An 18 year old student is currently in a dilemma, and she has no idea what to do, after she got pregnant for a married man.
She wrote her story to a relationship adviser and blogger, Joro Olumofin.
Read it below:
Hi Sir Adejoro,
Please am in need of advise. I’m a student schooling abroad. Have been having an affair with a married man. I met him summer last year. I was shopping with friends and he paid for everything.
He’s like a best friend to me we facetime always, and do facetime sex. He takes my advise seriously in his life, I supported his businesses in growing… I found out I’m pregnant by way of urine tests. I’m 2 months gone i think. It’s illegal to do abortions in the city I am. I haven’t told him yet.
A part of me wants to keep it. He has expressed the need for wanting a son. He has all daughters with his wife in Nigeria. I really love him. What if it’s a boy? I’m catholic anyways and it’s a sin to abort.
I have never thought about being a second wife but he doesn’t love his wife. He loves me. He just copes with her because they grew up together. He cries when we have sex. Like tears of joy.
Please advise me. I told my sister who wants me to come to Nigeria to abort it. Why can’t I have the man of my dreams? Please I’m an adult. Don’t bring the she’s young comments.
you made your bed, now you got to lie in it!!
Keep the pregnancy,don’t ever abort it please, although it’s a sin moving with married man but at same time aborting it is like offending God more,but if u keep that baby God will forgive you and you will end up being happy in life my dear.