“Don’t look down on a guy because of his present financial state” – Nigerian woman advises women; says she met her husband while he was working as a waiter
Mayowa Dudushewa Ekundayo, a mother of two has advised Nigerian women to never look down on a man because of his present financial state, as things could change for the better in the nearest future
She gave the advice today August 4, hoping it helps someone in a similar situation.
Her post reads ;
It was a day of joy when my husband bagged his PhD. I was very happy and fulfilled because we started the journey together!
When we met 6 years prior, he was doing his Masters programme but was struggling financially and had to support himself by working as a waiter in a restaurant.
I still said “Yes” to him when he asked me for a relationship because I saw beyond his present struggle.
I saw a man who had a vision, clear about his purpose, hard working and loved me. I was ready to “suffer” with him because I knew I would also “reign” with him. It was only a matter of time.
Many ladies today want a ready-made man. A man they would not need to “suffer” with but only “reign” with.
Please, don’t look down on a guy just because of his present financial state!
Don’t lose a great guy!
Don’t despise the days of humble beginnings.
I hope this helps someone?
Dr. Ekundayo is a New Zealand-based relationship coach, who is married to Internationally acclaimed Preacher and Motivational speaker, Dr. Samuel Ekundayo.
