Odikwa, this one is beyond me!

This WhatsApp conversation is of a lady who is currently in a dilemma about what to do with her fiance who asked her to return a Range Rover Sport and N20m that was given to her by her ex for her wedding.

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  7. Esther Remy Okenwa return fire. U said it all if na man he will never ever return it and he ready to let his wife goes no matter how many kids dey have. Forget d talk of return is not possible oh.whn people never enter power na them dey say people bad but if them enter them go know d power that fellows it if u say come down na them go fit kill u self. So I say talk is cheap make he dey happen to all those who are saying return return na them u go know say talk cheap

  8. Y would he ask that?i believe you went though a lot with ur ex…good times and bad times. Giving u those gifts would not make u go after him…for heaven’s sake u r already engaged to ur man and he should not get scared cuz of those gifts. i believe he knows what u can do n what u cannot,as your man if he has that trust and you trust yourself too…i c nothing wrong with those gifts .

  9. Ur ex can still be ur friend as long as that sex is not involved, is not a most that who ever u date u most marry, but if the both of u are no longer dating or sexing,and he give u a gift when u told him that u want to marry then don’t return it,if it is ritual he can still do that with small gift,or on ur wedding day he can just give u a small gift that can still kill u n ur husband to be,if he loves u he has to trust u,for a marriage to function trust must be there.n if he said he don’t want to marry u then leave him,start up a new life,I no u will get married to some one that can trust u,as long as u keep n respect ur self.those guys should stop saying woman do this woman do that,they are the worse, a woman can keep her self only for her hubby but a married man will still be going out with other women saying that they want to change soup.

  11. If u say ur “husband” I understand but fiancé Big No. He should become a husband b4 ordering u around. But how come d wedding gift have arrived yet d groom is still called a FIANCÉ. Na story ur ex de find o! Pls return it after ur wedding have lasted 4 5yrs. And if ur fiancé don’t want to marry u, let him live u for ur ex, I hope his not married.

  17. But if na me, the only way I will return such gift is if my fiance is a big boy and he is worth morthan the gift from my ex. But if na one young hustling guy wey just they manage life, I won’t return it because the money for that car alone can change I and my fiance’s life for good.

  27. return it immediately. what is it nija gals want to eat from both side. very bad. accepting those gift at first shows you don’t value your relationship. must u collect gift from your ex. just tell me say your ex still dey fuk u

  33. Omo, leave matter. I no dey return. If d so called fiancé is my husband, he won’t be so jealous to ask me to return a gift. Gift is gift, wht of if it was not from my ex? If I hear say I return am.fire

  36. Why will you return it after chase men that would have married her with the so called fiance name. What is gotten from relationship is not meant to be return… my dear keep it

  42. Me go just collect gift and moni,liquidise d range and kip it in a cool account…den continue daily life with fiance.wnt tell him oo cos i know men are soooo insecure wen a lady handles moni mor dan dem.

  44. you say “FIANCE” haha i laugh! He want replace d motor & d money? Bcoz na d only reason fr me to return dem o. Fr dis naija, wey he never be HUSBAND? abeg if na joke stop am.

  45. My dear this is an innocent gift. What is wrong with guys this gift means that you are a good person and valued. But for peace sake sell it and keep the money and your mouth shut this is recession and he is not your husband yet.

  47. ur fiance father if he eva say dat to u again kill him an d one sayin kill him…. am a guy bt cn neva say dat to my wife wat is my business an I only advice her to bcearful an nt to return waitin.. once again ur fiance father..

  50. Oyema, know matter what you think. Taking a it from your ex is an indirect way of insulting your current man. And shows an individual who is not firm at decision. Besides, something seperated you both. If you were both good to good, why did you seperate? Any, if you current man can’t have the mean for that car maintenance, you sure will always fall to your ex. Unstable personality, can’t marry such a lady cos it will never last

  64. Hush! Am so confused, but seriously the fiance is saying his mind. My advice is that she should give up the car and as for the cash, she can keep it in a separate personal bank account and forget it for the mean time, because returning it might make the other FWB guy feel bad. There is nothing to put into prayer here because she involved herself in it. And she should stop further communications with the ex so that her fiance will not be mad at her, the ex is married and can never marry her but her fiance is there to stay for her. It’s so complicated shaa.

  66. 20 millions naira only with that little range old model 2015, how ever hold on why on earth did he want you to return it?. Since who gave it to you not bothering you. My advice to you is leave it.

