An unnamed woman has written to a relationship therapist, about her husband’s promiscuous nature.
According to her, her husband patronizes under-aged secondary school girls in Lagos and has also forced her to change housemaids severally.
This is not the husband I asked God for. Omo ale Oloriburuku of a nuisance. Skirt will kill him, obo lo ma pa e. Oba! Alapa ma si se oshi. Iyo leye e. Iyoooo lo ma pa e ku. Basturdd of a man. Am tired! Am tired! I cannot wait to take my children n move out to Europe. Am tired. Dear young girls of the world please don’t marry.
Have changed 4 housegirls. He will be sleeping with them. I even acquired one housegirl of 15 years, my husband impregnated her. O cost me ni 30k la ti se oyun yen.
He will be buying them spaghetti tops and android wears. He will go and park outside Iju grammar schools and be toasting college infant girls.
Am tired, he steals my savings money. He will disappear for 1 week. Appear again when my salary is been made. Am tired. I want to divorce but am too broke to afford a barrister now. Help me!
Am tired of prayers. Even if Pastor adeboye prays on the matter. God won’t hear him. This is not a Husband. Am yet to wake from this nightmare.
That means u are woman enuf if u have an housemaid…. Na so ur mama get hux maid for ur papa?…only lazy women gets the help of an house maid….I have seen very busy women still coping with house chores without housemaid
What if she is a working class lady, that has little baby, and where she works does not parmit bringing baby to d office, won’t she get A maid, Mr hip pop.
Change ur husband too.
Go 4 male
Castrate him
Chisos
Na dog u marry ? Am sorry to say but U need to buy a chain to use on him
Hahahaha you are funny ooo
na true Na joy
Ur not treating him ryht check urself
Lol u just dey bring varieties for ur husband to enjoy!u knew he sleeps with d househelp,instead of sending d girl away and manage ur home urself but u keep bring different taste for ur husband!I hail ur stupidity ma..hahaha
Word
Thank you for that!
Nor be small #STUPIDITY
It maybe to d nature of her job…
Mohammed r u a true Muslim how can u say if u don’t get satisfaction u look else where pls.Pls now bk t her case she shd be able t take care of her house chore BT if d case is for a working woman then she shd stay away from that her husband divorce him he’s not man enough for her he did it he will do again no doubt wake up woman nd end d drama now
The case is not Islamic case!it is a Christain family and they don’t practice polygamy
Saada Bashir Usman & Hafsat, and what gives u people the impression that if she divorce this one another one she will marry will be better off? Like Muhermmerd Syed said, let her stop having housemaid and start taking care of her home or she should get a male instead. I just hate people talking about divorce as if its a simple and normal thing. If u keep divorcing for anything that happen in marriage, I wonder how many men u will end up married to? The most important thing is to continue praying for him for God to change him for good, and talk to him with love.
?? baba for the gals dem ?
Vry stupid I tell you…..
u are so lazy to have housemaid
Change ur husband instead of housemaids
Change her or u bring another one u are doing ur husband good he must love u for dat
Woman u better stop being lazy. To honest ur husband don’t like u to be bringing any house maid. Correct urself stop being lazy or he will throw u out and marry the house maid
Haba u dis woman! U are an ungrateful type oo,ur husband jez dey epp u test d maids if dey will be capable of d work being given to dem,,,and u see d one dat he impregnated was as a result of over-testing.Don’t be annoyed biko
lilian take it easy she just spoke well who’s fault do u think if nit the wife probably she is too busy to have sex with her husband career woman thing now if it’s me I will do same
Check yourself well . Stop d house made things…sit n reason within yourself just to knw where u lacking behind den wen u fig it out try to work on it and save your home…very simple
Hello Mrs man ll always be man… woman should do dre best in saving dre home if not for anything but for d sake of her children… after all she must be court with d man in Q b4 dey both walk dre sef down to d altar..in every home woman got a lot to offer …
My dear get a. Male or he should bring his sis. Stop bringing girls. He is a he goat. Nkpi.
Na by force to use housemaid.? You’re lazy spoiled woman by this age…..
Chapman Lolz asif dre r no male househelp out dre I respect yr stupidity
Keep changing ooooo
Bring in 4 at once.
Madam are you Crippled ? Do House Chores yourself Jare.
Den do ur domestic chores and take Kia of ur household urself
See lazy bone ,simple house core you can’t do it urself, spoilt brat.
