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My Uncle had a mild Argument with his new wife and ended up slapping her twice because she denied him sex yet again after several months of denying him sex most especially on Sundays.

He hardly has time or strength to have sex during week days because of the tiresome nature of his work.

Most Saturdays if he asks for it, the wife always complains of being tired for sex after Saturday house chores, then on Sunday that both of them are free to have fun, the wife still thinks its inappropriate to have sex before going to church.

Is there anything wrong in having sex with your wife or husband before going to church service

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  3. But sorry to say ur uncle is stupid he should have understand instead of slapping d bible refer to men dat hit their wife as beast on no account should u hit ur wife even with a flower if I was u I will tell my uncle to apologise to his wife.

  12. I can as well do it in church even, she is my wife. Am not marrying her with any man, she is mine, anytime i need it she gives me that stuff BTW her legs, anytime she needs mine, I give her my cassava. Simple! Case settled. But the slap i don’t support, making love is a mutual stuff, if u need it and she is not in the mode pls control urself and postponed it, her pussy remaineth there for u.

  18. having sex on sundays is not bad,but we should put God first in all we do, he should have wait till after church, then his wife has no right to deny him sex, I think her husband is wrong even up to d extend of slapping her.

  27. As long as she is ur wife it is not wrong 2 hav sex on sunday mornin b4 church. It is wrong 2 slap a woman bc of sex, she can never 4get it. You dont kno if she is ovulating and she dont want sex unprotected sex until she is don wit her ovulation so it is good 2 ask her question b4 going 2 far cos of sex.

  32. woman is his wife, we knw dat, but going to church to worship this God who is holy, we nid to be holy also as his church. Be it married or not. In d bible when God wanted to visit d ppl of isreal , God told moses to tell d ppl to be clean from sex both d married women nd put on sack cloth. Sex can wait after church dey can ve has many dey want. God is holy. I pray God gives us d understanding in all we do. Amen.

    • It’s very wrong, ur wife belong to u day before that Sunday morning she was with u and after the Sunday service u will still be together in the same room what so special in that Sunday morning. For u a pastor that make love with his more than two times a week is a powerless pastor.

  39. He should have strangled her to death. Your uncle is too selfish.. this is absolutel nonsense. Why don’t he find out the reason before slapping her. You don’t have a right to slap your wife because she denied you sex .you need to control your self

    • Yes the man was wrong by beating her, but Bible said the women dd not have power over her body but her husband has, likewise the man. And Bible said cheating dd not started by sleeping with another opposite sex, it started by hidden something to each other, why she can’t explain to him instead of using church to cover up.

    • Yes the man was wrong by beating her, but Bible said the women dd not have power over her body but her husband has, likewise the man. And Bible said cheating dd not started by sleeping with another opposite sex, it started by hidden something to each other, why she can’t explain to him instead of using church to cover up.

    • I din say d woman did right either, but 4 d man 2 slap his wife hmmm, it shows dat he is really a sex addict and he can kill if she says is ill or tired. God will help usoooo. I think diz is where understanding comes in.

  52. D wife is vry stupid for denying his husband sex b4 church even its a sin b4 God he is ur husband so u must obey him nd u r under him dat is were God put. So slapping her dere is nthing wrong wit dat cus after sex dey cn still go 2 church. Cus its ur husband nd not ur boyfrnd.

  56. Are you telling me having sex before going to church is evil, but the wife should accept it when her husband start admiring other ladies in church…. All of you calling the man devil na extrimist.. Though I dnt support the beating

  61. Wat u guys saying d story line did not say d woman has been avoiding her husband Sex but for a Sunday dere must be a reason frnds OMG can’t believe even gals don’t know wat to say I wish u all girls here wat u wish other including myself

    • The man was wrong by beating her, but nothing wrong if both have sex before church, noting bad. If the a man want to go for 5days fasting and when women said no ooo, I can only wait for 3day, and the man go for 5days,it’s the 3day is the Wat God going to except from the man.

