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Please help me post this ASAP let people help me with a good advice cos i want run away to a place i don’t know. but notify me when posted pls… i have a girlfriend whom i loved that i can do anything for not minding borrowing if i don’t have just to make her happy, i met her this yr april she was living with her friend and she told me the girl is not fair with her, i have my own house but i can’t bring her to my house to stay with me cos i think its somehow inappropriate, so i borrow 250k and rented a selfcon apartment and furnished it for her, the problem now is that i haven’t pay back the money that i borrowed cos i lost my job while she don’t have any, i was the one taking care of her all these while, but she learned hairdressing but said she can’t work under anybody unless she opens her own. now she is pregnant for me insisting that she cannot abort it,(all on my head).

Now i want to run away to a place i don’t even know cos i can’t bear it anymore. pls i need your advice what should i do?

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173 COMMENTS

  17. In this economy situation, I think you have an evil spirit called, Near success syndrome, how could you borrow such amount that would have earned you a small scale business, instead, you invested it in bank of regrets, which is popularly known as beard beard bank. You need deliverance.

  18. Borrow again, but did time include money for antenatal, delivery,baby milk nd diapers so you will know how much you will need. Hope you have collateral sha,cos you need plenty money

  26. What’s your account details?? I will help now but dnt repeat this nonsense nxt time…am helping cos of the baby ur woman is carrying….send ur bank details to me immediately

  28. If you loved her this much, why didn’t marry her at once, that way you’ll live in one house, instead of wasting money on her extra house? And why can’t you payback? Did you lost your job? Don’t you have any source of income? I don’t understand!!!

  35. Oh man! Wetin dey do u is from your village. Ancestral spirits from ur village are responsible. You need deliverance but you must borrow again to pay me so that the spirits will be cast out. Yeye man!

  50. Let her look for who to work wit seems she can make hair there’s no need for abortion let her keep the baby money will come losing ur job is not the end of ur life pray tht God Wil provide another job for u so u can take care of ur pregnant girl friend

  59. It’s obvious you faked your life , that was why you borrowed that money when you knew u really can’t afford it. Anyways, open up to her and involve ur family members to assist until she deliver. With time u guys will be fine and get married .

  70. Impressing a girl is d last thing any guy should do. I met a girl some years ago in KEFFI nasarawa state, don’t want to mention name, I really love her, but wen I showed he much I love her, I noticed she hangs out with oda guys, she knew am aware, it really hurt me but wat will I do I went into d toilet in my place of work, I cried, few minutes lata she called me & noticed I was crying she asked wat d problem was I told her am crying becos of us & he much I love her but she’s seeing oda guys, she laughed & told me to wipe tears, & further said DAT no woman is worth dying 4. Since den am very careful to show hw much I love a woman. Now my point is not all girls will damn u despite wat u did, some will appreciate. Now she’s pregnant but believe me had it been she’s not pregnant she would HV probably show u d stuff she’s made off. But I want to ask a question are u really d owner of d pregnancy?

  72. I also met a girl 8 years ago in lagos, pardon me I don’t want to mention name or state of origin in dis case too. Wen we met I was actually working in an hotel where I make gud money too den, she lost her job, I decided to be paying her, her salary, d same amount she dey receives from d video club she works, d moment I slept with her, I lost my job DAT week. Now to guys d sexual immorality we commit, destroys our years of labour. To my broda just ask God 4 mercy, am sure he will not leave u like dis in dis condition if u are sincerely sorry 4 d act of fornication committed, asking 4 mercy is one but not going back to d same act is d most important thing. Again ask 4 mercy sincerely & u will c d face of God

  82. You see you have pleased your girlfriend and displease yourself, men nawoo for you people ooooh instead of you to open up and tell her that you don’t have money you are playing big boy now the money is not there again my advice to you is you and your wife should pack your things and go to the village were you have free house and start farm work to help yourself, because even if you kill yourself no body is ready to help you

  89. My brother no body holy pass, swallow the shame, start up life with her, tell the one u borrowed from to give u some time to work out the money and pay him back, but in all be prayerful to God, He’s a a merciful God , He will surely have mercy on u and beautify ur face again.

  117. Very simple guy continue the borrowing game. Only a foolish Guy would think of putting a girl in his house without earning a Dollar to his name. Guy stop the fake life or u re still going to borrow money to cater for her and your baby needs?

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