Nollywood actress, Jemima Osunde has taken to Twitter to gush over her colleague and best friend for life, Adesua Etomi.
Jemima while speaking on quality friendships, said the mother of one who is married to singer, Banky W, has been an amazing friend to her and notices when something is wrong with her even if she’s not present.
Advising her over hundred thousand followers on the micro-blogging platform, the 26-year-old actress said they should not get too comfortable with being the receiver in their friendships/relationships as it doesn’t take a lot to be a committed friend.
She tweeted,
Even if I sneeze different, Adesua will sense it and ask what’s wrong with me . A hawk!!! Lmao! The day I had my emergency surgery, this babe wasn’t even in the country and she just knewwww something was wrong with me. She video called me immediately.
I was there holding the phone to my nose to hide my hospital gown . She caught me red handed!
Amaka moved her flight and flew to Nigeria because I needed someone to go somewhere with me.
Don’t allow yourself get too comfortable with always being the receiver in a relationship/friendship. It shouldn’t always be about you. Sometimes, focus on the other person. Especially when it’s someone that’s always perceived as “strong”. They deal with things too I promise.
And no! It’s not selfish to expect your closest friends to know when something’s not right with you. Those are the people that are supposed to know you the most! Deeply and truly! And vice Versa
It’s not that hard to be dedicated to a person truly. Friendship or relationship. I pray you find the right people to hold your hands through all the good and not so good things that come with life. It’s truly the best thing.”