  66. There is nothing wrong in having sex Oga but every thing is wrong in u slapping her. Oga madam why u refuse ur husband of sex dat is his right any time any day u give him to enjoy

  75. I blame d woman,bcos he’s ur husband u’re married to him, there is no where d bible says we shld deny our hubby sex,God admires sex in marriage, nt with byfrnd n girlfrnd.God himself created it for man n woman. So woman be wise n apologize to ur hubby.if ur hubby will not browse ur website who will?

  79. Na waoh, understanding matters,is a little issues but u people hv to know dat there is no fear of God in them so dont blame the slap ooh,hahaha,ooh sex i ga egbukwa mmadu ooh,hahaha,madam pls settle him,uwa gi ozo, ichere oge chukwu,inu go,di be yah,hahaha_hmmm ooh

  80. Why all these ladies are saying that the husband was wrong is bc most of them don’t know what is marriage. Marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend things, were by you can receive your boyfriend call that you are needed immediately only to tell him that you’re not chance and it ends just like that. The Bible says wife must be in total obedience to her husband bc he is the head of u the wife. As a young girl, you have to learn from the word of God. If you disobey your physical head how can you obey the spiritual head. Wives should stop inviting the devil in their homes in the name of they are trying to obeying God. A wife cannot even fast without the knowledge of her husband let alone going church. I wish that wife should get my obedient wife message book and to change her marriage life forever..

  87. Little things we take for granted re the most important!! U re goin into the house of God, put Him first n u will see in Glory in ur Life!!! Holiness comes first before u ll c God n He’s manifestation!! The husband has no respect for God at alll

  90. Hahahahahah, men there is nothing u guys wouldn’t do because of sex, the other one impregnate a goat, it is well, but I really don’t think there is any thing wrong with that, since they married

    • Give it to him cos he must have seen the beauty and sexy in you which prompted him to compliment you by asking for it. If you refuse him then don’t complain when a skimpy dressed sister in the church takes the appreciation. Good luck

  93. Slapping her was wrong, but requesting her service before church isn’t wrong… Gosh body no be firewood… Conji no good for man. He might not concentrate in church because his mind is settled on his wife service

  95. Sex is a simple thing in marriage, it becomes a big deal wen we c it as one.
    If he wants it before church… So wat?
    Itz his right and God ordained it to be so.
    Even if u don’t get a slap from him, ur service dat day may not be acceptable, u know why… He may be pushed out to adultery with ur attitude.
    U want him closer to God start by drawing him closer to you.

    • yes you are right , but have you considered the woman maybe something happened at that point in time , Am certain she has not been denying him sex so why that morning come b wahala to the extend of slapping her . Maturity say sex should be enjoyed by both parties, they married and should have this understanding say if morning to work Night go work .

    • what you wrote up there would have appealed me if she does that everyday/ most times. But if she only denied him on that day, then to me what you wrote doesn’t make sense. Are you in anyway supporting domestic violence?. To my knowledge, what most guys does is get up, get dressed and that’s all, it’s the woman that will take care of the children (if any), cook and clean the house: if she’s lucky enough their service might even be starting by 7. So, if she says no on that particular day, she’s justified, and a man that will fornicate because of just that (is something else). But if the denial is constant then the lady needs to be borrowed brain

    • The man is wrong to have slapped her no matter what. The strength God gave to us is to be used to protect our ladies not to damage them. Its also wrong for the woman to deny her husband sex except she’s not safe or is sick. In terms of saying is to be enjoyed by both parties it’s true but how about a sacrifice? If she did that on purpose or as a revenge then its wrong. The Bible teaches us to go and reconcile before offering Him anything. Her marriage is second only to God so let’s be matured

  98. Ur Uncle was lookin for an excuse not to go to Church; and as well , a lope hole ,from which he could hold as an avenue. There is something more to it; than the surface,and d shallow perceptions,we r viewing it.

