A Nigerian lady on Twitter has told fellow women not to settle for an inactive man who’s not able to proffer solutions to their problems when needed.
Twitter user, @ozzyetomi shared her experience on the social networking app with a guy she was seeing at a particular time who failed in being a solution provider and as such, she had to cut him off.
She shared that on a particular day, she was driving to go and meet her said boyfriend and on the way, she encountered a problem with her car and so she called him, to share what had happened and all he could say was “oh wow”.
She was eventually rescued by some street guys who helped her with a local mechanic. Here’s what she shared below,
Lmao i rem when I first moved back and I was seeing this guy, I was driving to hang with him and suddenly my car stops. I had kinda just started driving so i was so nervous. I was close to his so i text him saying my car had stopped, and he replied saying “o wow” & that was it 😂
Some street side guys had to call some roadside mechanic for me who helped me sort out whatever the issue was. Dude text me “are you still coming?” and I just drove my ass back home and that, as they say, was that.
Theres two types of people in this world. The “oh wows” and the “let me sort it out”. One time when my friend & I’s flight got unceremoniously cancelled, she called her man to tell him. Before we could say jack robinson, mans got 2 tickets for us on another airline.
I refunded my bit of course but it was the thoughtfulness and the action for meee. So ladies, don’t settle for an “oh wow” ass nigga, get you a “sort it out” nigga. Cos effort is sexy.
Lmao i rem when I first moved back and I was seeing this guy, I was driving to hang with him and suddenly my car stops. I had kinda just started driving so i was so nervous. I was close to his so i text him saying my car had stopped, and he replied saying "o wow" & that was it 😂
— Ozzy (@ozzyetomi) May 10, 2021