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“Let’s normalise talking about sex with our parents” – Rapper, Eva Alordiah tells Africans

Popular Nigerian rapper, Eva Alordiah, has asked Africans to normalize talking about sex with their parents.

Eva stated this in a post via her official Twitter handle on Monday afternoon, September 12.

“My fellow Africans, let’s normalize talking about sex with our parents.” She tweeted.

When another user opined that it should be the other way round, where parents normalize talking about having sex with their kids, Eva responded, 

“Tohh. Since our Parents want to go on pretending that Sex is not how they conceived us. Our parents say Sex is not holy? But they want us to have children someday? I laugh in Isoko. 🤣

See her posts below,

In related news, Nigerian singer, Seun Kuti, has advised parents to begin sex education with their children at a young age.

The father of one, who gave this advice in a post shared via his Instagram page, said it’s high time parents stopped shying away from conversations about sex with their kids and taught their children about sex.

According to him, everything in Nigeria today is centered around sex, from images to songs that these children are exposed to.

He went on to say that 14-year-olds had sex in his generation, so it’s no surprise that the age for youngsters in this generation has plummeted.

“Everything in Nigeria is centered around sex. Children are faced daily in fact inundated with sexual images. All the songs the media feeds them, everything is hyper sexualized. Sex tapes of their media created role models everywhere coupled with the internet, just start sex education early instead of forming saint, In my generation most 14 year olds were already doing it or planning to do it, I am nit surprised the age dropped.” He wrote.

Identities of Senator Ifeanyi Uba’s two aides killed by gunmen in Anambra revealed

Senator Ifeanyi Uba's two aides

The identities of the slain aides of Anambra South lawmaker, Senator Ifeanyi Ubah, have been revealed.

On Sunday, unknown gunmen attacked the lawmaker’s convoy in Enugwu-Ukwu community, Njikoka Local Government Area of Anambra State, and opened fire at the occupants of the vehicles.

 Senator Ifeanyi Uba's two aides

Sadly, a yet-to-be identified number of persons, including two of the Senator’s aides were killed in the attack. The slain aides have been identified as Goodnews Mathias and Odum Ikechukwu, the senator’s Regional Manager.

Friends and colleagues of the deceased have taken to social media to mourn their unfortunate demise.

One Amb Adichie Izuchukwu said he and Mathias were at an event together last Thursday.

“On Thursday , we were all together in Ekwuluobia for the reception of Cardinal Peter Okpaleke and yesterday being Sunday, I was with Goodnews Mathias in the morning before I went to church.

“Late Odum Ikechukwu was Senator Ubah’s oldest staff, his Regional Manager and Goodnews, a Personal Aide who joined in 2012/2013. May the souls of my former colleagues and the souls of the security details that lost their lives yesterday RIP, Amen”

Another Facebook user, identified as Ikechukwu Emeka Onyia, said he met the slain aides few hours before the attack.

“I met these two friends yesterday around 2 pm at an event in Ozubulu. I had about 10 minutes of friendly engagement with one of them, Odum Ikechukwu. While I was exchanging pleasantries with Senator Ubah yesterday at Ozubulu, late Goodnews was one of his team snapping us. So sad that 5hours later, they were dead. RIP Goodnews and Odum. May God’s mercies take care of your souls! May God heal your families while we hope that those behind this barbaric act are arrested and face the law,” he wrote.

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Nigerian lady disappointed after her abroad-based uncle sent her a brand new iPhone 5 (video)

A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her disappointment after her uncle, who is based abroad, sent her a brand new iPhone 5.

According to the young lady, her overseas-based uncle had promised her a new phone. However, while she probably anticipated the latest model of iPhone, he sent her a brand new iPhone 5.

The lady identified as Obianuju shared a video of herself unboxing the phone. A disappointed expression could be seen on the young woman’s face in the video when she opened the present and realized it was an older iPhone model.

She uploaded the video on TikTok, with the background sound “Osanobua, who do me like this?” 

Watch video below,

In other news, a Nigerian man identified as Akunesiobike has shared his experience with an ‘entitled’ lady who requested for nothing less than an iPhone 7 plus from him.

Akune said the incident happened years ago when he was still out of the country. He was planning a visit to Nigeria at the time, and this lady whom he was texting back and forth, asked for an iPhone.

She went further to warn him that the iPhone he’s getting for her shouldn’t be less than an iPhone 7 plus.

Another warehouse containing alleged COVID-19 palliatives uncovered in Osun state two years after lockdown (video)

warehouse containing

Another warehouse containing alleged COVID-19 palliatives has been discovered in Osun state two years after lockdown.

