Financial support is one of the most crucial things you can provide for someone you love. It helps them through tough times and shows that you care, but what happens when that support is taken for granted or even abused?
A Nigerian lady recently shared her experience of supporting her man financially after he lost his job, only for him to use it to cheat on her with other women.
The businesswoman, identified as Queen Ufuoma, in a Twitter thread, recalled how the man’s business crashed and he lost his job about the same time.
Ufoma said she always sent him airtime so he could stay in touch at all times and not be stranded, but she later discovered that he was using the same money she gave him to take care of other women.
She claimed the incident happened three years ago, and she ended up ending the relationship.
However, two months after she ended things with him, he unashamedly asked her for money. She said she sent N20k to him and blocked his contact afterward.
Read her full story below,
“He lost everything, his job, business, etc he wanted to start all over, didn’t have the means, he told me the amount he needed for a fresh start, I gave him 75% of the total amount, consistently sent him airtime so he won’t be stranded, dude used the money to flex with different women, got a baby out of it, I silently walked away, barely two months later, he called me to tell me he’s not eaten since yesterday and doesn’t know who else to turn to for help, I still sent him 20k then I blocked him.
Three yrs later, he’s using another number to contact me to tell me the baby wasn’t his, the “baby mama” just wanted money, he demanded for a DNA test and she skipped town. All I said was “sorry about that” then I blocked him.
Baba dey my telegram dey chat with himself everyday as we speak. All my friends can confirm how generous I am, sometimes they wanna borrow money but instead I tell them not to pay back, some borrow and don’t pay back, na recently I enter wickedness phase of being stingy and it has been sweet, I’ll leave the phase when I know someone is worthy of my generosity.
In addition, he told me he knows I was trying to use money to trap him into marrying me. Like I said, men love gold diggers when they have gold.”
Short story about my ex.
He lost everything, his job, business, etc he wanted to start all over, didn't have the means, he told me the amount he needed for a fresh start, I gave him 75% of the total amount, consistently sent him airtime so he won't be stranded, dude user the https://t.co/UyO5XvUyzK
— UFUOMA 👑👑 (@Queenn_Ufuoma) March 27, 2023
