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The lady pictured above is accusing her ex-husband of beating her up in front of their son.

She made the allegation on Facebook earlier. What she wrote below:

I got the beatings of my life today in front of my son, just because I visited my son. I can’t keep quiet anymore because my life I at stake, I’m posting this here because I don’t know what will happen to me next.

My ex husband told me he will kill and bury me and nothing will happen to him. I can’t tell my mum about this trait because of her health.

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  1. You called him your EX. That means you did something or something happened before you got a divorce letter. So what offence did you commit that separated you both. Because am not gonna say sorry to you.

    • It takes the grace of God for one not to loose his temper in marriage and stuff like this. The lover boys/men wey dey form say them no dey touch woman they do them wetin pass beating…it is not good to hit a woman but women should also learn how to avoid provoking their husband/ex unnecessarily…we should endeavor to b sincere and realistic-u don’t talk to a man anyhow because u know it is bad for him to touch u no matter what.He deserves your respect no matter what because he is the head and may be older.He deserves it the same way u deserve his love and care…just today my friend was telling me what his wife has been doing to him…I was speechless butadvised him never to touch her.The story was painful and irritating to hear and only d guy’s type can tolerate n manage the girl sorts.If he hit or push her out she will come out to tell the world how devilish guys are because she knows that people will side and sympathize with her…If some men are bad,some women are also bad-I have seen a lot that is y I said earlier that it take the grace of God for u not to over react…Men pray u don’t meet a devilish wives the same way u women should pray never to meet such husbands too…

    • If you marry your own definitely one day must b problem send Him to prison but my advice is learn how to keep your family more especially when children is involve not to advising Her to put more fire on Her marriage, women must b submissive to her husband that’s one thing you shouldn’t forget.

  23. No matter what A woman does it’s morally unjust to hit her. If a woman does wrong and a man hits her, she automatically becomes right.

    I don’t care to know the reason why she separated from her husband he’s wrong for hitting the woman who gave him a son.

    A man who hits a woman is a weak man. Say NO to domestic violence against women! ✌

  26. I tink u shuld go to d police cos d threats r very serious. Because personally i feel u hve all d right to dat boy he is ur son too. D man didnt give birth to hom alone, and in as much as u pple r no more he still needs to allow u access to ur son

  30. Hmm.i can’t really say anything cos u can’t judge a book with the back, meaning dat I don’t know d full details about the story.my dear a Frog doesn’t run in d afternoon for no reason,but no matter what u did, he doesn’t supposed t beat u (no a reasonable man wld beat a woman no matter Wat) dere are many ways to kill a rat.#irestmycase

    • @Jimmy Egbenaloben Dee-y.are u serious? Hmm..infact I am speechless wit dis ur comment.so she has become a kid dat u can correct a mistake from beating? I can see dat u really have a long way to go and to b mature bcos it’s only boys dat beats their woman and not real men.

    • Just like you said,we all don’t know the genesis of the story,but if the woman also said the man is an ‘X’ , then think it. A lot has gone wrong between them. She has to accept the fact that she’s a woman no matter how high she can fly. Don’t forget ,she also went to the mans house. Was she permitted to come? What was her manner of approach while there??? A lot transpired.

  34. If ur son is a minor, and u r capable of taking care of him, report d case to welfare n get ur son bk. If not, let d dad train him, bcos he will definately cm looking for u. Its just a matter of time.

  35. Am really lost for words to say, since you guys are no longer together I will advise you stop visiting your son at his house, go elsewhere or see him outside his house, secondly you have to be very careful talk to authorities too, reach an agreement with him to have access to your son, make sure it’s sign, most importantly don’t go to his house again for the main time

    • The first woman who has spoken the truth forgetting she’s also a woman. You know a woman when she talks. Keep the good heart dear. Haba… I don’t know why people are failing to tell her the truth. They have both moved on,so going to the mans house shouldn’t be at her own will,he has to permit her. Period.

