3. No interrogatory questions

Where have you been? Who were you with? You know these questions. In a friends with benefits situation both parties need to stay in their lane and respect each other’s privacy and right to be with other people.

It is after all the difference between friends with benefits and a dating relationship.

4. Limited physical contact

This is similar to the limiting of texting, but it has to do with physical contact. When we are in people’s company excessively, it is easy to develop emotional attachment and even dependency.

This emotional responsibility being the reason we choose to be friends with benefit in the first place ultimately leads to problems when it creeps up.

5. No snooping around (especially online)

No no no, worst thing you can ever do is develop paranoia over someone you aren’t even dating.

It is bad enough when in a relationship, but at least you have some right to be paranoid, at least to a degree.

Respect for the other person’s privacy is paramount. Looking at who they are liking or commenting on online is a recipe for disaster.

P.S The Federal Ministry of Relationships warn that friends with benefits are likely to go wrong.

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