Nigerian TV show host, Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori has shown herself to be in the league of people who hold the stance that being married or having children doesn’t mean you’ve made “achievements”.
In a recent post on her Instagram page, Bukunmi asks her followers to focus on themselves and not see marriage or child bearing as achievements as they’re only blessings from God.
She also asks that people should not use other people’s marriage as a yardstick or standard to measure their performance in the field.
She wrote,
Being married is not an achievement! Having children is not an achievement either!
These things are blessings! Only given by God! It has nothing to do with how intelligent, famous or successful you are!
And for these reasons you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance in these fields or your overall success level in life.
Nobody’s marriage is goals! I repeat, NOBODY’S MARRIAGE is goals!! God is the one scoring your own goals!
FOCUS ON YOU!!!!
Please you are a bastard but just try and have a child fool