It would be recalled that in 2020, several warehouses housing relief materials for Nigerians during the COVID-19 lockdown were uncovered in different parts of the country.

Well, another warehouse has been discovered around Ede town, Osun state.

 warehouse containing

A video shared online today, September 12, shows the large quantity of food items in the warehouse, and a man speaking in the background claimed they are palliatives meant for the people of Osun state.

Packs of food items, including noodles, tomato paste, salt, rice, and other items, can be seen in the now-viral video.

Watch below,

The video has stirred an uproar on social media as Nigerians berated the government for failing to distribute the foodstuff as intended.

While some questioned if they were sure the warehouse is a COVID-19 palliative warehouse, and not a privately-owned property.

See some reactions below,

@omaghs.. wrote, “This our leaders are just mean n heartless..what would it cost them to share these items to the public?..”

@mellenie_fashion_ wrote, “For real😮please check expiry dates before consuming”

@i_am_san_dra wrote, “I just hope this isn’t someone’s warehouse 😢
Cos ehnmmm”

“This is the kind of ‘stunting’ we should be doing” – Nigerian man tells men as he shows off grocery shopping he did for his babe (VIDEO)

A Nigerian man has shown off how he spoils his woman and has admonished other guys to do the same saying “this is the kind of ‘stunting’ we should be doing”.

The young man took to his social media page to share a video of how he went grocery shopping for his woman and all that he had to do just to please her.

He shared how he checked off the list of all the curated items he set out to get for his babe and even things that were not on the list.

At the end of the video, he shows off the receipt of his purchase and asked guys who always flaunt receipt of how they spent at an expensive restaurant or club, to follow in his footsteps so guys can always help each other out.

Watch the video as you scroll,

In other news, a suspected internet fraudster better known as “Yahoo boy” took to his social media page to give a breakdown of how he spent the proceeds of a supposed fraudulent transaction that gained him N2m.

In the video he shared on his TikTok page, the young man revealed how he “spent the N2m his client gave him” as he shared series of screenshots showing how he disbursed the money.

According to him, he first got himself an iPhone 13 pro max, and then transferred N30k to his cleric “Alfa”, N5,100 to his mother, N9k to his father, N2k to his girlfriend, N21k on clothing, and N3k to an area brother. Watch the video here

“I feel massively attacked, people that brought me here haven’t even checked in on me” – Sheggz rants about well-being (Video)

Big Brother Naija level-up housemate, Sheggz, has gone on a rant about his well-being in the house.

Sheggz, who received a first strike for flouting Big Brother’s orders on Sunday afternoon, and Ebuka addressed his relationship with Bella during the live eviction show, told Hermes this morning that he’s not well.

Hermes had approached Sheggz on Monday morning to ask about the well-being of his love interest, Bella, who was yet to come out of bed.

Sheggz responded by telling Hermes that she’s not doing well, and neither is he, as he feels massively attacked in the house.

He also complained about not being checked on by those that brought him to the show.

“The whole ordeal was kinda mean, I’m a human being. I feel massively attacked. Some housemates have asked me if I’m good; the people that brought me here haven’t even checked in on me, and that was a massive thing to go through,” he said.

Watch video below,

Recall that on Sunday night Ebuka asked Bella why she’s remaining in a seemingly toxic relationship with her lover, Sheggz.

During the eviction show, Ebuka asked Bella if “being insulted is her love language” because some times when he watches the show, he hears her love interest, Sheggz calling her insulting names and most times, she’s the one who goes back to apologize to him.

She then responded to Ebuka that it is because she really likes him, that why she apologizes, however, on a normal day she wouldn’t take his insults. According to her, she feels the reason he calls her names is because he feels disrespected by her.

When Ebuka then asks her whether being insulted is a good reaction by someone who claims to love you, she stated that it isn’t, however, it’s something they are working on.

Moment overzealous fan throws phone at Wizkid to make a video on stage (Video)

A video showing the daring moment an overzealous fan flung a mobile phone at Grammy award winner, Wizkid on stage has gone viral.

The superstar singer was performing at an event that was held recently when a fan decided to take an extreme measure to get Wizkid to make a video with his phone.

Wizkid splashes

The Made in Lagos star, who was donned in white, was on stage miming his hit track Essence, when a fan who desperately wanted the singer to record himself with his phone tossed his phone at him.

The fan daringly threw the phone towards the performer, who, to everyone’s surprise, scooped it up and began filming while singing—this elicited enthusiastic cheers from the crowd.

Afterwards, Wizkid threw the phone back in the direction it had come from as he continued his stage performance.