  67. Oya nah @onyemaIfunanya as u dey date for d future.. Go to d ex.. N get married to him.. What’s d symbol of d gift for?.., do u know gift like is 4 an exchange of smthing.. D ex wants da gal back to him, or perhaps continue having smthing with da gal!, we guys re very trickish.. N knows well hw to win a gal soul, gradually someday smthing might come out of it.. U know it wella, so don’t claim jjc here!

  71. See people telling the lady to return the gift. Come to think of it, what if the ex is already engaged/married and just gave her as a gift maybe for the couple (about to be) cos obviously she can’t spend it alone. In the first place, if there was an ulterior motive, she wouldn’t discuss it with her fiance, she can always keep the car with her family and spend the money alone, buh then, she discussed it and you ask her to return it????. Hell no!. You gas check that fiance very well cos obviously will be a jealous type. So she can’t hit a jackpot after marriage and tell her hubby??? She will return it??? . Finally, there are two thing involved, if there are no motives behind, she shouldn’t return it and check the bros (fiance) well. Guys saying return it should ask themselves, “if i was in her shoes, would I”???. #Peace

  73. Why would someone reject a gift from a friend -be it ex or not!! If you have nothing against him, then what stops you from accepting his gift? It’s not a crime bro. The last time I checked,any random person can give u a wedding gift. You guys are busy complaining on behalf of the ex. I wonder

  74. Sometimes men becomes jealous even when they have nothing, for that woman to leave her ex nd except u without u given her any gift should be enough for d man to no how much she luvs him. 2, u don’t no his reason for that expensive gift, maybe she must have be d source of his success but not meant for each other, or they both contributed for things to work out for him. So u don’t just ask her to return d car, even if ur jealous she can give it to her blood if u don’t want her to use in ur house nd u should be ready to buy her a beta one if u have not i Don’t see anything bad in that, what if he gave her in cheque nd she didn’t tell u?

  76. I heard a story about one of our ex president when he was at school he was a girl both in the same school when the guy graduated they parted in peace the guy was now married likewise the lady. the man became president in dis country and remembered the girl he dated back in school due to the girls behaviour towards him back den in school although dey did not get married reasons best known to them the guy call the lady and gave her an appointment as a minister so the lady now being a good wife told her husband the offer given to her by her ex boyfriend the husband being some1 dat trusted his wife told her to accept de offer.she accepted it and still maintain a good wife so wat i want to say is that u should treat ur spouse as if they are gold so that tomorrow they will remember ur good deeds and pay u back even if he did not marry u he is not an enemy.

  78. My dear ! In mine own view, this person you called you fiance has come to destroy your happiness.
    He is doing all this now what about in the future when you gotten married to him I guess it will be like hell fire for you.
    Just bring your self together and ask you self questions.
    It takes you years to build the relationship and you wakeup this morning to destroy it….. My dear open the door for him to go away now before is too late……..

  100. Fiance not a husband oh! Tomorrow u will dump her for no reasonable reasons, yet u won’t afford that gift for her, pls is after marriage u will decide for her for now she is still single let her have her gift, she can desire to leave it for her family so that u can buy her ur own if u have d money, but for once let her enjoy her single lady life is too short. Men are wicked

  102. Like seriously ,….. NA una dey make men nor dey trust ladies at all so … U just they tell public and your man say U fit leave am for ex because of car and money …. Even if NA Fiance … Does that make him less a man with feelings ? Some of you I understand are insecure … That’s the only explanation I can give … Your boyfriends deserver better … Like seriously ,..

  103. Is ur fiance or enemy of progress ready 2 give u 40m..a G wagon 2017 model..and a diamond ring worth $33million…if no..u dnt need a prophet 2 tell u..u need change in ur life…even Buhari must probe u…

  112. Why is painting most is that, most guys ladies date don’t even no who their gfs survive, can’t even care for them talk more of buying them toothpick, yet open wide their mouth to condition ladies, women Don suffer for men, well is for those who don’t no their worth. fuck that fiance!

  120. Husband or fiance, I no dey return fadin. Shwoooo, see me see wahala. In this economic recession? That fiance get ulterior motives o abi dem swear for am? I no many guys go rain insults on me for one but who cares anyway. Oshi omadale kpako

  121. Sure
    The aroma of that money will not fade from the girls memory so its going to make her want more (the power of money).wot if the fiance has nt climbed to the point of 10m, then she will want to compare.She can disrespect the fiance wen they get married to respect the sugar daddy cos of that money… (Not her will, but the power of Money)

  128. brotherly plsssssss be sincere small na y all dis pretence y? make I ask u dis question if dat babe na ur only sister base on dis buhari goverment one guy give ur sister 20m 1st con join Range u go tell her 2 return am bcos her fiance dey craze? or jealous? y u dey form bro’s y?

