I really need your matured advise. I caught my friend’s girlfriend cheating (having sex actually) with another guy and she knew I saw her of course.. She’s been begging me not to talk.
If I keep quiet now and My guy later finds out I knew about it I will become a bad friend.
If I talk it could be the end of a 4 years old relationship!!!
I’m even scared the girl may set me up if I decide to talk.
Advise please.
Mind your business and let d sleeping dog. Nemesis will definitely catch up with her
Liv her and ask god for rely woman shere dont lov u ok
If u dnt tell ur friend dat mean u dnt like ur friend and u can allow his gf to kill him at anytime. u better tell him. if I were u I will off her finger so that she won’t try such again
Mr. Enema you siad all
To me u dnt hav any right to tell him
If he’s your friend yes you have to tell him.
I cnt blv u
U are the 1st lady dat av said dis
Better person. As if u no dey cheat. Y would u look into someones affair. Amibo
Advice nt bad words. Nawa oooh.
Runs gal
Olosho ???
Nothing concern me. In fact, let us blame Iyanya…
Mind your business let them be
All of you should repent and flee immorality, this is why so many youths suffering today.
Dnt tell him, but caution the lady as if she is ur sister
Are you sure you caught them? If yes call her advice her,not to try it again it will change her if she is the chanhing one no one is perfect
mind ur bizness
Mind ur own business
Ajuju!
U just said girlfriend not wife……..four years of dating doesn’t mean anything,is not how far that wins your partner,s heart but how well.Refute them.
Call the girl and advice her
I mind my fucking business
Mind ur business nd pretend u neva see anytin,she wil pay d price somdy.
You better talk to safe your friend future cos their marriage might not work well at the end!
My dear mind ur business becos de are not yet married so back off
Girlfriend not wife,4yrs relationship? Mteeeeeeew,my dear pls do something meaningful with your life
Even if is wife…. mind ur business that’s all
Yes ma
ur a bad person
Mind ur business
Hausa man use to say “Da Mungun Rawa goma kin tkashi
Mind your business and pretend like you don’t know her or you have not seen her doing anything.
I guess you are jealous or it seemed you are interested in having sex with her too. That’s how you sound to me.
y dont u mind ur biznes or dos it
mean is only her ur friend is slepn wt. has he neva cheated on sombdy b4? if u hv nt don anytn rong 2 any lady, b d 1st 2 tro d stone by destroyn d rlatnshp olofofo.
Why insulting him! Are you sure you’re not one of them.
Big mouth tell
Mind ur business!!!!
My dear I will tell him
Aproko manager ??
Loveth I will tell him . Lolz
Tell him and I wil f*** with ya ???
Please tell your friend you don’t need to waste time
Oga mind ur business
U shud advice d girl nd try to ask her y she did it nd tell her dat if she tries it again dat u will tell ur friend…Dias no harm in giving her a second chance.
Nah
#Lolz…. I did hear u say gF….u beta shut up n mind ur bizz____girls re nt meant 4 1 guy till dy got marriage oooo######
Talk make u die,#olofofo#
Mind your business
d gal her own sef,a guy has been eatn u
raw 4 gud yrs & hs stupid guy frend of hers got d nerve 2 report her, a guy we
neva pay ur bride price u kep body him de enjoy. wake up gal.
blossom are you married?
U type hardly marry. Hope u don’t deceive lady’s that is willing to marry.
do u no wat relly frendshp,rlatnshp,lov, marriage & famliy means?proper godly way of wat is suppose 2 b? if is ur blood sis, wat advice wl u gv her cos am a proffessional counselor?dn i ans ur qestn
This girl nah big fool, she’s not even married ooo my question is has somebody not been eating you hypocrite raw too all your miserable life? foolish girl
professional counsellor are you married??? is som1 not fucking you??
josh, am gloriously maried.if u v a sis, gv her 2 a guy dat wl b eatn her raw 4yrs & u tel me dats d way 2 b n rlatnshp. bt let God b d one dat wl gv u a reply 4 sayn my typ hardly gts maried,
u decide wat hapens 2 u & ur life.may same b don 2 ur own if u hv urs.may dat
word stick wt u 4 d rest of ur life.somtyms u dont no who u abuse on social media.
