It is often said that being married is the ultimate legal way of having sex, in the eyes of god and man. However, a man is currently in a dilenma as regards the perfect timing to perform his conjugal obligation.

A Nigerian man, Elochukwu, has said he is “confused, feels empty and stupid” as he doesn’t know if it’s wrong to have sex with his wife before saying morning prayers.

His post reads –

“I’m making this post as a married man that seems confused most times.I want to know if it’s right as a married man to give my wife early morning sex before saying my morning prayers,” he wrote.

“I have tried attending to my wife before prayers and looks foolish to myself saying the prayers. On the other hand, it seems wrong to me after prayers then going back to have sex. Like I said, I need mature married couples to share with me their experiences as I look stupid and so empty each time it happens. Thanks.”

A Nigerian Lady has taken to her social media platform to share the mild drama that happened between herself, her mother and a photographer!

It’s an hilarious read!

Story of how my Nigerian mum shocked me on my introduction day last year.

So my introduction was this day last year and we had to travel down to Offa from Lagos for it. Myself and hubby alongside a few other friends arrived Offa around 7:30pm and drove for more than 6hrs

Looking for an hotel to sleep (all the good and bad hotels were fully booked, I think they like Shina (fornication) in that place cos WTF!!!😂😂). We finally got a manageable hotel to sleep around 12:30/1am midnight and we had to manage few rooms.

My introduction was fixed for 11am so I had instructed my mum to bring my photographer along in her car since she was coming into Offa the same day of the introduction. We all agreed on this alongside my photographer. As a very happy bride, I woke up around 7am

Was really stressed from traveling the previous day but I had to wake up early enough to start my makeup since my makeup artist also came a day before and we stayed in the same hotel. So we started my makeup around 7:30am, and it was going well while I was expecting my mum to come in with my photographer latest by 8:30am so we can shoot very nice pictures at the hotel before going to the venue.

At 8am, I called my mum to find out where they were and she said they were like 1hr away from Offa and will meet us up before 9:30am. I was hopeful they’ll Meet up and just to reconfirm, I asked her if she was with my photographer and she said yes, that they were together in the car and will soon be there. My makeup artist continued, and I was enjoying every bit of her expertise till my phone rang around 9:30. GUESS WHO CALLED ME??

My photographer guys, it was my photographer that called and said “sister Odun, I’ve not seen mummy o, I’ve been calling her since but she is not taking her calls, how am I supposed to make Offa before 11am if she has not picked me up by this time”. Ahhh, my head rang!!

Shey na play be this abi na my ears dey pain me?? But my mum said you guys were 1hr away now, what’s going on here? My body started shaking so I ended the call and called my mum who immediately told me they were 10min away from the hotel address

Then I asked her about my photographer and why he wasn’t picked up. Guess what my mum said, she said she is not coming with my photographer since I told her the photographer charged 55k for the event and it was too much for just a small introduction, so she decided

to get another one that Someone introduced to her in Osogbo that charged her 10k for the whole event and they were almost at the hotel. Brethren, at this point, I started crying and the entire makeup we have been doing for 2hrs was a total mess. Yes guys, you heard right

My mum changed my my photographer to a 10k photographer from Osogbo that she has never met before or seen her job before. Ohhh God, I cried, and crode. My mum came in few minutes after the call and met me crying and saw everyone (my husband, friends and family) begging me to stop crying. You know Nigerian mothers now, they’re never wrong. Instead of her to admit and try to persuade me to continue, she even faced the makeup artist to tell her that the makeup should not be much so the picture the Isonu photographer will take will be cool.

I wish I was an American that day ( you guys know what I would have done if I was). I sha stopped crying after much begging and the makeup artist had to manage my swollen face like that after much crying. I was bent on the fact that the photographer should not move near me or even try to take me any pictures atall. So I told a friend that came with an iPhone to take me pictures all through the event so I can give my photographer to work on them afterwards.

Since I was already very late, my dad’s family were already calling incessantly cos hubby’s family were already seated and have been waiting. Omo, I was sad, angry and disappointed at the same time so I was already shouting at anyone who called my phone from the venue. They sha collected my phone make I no go abuse ebi oko (husband’s family). We got to the venue and guess what?? My mum brought her isonu photographer there. My friends begged me to allow the photographer take the pictures so I don’t make a scene in the presence of my hubby’s family so I agreed while I also ensured my friend took me phone pictures.