Watch video below,

In other news, Ghanaian singer, Wendy Shay has told her colleagues in the music industry to appreciate their Nigerian counterparts for bringing the world’s attention to Africa.

Taking to Twitter, the music star averred that Nigerians have given Africa global relevance through Afrobeats. She then admonished her countrymen to wake up and smell the coffee.

She tweeted;

“GHANAIAN ARTISTES SHOULD THANK NIGERIANS ARTISTES, FOR BRINGING THE WORLD’S ATTENTION TO AFRICA …THROUGH AFROBEATS. GHANA WAKE UP!”

#BBNaija: “You’re the love of my life and I want your family to know how well I treat you” – Sheggz tells Bella (Video)

Big Brother Naija season 7 housemate, Olusegun Olusemo, better known as Sheggz, appears to be worried about his “future-in-law’s” opinion of him following Ebuka’s comment on his relationship with Bella.

It would be recalled that during the live eviction show last night, the host, Ebuka, asked Bella why she was remaining in a seemingly toxic relationship with her lover, Sheggz.

Sheggz fires

Ebuka asked Bella if “being insulted is her love language” because sometimes when he watches the show, he hears her love interest, Sheggz, calling her insulting names, and most of the time, she’s the one who goes back to apologize to him. Read here.

After the live show, Sheggz told his lover, Bella, that he’s worried if her family would approve of their relationship, given the narrative that seems to be out about him.

A worried Sheggz told Bella, “It really hurts me… You’re actually the love of my life and I really want your family to know how much you mean to me and how well I treat you.”

In response, Bella told Sheggz to not be bothered about what people think about their relationship, and she’s certain her family can see how well he treats her.

“I’m sure they know that. I’m sure they can see that as well. They do.” Bella assured him.

Watch them speak below,

Media personality, Moet Abebe leaves little to the imagination in new photos

Moet Abebe leaves

Popular media personality, Moet Abebe has taken to her Instagram page to cause commotion with racy photos of herself.

In the photos, the TV host put her curvaceous body on display and simply used a satin material to cover some part of her body.

She literally left little to the imagination and used a large straw hat to cover her face, stating that ‘no face, no case’.

See the pictures below,

 

View this post on Instagram

 

A post shared by Moet Abebe (@moetabebe)

A while ago, Moet Abebe got 24th tattoo and took to her social media page to share photos of the freshly-inked body art.

The OAP who has tattoos in different parts of her body, admitted to being addicted to tattoos. The new tattoo which was inked on her backside reads “You are enough”.

Speaking on why she inked the words, Moet disclosed that she battled with insecurities before the COVID-19 pandemic began and she always felt she wasn’t enough. She however noted that she has now decided to love herself the way she is.

Sharing the photos, Moet wrote,

“No 24…..
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Yes I’m addicted to getting ink but even with how many I’ve got I do not appear heavily tatted (not that there’s anything wrong with a heavily tatted female)… Tbh this was a spontaneous one but is of great significance to me mainly because for many years; maybe till the pandemic hit, insecurities ruled my life… I often felt I wasn’t enough… I often felt that I had a point to prove…. but over the past 2-3 years I have realized no one has their “shit” together, absolutely NO ONE.. so I’ve decided to embrace every part of me from now on and it is extremely comforting to realize that I AM ENOUGH and frankly speaking so are you 😊 😃 😀

Comedy Video: Oluwadolarz – The Vampire Next Door

Comedy Video

Popular Nigerian comedian, Oluwadolarz is here a with a very funny comedy video and this one is titled, “The Vampire Next Door”.

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“Your parents won’t die if you come out” – Bisi Alimi asks Nigerian LGBTQI members to come out of the closet

Nigerian gay rights activist, Bisi Alimi, has asked closeted members of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, and Intersex communities in Nigeria to come out of the closet.

Bisi, who is the first Nigerian to openly declare his sexuality as gay on national television, urged others still in the closet to come out.

Bisi Alimi tells

According to him, if they open up about their sexuality there parents won’t die, insisting that it’s a lie used to keep them in closet.

Taking to his Twitter handle, he wrote,

“Dear Nigerian LGBTQI+ people, your parents won’t die if you come out; it’s a lie that used to keep you in the closet. You have your life to live; enjoy it.”

See his post below,

A while ago, Bisi Alimi spoke on his strained relationship with his biological mum.

He claimed his mother consistently blackmailed him emotionally till he got tired and decided to give her space. He noted that she’s now trying to establish a relationship with him, but the ship has sailed.