  134. return fire? I pray o. Even now a days husband go covert d name shapely u dey talk of fiance wen never know were our relationship dey go. dis is 9ja abeg make we no dey form 4 here say I’ll return it cos seriously e no dey happen 4 9ja lols if na abroad now dey d story fit different ok. but as 4 me hmmmmmmm na strong claiming tin ahead

  136. Anita Akpos oh God will bless u…..someone is talking sense……some girls here are not looking past the money….nd it’s too bad…if u r not ready for marriage back down nd continue enjoying d money….it’s very simple…..thank u dear

  138. Benny Okoroh ,.. Buhari hardship nor go come make people get sense again ? Happiness is the state of the mind , not money ….. As I nor get money here , I happy pass some people when get the money die … So make she enjoy the peace of mind by returning it ….

  139. U are not serious@DON Michael,a flirt is flirt,even if she return the cash and the range rover,if she still want to flirt wit her ex,she will,returning those gift is not a guarantee that she will not see her ex again,and she can still keep the gifts and decide not to see the ex again,and she will not see him again,my dear,we women have the will power to stop wat we don’t want anymore,there is still good women around,this lady is the one that told the fiance abt the gifts remember,is not as if the man found out himself,the lady is sincere,some will not tell u about it and trust me bro,u will never find out until u get old

  141. If your ex want you to return such luxury vehicle and gift. Then he should first buy you xtimes 2 of those gifts and G wagon 2016 or Bentley. If after doing this and u still fail to return it, oh I will be the first person to flog you but without that abeg still dey enjoy your range ooooo. Don’t allow one man turn you to foot wagen.

  145. Bro abeg nor mind all this ladies, it’s this kind of ladies that can kill their man just to inherit property bcos they wanna become landlady n start collecting rent…the guy given the gift, the lady should ask him one question if someone give the girl u r about to marry such gift how would they feel? Would they suspect foul play… how do u explain to your man nothing is going on btw u n ur ex…remember road wen u don first pass is very very easy to pass again. ..na wen dog nor no u e go dey bark wen u wan enter compound

  147. Bukky na wahala person dey for this our country boys or men hand, the way their brain works tire me. Anyways they know the kind of the women they go after. I will sell the suv, and share the money with my sugar boo boo. It’s a gift, and not the kind that I can reject. Any man who cannot trust that I will never sleep with any other man, is not worthy of me.

  148. mitch glo just as money thosen’t make u happy, it brings happiness 2 some others. if returning it will make her happy I don’t think she’ll b needing our advise here and as for me an ex giving me a gift shows dat I wasn’t bad 2 him circumstances made us path. if she stated dat her bad ex gave her dis gift n her good fiance ask her 2 return it den d case is clear but rite now we’re judging from our conclusion so I don’t see any reason y I should return it cos from were I come from in 9ja we don’t reject gift wealther good or bad . it has nothing 2 do with hardship of riches it’s a gift

  152. This is how people will take their two leg and walk into Hell… You guys are not yet married and his lording you left and right, what will happen when he eventually marries you. Or what if he tells you that his mum found out that you’ve dated a sugar daddy and vow that you’ll never be his son’s wife???
    Better go to where you’re celebrated oooooooooo

  155. My dear, u no d truth urself. Pls do return d car and money. Put urself in ur fiance shoes, I belt u won’t like dat. In dis present world, no man would like dat idea bcos it will look like ur still dating d ex guy. If u want ur ex u go for him and if u don’t, u cut off dat is it and always learn not to sit on d fence bcos it dangerous.

  158. Benny Okoroh NA this same reason many babes done die …because them done use them for rituals …. Because of wealth that they prefer to die with …. Like it is , its all about opinion …. I heard your opinion .. Good for you ….. I just hope your current man will smile when he sees this your comment … Lolzzzzzzzzz… Peace

  163. this is why must girls are so secretive about their relationship and earning…. assuming she never told d so called fiance about her sugar daddy or all he gave her… will there be problem now? Men should try to appreciate a woman that tells them everything about themselves and learn to trust them in their relationship…

  164. Behold old things have passed away,behold all things have become new….a parted give is given by ex- boyfriend’s too,is it because its from sugar daddy? What about all the services she had rendered, if you work in an office won’t you collect gratitude/retirement benefits, in pension? That ex- has a lot of complexes, moreover,did that ex met her a poor virgin or beggar..? Women should learn to keep shut that lipstick tapwater mouth of ours.! Men will never tell you their source of wealth,probably when on dying/sick bed.! God forbid return..so will the sugar daddy returned all the pained and banging, he had done under her..! Vanity upon vanity,both the money from sugar daddy and new man,are the same..girls should stop kiss and tell..! The spirit man in control..by the religious advise she should return ALL and let no man sleep with you until after wedding night..! And she should confess ALL and start believers lesson..and get baptism by immersion… Then start a brand new life…! Did I speak well???