You must be sick cuz you talking shit
So what’s ur fucking point yhu bitch…
Mtcheew olodo
prince & miracle,let fire 4rm d alter of Bishop David Oyedepo consume u 2.if evil is gud,may same b don 2 ur own. must a lady wl open her legs 4 a man b4 marriage.is it hw ur mom ws maried?
prince & miracle,as a daughter of a prophet,as u said it,u wl hv it.let madness stick wt u & ur generation ijn.u
dont open ur mouths &talk 2 ppl anyhw on social media cos u dont no who dey
are.
Blossom your a damn fool, you are deviating from the talk were you a virgin til you got married dats if your even married, now if its your brother that his fiance was cut cheating is diz d trash dat will b pouring out of your mouth???
your a hypocrite from all i can see
see d rubbish you said you don’t even know if its money that is delaying their marriage,
now what if d guy is not a cheat like your small brain is telling you?
baba calm down o o… if u snitch.. bitches don dey treat fuck up o o
Just mind your damn business dude, I’m sure your friend is also cheating too. But why will your friend be dating somebody for 4 years na? Seriously its bad that the girlfriend is a cheat talk to her about what she’s doing, its possible if you tell your friend he will just not believe you and think you want to sabotage his relationship
ur a very veryyyyy bad girl and ur more then stupid
And you are the king of stupidity Samuel Mansojey Daniel Daniel
Lmao calm down
E never reach fight nah
My brother dated his wife for 12 years and now their marriage has lasted for 16 years .
WTF.. u said why will a guy date a girl for 4years u get sense at all…chai human being they this world ohh, if the guy didn’t love her he won’t even date her upto 2months na girls like you dey live for brothel
True talk my sis Eunice it wel with u is nt gud 4 a man 2 date a lady for 4 Years
I support u well well
Eunice wat if dey met n started datin in 200l? Wnt d relatnshd last for more dan 4yrs
Talk na free and all those who think I said bad thing because of duration of dating and start abusing themselves can please jump in the lagoon, and if lagoon too far please hug a transformer close to you when PHCN bring light, idiots
Iyke Yuppie DopeMind guys like you are idiots that patronise brothels
Mind ur biznes
Jst Mind Ur Business
Must you poke nose, let go of what you saw
from the comment most girls are droping here i now know how wicked n black their heart is, what a wicked world
U gals bad oo
Mind your biz lol
Do the needful, save ur friends life, life is timing, no point hiding the fact, every one ought to be proud and be happy of their actions else.
Mind ur biz… It’s a game of who wins takes the cup
Just mind ur business is not everything u see u say
Mind your business
Mind your business many are saying because you guys are cheating OK no problem God we soon do his own thing one day all hidden things we be open keep on cheating
Mind ur biznez..if it’s the guy u caught cheating, would u have told his girlfriend?…. Judge that before u intrude
you better tell him because if he contacts hiv you cant forgive yourself
What is ur own, Mind ur bizness
Acha udaku, mind your own business
Mind ur bizness
Just keep calm
I go tell o!
All this girls cmemting these rubbish are dangerous o!
Haw take be my business
So you girls are encouraging her abi? Chai!
As far as that guy is my fwend I go tell
Is better to tell him
Keep ur mouth . Close. Coz if u still tell ur frd when they come back together u will b d devil in d middle. Don’t put ur mouth in such case.
ur a bad friend
Its complicated tho
Sure
Chris ur nigga
Samuel Mansojey Daniel Daniel hevis not only bad but wicked friend, if latter the guy caught her and broke is it when you will now tell your friend.
Guy honestly I will like to have you as an advisers , true talk
She meant even turn the story on your head. Keep ur mouth shut.
If I were u, fuck the girl, and tell ur friend, such a girl is nothing but a whore…
guy know tell ur friend use dat opportunity to collect ur own ..dat is what will can real m v p
Lol
Nothing bad wit dat guy
Follow your heart as the choice on whether or not to tell your friends is entirely yours. You already know the consequences
U better mind ur buzz
I go sing am like song to my friend so that he wel be aware of what he is doing
Its not yr bussiness,pretend as if you did,nt see anything,because if you talk what will happen to yr life you will not believe it ,you might even lose yr life if the girl takes the matter to spiritual level.