Bring house boys instead thats if u must have o
Good job
which kind of wife u be u no even think say if u bring bring another house maid him go stil dey do wetin him dey do before, nd u say u be woman, i never see this kind one before o
Can’t u just stay without them
You dey mad, listen to the thrash you saying…..continue employing dem till your housemaid become your husband baby mama
Must you have a house maid?
Employ male househelp n see weda hes bisexual
Are you mentally balanced?! If yes can you satisfied the needs of your husband? If all this things are alright called for his attention and tell him darling what did I do wrong that you’re cheating on me ?! If you’re not well satisfied with his feedback seek for counsellor advice good luck
No maid. Take up maid duties.
U are d problem…! crosscheck and evaluate ur matrimonial relationship very well, u will uncover d solution
U can try male child here
can you just stop bringing housemaids into your home and do your house work yourself??….well I pity you..just keep bringing,, perhaps the next one will be a Calabar girl …by then you’re fininshed…lolz.
Dey are just fools by doing dat no matter what much u luv a man he most still go out,is just in there blood
That’s what you get, when you are too lazy about everything at home
Better still bring his relative
Yet you still refuse to use your brain, when will you be wise just like other women! Then its time you start employing male folks for the job(house chores) or is it a must or covenant the girls are the ones suit for the work?
Y nt try a male maid?
Well d truth is u d builder of ur problem bcos getting an housemaid to do what u r suppose to do in ur matrimonial home doesn’t only apply to domestic shores most times it leads to sex between ur hubby and d maid. My dear the best thing u should do is to start doing the work of the housemaid but if u feel u can’t den believe me wen I say u will become a maid in ur own matrimonial home soon. We all knw men are all cheat but is more painful for u to discover he’s having an affair with ur maid!!!!! Pls be wise……use ur head
Send dm back to were you bring dm from and be take care of your home your self madam house help
Get a male for ur own good
A capable woman does not need a house help, just send them parking so DAT u will able to manage ur home by urself without any crises
Then y should you keep bringing one… u should be a woman then
Incredible!
i think u need to change ur husband this time
i think u need to change ur husband this time
i think u need to change ur husband this time
Castrate him
D man is irresponsible
My sister get a male or stop bringing any do ur things urself
Then bring an imbecile
manage your home yourself… that’s why you’re a woman, you’ll even do that well to your taste self
I totally disagree with u. I have never and I will never Cheat on my girlfriend talkless of my wife
Amen
Pls make ur home or someonelse wil make it 4 u, if u r too busy u can do ur chores @ nit b4 u slip or u try and be waking up earlier dan u should.
@Ifeoluwa nope I don’t think so…
then it’s just high time u be ur husband housemaid
just stop the househelp of a thing because if u bring a house boy in the man may accuse u but do all those thing buy your self ok
Do ur job then
You should find a house boy or houseman
Then stay by yourself and do your house work.
haba madam take it easy now why are u being femine here who’s fault do u think if not the lazy wife that does not have time for her husband probably she is too busy to create time for the husband
Get more matured ones
Woman check ur self how u satisfy your husband. If u do take ur job more friendly than ur marriage it shows that the must be lapses
Pls don’t tell us ladies not to marry just because u married a womanizer. Why would u keep a maid is your house chose that difficult? and yet u keep changing maid is only a lazy woman that does that. Sorry for what u are passing through just pack ur bags and leave that house go stay somewhere safe for u and your kids, when u have a enough money then u can divorce him. And 4ladies insulting men change ur thinking, if u always meet d wrong man and always get heartbroken then the problem is you not the man.
He sleeps with them and u still bring different ones..Eeii this woman paaa u dnt want ur husband eh?
then live without a housemaid
Den stop bringing dem
I blame you for all these. What do you need a house maid for after your husband slept with the first one? You don’t need them please because your husband’s LIBIDO IS HIGH. Take care of your house and kids by yourself. If the House chores are so pressing, get an old woman to help you period.
KEEP BRINGING HOUSE MAID FOR HIM TO BE SLEEPING WITH DEM. U SOON OPEN BABY CARE CENTER FOR UR HOUSE. IS LIKE U NEED SUM1 TO TELL U DAT UR LIVING WIT A HE GOAT. SORRY U HEAR.
So what about the one ur husband impregnated, how did you do the pregnant. don’t tell me you abort it
Sorry sis better thing no be for one person
Knw d kind of housemaid u will opt for
Do you even know what a “File Photo” is?