  165. Are u still seekin advice, pls dat ring of its still in ur middle finger n focus on how God wants to change ur life completely…ur fiancè might b dat household enemy ur pastor has been saying…say NO to d devil now! !

  166. U are still seekin for advice?, pls drop dat ring in ur middle finger and Focus on how God wants to change ur life…. dat ur fiancè might b d household enemy ur pastor has been talkin abut, say NO to d devil now!!!!

  171. Babe is ur relationship u are talking about bcos money is not everything and if u go back to ur ex, he may think dat u came back bcos of d money he gave to u. So be wise

  172. Cheechee u must be a gold digger, why can’t u work as ur followed girl’s do, girl’s like can’t stay husband house, material tinz make someone like u to end up being baby mama?, nonsense

  176. GOD PUNISH ANY SO CALLED HUSBAND THAT WILL ASK ME TO RETURN 20,000,000.AND LATEST RANGEROVER.SOME MEN JUST WANT U TO BE SO LOW TO ALWAYS LOOK UP TO THEM AS GOD.ODI EGWU HUSBAND GBAKWA OKU

  180. The fool is not even husband yet, oya return 20M and range and work the street for the rest of ur life. we will kneel down and be praying to God fooooor helper and now helper has come but one devil want u to return it. what is he feeling like, fiance and not even husband. Iranu radarada.

  181. My dear,don’t return it,if truly he loved you he should get you sumfin even bigger than d one ur ex bought for you,he is an of progress. Move on Grl if he cnt cope with the luxury he can as well work out for a better guy to come inn.

  182. First have you ever disclose to fiance about ur ex,if u ve then ur communication wit ur ex dlis he awear mind nothing goes for nothing ur ex dont want to loss u,so he wants to do anything 4 u to be in is mind remember true love dont ask 4 money,if u love ur fiance den stop looking about over side distraction accept u ve long eyes.

  189. My dear it’s gift don’t return anything,is it because you re open to him,if you had hidden the truth from him,he wouldnt have known.I believe he too should have a past too which he did not tell you.women with light brain when it comes to love.Abeg park your range well and your money, times are really hard.Both of you will need that money in future.He can’t just handle the fact that your ex is bigger than him,na jealousy dey worry am

  192. Chichi Unachukwu and Co .. Make I ask una … How will you people feel when you hear that current boyfriend or husband bought range rover and gave 20million naira to his ex as a gift ? …. Waiting for your answer

  193. WOMEN SHOULD CALM DOWN….

    what am seeing this last times are not marriage n d rate of divorce in marriages of today is too high n it’s just because of a lil something or sacrifice.
    Babe I know so many of ur friends n women will advice u not to return it. I know it’s something u were given as a gift before u met ur fiancée or husband,, I know it’s too hard for u to do dat but I still wanna remind u dat bible said u re supposed to b submissive n under ur man,, to love,, respect n obey him always. I wanna ask… Is dat car n money worth more dan d love u guys share..?? Is dis how dis marriage will be..?? Remember what it took him to choose u n what it took u to accept,, this is a test for love n do not let him down in d eyes of GOD N ENTIRE WORLD,, is this kinda foundation u will lay for ur future daughters to disrespect their men..?? Do not allow d devil to laugh at u,, those whom re advising u negatively will not stand by ur side to pay d price when karma comes after u cos whatever anyone did ,,he or she must account for it,, imagine if dat guy was too rich dat he has believed he can’t get a real woman dat will love him not for his money,, u proved him wrong n he decided to disguise himself n give u this final taste…he might b d one dat is setting u up,, even if he is not,, play ur role as a TRUE VIRTUOUS WOMAN dat GOD created u to b n do d right thing. So many will wish to hv true love dan money n don’t otherwise ur love away… I won’t want u to start seeing this as if u hv lost out by returning it but see it dat u won,, if people sees u as d most foolish woman,, accept it cos foolish people progresses more in life,, in BIBLE SHEEPS were used as an example n sheep were seen as d most foolish animal but yet GOD choosed them…BE WISE,, BE A GOOD WOMAN N PUT UR HOME IN OTHER COS GOD GAVE WOMEN KEY N POWER TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE..