  102. For the slap,,,, I thing is not bad,,, because if the man did not slap her,,,,,we will not lean,,,,I thing the man is right,,,everybody is talking about the slap,,, the slap mean,,,next time he has it should give,,, the world of God said ask it shall be given on to u,,,,but the man an it was not giving on to him,,,,, that the place slap come from,,,, so the slap is not bad

  105. With a genuine reason the man might consider her if there is mutual understanding.or it cld even be as a result of continuous denial which made him to over react that morning because we were not there. But the fact is that Bible doesnt support any party denying another sex in marriage to those of u quoting Bible. It says except the both of u agreed to abstain from sex in prayers and fasting. In fact one the reason why apostle Paul preached about marriage was to avoid fornication because God hates it.and to u who said if ur hubby slap u, u will slap ur own back I advice u to do that if u are sure that u can beat ur hubby cos most incident which led to man beating his wife to death was as a result of retaliation. To every married men and women, it’s not good to deny ur spouse sex in marriage except if the both of u agree to stay away from sex for some reasons or health issues. The day u got married ur body belongs to him and vice versa. Men don’t beat ur wife for any reason because they are fragile and so they are in God’s eyes

  106. On no account should a wife deny the husband sex,the Bible said so,it also said that is good to serve God while u re young nd not yet married,because once u re married most of ur time nd service would be given to ur husband which automatically make him ur lord,Sarah confirmed that.So if a wife denies her husband because of Church,she’s on her own God no send herooo.Beside the doesn’t stop her frm worshipping God,he only need wht rightfully belong to him,dear women Zion that golden parcel no belong to Godooo.God in his wisdom only arranged for us men to enjoy,let ur husband enjoy it anytime,any moment anyday.Nd husband do same to ur beloved wife.Give to her anyhow she want it.The should be no excuse.When am married,I will give it to all to her coz it’s easy to get a wife.End of the matter,study ur spouse body language if he or she needs it before going for communion,give it to him or her for all worketh for good to those that believe.God bless our Darling women,our beloved mothers.Una too much.

  107. Hmmh! The answer is yes and no. Yes u can give or have sex with your partner if the desperate urge for it comes as you are preparing for service but immediately you take your bath and go for service. But both partners should know as well that It is the same God who ordained sex for relationship that also said the Israelites should come to Him in worship in holiness and to consecrate themselves and must not have any sex relations as they are to seek the face of God. It hasn’t come to slapping your spouse over denial of sex before Church service. All you need is for mutual understanding by both and have the fear of the Lord to do the right thing at the right time and not doing the right thing at the wrong time. That’s my candid opinion. God bless you.

  109. He shouldn’t have slapped her now maybe he didn’t even wake up early enough for the koko. Besides you know Sundays are always busy as some cooking’s are done in the morning na. At least night dae it was wrong of him

  110. Even as it’s your property, there is time for everything… ‘Scripture says so” it is absolutely wrong to make love on a Sunday morning before going to church even if you are not going for church that morning.. Somebody ask me why?

  111. I can see that the apple is affecting that uncle mans life. Na sex before God abi? So sex is now the first thing instead of church? This is why after una marry finish no child for so many years. Later una go blame the woman. Shabi na she think then eat the apple first before she think again give am to the loyal idiot? You guys supporting this act should try it. The uncle man dey mad. I don’t know if the story is real but, if it is then him dey crazy!

  114. It’s very wrong, ur wife belong to u day before that Sunday morning she was with u and after the Sunday service u will still be together in the same room what so special in that Sunday morning. For u a pastor that make love with his wife more than two times a week is a powerless pastor.