After the party, the isonu photographer sha started fighting my mum that she can’t take 10k again o, that it’s now 15k since she didn’t know the event will be that big. At this point, I started laughing at them, na una know where una take see each other so deal with it.

They sha settled it and said they will give the isonu photographer the 15k laidat o. After 1week, madam photographer sent me 5pictures promising to send the rest the following day. Immediately I saw the pictures, I told her not to bother sending me any picture again, she should send it to the person that invited her and paid her for the job well done. I’ll be posting few of the pictures and how I learnt my lessons of not telling my Nigerian parent the prices of my stuffs in a very hard way. 😂😂😂😂

For putting me and my husband on heavenly background, God will judge you😂😂😂. We dinnor even do this introduction in heaven, we did it in Offa.

Madam photographer, why am I on a pink background beside flower vase?? I thought my intro was in my father’s house😂😂. My leg no dey even touch ground😭😭😭.

Some emergency officials have shared more information on some of the victims of the building which collapsed in Lagos on Friday September 23.

It was reported earlier that the house located at 2/4 Oye Sonuga Street, Palm Avenue, Mushin, caved in on Friday, killing four persons.

Speaking to Daily Trust, some emergency officials revealed that two of the victims, a male and female, were engaging in intercourse when the incident occurred.

An official said; “In fact they were naked when their bodies were recovered.”

Another official who spoke on the condition of anonymity because he was not authorized to talk to the press, said;

“We were shocked by what we saw at the scene. The last two victims whose dead bodies were recovered were actually having having sexual intercourse. The man was on top of the prostitute when the building collapsed. They both died.”

Another official revealed that the building which collapsed is a motel and the female victims were actually prostitutes. He said;

“The place was used as a Club House/Motel and the female victims were actually prostitutes; the last female we recovered was with a man. They were having a nice time when we recovered them.”

A source added;

“We have to reach out to their colleagues there who are all prostitutes to get information on the victims’ families.”

Fehintola stated this via the microblogging platform on Sunday, September 25th, when she shared a photo of her mother and stepfather celebrating their second wedding anniversary at a spa in Lagos.

When asked what happened to her biological father, she said he passed away.

She further revealed that the couple met on Facebook and got married in 2020.

“My mum’s and stepdad’s 2nd anniversary😮‍💨 This is further proof, that our parents can find love in their old age. They don’t have to be alone for the rest of their lives. Thank you God and Facebook😉💕”

A 23-year-old widow has shared the dehumanizing treatment she was subjected to by her husband’s kinsmen following his sudden passing.

Taking to TikTok, the young mother-of-two shared a video showing women in the community shaving her head with a blade after her husband’s death.

According to her, she got married at the age of 19, and barely four years after she got married to her husband, he died, leaving her with their two children, a boy and a girl.

She also recounted how her husband’s family forcefully took all of his properties from her, leaving her with nothing and having to care for the kids alone.

Narrating her experience, she wrote,

” I married at 19, had my first child at 20, second child at 21, became a widow at 23. They collected everything from me. The worst part is they don’t ask of the kids.”

Watch video below,

In related news, a young widow has taken to TikTok to share her agonizing experience with her late husband’s family after his sudden death.

The mother of two, identified as @kleivmaris.1, shared a video showing herself, her late husband and their two children and narrated what she went through in the hands of her in-laws.

She said she was accused of killing her husband barely a day after his death, and was called a ‘thief’ because she said her husband is not as rich as they thought.

She said a month after his passing, she was chased out of their matrimonial home with her kids for refusing to engage in a ‘diabolic plan’.

Speaking further, the grieving widow said they seized her husband’s properties and claimed he was indebted to his siblings so they will hold on to his properties till her children are old enough to come for them.

To make things worse, she said she and her children were not allowed to visit his grave because her in-laws claimed they are “disturbing her late husband’s spirit”.

Following the dehumanizing treatment, she said she wanted to return her bride price but her father-in-law told her to give the money to her late husband’s spirit.

She said she then decided to relocate with her two children to have a fresh start, and now they are thriving and doing fine.

Congratulations are in order for a 52-year-old woman as she welcomes a set of triplets after many years of waiting.

A Ghanaian lady , Vivian Akoto Addo-Brown, who shared the story of the quinquagenarian who just became a mum for the first time , said she’s been married twice and her first marriage ended after 10 years when she didn’t bear a child.