Using his personal experience as example, Bisi Alimi appealed to parents to desist from using emotional blackmail to get the attention of their children.

“My mother lost me due to her emotional blackmail. You can only emotionally blackmail your kids for as long as you can. One day the veil will be lifted and they will walk away from your toxic behavior.

Now she is the one trying her best to get me back but sad to say the ship has sailed. Parents, stop using emotional blackmail to get your kids attention”. He said.

Lady shares audacious message she received from a ‘catfish’ using her identity on Facebook

Lady shares

A Nigerian lady has taken to Twitter to share the audacious message she received from a suspected imposter using her identity on Facebook.

In the message, the young man told her that he created a Facebook account with her name and pictures and pleaded with her to be sending new pictures to him daily.

Lady shares

Bamboozled by the man’s boldness, the lady identified as @benxta_, went online to share the chat.

Read below,

Lady shares

The message has stirred hilarious reactions on social media as netizens were taken aback by the man’s audacity. While some asserted that the imposter is using her identity for fraudulent activities.

@darkbreedd wrote, “Would have said you should help a brother but but the down sides can be really nasty. 😭 Impersonation isnt so good”

@nicholekukeee wrote, “😂 if audacity had a king on a throne it definitely finna be this guy”

@lilyfrvr wrote, “Lmao there’s one that stole all my pictures including my throwbacks, it’s crazy”

@osiris wrote, “But how can one person have this much audacity?”

In other news, a suspected internet fraudster better known as “Yahoo boy” took to his social media page to give a breakdown of how he spent the proceeds of a supposed fraudulent transaction that gained him N2m.

In the video he shared on his TikTok page, the young man revealed how he “spent the N2m his client gave him” as he shared series of screenshots showing how he disbursed the money. ICYMI

Retired DSP allegedly caught having carnal knowledge of mentally-ill girl in Enugu

A retired Deputy Superintendent of Police, identified as Gamy Ugwu, was paraded after he was allegedly caught having canal knowledge of a mentally-ill girl in Enugu.

A Facebook user, Chijinkem Ugwuanyi, who shared a video of the suspect being interrogated after he was allegedly caught in the act, said the incident happened in Igbo Eze North local government area of Enugu State.

“A Retired Deputy Superintendent Of Police from Amufie named Gamy Ugwu was caught having affair with an imbecile Called Ugo Nwa Eke in Amufie Community.” He wrote.

Members of the community, Eze Hillary Oluchukwu and Nnaemeka Omeh, also confirmed the incident on Sunday.

“The said man in the pictures raped/slept with a mad woman beside him. The man is a retired police officer in Umuopeke.” A member of the community wrote.

Watch video below,

In other news, a suspected yahoo boy, Wahab Hammed, has been arrested by operatives of the Osun state police command in connection with the murder of his friend, one Oguntade Wasiu.

The 28-year-old suspect was paraded before journalists on Wednesday, September 7, and he confessed to conspiring with his friend, Adegoke Ayobami, 31, to murder the deceased because he was ‘cashing out’ from internet fraud more than the both of them.

He narrated how they lured him to a remote locating in the guise of showing him a piece of land and hacked him to death with a cutlass.

“Akoi Grace!” – Singer Portable reacts after American rapper Trippie Redd reached out to him for possible collaboration

Controversial Nigerian singer, Portable, has reacted after American rapper Trippie Redd reached out to him for a possible collaboration.

The Zazu Zeh star took to his Instagram page on Monday to share a screenshot of his chat with the international music act who indicated interest in working with him.

Goya Menor reacts

Trippie Redd who appears to be impressed by Portable’s style of music had earlier posted a video of himself vibing to Portable’s ‘Clear’.

Utterly fascinated by Portable’s talent, Trippie shared his song on his Insta-stories and captioned it, “Wow @portablebaeby”.

Well, in a latest development, Trippie has disclosed that he will like to work with the Nigerian singer, Portable.

Trippie made this revelation when he replied to Portable’s message thanking him for acknowledging his work on Instagram.

“We gotta work Brother,” Trippie told Portable.

Replying, an excited Portable expressed his eagerness to get in the studio with Trippie for his first international collaboration.

He shared snapshots of their exchange on social media and wrote, “I’ve got Chorus for you. Let’s give them the street vibes Zazu”.

See their exchange below,

In other news, Portable has seemingly reacted to his disqualification from the Headies awards.

The singer, who bagged nominations in the “Rookie of the Year” and “Best Street-Hop Artiste” categories in the Headies, had his double nomination rescinded for threatening his fellow nominees.

