The man shared his story showing just how he has been caught between the devil and the deep blue sea.

Below is what he wrote:

I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house.

Sometime ago, I had serious medical problems and she gave me one of her kidneys to save my life.

However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever.

But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore.

I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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948 COMMENTS

  34. Love is more about what you do than how you feel. Trust me, if you keep caring for her, being patient with her, listening to her, being there for her, etc the feeling part of love will be reignited. Try it and see!

  43. The thunder that will fire u will come from her village if u don’t return her kidney……u were never in love with her cos if u do u will worship her cos she gave u life

  60. U deserved to be flogged mercilessly. U actually hav a psychological problem, thats y u lost your senses u should have used to reason like a normal human being. Don’t provoke people here ooo

  87. na lie, which girl give’am en kidney, na big lie, doctors no deh comot young girl own, na only, like mama dem, na wa o, una just dey cap, anyway all join, cari mata go front, matayas pin tight

  100. Do you know that this covenant in the highest order, it simply show that you didn’t value from the beginning, but let me remind you if you end up hurting her you won’t last long and you will end up in agony till you die, there is no sacrifice that is bigger than this

  110. I’m speechless right now.. I don’t really know what to tell u.. U know what? tell her that u no longer feel anything for her..a broken relationship is better than a broken home…but if she ask u to return her kidney fine u know dat she gave it to u bcox u both are dating then u return it to her .. love doesn’t die what u felt for her was lust not love #smh

  122. If you cant love her after willing to die for U, then please free her,am sure there is an angle out there like her who will be willing to die for her,U do not deserve her anyway….. mind you U will never find anyone like her….. gud luck.

  124. D love must not die bcos part of her is already inside of u…go and look 4 d love and bring it back,d relationship must continue bcos this has got nothing to do with your feelings,is nw an obligation.

  143. Put yourself in her shoes then answer the question yourself… No need to return the kidney because she can’t afford to take another risk while trying to collect her kidney back, just kill yourself.

  163. Please kindly return the kidney since you don’t love her, and then go and buy your own then you will no how much it costs, maybe that won way dae catch you for body go give you , if na me I go sue you and also collect my kidney, rubbish

  192. It’s as simple as that return back her kidney, no argument, do u know how much kidneys r worth in Malaysia? Mister man u better return the kidney unless she’ll just put otapiapia inside ur food one day and you’ll end up loosing both ur life.