Why do you still insist of getting them when u know your husband is a “spartacus”… Let judge this shit together. You are the cause of your problem madam.. Any responsible women is capable of doing all the house chores without any maid…you just 2 lazy tbh.
You too look at what your housemaid is wear in the present of your husband
Kate Anyanwu I also have watched the movie. But the image was only used to depict the entire situation.
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Keep bringing them don’t give up, trust me one day u will bring the one he will not sleep with don’t give up dear…….. Frozen fowl
Big head Chris well y can’t she do without a maid gosh
Babe u now understand my point she is God damn lazy she should bring more
Well me I no need maid o because I can’t bear the competition
Most u ave house maid
Why nt manage ur home instead of changing pussy for ur hubby since uve notice he likes selected ok.
you be mumu without certificate.just be there untill a maid takes over ur hubby
don’t take another one
wat if it’s real
Continue bringing them to the house! Are your hands cut off? U allow another woman to cook for your husband and dress his bed! What service do u render to your husband apart from sex! Advise yourself!
Baba for the house gals
Na mad man
be prayerful nd do ur marital duties
Please try a house boy.
Start clapping for yourself now??????
Husband or dog…so women will Mk excuses for their husbands even if he was d devil….so y r telling the public to advice you to leave bcos u know u will Neva leave even if he slept with ur mother………
No bring housemaid come to ur house again u no if do house work u be woman
All this nonsense u guys r pasting here asking for advice as if u guys can’t use your common sence shld stp bcos it’s bcomin boring.
They cant use d exact pics now cus cant expose d woman face
Den get a nigga.Is it a must is a lady?
Cnt u do witout house maid?
THEN don’t employ anymore. You are the one setting target for him
Change husband…
You too go bring male abi no be so
Yabal right or left.haaaaaal una
Then engage the services of an old woman or better still a boy. Shikenan!
He need prayer
Keep employing until he takes one of them as a wife…
U d wife, are u dead,? Can’t you handle ur home
Just marry for him now, since he doesn’t do it outside your house!
U woman u are de cause
Becos u didn’t know hw to take care of ur husband so dy want to help u na
Na lie Mezirim. I know say you no go do am. Lol
Yabaleft ND deir yeye stories
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Wat do u need housemaid for?
Bring male house help na
Den STP bringing husmaid to ur home
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Men are easily carried away wit wat dey see…..ur house helps might be d one making some advances,n any man wit high libido will fall for it.moreover u shud be in charge of ur home,house help cooks ur husby food,wash his clothe,spread d bed,wat do u expect….if u can’t take up ur role as an ideal woman.u shudnt ave bin married Dan jst tempting d man.
Take up the job of housemaid by yourself……. Shikena!!!
Keep changing and choose me, when I come u don’t have to change anymore but u will be change instead. Stupid lazy house wife or HOUSE CHAIR
Hahahahaha, yeye dey worry u
Nah so na
Is good na changing soup him
Try house boy, abi will u……
Chai ur husband nid prayer ja elijah
L’île t&
Good job to your husband, because you can’t do the house works your house -help could do, so she helped you.
Must u hv a maid?
U have changed housemaid now change hubby
Stop bringing house help… then share some domestic cores wit him
Wahala oo
Tnk u harry sem no knw wetin dem go post
stop keeping housemaids n be ur maid in da houx
Must u ve miads?
Make urslf his housemaid
Advice you said? You are such a lazy woman. Are you farming in the house that you are bringing house girl
Wen u knw u hv a bad mind man y going for hux help,can’t u do ur domestic wak alone? Den as for ur husband he need delivrance
Try and have a male housemaid and see what he will do…….
then why don’t you apply formula do it yourself
Haaa…..Ur husband nids mountain pr
Pray for him is only God that has d power of change man ,not human solution. I can give u solution out of envy .is that asolution.?
all the men ar useless includin ur fada nd al d men in ur family….. foolish talk frm foolish person
by their post u shal knw them,, lazy .women hu hav 4gotin their primary assiment in a man’s hauz…all women ar product of kicken.
U no go change but u dey change for ur husband madam i beg do ur house work by urself and stop all this kind of buhari change u are giving ur husband OK.
adam are you fine
Start bringing male house helps
Is this the house help or ? My kinda advise pls, Since you can’t do without house help, why not employ old mamas or a malehousehelp.
What happened to your hands n legs
If its true then stop bringing house maid and be one.
Stop being lazy. Didn’t your parents teach you nothing before you got married? Or you were the stubborn type? If you were, then what you are experiencing is just one of the results of your childhood foolishness.