  38. I CAN’T JUDGE BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED ….BUT FOR THE MAN THAT SAYS THAT HE WILL KILL U AND NOTING WILL HAPPENED TO HIM ….HMM ..IS LIKE HE GET TWO LIFE OUT OF THE ONE HE IS LEAVING NOW …..

  40. If you know you’re a women and not yet ready to b submissive you better back out into to, what are we urging? you will not tell me a Women will meet all needful that Man required nothing will stop the Man by appreciating the women let’s face the reality any reasonable women shouldn’t think of dragging with his husband this is just the truth about the whole matter.

    • You are so quick to take sides. What if the man was the one on the wrong? What if this beating is just one of the many that she got thus forcing her to leave? Women have been beaten even when the man was on the wrong supposedly to make the woman know who’s in charge. Even if she ran her mouth, no self respecting man beats a woman, a coward beats a woman.

    • You haven’t entered into marriage and e dey you like this I have married with four kid’s the truth can’t hid if you eventually you haven’t married seek the grace of God bcos marriage is friendship God made it to b like that no one is salve what I’m saying is learn how to b submissive to your husband that’s the key of marriage if anyone advising you to start urging with your husband is a devil bcos two captain badly stay together you can call me names but is just the simple truth else you’re ready to have broken home !!!! I say it again real Men doesn’t though they need it toooo love sex!! But the most is respect come with submissive please don’t play to have marriage problem and more of exam the every man you want to spend your life with and if you have problem in your home it doesn’t make sense to push it to social media let me tell you about my own family sometime I do have problem with My wife bcos I cherish her but one’s the problem raise you will see her quite another thing is she will tell me I should remember that she Love me no one is above mistake I should pardon immediately I will even love her more than I do before not to put fire do you hear that girl complaints my ex_ I Summersault to finish when I hear girl talk like this you have no shame since you dump Him you should go close to him with permit bcos your no more trusted if that kid is important for you I don’t think you will left or if I may say what you commit is unadaptable that Rio into sending parking you should know you’re not welcomed or you leave him to another preferably Man what do you expect him you eventual you have become a traitor or if you want to go back to him I think we have tradition meanwhile go and tell your people about these matter before Facebook my ashole.

  44. Totally against domestic violence pls go to the nearest police station and make a complain or go to OPD surulere they will handle it for u notting will make u not to be seeing ur son……. Real men don’t abuse a woman no matter wat…

    • Will you leave your job and go intruding into peoples homes? Tell the woman clearly to stay away from the mans house since they are divorced. She needs permission to go there.

  48. Can a mother forgets her child ??? This is a mothers lov,we cant blame her no mattet what..my dear take heart because of the love u hav for yr son and bear it,,God will surely see you through my darling ..report the case at once cus yr life is astake..

  56. The man is mad…no sane man beats up a woman not to talk of a wife…but you as a wife should ask yourself if you were doing what you ought to be doing and you are not with your husband or your child… Women must learn to wives and not husbands as many who want you to be husbands are either not married or from broken homes or even lesbians… Life is not easy but you can fit in by managing the situation… I expect women to attack me for saying this but who you epp… As you end up the one from a broken marriage or a failed marriage… There is no made in heaven marriage, people manage situations and cope with things… Even God at some point regretted creating man…. Human being is not easy to manage…

    • What a load of blasphemy!! Absolutely ridiculous. Human being are not easy to manage? Have never heard of that bullshit before. Making human sound like animal or material. You don’t manage relationship. Everybody deserves happiness and if you’re not happy you walk away.
      Don’t get me wrong, life is not bed of roses but there is a limit of trash one can take in life.

    • Haabaaa!!!.how would you feel seeing your beloved kid sis like this several times N she’ll tell you that she will manage??..if he finally kills her won’t you blame her for her death…brother the Bible made us to understand that a woman should love her husband, husband love your wife…did the Bible tell you that Esther managed her marriage, Abi Ruth?…Brother marriage is meant to be enjoyed with great joy…not managed…oh ha

    • I don’t understand ur comment completely…u were going on and off point. No matter how badly behaved you thought she could be, no body deserves to be beaten up anyhow, more so wife or ex wife. That man is crazy, I hope she gets help from the right people.

