A Nigerian writer, Oyinkansola Alabi has opined that husbands get dumped by their wives after relocating abroad because the men are harsh and patriarchal.
Oyinkansola stated in a tweet on the microblogging platform, Twitter that divorces between Nigerian spouses in Western nations are a result of the men’s behavior.
She argued that if their spouse treated them fairly and justly when they were in Nigeria, no rational woman would break up with him.
She wrote;
“I keep seeing tweets about some women dumping their men abroad. The truth is evil has no gender so anyone can switch up on you. Men have been dumping their wives for “papers” since the world began.
Secondly, a good woman who is treated well will most likely not switch up on you. The truth some of you need to accept is you were unkind, unsupportive, and patriarchal to your woman while you were in Nigeria, and you received your report card abroad.
No normal human will stay with a wicked soul. If you are wicked to your partner abroad they will dump you so please stop this emotional blackmail about women dumping their partners.
Yes, women are dumping their horrible partners and more of it will happen if the men refuse to be human. You are no longer in the lawless crime scene called, Nigeria.”