  121. Is very bad, at the beginning the people of old keep the law, buy at the end time is no longer valuable……ask me how the Bible says remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy….so which day did God rested and the day of Sabbath….is it not on Sunday. We all no when u married a woman every thing is urs settle even bile said that and he also said woman or man satisfy ur urs in all due course…….so and keep the Sabbath day holy….. Mine is this u have being doing it before and is urs why that particular day of the Lord… To be closer to God u most stay away from it a little while…the woman that married u go away from their parents to be with u… That means u have everything shall has so the man,the Devil knew that the day is of the Lord and God is at ur needs that is why he bring the urge in u being a man or woman. So resist the Devil he will go away from u said the Lord…..thanks

  124. There is nothing wrong in having sex before church. Whether you are late or not, for as long as one partner has asked for it,u hv to do it. It may be your out fit for d church dt made he asked for sex.Your prayers are fast answered when couples are happy.

    • It’s very wrong , have you asked yourself why GOD why the Bible said remember the Sabbath and keep it holy? Our God ia Holy irrespective that they are married Sunday morning should be a time to tell God what you want.

    • U sound so stupid and ignorant of what the bible said about marriage. “Women must be submissive to their husbands ” That in other words explains how respectful they are to their husbands. When the man wants it please do not think you are his sex slave rather you are doing ur matrimonial contribution. Denying him means a lot to him

    • You are the stupid one…..to be submissive does not mean a man should beat a woman when she says no. It’s men like you that treat their wife without respect. Foolish you. Sex in marriage should be about understanding. I have a friend the husband have sex with her everyday…..she ran out of the house. Read and understand what I wrote before you start sounding stupid. I made my point .

  129. There is nothing wrong with a man having sex with d wife on sunday before goin to church.there . Is time fr everything sunday morning is fr church.d idea of d man slapping d wife is bad.he should ask God for forgiveness.

  130. Sex should be a mutual stuff.
    If she’s not in d mood and you are then u can simply postponed it or better still masturbate (mind u i’m not a fan of masturbation buh it helps sometimes if u don’t wanna fornicate).
    If she’s not in d mood and u false yourself on her it’s called RAPE…
    How do u even enjoy sex when your partner is not in d mood???
    U slapped her because of that means you’re either a nymphomaniac or a pervert…

  131. The word of God says we should not defraud one another of our bodies (husband and wife) . Consenting to her husband before going to church is the ideal thing. It will interest you to know that her service may not be accepted by God for the mere fact that she disobeyed her husband cos the Bible also says’ wives be submissive to your own husbands in everything’ However the beating was wrong . if he truly understand women, especially his wife, she can agree to this with enough pampering, and expressing to her, the ‘love language’ she understands well

  133. Both the husband and wife are wrong. U should not deny ur wife or husband sex when ever he or she needs that from u. Husbands should not raise their hands against their wife. May God help this generation with their marital issues

  137. I do hope it’s a true story even if it’s not, the truth remains that we as a church have left the ancient parth of obedient. To keep the sabbathday holy means to do that which the Lord requires. Sex is not God’s requirement on the sabbathday, sex is man’s fleshly desires. To have it upon the sabbathday is a dishonore to God. The man is wrong to slap the woman, he is to love her as his own body. Showing violence does not portray love. The woman’s refusal was right because she wants to honore God.

  145. My brother, there is nothing wrong in having sex b4 going to church ooooooo. But d truth is dat if u do it, hmmmmm! U no hear wetin pastor go preach dat day ooooooo. Bcos, u go dey sleep inside church fr beginning of service to d end. U kn say d thing dey cool body. So make u no slap ur wife again, ok. Cheers!

  147. Congratulations to your uncle…

    As far as his my husband… I will give it to him anytime he want but my husband will also understand my mood.. hitting ur wife for any reason is BAD

  150. As a gay, you’re free to have sex with your boyfriend or you’r co-gay lover.
    We gays only barred sex with women, apart from that, i see nothing wrong in having gay sex before going to church.
    So far your pastor is a gay then you’re free.
    Proudly gays.
    I am a #gay right activist.

