A Nigerian lady has taken to her social media page to share her marital dilemma in her bid to find a solution to her failing marriage.

According to the lady, her husband wanted a boy-child, she could only give him a girl…then the husband became distant and after a while, his distance led her into the arms of another man (an old friend). The real problem now is that she is pregnant for the other man and she does not know what to do.

Read her ordeal below ;

I’m in trouble. My husband wants to leave me because we don’t have a boy. Yes he’s Igbo fyi

I am in a fix at the moment. I don’t no what to do. I’m an Edo lady who married an Igbo man. Yes , he’s Igbo but I love him so much. We have been married for 5 years now and dated for 2 years. I aborted 2 times when we were dating. He said he wasn’t ready then. We have 2 daughters currently, when my husband sees it’s a girl he leave the hospital in anger and goes to drink with his friends, he doesn’t come home. His mom and dad and sisters don’t even come to visit nor send a name or show interest in child naming ceremony, because they expect a boy. From the hospital like this I hear them speak their language, I don’t understand much. I can tell they are disappointed in me. My family do support me well. I have been on google its not my fault I swear. It’s the last seeds from what I read. After a while My husband once made me abort the last baby at 11 weeks, we were in the us. I cried and cried. I love him so much and he takes good care of me. Because it was a girl. TCTLSS…. in fear of God fear of love.

My current issue
My husband has been so distant from me. I decided to have an affair with an old friend of mine who was around me. I was going through a lot then, I was so big due to my weight and all. my body was not the same at all. I cried and cried, We started having sex. I later found out I was pregnant I knew the Child was for him not my husband, but I decided to make love to my husband and make sure he cum in me. My issue now is this , I am 13 weeks now and I check the gender and it’s a boy. I don’t know if I should be happy , because now that I have a boy my husband will love me and cherish me. But I feel like I betrayed him. So many thoughts going on in my mind. I don’t know what to do.

A journalist has taken to Twitter to share the rather inspiring story of a couple who fought all odds to be together and are now living happily ever after.

@truthfully83 on Twitter, took to his page to recount story of a young lady who neglected the advice of her friends and family, lost her well paying job in Nigeria to be with the love of her life in Ghana following a ghastly accident that left him bed-ridden for months.

Read as shared by @truthfully83 below,

A young Nigerian man who is based in Ghana, travelled home for the Christmas holidays. While in Nigeria, he met this beautiful lady, whom he fell in love with. She was skeptical, because she wasn’t too sure if he was actually single, couple with the fact, he is based in Ghana.

Reluctantly she said yes, but they should remain as friends, to know each other properly. Dude was cool with that, they kept talking until his holidays came to an end. So he travelled back to Ghana, to resume work.
While in Ghana, he text or call her on a daily basis.

They kept talking until she knew almost everything about him.
She fell in love, and the young man reciprocated. They were longing to meet each other, because they were both deeply in love. But there was a problem.
She works in Nigeria, why he works in Ghana. 8am-5pm both sides.

They both agreed to meet in December, when he will visit Nigeria next for holiday.
This was in February. They had about 10 months to make this a reality. In April that year, barely 5 moths into their long distance relationship, he had a gastly motor accident in Ghana.

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A Nigerian girl has taken to her social media page to reveal that she does not wish to get married in the future.

The lady said she’d preferably become a mistress to a wealthy married man on the condition that the wife will be aware, and will also be in a poly-amorous relationship with them.

She tweeted ;

I don’t want to be married, I just want to be a mistress to a wealthy married man whose wife is aware of our relationship & we all have crazy threesomes & I can even come babysit for them if they’re out together because I’m their trusted bestie & they’re both in love with me.

Below are some reactions from other social media users ;

Asiwaju wrote ;

This could be a lovely idea until you check the country you’re dreaming to have this fantasy. Even Nollywood no get such movie.

PrettySlim wrote ;

Please don’t do this in Nigeria they will gang up and use you for their next ritual

Rita wrote ;

There’s a kind of man God will bless you with you won’t want to share KNOWINGLY. Marriage is a bed of roses with thorns let’s just ask God to help us when it’s time to say Yes

Precious wrote ;

Something that Yoruba people call Iyawo Oga, Emi Oga, okan Oga.