Hello Yabaleftonline,
Have been dating this girl for five years now, and we both love each other. People do call us Romeo and Juliet because of the way we show our love openly.
I love her so much that when we have misunderstanding I find it difficult to breath because I feel she’s my life. She’s very supportive both financially and mentally, and I love her for that.
I told myself that I’ll date no other girl apart from her and when am ready for marriage, I’ll propose to her. But few days back I called and sat her down, I asked her to swear she’ll tell me the truth which she did.
I asked her if she has another boyfriend elsewhere and she said “YES” that they have been dating for two years now. I felt like I was going mad, when I asked her she said a friend of hers introduce the guy to her and she fell for him.
The problem now is that she claim she still loves me despite she has a second guy, she said I shouldn’t let our relationship end because of a guy who is in ogun state while we are in lagos.
I told her I can’t continue because if she loved me she wouldn’t have taken a second boyfriend. She’s still insisting and I don’t think I can cope with the heartbreak. Please advice me on what to do.
If you love her you have to forgive her cos she was sincere enough to tell you the truth. Some will hide it from you and know this that someone might have advised her to do that asking her how sure she is you will marry her. Mind you “if na me i no go fit date guy for five years o cos una matter get as e be. A time might come now instead of u settling down with her, u will now be seeing fault in her. That girl loves you if not em, if you like carry juju for her front she go deny am flat.
Bro I agree with otse, buh u have to get a distraction while u watcj her, cos if she hurts u again without anybody to fall back to, u will be so devastated more dan u are now.
Listen guy, dis is a different generation. No girl has one boyfriend. If u love her, put a ring on her finger. At least shez honest.
Soo you are dating her for 5years,yet its not yet time to marry her,but when she starts another relationship you have an issue with it? If u like it stop having heart attack put a ring on it.if she is my daughter she would be in bigger trouble keeping a meaningless relationship for 5years.l guess she is damn on settling for less,thats y she is keeping you after 5years nd also keeping someone after 2years.if you cant define a relationship with 6months to 1year am.not sure what you guys are doing.please what is wrong with the present generation? Marry her or let her go.stop whinning.the serious talk you should be having with her is asking her how to meet her parents,not if she is seeing someone else.growup
Soo you are dating her for 5years,yet its not yet time to marry her,but when she starts another relationship you have an issue with it? If u like it stop having heart attack put a ring on it.if she is my daughter she would be in bigger trouble keeping a meaningless relationship for 5years.l guess she is damn on settling for less,thats y she is keeping you after 5years nd also keeping someone after 2years.if you cant define a relationship with 6months to 1year am.not sure what you guys are doing.please what is wrong with the present generation? Marry her or let her go.stop whinning.the serious talk you should be having with her is asking her how to meet her parents,not if she is seeing someone else.growup
She’s being supportive both financially Nd mentally as u have put it…u only askd her if she has another bf but u failed to ask whether all the financial help uve been getting from her,have been coming from the other guy…truth is she loves u is d reason why shes still with u and supporting u but she doesnt believe in u..d truth is no woman likes to date 2men,if ure everything she desires in a man,bliv it der wont be anyone else!..forget abt her n focus on urself!make yourself better so u dnt have to share ur woman!