  58. You went there 2 show power because u feel u know how 2 talk 2 much. If u have gone there responsively he will not act inresponsively 2 you. Go and tell him sorry 4 what u said 2 him before that is makin him angry so that there wil be peace and then u can go and see your son anytime. You are lucky he did not break your mouth for you.

  63. Ds is on fair but then 4give him & leave everything 2 God of yr day 1 wt him by human judgement thunder should strike him dead .yr worst enemy may later be yr best friend by then love will close yr mouth shot from tell us d season 2 of d ugly scenerio turns beautiful testimony plz don’t allow d wish of people in mouth battle 4 u make u a widow tell it 2 Jesus alone

  64. It’s not easy dealing with dis kinda situation,, dats y sometimes I pity n respect women a lot n not all men can do dat but a man dat acknowledged dat a woman gave birth to him. First d man was wrong beating u up,, but to me d world has advanced. Report d case to a FEMALE HUMAN RIGHT LAWYER cos she herself will TRUELY n SINCERELY UNDERSTAND UR PAINS n dat will mk her to use everything possible to fight d man. Let ur lawyer meet him, if he refuses then let d court take charge n don’t forget to always PRAY for GOD’s GUIDANCE,, WISDOM,, INTERVENTION N PROTECTION, make SURE U PUT HIM FIRST. I know u re gonna hv lots of REGRETS how FRIENDS TURNED ENEMIES N HOW BESTIES TURNED EXES, how u guys were before. We all mkz MISTAKES but I believe GOD ALLOWED IT COS HE WILL SETTLE IT. STOP CRYING NWANYI OMA.. SO FAR UR HEART IS PURE N U NEVER DID HIM WRONG,, D GOD OF WOMEN WILL SURE SPEAK FOR U N U WILL SMILE N PRAISE HIM AT LAST. THIS IS ONE OF D REASON I DO PRAY TO GOD TO BLESS ME COS CASES LIKE THIS IS SUPPOSED TO B TAKEN UP N B SETTLED. ITS WELL

  66. My dear don’t mind him jux ve focus on wt ever u r doing for living.believe me he will come b4 u to render an apology for beating u.Neva loose hope
    Keep praying for him n ur son as well
    Help both of dem physically n spiritually
    Be watchful

  67. Why are you still parading yourself where he will always be seeing you, or are you intentionally showcasing yourself to enable him notice that you doing well. See life has no duplicate, he will kill you and just go to jail for some few years and regain his freedom, if don’t run for your dear life.

  69. Human defender or human right ga ada ya oku ya ahu na anya. Whether your ex or your present. They wouldn’t want to hear that. Stupid woman barter. I know how you feel my dear. I have experienced such a thing but trust me the fellow slept in kirikiri. Just go through my wall and see. Thank God for human right. I dealt with him in a manner he will never ever forget in life. Don’t keep calm except you want to die untimely, you don’t beat a woman and get away like that nomater what.

  79. Am so sorry m lady sm men shaa just lack words,go on your kneels and if there is means go get your son back and train him yourself dnt leave him for any EX Ass hole to take care of

  82. Pls tell us the Genesis and not starting from revelation. If you calk him your X, then you definitely needed permission to his house, was it granted??? What transpired while you were there??? Or did he attack you on your way coming??? The social media can not even solve this but I’ll advice you calm down as a woman and make peace with the man at least so you’ll be granted access to your son.