The much-coveted music award was held on Sunday, September 4 in Atlanta, the United States, and the singer appeared to throw jabs at those criticizing him for missing out on the awards because of his attitude in a video he shared on social media.

In the video, Portable says he’s not in competition with anyone, and warns that henceforth no one should advise him on his attitude.

He says he is a human who is imperfect and asked God to provide him with a helper that wouldn’t mind his character.

Speaking further, he noted that when he faces challenges, he believes something better is coming his way.

Comedy Video: Yemi Elesho – The New gods

Comedy Video

Popular comedian and Actor, Yemi Elesho also known as Boda Nuru comes through with a new comedy tagged, “The New gods”, featuring Isbae U

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Comedy Video: Mr Macaroni – The Constitution Review

Comedy Video

Popular Nigerian comedian and activist, Mr Macaroni drops a new comedy video tagged “The Constitution Review”.

In this comedy Mr Macaroni features, Nollywood Actress, Mide Martins and Jojo on this one.

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Patricia CEO, Fejiro Hanu proposes to his pregnant girlfriend at their gender reveal party (video)

Fejiro Hanu proposes

It’s a season of double celebration for the CEO of Patricia, Fejiro Hanu Agbodje, as he gets engaged and is also set to welcome a child with his girlfriend.

The 27-year-old entrepreneur proposed to the love of his life, who is currently pregnant with their first child, at their gender reveal party held recently.

Fejiro Hanu proposes

Fejiro took to his Instagram page to share a video of the beautiful moment they found out they are expecting a baby boy.

According to him, he wanted a boy while his girlfriend (now fiancée) wanted a baby girl so she was evidently not happy about the discovery.

He then went on his knees to pop the question amid the gender reveal celebration, and got a resounding YES from his girlfriend after moments of throwing a tantrum.

Fejiro Hanu proposes

He captioned it,

“She wanted a girl…
I wanted a Boy!

But we both Won!”

Congratulations to them!

Watch the adorable video below,

In other news, Popular Nollywood actor, Stan Nze celebrated his first wedding anniversary with his wife, actress Blessing Jessica Obasi, on Sunday, September 11.

The celebrity couple who tied the knot exactly one year ago took to their respective Instagram pages to share beautiful pictures and video to mark their anniversary. ICYMI

Suspected Yahoo boy shares breakdown of how he spent N2m he gained from a “client” (VIDEO)

A suspected internet fraudster better known as “Yahoo boy” took to his social media page to give a breakdown of how he spent the proceeds of a supposed fraudulent transaction that gained him N2m.

In the video he shared on his TikTok page, the young man revealed how he “spent the N2m his client gave him” as he shared series of screenshots showing how he disbursed the money.

According to him, he first got himself an iPhone 13 pro max, and then transferred N30k to his cleric “Alfa”, N5,100 to his mother, N9k to his father, N2k to his girlfriend, N21k on clothing, and N3k to an area brother.

Watch his video as you scroll,

In other news, a Twitter user has asserted that refusing to date a lady because she has dated a yahoo boy (internet fraudster) in the past is very valid.

Taking to the platform, @SnrmanOA said it’s a valid reason because it’s pointless trying to fill the shoe of her ex-boyfriend because it would never fit.

According to him, such ladies are already accustomed to a lavish and extravagant lifestyle funded by their fraudster boyfriend so it’s better for a young man, making legitimate money, not to date them because they won’t be able to keep up.

He tweeted,

“Deciding not to date someone because they used to date a yahoo boy is very valid. There are some shoes you shouldn’t bother to fill, no amount of newspaper or socks will make it size you.”

“Ghanaian artistes should thank Nigerian artistes for bringing the world’s attention to Africa” – Singer, Wendy Shay says

Wendy Shay says

Ghanaian singer, Wendy Shay has told her colleagues in the music industry to appreciate their Nigerian counterparts for bringing the world’s attention to Africa.

Taking to Twitter, the music star averred that Nigerians have given Africa global relevance through Afrobeats. She then admonished her countrymen to wake up and smell the coffee.

Ghanaian artistes should

She tweeted;

“GHANAIAN ARTISTES SHOULD THANK NIGERIANS ARTISTES, FOR BRINGING THE WORLD’S ATTENTION TO AFRICA …THROUGH AFROBEATS. GHANA WAKE UP!”

See below,

A while ago, Wendy Shay alleged that some upcoming Nigerian artistes are sleeping with top Ghanaian female celebrities.

Speaking in a recent interview on Accra-based radio station Peace FM, Wendy Shay claimed that she knows some female celebrities who are dating and sleeping with “underground Nigerian singers”.

