand of cosmetic products in Nigeria.
A mother of 3 kids and happily married,the beautician who was born and bred in New York also has a very active social media representation for her range of products.
The light skinned beauty recently disgraced a man who was trying to woo her on Facebook after she made their conversation public via her page.
Guys, you must have read or heard by now our President’s answer when he was asked in the presence of other world leaders, in far away Germany, which party his wife, Aisha belongs to. He gave a classic “Aboki” answer, “I don’t know what political party she belongs to but all I know is that she belongs to my kitchen, my room and other rooms” whaaaat??!!!
Haba, some kin things just dey run belly.
My people, how many of una hear or read Aisha Buharis BBC interview. In that interview I could see a woman who has considered all her options and all consequences and is simply crying out for help because domestically things are perhaps not peaceful or that her husband’s power and authority has been hijacked by the treacherous cabals who insist on making some of our Presidents (past and present)a mere figure head. The same cabal hijacked Goodluck Jonathan administration, an easy going man who was never wired for treachery and evil, in fact that one personally confessed to me himself that he is under siege by the Cabal.
People, there is fire on the mountain o!!!!!!
As far as I’m concerned if Buhari is not in charge, then who the heck is in charge of this derailing ship called Nigeria.
I know that it is very lonely at the top. If you’re a family man, you know how easy or difficult it is in running your family how much more a country/nation as big as Nigeria.
Our leaders know they are ultimately responsible for the lives and fortunes of the people and If they fail, many of us will get poorer, suffer and die for nothing. They often deny the burdens and loneliness of leadership, thereby becoming incapable of facing reality, they tune down their inner voice, because it is too painful to confront or even acknowledge it; it may, however, appear in their dreams as they try to resolve conflicts rustling around inside their heads, cabinet or homes, therefore , their work and function derails and personal lives get out of balance. They lose touch with those closest to them̬ like their spouses, children, and best friends who can no longer synchronise their points of view and they eventually lose their capacity to think logically about important issues. Long and short, the country and its people suffer, especially the poor masses. My people, look at Us now. Hummmmm!!!
I dont believe that our First Lady, Aisha is crazy, unhinged or trying to sabotage her husband’s efforts, rather I see her as a woman who is frustrated in trying to communicate with her husband, a woman who probably havent had any lately in decades, a woman who is sick and tired of all the male macho bullshit and above all very afraid of these treacherous, vile and evil Cabal whose plans are not in the country’s best interest. She may have her game going. Who knows. For the First Lady to say all that she said understanding the consequences living with the kinda man who wouldn’t really mind confining her to the kitchen, is very noble and courageous. My people can this explain the confusion in Aso Rock today or the inaction/insensitivities of Buhari’s government towards us, the people? The bad spirits have taken over, Holy Ghost Fire!!!!!!!!
I didn’t vote in the last election because the choice of candidates was wrong, it was like being between the devil and the deep blue sea. And I have always said that what Nigeria/Nigerians need now, is a benevolent dictator who can arrest these cabals and for once have a leadership that thinks about Us, the People.
The divisive tactics of the Cabal is legendary. They are egotistical sleazy riffraffs who can never comprehend the concept of leadership, service to the people. They are blinded by their greed and the evil that dwells in their hearts.
From where I stand, I feel the Cabal have succeeded in overpowering our President, hence, Aisha’s cry for help. And it doesn’t make it any easier when the person in question has a mungo park mentality. Kai wahala dey.
My people what do we do? how can we help to get our oga to see our predicament and take immediate action to rescue our future?. Nigerians are no longer happy, they are hungry and angry. God ain’t going to send down manna from heaven so forget about night vigil and your pastors, it is our call to face this monster or we will all die one after another before our time.
Any suggestions is permitted because this doesn’t look good at all.
Authorities of the University of Lagos have expelled 125 students and rusticated 198 others for various offences, including examination malpractices during last academic session.
The lists of the affected students were published on the university’s website on Sunday.
The institution’s Deputy Registrar (Information), Mr Toyin Adebule, confirmed the expulsion and estimation to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Lagos yesterday,
Adebule told NAN that the university “will soon publish and display the names and photographs of the students in the media’’. He said
“Yes we have published some names on our website and these students will be punished in various degrees, depending on the severity.
“Last session, a number of students were caught in various forms of malpractices during their examinations.
“Some were found cheating during the examination with “micro sheets” while others were hired as surrogates to write papers for others.
“Others were caught smoking weeds (Marijuana) right in their halls of residence by their colleagues and reported to the university authorities.
“For those who were caught impersonating, writing examinations for others, they will face outright expulsion,’’ Adebule said.
Adebule said the other categories of students, such as those caught with micro sheets and the smokers, would face suspension ranging from two to four semesters.
“In other to get the desired effect of their various punishments, we are planning to publish all their names as well as display their photographs all over the campus in the next one week.
“We shall carry out this measure in all the departments and faculties in the institution.
“This is to help the university ensure that the affected students will have nowhere to hibernate on campus.”he said
President Muhammadu Buhari’s “Kitchen and Other room” statement has been causing trouble all over Social media.
Many have taken to social media to criticize the President’s sexist words and now joining the voices of disapproval is veteran Nollywood actress Hilda Dokubo.
The veteran actress made a passionate speech on her Instagram page saying she does not belong in the kitchen, living room or other room.
She was involved in an auto crash and doctors have been battling to save her life since then. 4 hours ago, Idowu Oyedeji took to her facebook page to thank family, friends, well wishers and above all, God for keeping her alive. Below is what she wrote;
Though words fail me, I just have to say something. I want to show my appreciation and thanks to everyone; friends, family and even those who don’t know me personally, for your tremendous support during my lowest point abd darkest hour.
It was truly overwhelming and I know that there is indeed nothing in the world that I can repay everyone with but from the deepest part of my heart, the unexplainable emotions known to man and the space of eternity, I want to say THANK YOU. Eventhough I was mostly unconscious at the hospital, I felt the wave of prayers, support and love in everyway and I’m eternally grateful.
And to the King Eternal, Immortal, Invisible, only Wise God, be all my thanks and adoration forever and ever, The one without whom I would not be here today.
The life we have is very precious and we should always be thankful for it because I have come to know firsthand the thin line between life and death.
I love you all so much. This would never be enough but thank you once again.
Pls kindly share
#MyJourneyToRecovery
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After the accident – In the hospitalAfter the accident – In the hospitalAfter the accident – In the hospital