  84. @ everybody dat supported her x hiting u guys are her very stupid and dumb no matter what he shouldn’t hv layed Hus filty hands on her there are different ways to treat such cases my dear mk sure u take it up with his sorry ass ” he will kill u and berry u nothing will happen”hmmmm!! Mk him cm kill nau useless man

  86. U can snap shots of ur swollen face and take him to court. Even if u are not filling for custody of d child, at least he should pay for ur face and sign an undertaking that nothing should happen to u or ur life since he said he’ll kill u and go scot free. He’s a monster.

  92. What all dis blah blah blah blah blah pls if ur a married man or woman just advise den if ur a girl or a boy pls sey something reasonable life is too short but we still have a long way to go anything can happen it maybe u God will help u on it bcs is not easy to build a home sorry my dear but u act selfish by going to take ur x.Husband son away 4rm him wut for. Do u expect ur son to ans ur fathers name or ur husband fathers. God will help u maybe dis will help settle ur issue with ur husband

  100. Take him to court so u can have ur son i know hw lonely it can be staying apart fore ur child ppls do every thin to take ur son from him let him also feel the pain and lonelness u are going throu am talk form exmpress i know how u feel i wish all the best in this fright is not going be easy but i can do it do it fore so many women Are throu this same promble right now

  105. My sister nothing will happen to you. And no body is going to kill you. You are going to leave and see your great grand children. Believe in God and everything will work for your good. God bless you

  111. If ran away with a man leaving your family don’t expect them to welcome you with a hug on paying a silly visit,just keep enjoying ur affairs …I’ll only advice you to seek God n get back to family is on your knees crying ,cos u will never have peace out there

  112. What did you do before living the husband, sorry for the beating, no one can depart mother luv from her child, sit ur family and call his own family, both families to desired who the child stay with.

  125. Is it posting on Facebook that will solve your problem? Have you made a police report? That is the first and right thing to do. Make him sign an undertaken should anything negative happen to you. This is threat to life.

  130. No matter how bad d woman might be,he has no right to beat or threaten her……
    Deres sumfin we call bond between a woman and her child…is only a heartless woman dat ll sit and watch her ex take away her baby widaut even looking back…
    My dear,d only advice I could give u is just take dis matter to human rights cos ur life is at stake…its other way round..
    If u can follow dis way also just sit back and watch if truly he’s capable of taking care of d child,one day d baby is going to ask after his mum…..watch and sit
    Don’t let a man widaut no future destabilize ur beauty….

  134. I feel for u Sory dear… Most times I just sit down and tink.. D way tings turn around most times, happy people today dat eat togeda, sleep togeda to extend of having kids wit leta become worst enemy’s… Very sad….

  138. I feel ur pains, but d lst mistake u Made wz 2 leave ur precious son behind wn u were leaving ur ex, my advice 2 u is D’s, try to reach an agreement wt ur ex on hw 2 be cin ur son, stop picking up fight wt him cos its gonna solve nothing. And also avoid going 2 his house wtout his concept. May God restore peace bk into ur home.

  148. sorry for the beating. My sister life have know duplicate for the sake of your life place don’t go there again your son is your son he will come to you when he is up to the stage of maturity. Let the father train he up OK, i don’t know what led to you guys separation, my dear what will be will be what will never be will never be. On power is greater dan God.keep going to church.

  149. I don’t know what must have transpired between u and ur husband to led to beating u up, but my sincere advice is that if you are legally divorced go to welfare so u can get the custody of ur son because I think at his age he needs his mom more than his dad, I won’t advice u to stay in abusive relationship because many has gone trying to do that, marriage is not a do or die affair

  151. Sorry my dear bt u better try n be a life for ur son then to be killed by an animal called a man. he’s not a man bc real man don’t beat women. ur son must surely come for u just keep praying for him so dat God will bless him ok. so sad though.

  158. Am sorry,,but pls don’t go see ur son again,let the time come only ur son will come looking for you,,time will even come only ur ex will take your son to come nd see you just to make d boy happy,for the now let dem be.