According to her, it is sad because Ghanaian singers can’t easily penetrate the Nigerian entertainment industry, talk less of dating a Nigerian celeb.

She chided the Ghanaian celebs and urged them to stop the act because it is disrespectful and could also be the reason why Ghanaian music isn’t doing well.

“Our top stars not only musicians… all you see are an underground artiste from Nigerian who comes and is dating a top female star in Ghana. I can’t mention names but it’s the female celebrities I’ve seen do that. It’s heartbreaking.

I can’t mention names because if I do that, it will be like I’ve personalized the issue but it’s an observation I’ve made for some time now. Even the country as a whole, you’ll realize that we support outsiders than we support our own,” she said.

“The results were wrong” – Wife insists after DNA tests revealed all her five kids are not for her husband

Black man crying tears of sadness or joy

A mother-of-five has reacted after DNA tests conducted on her children revealed none of them is biologically related to her husband.

A Twitter user, @Meyeownboss, who shared the story on the micro-blogging platform, revealed that the couple had been married for thirty years, with their oldest child being 32 years old.

Paternity tests were recently carried out on the children. Sadly, the results showed that none of the couple’s five kids belong to the husband.

@Meyeownboss said when confronted, the wife, in her defence, insisted that the five DNA test results were wrong.

“I’m back here to say I watched an interview with a 55yr old man married over 30 years 5 children, youngest being 15yrs oldest being 32yrs… None… I repeat, none were his. When confronted the wife said all the dna tests were wrong. I repeat, she said, ALL 5 DNA TESTS WERE WRONG.” Her tweet read.

In related news, a 57-year-old man has been left shattered after reportedly discovering that he’s not the biological father of all his five children.

The quinquagenarian is said to have been married to his wife for more than two decades, and the union has produced five children. However, he recently learned the children are not his.

A Facebook user, Henry Shield, who shared the man’s predicament on the platform, said the man is being advised ‘to be a man’.

“Man is 57 years old, did DNA test for all his 5 children and none of the children was his own. He was married for 20 years. They are telling him to ‘be a man’.” Henry wrote.

“My mother called me a seductress” – Ese Walter reflects on life after exposing her alleged affair with clergyman, Biodun Fatoyinbo

Ese Walter reflects

Ese Walter, the Nigerian woman who outed her alleged affair with COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, in 2013 has taken to Facebook to reflect on her life after the scandal.

The mother of three recounted how people turned their back on her and how her own mother called her a ‘seductress’ trying to bring the clergyman down, and said people told her that exposing the clergyman would ‘destroy’ her.

Ese Walter reflects

Ese said she rushed into marriage in 2014 because of the ‘fear of destruction’ but she couldn’t sustain the marriage.

According to her, she saw her husband as a stranger and couldn’t integrate him into her family. Sadly, her marriage to media personality, Benny Ark, hit the rocks in 2018.

Ese Walter reflects

Taking to Facebook, she wrote,

“Marriage was supposed to be the escape…

Shortly after the 2013 blog went viral, I left the Country.

It was hard to do anything.

Biodun himself said if I told, my life would be destroyed. I believed him. Perhaps that belief propelled me down the aisle.

They say behind every anger is fear.

My seemingly great anger was laced with greater fear.

I knew life would not be the same again and I didn’t know what else to do.

Some friends turned on me, Mother said I was a seductress and wanted to bring the man of god, down.

I couldn’t imagine the shame the people who loved me felt but I can remember the silence.

I remember the shame, guilt and uncertainty that covered me like a blanket. What was I going to do with my destroyed life?

Get married. Start a family and focus there.

For someone who didn’t have marriage plans before that time, I suspected it was a wrong move but I figured I could handle it.

After marriage, I didn’t know how to integrate the new human that was suddenly my new family.

I saw him as a stranger. Kind of like how I perceived Father in Mother’s eyes. Father didn’t feel like her family which only confused the family that they built for me.

It was as though Mother and her children were the family and Father was the bringer of things…

It took a while to notice I had created the same dynamic in my own family. My kids felt like my family and their dad felt like the stranger that sleeps in the house sometimes.

Then there was the growing resentment toward the stranger. I don’t even remember why but I remember that there was always something hanging in my mind about him. Plus, when he did things that I thought were wrong, forgiveness was not an option.

I’d move out and start thinking of a divorce. It was as though if I got into the marriage to satisfy something but had no plans of building or working on it.

Ese Walter reflects

As my children came, my focus shifted more. I became a stay-at-home mum and did my best with keeping house matters and the little humans moving.