If you don’t know what to say you close that your big mouth, what spiritual level
You girls are just creating problems on your head and later you start to look for solution
You are an idiot,its becos you have not seen something in yr life thats why you people die careless death,do you know if that guy is her future husband?am talking out of experience i have seen things you,ve not seen so contol that fowl mouth.
Lol, seriously? Does that work?
My broda it does thats how one guy lost his life because of something that dosent concern him ,very similar to this we just have to pray not to come across wicked ppll.tnx and Godbess.
So if na her future husband means say make say make she scatter that place before them marry her? Me I go talk oh, his left for my friend to decide if he still love the girl but i must surely clear my mind.
Which place he dey scatter?you are making me luagh this moring the place no dey scatter o na elastic and pls dont talk leave them.bless u
Nothing will happen to him dear!
Larry you are right in a way but i mean why do we have frends if not to watch our backs?, if its you wont you like to know that d person your about to marry has a questionable fidelity?
Story
foolsh
Ur r very evil minded… imagine ur comment SPIRITUAL LEVEL
Tnx @ zaza dnt mind the fool instead of him to make a comment he started insulting so i gave it to.remain blessed
Larry u are right,,,,yea nobody can tell d kin of tin dats might result to ,,,,its can reach to d extent of spiritual stuffs ,,,tanx dear
Its [email protected] chucczj.nelson i will like to know my broda you how wicked some ppll are i believe in minding my business any way thanks and bless.
Tnx @ udoka we have seen a lot of things,remain blessed
Dis udoka e lyk say u dey cheat too much…
Evrywhr u jst dey support d “mind ur business team” na wo for u ook
Lolz…
These girls no get anything for inside there skull…Larry ur face alone can tell how daft and stupid u are
Tnx @ ifeanyichukwu iroakazi why is it that if you ppll dont insult you cannot drop a comment without fooling yrself,i dont blame you because you lack good home training from yr stupid father and yr idiotic mother,why must you daft insult me without having any quarrel with you?may God punish yr father and yr mother you bastard.
May thunder strike all yr generation,you he goat next time you will learn how to talk to ppll.
Am ready and waiting for yo ok
Look @ this ugly idiot talking because better ppll are talking,did,nt you read responsible ppll,s comment there without insults?what did they receive prayers but what you got are curses and you shall remined cursed for life.
Pls do….tell your friend. …..there is a reason God allow u to catch her………if I was the one who caught her…….her own don finish….ookpaleee
Only a careless girls are commenting rubbish here
Is none of your business because your guy is cheating ok
U should advice the girl nd try to ask her y she did it nd tell her day if she it again that u will tell ur friend
Yungpaid are u saying d guy should keep on watching d girl everyday to no wen she will do it again
Abeg mind ur bizness
Keep it mouth
Com ds guy….Who u help?jst go ahead nd sew ur tongue,No bi everytin eye c mouth dey talk.Remeba eye wey dey cry dey c road….Ur frnd dey c rd too,Him go find out himself.
Me self go video it so that he go believe me mehen mehen
Mind ur own business bro
Mind your business, boy. Tell him if you want to remain a boy.
Mind ur business wot benefit will u have will dey pay u salary for dat..
Depending how close he is tho
Lwkm,u have a problem with minding your business.don’t u have a job?pretend like u didn’t see them
Is becus u are like dat 2 dat is wht u are also doing 2
Are u tryna seek attention here?
Change!!!
Change. Isi aki
Why are you talking like this?
If u knew the meaning of emmanuella u will desist from prostitution
Mind ur business cause the guy is having fun ear were OK Na vice visa
Most girls here saying mind your business. Me I go talk oh,is left for my friend to decide if he still love the girl but i must surely clear my mind, i don’t compromise rubbish. If my friend love the girl they can continue but i must surely speak out what I saw.
You are risking your life
I concur
Respect, true talk
Amebor
If you like call am amebor. At first I nor call you here with your moron face
Haaa ur life is at end
Someone just cheated and some people are saying keep quiet,we should know that truth is always bitter,is better u tell the guy is now left for the guy to continue in the relationship than keeping quiet
Can you tell the girl if it were to be your friend that cheated on her?
Aproko go kill ya.
Thunder fire you @Amaka. Na girls like you dey spread legs walker so
I go tell bcos aids is real b4 she giv my aids n he die jus lik dat
dat is how she wil stil be cheating on him when they get married.”ALU”
No mind all these lose whores wey they critisize u for airing your mind. I’ll do thesame with immediate effect ?