After the woman’s first marriage ended, according to Vivian, she wed her current husband, and after eight years of marriage, they were ultimately blessed with triplets.

Sharing videos of the new mum testifying to the goodness of God, Vivian wrote,

“This is how this 52 years of age woman decided to testify to the glory and mercy of God Almighty upon her life.The story is a long one but I will cut it short. She was married to a pastor for 10yrs there was no child, and the pastor husband decided to have children outside, going against their matrimonial vows….,of course that marriage ended.

“She got married again to her present beloved husband and 8yrs later, God has blessed her with not one, not two but three beautiful children this woman who was referred to as that barren, (unfruitful, unproductive, sterile infertile) and so on, is now a mother of triplets very healthy, beautiful and blessed “the triple D”. TO GOD ALONE BE ALL THE GLORY! GREAT THINGS HE HAS DONE”.

Watch video below,

A lot of people believe human empowerment is a great way to help improve the wealth and development of any growing society.

Nigerian Writer – @Bqmbulu who also believes this theory has taken to twitter to explain how empowering a particular gender is the perfect way to help the society grow.

“Dating wise, it’s better to empower 100 men financially than to empower 1000 women. This is because men are hypogamists, ie, they all marry down. While women do the exact opposite. Let’s explain further.

In this case, 99% of those men will most likely pick women who are lower than them on the financial scale. Some of those women will be broke & jobless & even from poverty-stricken homes.

Thus we see that the man’s money doesn’t stay with him alone. He transfers his wealth to his woman & his in-laws. On the otherhand, 100% of those women will aspire to settle for men who are richer than them. While some are lucky to get richer men, some get men who are equally as rich as them & the rest who couldn’t get their first choice often stay single, rich & unmarried.
So we can say that the chances of those 1000 women settling for a broke, jobless man & empowering him & his family is next to zero.

This is why I always say that there’s no honour in a woman’s love. Her love is always selfish & self-seeking.

To buttress further, when you check the list of richest women in the world. Women who came from nothing made the list because they were beneficiaries of either divorce or inheritance from their late partners. Whereas this is never the case with the men’s list.

Popular Nigerian Reality Star, Tacha got herself trending on social media after she after she revealed how she was recovering from her liposuction surgery.

Tacha is known to be the brand ambassador for a waist trainer brand and it didn’t sit well with people that she underwent liposuction. She had earlier posted about recovering and having difficulties using her arms after her surgery.

Angry fans immediately came for her without verifying the part of her body she worked on. She received a lot of insults and had managed to ignore most of them until skit maker, LayiWasabi joined in the conversation.

Layi tweeted; “Getfit ambassador dey do lipo. one would think this is a skit.”

This slight sub didn’t sit well with Tacha and she responded –

“Stupid a** lab rat!! So you want to be BOLD Abi!!? F*cking tag me and not the brand I work FOR!!! If I drag you by your balls now! HUT FC will start talking about bullying and mental health!! If you don’t face front and focus on your unfunny skits!
ostrich neck looking cunt”

Turns out her liposuction was an arm lift and had nothing to do with her waist or BBL. She didn’t take likely to the skit maker coming for her business without understanding the facts.

A viral video has captured a bride’s hilarious yet heartwarming reaction to a surprise she got from her husband on their wedding day.

In the trending clip, the bride was astounded after she received a travel visa as a gift from her groom on their wedding day.

When she first opened the gift from her boyfriend, she gaped in disbelief. However, after a while, she leapt up and down with joy, pointing at him and stating that he had successfully surprised her as she never saw it coming.

When the groom asked her for a hug, the bride, in response, told him that a hug was too small and she would rather make his night a memorable one.

Watch video below,

In other news, a young Nigerian man has pulled a massive surprise on his girlfriend as he gifts her a brand new Mercedes Benz G300 in brilliant red.

A video making rounds online captures the lovely moment he surprised his girlfriend with the car gift, and she was left speechless by the grand gesture.

In the video, the lover boy is seen leading his girlfriend to where the luxury car, which was decorated with balloons, was parked.

They were accompanied by friends who were screaming and hailing the boyfriend for surprising the love of his life with a car.

Upon seeing the Benz, the lady was left stunned, and kept staring at the sleek vehicle in disbelief, before her boyfriend led her to the driver’s seat and asked her to sit down in her new whip.