Anytime I complain about my partner, I hear, ‘go and work.’ Mother said he was going to leave my stay-at-home ass for a working woman one day. She said I’d soon be below his level (whatever that means)

As much as I tried to act like her talk didn’t bother me, the words haunted me many times when I’d be in the kitchen making a meal or when I’m up at 2am tending to a newborn.

The gossip blogs continued to drag the blog story wherever Ese Walter was mentioned, despite Ese Walter marrying husband and birthing babies.

The marriage wasn’t what I thought it would be. I was a single-married woman and if I complained, it was, ‘at least you have your children to focus on.’

I didn’t get married to an adult man to now focus on small children.

I tried though. I focused on the little people, I learned about the early development of the brain, I learned about regulating one’s nervous system, I examined why I shout, why I doubt myself and how to manage my wounds so I don’t bleed on my children.

The marriage didn’t survive. It was actually dead from the start and finally went under. Sometimes I’d crawl back to make peace and try to be wife. I would decide not to check phones, don’t ask too many questions about why he wasn’t home or where he went….Just be a loving wife and ignore those inner longings and questions. But it was hard to pretend not to feel when I am familiar with my emotions and have been since I was little.

When I left the last time, it was with no money, no plans and three children.

Life was going to bury us or I was going to win…

Life has not yet buried us”

Ese Walter reflects

“Break up with your man if he proposes to you the moment you are being celebrated for a personal accomplishment” – Professor tells women

A Twitter user has told men that it’s wrong to propose to their partners when they are being celebrated for an achievement.

Racquel Gates, an associate professor of film at Columbia University, asserted that it is inappropriate to make a romantic proposal to a woman on the day she’s being celebrated for a feat she worked hard for.

Cropped shot of a man putting an engagement ring onto his girlfriend’s finger

Speaking further, she advised women to break up with their partners if they ever do this.

“Men, if your girlfriend is finishing a marathon, accepting an award, walking the runway to close out the collection that she designed, or taking a moment to celebrate any big individual accomplishment that she worked hard for -this is not the time to propose to her.” She wrote.

Racquel Gates’ tweet elicited varying reactions on the micro-blogging platform; while some agreed with her, a number of social media users disagreed.

Reacting a Twitter user @notbeforenoon wrote,

“Getting down on a knee or waiting for a proposal are such antiquated concepts. Getting married should be a mutual decision, discussed seriously. If you want to make a big production out of it, have an announcement party.”

@JerryStillman, “Everyone knows the proper place to propose is at a surprise proposal party you’ve invited all her family and friends to”.

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Comedy Video: he Cute Abiola – Good Samaritan

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Popular Nigerian comedian, Lawyer Kunle also known as The Cute Abiola drops a new comedy skit and he tagged this one “Good Samaritan” featuring Mazi Okeke, Iya Yusufu & Portable.

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#BBNaija: “I and Big Brother have chemistry, I need to see him” – Diana (Video)

Former Big Brother Naija season 7 housemate, Diana Isoken Edobor, has said that there’s chemistry between her and Big Brother.

The reality TV star, who was renowned for her interesting and quite amusing conversations with Biggie during her diary sessions, said she felt more connected to Big Brother in the house.

Recall that during one of her diary sessions, she told Biggie that a cartel was being formed in his house, and asked him to go to the market to buy salt for the house.

According to the 33-year-old, she believes they are closer in age, although she cannot tell what he looks like or even his real age.

When asked if she would still find Big Brother appealing if he were older, Diana said that it wouldn’t be a problem.

Diana, however, added that she needed to see him physically to know if he was truly her type.

“I and Big Brother we were having a bit of chemistry, I felt that he was the one that we were more close in age. I just feel like that we were more connected. I just need to see him, to see if the chemistry is real”, she said.

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“If you have a girlfriend studying in Lokoja, find someone else and build another relationship” – Man advises men after encounter with students ‘doing hookup’

Man advises

A Nigerian man, Abdulhameed Muhammad Tohir, has raised alarm over the number of female students who are into ‘hookup’ in Lokoja, Kogi state.

Taking to Facebook, Tohir advised men who have girlfriends studying in a tertiary institution in the city to break off the relationship because she’s likely into prostitution.

Man advises

He said they should find someone else and build another relationship if they don’t want to end up with a barren wife, because a lot of female students are working as prostitutes in Lokoja.

He wrote,

“I have not seen where hookup deal is being done before, and I didn’t believe it fully until I had a first hand experience at “lounge 1” in lokoja, kogi state,” he wrote.