Just maind ur business my brother, it cull be u tomorrow OK.
Want is your business
Wetin you find go where you for catch them? Na wetin your eyes dey find e see ooo..
Just enjoying these ashawo girl’s comments sha.
It’s advisable u tell him nw so dat u clear ur conscience bcos u might b forced to tell him in d nearest future wen dere is misunderstanding btw u wit d girl or d ur friend as at d tym they are married or close to marriage. Remember, sometimes, we actually lose control of anger when dere is misunderstanding. A tym will come when we can’t keep d secrete any longer we just want to voice it out either by to hurt d feelings of som1 or so. Nd it will b more disastrous at dat tym. Remember again we ar human
If u tell him please take your sister along with u so u give him to replace d girl.. Bcs u can’t leave him so alone and girlfriendless otherwise he might commit suicide..
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Jst mind ur own business cause somtins are beta left unsaid
Its normal for ladies to sleep with different men and pretend like nothing……just act with ur brain on this issue, it’s technical
Same applies to guys too, theirs are even worse ,
Common sense is not common go and tell your friend then he would pay u 10billon and say thank u my friend
Ladies u see yourselves, mind ur biz, mind ur biz because birds of the same feathers fly together abi, disappointed.
Stupid man
Bt y wil u call him dat
Lynda Ohams I can see cheating is your way that is why you are supporting evil you better repent before it will be too bad 4 u
Mind ur business and let her continue her rubbish, nemesis will catch her up one day
Answer this question first. Will u tell your friend’s girl friend if you caught your friend sleeping with another girl?
If it’s the guy u caught cheating wouldn’t u have cover up for him?
Since they are still in relationship and not married to each other, dear just mind your business and go your way.
Guy go and tell your friend don’t listen to them bcos all of them are the same don’t you see that all of them are just saying mind your business don’t mind your business oo bcos is your friend ok what if something went wrong she now give your friend a bastard child Wright is that what you want for your friend?
What of he goes to tell his friend and the girls turns it upside down that he asked for sex and when she refused he is trying to blackmail her by saying this tins ? Girls strong oooo no reason am
d sure way to live long on earth is to mind ur business
Is none of ur business, so mind ur own business otherwise tell ur guy to get married wit her simply so dat she can stop d rubbish wife z not a gal friend
Anyway it depends , Such thing has happened to me before, A friend of mine cheated with another friend of mine girlfriend, I kept it to myself , Reason is because this girl is not in a serious relationship with any of them.
Jst call d girl and advice her
Guy mind ur business ooh!
Emuobor Richardz
Maybe he should fuck her too lol
Relationship my foot…. Wen i say f**k love, people tink am a fool…. D only thing a girl can offer a guy is sex…
Pls mind ur own business because u might be their worst enemy tomorrow
How can your friend date a girl for good 4years, may be the girl see that he’s not serious that’s why she cheat on him
Talk and don’t talk……
Mind your business, don’t try to tell him.
You did not have sense
Instead of you to join them or enter set
mind ur business cos who knows someone else might have caught your girlfriend on bed with another man without telling you!
No don’t talk, instead join the guy do ur own comot after all the boy fit dey hammer Your Own babe for conner so
Mind your biz.
Waiting be your own there my friend
Tel him all u see…igbo adage said….”ekwuo ma anughi gburu nwata wana afunaya ma ekwughi gburu okenye.do nt cover up d sins of others.
Being a good friend I say tell him so he doesn’t make a big mistake. Look out for your brother man, what are friends for anyway
Guys don’t do aproco my your bizness
I no go even waste time tell am,,if yhu go carry aids come give my friend him go die I go come dey lonely abi?thunder fire her ,,I must talk to save my friend
Respect
What if this happens to you, would you be mad at the friend for not telling you?
My dear dont because when thy settled they we use u
#Aproko e concern u???
That is a woman trade, it is undignified of a man. Your ability to overlook some things makes you a man. Telling your friend may give you momentary credibility, but trust man, you will soon turn a cheap gossip.
You are wicked you don’t have conscience.
telling ur close friend the truth is now a gossip…guy u aint a real nigga if u hide things behind those close to you
The guy should tell his friend,that’s how to know a friend not by keeping quiet abeg
Let them use me and settle. No problem but as often as I see it I will say it. Or two of them should go and not near me again.
