In a surprising turn of events, a lady has come online with the story of how an abroad returnee almost ruin3d her life.

She shared that she met the man when she was younger and living in a rural barracks. He had returned from a certain Asian country and indicated interest in settling down with her. She, on the other hand, was trying to escape the shackles of poverty for a better life, so she accepted his proposal. He met her mother and took her to his apartment, which she later discovered belonged to his sister’s husband. She had hoped that they would get married, and that she would finish her school and relocate with him abroad.

But she noticed that he didn’t travel back as he had promised. After a year, he told her that his paper had expired and he was renewing his visa. All the while, he tried to convince her to sleep with him, but she insisted that they wait until they were married. She would ask him for money for school fees and rent, and he would give her excuses as to why he wouldn’t be able to. Because of her demands he ghosted her, and she decided to focus on her life.

Fast forward to 8 years after, he is still in the rural area where they had met and in her comment sections calling her “my love” and asking for her birthday photos so he could post. She then realized it was because she was looking and doing better than he knew her. She concluded with the importance of succeeding in life, so people who saw you less would regard you.

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A young lady who was married to a “cheap” man reveals why it was a deal-breaker for her.

In a brief video that she posted online, the lady shared that she used to be married to a man who was so cheap. It wasn’t that he had no money; as a matter of fact, he was rich with houses and investments. But the issue was that he was a miser when it came to dispensing money; to mention a ₦100,000 to his hearing is almost like taking his life.

This habit of his, she added, wasn’t only towards her; he did the same thing to his siblings. He would never give them money without taking something in return.  When she discovered this about him, she first thought it was a joke, until it came to their wedding plan. He was prudent with everything and had mentioned that they shouldn’t even have a wedding ceremony since he had already paid her bride price. She expressed her disgust for such a character as she admonished women to avoid men like him.

In reaction to her video, some women who could relate to her story congratulated her for dodging a bullet, while the men critiqued her for calling the man cheap.

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A single mother has taken time off her business to share her take on why already-made men mistreat their women.

In response to a man’s question about why men don’t trust the sincerity of their partners’ love, she zealously explained that, just as women tag all men in a negative monolithic presumption, men have come to the assumption that no woman is capable of loving them sincerely beyond what they can provide.  This assumption is why, when a man attains financial freedom and is finally able to afford a woman, he treats her however he feels like it.

She tells women who are only waiting to settle with an already-made man to expect the worst from him. It is either he turns her into a punching bag, or she spends weeks without seeing him at home.  Adding that women should hustle and make their own money to avoid being trapped by a man’s provision. Because even the young men now avoid women who would be liabilities to them.

Following her video some men shared their experience with women who would depend on them for basic things, and women who, say men take them for granted when they show true commitment and respect.

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A woman has come out to advise women who deem marriage not to be an achievement, regardless of their age.

The woman has called out women who would pray over her video and reject the omen of not getting married before 30. She answered “amen” to their prayers, but insisted that they make hay while the sun shines.

As a young girl, she had also wished to marry before 30, but fate didn’t play to her desires; she remains unmarried at an older age.  She went ahead to critique young feminists, warning them of how different they would be once they clocked 30. That the men flocking around them now would not do so once they have gotten older.

She would also criticize other women who are in their 30s but have deluded themselves about their reality. Asking them if any of their ex-boyfriends have returned to build a future with them. The boyfriends are not coming back because the ladies have clocked the age when they have no choice but to re-strategize. Insinuating that the men would rather prefer women who are much younger and virile.

Despites the fervent advise, the women in her comment section appeared unordered about the matter. Most, declaring their lack of interested in the marriage institution.

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A lady has shared why her father returned her older sister’s bride price to the husband. She shared how their family had noticed that the lady always sounded withdrawn whenever they called, but when they asked, she told them that she was doing fine.

One day her father received a call from her neighbor, that his daughter had been admitted at a hospital. The father hurriedly took the next flight to Lagos to meet with her. On getting there he asked her husband why the daughter was in that state and he explained that she complained of his ch3ating. He had been away for two weeks so the wife confronted him and he pushed her into unconsciousness. In his defense, nothing was wrong with che@ting as long as he always fulfilled his responsibilities at home.