“I was not bittered about it but the fact that some of those ladies left home for school and some even told their parents, they are in search of work, where in real sense they’re into hookups for survival is a thing of concern

“I have come to conclusion, and I don’t think I can easily go back on it, if by chance you have a girlfriend that school in lokoja, the chance that she isn’t into this is slim. Just find someone else and build another relationship, you might be waiting for a fruitless lady as wife. Know this and have peace.”

Man advises

Comedy Video: OGB Recent – The Street King (EP3)

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Nigerian comedian, OGB Recent also known as Cultist is here with a brand new comedy tagged, “The Street King (EP3)”.

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“Best decision of my life” — Actor, Stan Nze celebrates first wedding anniversary with wife, Blessing

Stan Nze celebrates

Popular Nollywood actor, Stan Nze celebrated his first wedding anniversary with his wife, actress Blessing Jessica Obasi, on Sunday, September 11.

The celebrity couple who tied the knot exactly one year ago took to their respective Instagram pages to share beautiful pictures and video to mark their anniversary.

Stan Nze celebrates

Stan said getting married to his wife is the best decision he has ever made, and that he is happy to be doing life with her.

He wrote, “On this day exactly a year ago, I made this vow. Best decision of my life. Happy 1st Anniversary to us baby”

“You made 1 year literally look like a day 🤗🤗🤗
Now forever with you is even clearer. Lolo m, Oriaku and Queen of the Nzerian Kingdom. I’m so glad to be doing life with you 🥂”
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he added.

Blessing, on her part, eulogized her husband and described him as her happy place.

“My own happy place.
His absolute delight..
Forever is just a start..💕” she said.

 

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Congratulations to them!

A while ago, Stan Nze revealed that he was heavily criticized for getting married to his wife and colleague, Blessing Jessica Obasi.

According to him, they received many negative comments on social media and people queried him for getting married to a 42-year-old woman.

“I no longer find her attractive” – Speed Darlington fumes at Patoranking for using Nancy Isime in music video

Nigerian singer, Darlington Okoye, popularly known as Speed Darlington, who recently declared an interest in media personality, Nancy Isime, has made a U-turn and claims he no longer finds her attractive.

This comes after singer Patoranking starred the popular TV host and actress in the visuals of his new track, Kolo Kolo.

Solomon Buchi tells

The abroad-based musician, who accused Nigerian singers of always copying him to stay relevant, said he lost interest in Nancy when Patoranking used her as a vixen for his music video.

Nancy Isime uses

He said he is tired of being a pacesetter for Nigerian musicians who wait for him to show interest in something, and then copy him.

According to him, Nigerian entertainers do not know how to stay relevant. They wait for him to do something, then they imitate.

Watch him speak below,

In other news, relationship expert, Blessing Okoro, has named popular media personality and actress, Nancy Isime, as one of the female celebrities who has gone under the knife to enhance their physical features but tries to pass it off as hard work in the gym.

Blessing Okoro, who has been open about undergoing surgery to achieve a massive backside, stated this on Frankly Speaking podcast, while asserting that about 90 per cent of Nigerian celebrities have had Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgery.

When asked if she knew of any celebrity who has had plastic surgery but tries to make it look like their perfect body is as a result of exercising, Blessing immediately mentioned Nancy.

According to her, Nancy made the public, including herself (Blessing), believe that her hourglass figure was a result of regular exercise.

She noted that she bought a lot of gym wears and started working out at the gym to get Nancy’s kind of body, but it never worked.

Comedy Video: Mark Angel Comedy – Authentic Caretaker

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Popular Nigerian comedy group, Mark Angel Comedy drops a brand new comedy from the “Caretaker Series” and they tagged this one “Authentic Caretaker”.

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Nigerian man left confused after firefighters storm his house in US because of a fire alarm that went off while he was making Jollof rice (VIDEO)

A Nigerian man who is based abroad was left in a confused state after seeing that the Jollof rice he was making caused a state of panic in the building he resides.

The Nigerian man who is a filmmaker, took to his IG page to share how he was cooking Jollof rice and in the process of frying chicken, it got really smoky and this tripped off the fire alarm system.

Realizing that there was no fire anywhere else and that it was his smoke that set off the alarm, the man was confused as to how to tell occupants, who were already exiting the building because of the alarm, that it was his cooking that set off the alarm.

In the video he shared, occupants of the building are seen moving to an assembly point as they wait for the arrival of firefighters who stormed the place shortly after.

Sharing the video, the man wrote:

“How my sunday jollof rice cooking got Washington DC running to my apartment… when you see the jollof rice on the last slide plz tell me if it’s worth all this trouble”

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