If it was the other way round will you guys still be saying the same thing? Just saying oo
So u prefer ur friend marrying a whore?wat if ur friend later get hurt in the relationship?. Wat will become of u?
Mind your business, you are not better
U wan make dey use u settle later
i see some stupid girls are busy say dat u should my ur businesa,so as for me ur a guy and agen ur his friend so pls told ur friend what u see with ur eye because if u help him today one he will help u and told u importer something to u,so seriously told him so dt he will know the kind of love he is going to give to a girl now,thank u
Weather u caught her or not mind ur business mr man
Please mind your business
Is better mind ur business,one day ur friend will catch her
They are not married its tru dat wat applys to man cant be applied to a woman its africa so there for u dnt have to tell him cos there is nothing like secret it will flame out and she has a conscience leave her to it
me chi onu gi
Warn her because if he later no that this thing happen he may later kill his girlfriend and you
Pls don’t say anything.let God expose her to ur friend
I have 2 types of friends, the ones i call my 5n6 and just friends.. for the later i will keep mute which i have done severally but for my 5n6 i will even give him evidence join #bahobassa
Wetin concern u amibo
Mind ur biz
D tin is don’t tell d guy.. just talk to d girl one on one nd advice her like a sis. Let her knw or remember her Hw much ur friend really love her agine nd again.. after dat leave her wit her nd let her mind talk too her..
Pls tell ur frnd becos he many marry her but she can’t stay that her husband house becos she is use to share her self tell him time wait for nobody so that he will knw how he can step out with her
if your friend doesn’t have sex with order girls, then tell him!!!
It’s none of your business
For broadcasting it, pls what are you doing? I dnt knw why some people don’t know how to think and dnt know the meaning of words. illiteracy
My dear tell him
forget it dude and move on… one day her atrocities will catch up with her
Mind ur business and use body language talk to your friend thanks
Wat are friends for, tell him the truth..watever will happen let it happen, it’s d right thing to do. As long as he is ur friend, it’s also ur biz.
Na ur business? Mind ur gossip mouth
If your friend is 100% holy tell him what happen but if he is a womanizer don’t. After all do me i do you is not a crime. They are not yet couples
Mind your business!
O boy mind your business
Please save ur frnds life
Compel the girl to yield to telling the truth
Rozay the relationship adviser, why didn’t u advice my relationship for me na
Baba I advised you you didn’t adhere to it ????
Lmao, well am so free and I’ve escaped from the bottle
Mad respect
I can’t keep it hidden if her man is truly my friend…cos if I were to be the one been cheated on as well…I wouldn’t appreciate a friend that was aware and never told me…
Mr man you don’t need any advice again because this one you post them on social media is more than telling your friend. You have done a marvelous one because you don’t only tell your friend but general public.
Tell am na
Keep t as secret between u and ur friend girlfriend
I will call both of them together and tell the girl to use her own mouth and say what she did
U better start talking before ur friend hear it from someone else that u knew about the affair…that one he will never forgive u so tell him oh before is too late
no
Of cos u should tell him,dont destroy your friends future bro
For me oo,I will tell my friend
Pis forgive and forget
Tor, when you knew if u talk it’ll sabotage the forever relationship, why then seeking for advice? Truth is, we all know what to do, advice or no advice, you’ll still do the fuck you wonna do! Follow yo fucking heart bruh and fucking mind yo biznes! . Y’all cheat too, but wen a lady does that, she becomes a slut.
You are a very good cheat
Loll
Aunty u get certificate for cheating
I know
Good Cheater ooo!
When girls talk with this f*** word,it shows you are done with.have a rethink beauty,be gracious with words
Y u d take m personal nw bae
Girl friend abi wife, if you say girl friend, then you must talk but if na wife, my mouth no dey there. Girl friend is someone who may eventually become someone future wife and if you don’t tell, you messing with that guys future. Is better you tell him so he can make his own personal decision.
Oil dey ur head baba
If u want to tel him den make sure u already ve another gal to give him…cox me u cannor coman tell me my boo z cheating wen u don’t ve a new boo for me cox I cannot b single while u r still dating
A girl dat cheats on u now,will still cheat wen ur married,except God changes her before ur married.dats a warning signal
@Joshua Edeki nah tournament them they play? May the guy enter set with them sheeyh
I will talk true
Hey mr man!