The father then took the daughter back home, gathered money and relocated her to the US. Two years passed and the husband is back pleading that they give her back to him. The father refused, and instead returned the bride price he had paid on the daughter’s head.

The story has caused various reactions from X users, with most applauding the father for prioritizing the daughter’s safety over the glamor of staying married.

A lady has wowed a lot of netizens after taking to social media to share her quite interesting marriage story.

According to the lady, in 2023, she stayed with a friend who was dating a certain 43-year-old man whom she didn’t like, but for the benefits she got. Her main reason for not liking him was that he had an accent and an unusual sense of fashion, which discouraged her from introducing him as her husband. Even when the man made his feelings clear, her friend ditched him, and he decided to move on.

Six months later, she met the same man at a mall; they exchanged pleasantries, after which they shared contact details. They started chatting on WhatsApp, and she discovered that the man was funny, kind, and a giver. Also, he was into importing business, had six cars and a house – which her friend never knew of.

One thing led to the other, and they got married. She waited until the introduction before informing her friend about who she was getting married to. The friend had since then been raining insults on her: calling her a gold digg3r and telling people about how she stole her life.

To add to that, the friend went on to tell the man about the lady’s promiscuousness in the past. The lady understood that she felt betr@yed, but calling her husband in order to spoil her marriage is way out of line. She had every opportunity to be with him but she rejected him. At this point she doesn’t know what else to do as she has begged the friend to no head way.

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In an interesting turn of events, a lady has taken to social media to share a rather surprising gist of how a side chick had her boyfriend’s wife arrested and what the said boyfriend did afterwards.

According to the story, the side chick had intentionally gone to her boyfriend’s wife’s shop to get her hair done. After her hair was done, the side chick started talking about her boyfriend. Unbeknownst to the wife, she praised the boyfriend for being a good man to the side chick. To trigger the wife, the side chick then took her phone and showed the wife the photo of the said boyfriend.

“Wait are you dating my husband?”, the wife asked. “Yes, and I came here to tell you to leave him for us to be together”, the side chick replied. In ang3r the wife picked up a scissors and cut off the side chick’s natural hair. The side chick on the other hand left and brought the community’s vigilante who arrest and locked the boyfriend’s wife.

After bailing his wife, the man went to the side chicks apartment with a truck and packed every single thing that he had bought for her: from the fridge, television and clothes.

A lady has taken to social media to share her very interesting stance that any girl below 22 years of age who is dating a man in his 30s is not in a love relationship.

According to her, these kind of men are only taking advantage of the girl’s naivety because, at that age, she doesn’t know her left from her right. For her, dating older men is not a problem, but ladies should do that when their frontal lobes have developed.

She says the maxim “age is just a number” is a big lie, and it is not just a number. It breaks her heart when she meets young girls who are dating older men and think it’s love, when they are just “kids”.

She critiqued men who date ladies who are 10 years younger than them, and appealed to them to go for those in their mid- or late twenties. She says this because she has been there before, and she knows it wasn’t for her best interest.

The man would be controlling, telling her what to wear, where to go, and how to look, whilst still chasing same kind of women outside.  And when these women break their hearts, they come home to lash it out on the younger girl.

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According to the employer, she employed this 22-year-old staff member, and 4 days after she resumed, the staff member texted her husband to ask if his day was not stressful. The staff had his number because the employer had allowed her staffs the privilege of reaching out to her husband when she was unreachable.

The husband showed the employer the message, and she intentionally refused to ask the staff why she sent her husband such a message. The employer added that most of the time, she would hear the same staff compliment her husband at the office when he comes to drop off food and snacks for his wife’s staff. The employer dismissed the staff’s compliment as expected, being that her husband likes to look good.

Another time, after the husband had dropped by at the wife’s office, the staff texted him that night, saying, “You looked so sweet today sir”.  Angry at the staff’s disrespect for boundaries, the husband met and warned her against sending him unsolicited messages. She apologized, but the husband still suggested that the wife to sacked the staff.

According to other staffs the said staff had always been asking why the husband married such a f@t and ugl* woman like her boss. Adding that rich men are unnecessarily in a hurry to get married.

The employer didn’t take the body sh@ming to heart because she had always been body sh@med during her school days. The experience used to be a tr@umatic memory for her, but she is talking about it now because she is over it.

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