  194. Some people sha ex is ex if she don’t av something in common with so claim ex he won’t av gone that far to buy her expensive shit as gift….if u are done with a man u move on not still dangling on his bed and coming out to say he is my ex and still collecting gift ……girls dey lie sha……..

  197. My dear gf dat ur so called fiance is an enemy of progress and i tink he is jealous dat u are richer dan he is don’t even tink of returning anything but if ur fiance can give u double of Wat dat man gave u den u can return it but if nt and u do as he said my dear (Oyo) is ur case

  204. Except ur fiance av paid ur dowry bfo he has such authority over you….2ndly, he s only a jelos strick, he s threatened by d gifts which seems too good to be true n thinks you ll leave him then go back to ex. So u decide….

  205. Y did your x left u idiot,if him like u so much and can buy u this things y not stay with you,becus him new u are not good to marrie but good to sleep with,u pple should learn,what ur x is trying to tell you is that,your Frederic no get level,

  208. Mumu guy they talk any how use your brain some of you are to good in say what you can’t do just because you think you are wise most of you are living by the help of sugar mummy and you still use her money to buy your girlfriend gift now you want her to return the gift her ex give to her girl that guy no one marry you, he is jealous of him that why you self naa mumu how you see suffer head go like am you won die of poverty try am make your father remove your name for family

  219. Hmm Some people can be silly sometimes u know… Return 20M n range Rover…. I don’t him him neither do I no y he wants his gift back but I know something for sure,
    1) It was a gift, He gave you willingly ….u never forced him ie if I go by d definition of GIFT….
    2)you guys where into a relationship that means u two had something in come for him to have given such gift…
    3)U may have failed him in one way or the other, Best known to him….So My candid advice to u is to seat him down explain to him that he has no right to ask u to return a gift he willingly bought for u but due to ur Godly heart this is the little u can return and next time my dear always cut ur coat according to ur size… When u were dating a rich Nigga n he was spoiling u with prestigious gift u nv remembered to think otherwise bah? For Christ sake u not yet married CHANGE is sure ….even marriage breaks..

  230. Let him marry you first,buy you another range,and rent a comfortable appart for you,but the other problem is that you re still seing if not it s just on phone that you discuss and he transfer the money to you? He may be hearing or seing somethings for instance no man ll like his fiance his wife to be to be called every 30 mins or maintaining a solid relationship with his ex oo. U need to tell us the whole truth

  235. Hmmm as for me I don’t tink u should return those gift’s bcos the guy is not even married to u yet and he can still dump u tomorrow, and I don’t tink he can give u all those gift’s ur ex gave so if he truly loves u he should go on with de wedding or u guy’s should split up, besides why does it ve to be women to

  241. Don’t mind him….. And be careful with him… Be wise OK…. Give him this conditions unless he come and everything that proves he is your husbby. Let’s see how it goes….. Don’t return anything….. Establish your family with those things OK…. In case if anything happens, you can still start up with those things. Good luck

  245. pls for me I will not return anything,that fiance is just jails he thought u will live he for u ex anger,pls bros live her alone, she is a blessing to u,God have pass thought her ex to blessed u.

  248. The guy no well at all. A girl you have not paid her bride price ,you are giving impossible conditions to. The girl should look herself well in the mirror and tell herself if she really needs this so called fiancé.

  256. Lolz … Things that love make u do …. Girl get over it. U want to eat ur cake and have it to …. Not possible .. But since u are in this condition … There is one thing to do … Ur FWB wishes u well and is cool with ur getting married … So that is one reason u shouldn’t give it up … Your bf z just being unreasonable … Sometimes u have to remember that love can’t get u everything … Girl … If I were u I’d ditch this love … I mean if he can’t accommodate ur lifestyle … Then this was not meant to be … U deserve happiness not some shit headache of a fiance #no_make_mistake_o

  266. Men!. Some of you girls typing what I don’t even understand don’t really know what we men are made of. Bet me, if that girl don’t return those gift, that her ex will surely come back to disturb her sooner or later and if she resist, he will threaten her or even ask her to return it. Man can’t give out a huge amount of money to a girl without having something in mind. This word “ex” is very dangerous sword

  267. The guy dey mad? It’s not a marriage but imprisonment if she eventually enter such man’s roof all in the name of marriage still fiancee not husband. Return what my foot.

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