Mind ur business
Na them b [email protected] pic
Tell him……
Pls tell him and save a soul
Tell him but hope you have a new girlfriend/boyfriend for dam
Mind your business…nothing hides forever he will still find out…
If u ask me….. i go say talk d talk jare! & clear ur mind
What is your own consing
Keep your mouth shut
If you like your friend let him know.
She might end up infecting your friend, even with hiv/aids. You might only be the one to save your friend s live by telling him.
Yes o
Hmm,,,
Please somone shuld prove me wrong, u re seeking for an advice either to tel or nt, bt u ve posted ur guys babe pix,ur pix, & dat of ur guys pix for d whole world to see, don’t ur friend exist in dis planet earth?? Is he nt going to see evry tin himself?
You have done that already on air
Use this opportunity, chop the girl. First of all check the girl pocket, know how much she can provide.tell her that you need a every huge amount of money in order to keep your mouth shut but if she refuses to corporate treating her with the incident, lol am just joking oh.
& dat of d guy dat has sex wt her, rather, so I don’t understand hw pple reason, after, u ve done more than teline plzzzz,
Give me ur friends fone number let me tell him myself if u can’t
Allow the sleeping dog lie,she is not his wife
Mind your business ooo
Talk Joor what kind God damn relationship is that 4yrs but still cheating
invite the girl, do ur own. thats how i settled mine when i had that issue.
Bro if you don’t tell your friend about it that means you can kill your friend
Nigerian’s and their difficulty towards keeping secrets
Bro you talk or you no talk a cheat is a cheat, there is no way fish would leave water to wear heels on the level ground. Just advice your friend to have a rethink, a sharp man would understand but if him no understand , a liar and a cheat can’t be smart for ever she would be caught by him eventually or somebody else would see her then burst the bubbles . Just be on the safe side ,girls can be dangerous ooo . But you wetin you find go catch her? Your way no pure tooo
na waw hahaha
Naughty u…. Hahahahahahahaha
Abeg talk o, my brother
If I were you i,’ll talk in a parables way to my friend cos if he find out soon you won’t be blame as a traitor
my bro mind ur own bisz cos if u till ur friend there be prob. b/w u, ur friend and her girl im telling u from exprence.
He wouldn’t believe you, I’ve been there before, he prolly has been told before, let him find out himself and quit!
Why are u telling him mind u business even if is de wife it does min any thing pls
What is your own, remove your eyes. Pretend as if u did not see anything.
ur business bro
Your own nkoo .
She didn’t value d 4years relationship that’s why she was able to cheat on him. And mind u that wasn’t her first time .everyday for the thief one day for d owner of the house
God bless I dear, 4 years,thats means she can’t b faithful in her marriage??
Mind your business.
If u no u hav nt done that b4 tell me.better mind ur biz.u tell or u no tell wot will b will b afterall they are ordinary girl n boy friend not husband.
Just do ya thing by minding ur own business..
My dear mind ur business is ur frd not cheating by de way y will u be dating her for 4yrs no engagement no marriage my dear girls don’t put there eggs in one basket until someone say i do OK, is ur frd dating only her?abeg keep ur mouth shout av ur frd ever told u what he sees ur grfd doing outside u?
even after sayn i do…. d cheatn still continues…. gals nd there way….
Noo my dear @ Okonkwo Nnaemeka any girl DAT says I do n u catch her den send her parking OK so many girls will be happy to be dere even her best friend
Listen okoro,I do Plus marriage no dey change who a cheat is
If only dat ur friend is not cheating also
Advice dat u tell ur friend, cause unfaithful girlfriend will no doubt b unfaithful wife 2mor, or beta still keep dem in ur prayers and let God separate dem or whatever he want
No go mind ur biz
Mind ur fucking business..and keep ur month shut
I caught my best frnd gfrnd wit a guy, she didn’t even care if I saw dem, few minutes later my frnd called me to warn me abt stuff I dnt understand d Gul told him. So u Cn imagine if I had told him he wld ve tut mayb I was trying to cm btwn dem. Like dey say luv is blind Ryt?
Are they still together?
Talk because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage…
If am not mistaken u said ur friend’s girlfriend not his wife yet, so better mind ur business