A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to bemoan her predicament of indirect domestic violence with her husband, eight months after marriage.
She disclosed that she intends to file for divorce from her spouse due to the recent, dangerous scheme he executed against her.
She said that while they had only been married for eight months, he had paid a female tout, agebro to beat her up after they got into a fight two months prior.
The woman claims that her spouse has never physically beaten her and that she has never dared him. She claimed he apologised and that she was forgiving of him, but he repeated the same thing.
In her words;
“Am I wrong for wanting a divorce after 8 months? My husband has never beat me directly before and I’ve never dared him to beat me.
Two months ago, we had an argument and be paid an agbero woman to come and fight me and she beat me up. He apologized but he just did it again yesterday.”
See some reactions to her post below.
Xandy wrote; “As it sounds, it looks like true love in disgu!se.
A man who truly loves you will never raise his hands on you. That’s why he settled the woman, you should work in the gym more so you can face her next time. You can’t lose everytime.”
Linda commented; “Your husband paying someone to beat is tantamount to him beating you.
Will I advice you to divorce him? I’m not sure
So how do you handle the situation? Try to become nice and close to the agberos in your area and beyond. On the days youcan, cook food and give to them while going to work. On the days you can’t cook drop money for drinks and igbo for them. Just continue like that until the next time you have a misunderstanding with your husband, don’t wait for him to call his agbero agent first. Put a call to your boys that you have a job for them, they won’t need settlement because you have their loyalty already.
Then tell them to touch your husband just small, make bruises dey his body Wella so that you can use hot water to press it for him. Once you do it for the first and second time, he will think twice before doing anything stupid when next you guys have a problem in the marriage
Na madness dey cure madness, inukwa calling agbero woman to beat you”