  159. Lat god use him as a step good with your blood child if he can not care for you and your son Lat him go a way god will give you another one that will love you and your son without complaining is all I wish you

  162. This is my judgement if u re not a stubborn woman ur husband cannot denying u not to see ur son. Social media can not help u. Stop dragging with him, be a submissive woman. So u can now telling us dat u went to his house and he started beating u up. Dat visit, is it on appointment or on ur own convenient time? Let me tell u d truth bad advice’s destroyed ur home. Watch ur back woman. Am not tryn to side ur EX but to give u piece of advice. Just hope in God ,things might turn around 2morrow OK. Allow peace to reign and God will see u through.

  166. What really happened madam? You did not say what transpired between both of you to warrant such the beatings. It is very wrong for a man to beat a woman especially if that woman is ur ex and the mother of your children. I still think that something happened..maybe exchange of bitter words..and trust we women with our piosonus mouth…always trying to intimidate our spouse especially when we are footing the bills. In every action there must be a reaction!

  172. Please women know how to pretend . what do you do before your EX. started decorates you Mum you blank that you print hot news out all men are not mad at all l don’t beat o god knows please madam give peace a chance for your handsome boy please see you knows your boy is there please madam calm down

  173. Den wot do u want us to do don’t u know d way to the office of d publuc defendant or welfare or u went der to go n b claiming his my ex n u ar d mother of ur son beside wen u know u love n kia for ur son y do u leavr d fada

  174. I’m experiencing almost dsam tin, bt God knows dat no matter wot happens, I ll never go without my son wit me, if it ll be bcos of him dat other men ll nt marry me, hmmmmm no problems ooooo, provided I am wit my son

  175. U don’t judge like dat we all know wot God says about anybody dat judge especially wrn it comes to wife n husband at least wr saw one post on facebook dat a lady bite off her guy manhood claiming he wanted to rape her n dey ar boyfriend n girlfriend so look at dat

  180. Hahahahaha!!!!
    You have not seen anything yet.
    Do you women deserve any good thing on earth? No!
    We gays are tormenting all men with money to start beating,divorcing,rubbishing their wives and accept gay marriage.
    Yes we are rich and the fallen angel has given us authority disunite any marriage btw man and woman.
    But we will join any marriage btw man and man.
    We gays are supreme, All we need is that let every gender make love to it fellow gender not opposite one.
    Proudly gays.
    I am a #gay right activist

  183. What ever it is that happens between the two of them is their business but the man has no right to beat for trying to see her son, her pains for nine good months as for me I will kill him before he does .what nonsense

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  196. Yes I agree with mama.chinedu dikko.true talk.him will definately com looking for you.when de time comes.dont cry because it makes him happy seeing you dat way.dont worry is not over yet be happy because God is in control . okay

  197. If you are a mother and you have gone through labour you we no how valuable a child is ‘as for me either my child is with me or not no body can stop me from visiting him not even my husband

  200. Some people are just commenting what they dont know that is better 4 a wmn to stay on her own Dan to bear Mrs. do u ask why they depart ad why the man is the one taking care of their son? This wmn might hv abandon the man ad their son 4 another man in the past ad nw she wont to see her son if that should be d case see your pastor 4 prayers ad ask your ex to 4give u

  204. Oh dear…I know how u must feel right now. If u can take k of the child, fight for him but if not allow him to be there. You will not loose him, he will find u believe me. I found my own mum 7 years ago…

  209. Since u don’t want to live with him,free him.stop disturbing his life.u only told us d beating but what brought about it.live him alone or he will kill u and no solution will ever comes up . after fulking around,u remember u have a son.ur son will do more than his father did to u.if ur tired of fulking outside ur huby, we can help and talk to the man to still manage u again. MOTHER FUCKER

  211. at first why do u have to give ur child to a man to take care of don’t u know it wil bring a problem for u later. even if u drink garri with dat child no problem because later future will tell.

  217. Beat you in font of your son? why did you leave your son with a beast? i wil take my son away but trust me ,that man has a guestion to answer that little boy tomorrow cos that boy wont forget that incident.

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