  152. Yes is very wrong! must he do it before going to church!! he have all the time in the world to do it with his wife, why must it be on Sunday morning before going to church!! what about after service!! anyway it depend on him maybe his’nt a true worshiper of God! your wife is your wife, he’ll do it with her till eternity why is he in a hurry! there is time for everything in life# my question is that can he have sex with his wife before going to work# i guess no!!because he’ll not like to lose his job he respect his job so much! but he can’t show respect to his creator the one that gave him reason to live too bad!! we must learn how to value God in our life!!!

  154. I dont see the point and what has God to do with this sunday is not the lords day read your bible with your eyes open and go see for yourself matthew 28 verse 1 the sabbath is the seven day not the fist

  155. Having sex on Sunday is not evil but it depend on d timing, the man might need it when d woman is almost dressed ready to leave which to me will not be comfortable n enjoyable due to rush.so the guy can understand d situation.

  158. The fear of God should be the first to consider, if he really has d fear of God, he ll not be in d mood at that time. Cos there’s time for everything. God also gave us d power to control our desires. They should have had that before the time for church. Don’t get it twisted.

  159. Having sex with ur wife is nt a crime, bt when it cam 2 d issue of God service, is a thing dat u must allow her, cos d bible say seek he first d kingdom of God nd other things will follow, i think there is no luv in d marriage 4 slapping ur wife bcos of sex.

  160. Having sex with ur wife is nt a crime, bt when it cam 2 d issue of God service, is a thing dat u must allow her, cos d bible say seek he first d kingdom of God nd other things will follow, i think there is no luv in d marriage 4 slapping ur wife bcos of sex.

  161. hmmmm Yabaleftonline no go kill us ooo,well to mi thrs notin wrong in avin sex wt ur husband b4 goin to church,,as a wife ur husband is d owner of ur body n u must b ready for him aniday n anitym,,if u dnt av tym for ur man even at dat point wn he askd for it,dat can force him to go n get it else whr,even if u v dressd up to go to church n he calls u bck for sex,u must gv it to him,thrs no sin in dat at all,thr r alot of women out thr cryin bitterly cos their husband has abandond them by nt makin luv to them animore,so if ur husband asks for sex anitym jst count urself lucky n gv him straighttttt,if u dnt gv it to him n u go to church dat is disobedience to Gods commandment,,n even if ur wife rejects u as a man u dnt nd to slap her for dat,ur wife is nt ur slave,treat ur wife lyk a Queen n wives obey ur husbands n b submisive to them,,it is well wt us all ijn

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  175. My sister in the Lord, thank God ur hubby asked u sex b4 chch, is there any diff bwt having sex b4 n after service? Don’t u knw that it will make the preaching overflow and in turn. Create happines and excitement in ur midst. Wht u jst did can cause calamity n exposed ur husband to comit sin popularly called ….. Na u sabi that one sha! N u may be looking suspicious cos of dat. Pls even as u r going to service n on the way he demanding for it give it to him! Waiting u want take am do again!!,

  182. Why is it that, when a man is dying he cannot say death wait a minute, I want to have sex wt my wife? Let’s Be wise, the bible says: there’s time for every thing. Gods time my dear shd not be compromise by any thing of the flesh.

  185. There is nothing wrong in having sex with ur husband on a sunday morning but both of you should be in agreement and not the other party trying to force you into fulfilling his desires. She may not be in the mood for it at that particular moment, besides its not everytym she denies him sex so I dnt thinks it is yardstick for him to slap her or commit adultery.

  195. The man is very wrong,ur d husband abi d head of the family doesn’t make u God okey ?? why beating. Plz let’s be understanding as God is (he our God {the head} he has commandments we ought to keep,but we do fuckup and he doesn’t beat us up, God is the main head he is understanding, he is kind and merciful) .husbands use ur power to protect ur wife and not beating.

    The woman is wrong too unless they are going late to church (God first) .but if ur reason for denying him sex is because u think is bad or sin to have sex before going to church then ur wrong .sex between married couple pleases God

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