A young lady who works as a housemaid has told a shocking story about her intimate involvement with her madam’s husband.
She shared her story on yoanswers, a popular relationship site, where she explained that she is now pregnant with the man’s baby.
Obviously, this is causing serious headache for her and she now seeks urgent solutions to her dilemma.
Below is how she told the story:
I am a 20-year-old South African woman. I went in for matric some time ago but did not pass even one subject.
So, instead of just staying at home I decided to come to Joburg and work as a maid.
The woman I work for is a true Christian because when I hear stories from other maids and how they are treated, I am very shocked.
The couple I work for is quite a young one they only have one baby boy aged two, they are both in their late twenties.
The husband made advances one weekend when the wife was out on a workshop. I wanted to report this to his wife but he told me that he loved me more than his wife and would want to marry me as a second wife. He has so far bought me a beautiful top of the range cellphone which was better than what his wife had.
This has been going on for a year now. When his wife is away I also call him by his first name.
My mother has no problem with this and is very supportive. He is a very generous man he gives me money, now I can afford to send provisions to my family back home. The reason why I have written to you is I am now two months pregnant and all of a sudden he doesn’t look as keen as he used to.
He used to come back home during odd hours pretending to have forgotten something as a way for us to get na_ughty whilst his wife was away.
I suggested that he gets me alternative accommodation before I bulge up, now he says I should go back to the village and we plan from there. Do you think if I go home he will come and marry me?
Do you think his wife will embrace me as an equal?
Please help, I do not know what to do.
Na person advice u b4 u open leg for ur madam husband b4? Why u dey find advice now to marry ur madam husband? Shameless tin. Ole husband.
U want advice when ur already pregnant
Ne vous inquiétez pas. D tonnerre quand Dieu frappe vous est en train de faire la presse vers le haut.
Marry ur madam husband, shey u sef go get housemaid? An eye for an eye.
Born am now
I pity for u,so as Nigeria tuff reach so u still get mind carry belle for madam husband. Rip in advance
But y did u do dat when u knw d consequenses and if ur madam wife gets 2 knw about dis she will be heartbroken if it it me chei i will kull u
Welcome to new week . woman affairs media yaba
Agent of the devil
out to destroy people’s home
after collectin his big casava now youre asking if you should use it for fufu(akpu) or abacha…
Whatever you do to ur madam surely kamar will catch u up
And this is also a lesson for women that loves this house girl,house boy thing…be hardworkinq ladiess to avoid stories that touch
Bobby Desmond pls tel dem lazy women dat gts housemaids dats bigger Dan dem wot do dey xpct frm der hussy anyway?
@Rose this days even sisters and brothers cant be trusted as house help
that’s why i don’t really like the idea of housemaid,husbands pls love your wives.
Stop criticising her please even though what she did was bad. All this lady needs is an advice. You never can tell what she’d been passing through in the hands of the husband just to keep her job, it’s still not an excuse though!
My advice is for her to keep the baby and return back to her parents. Explain things to them and make them understand the situation. She shouldn’t Marry the man or even think of aborting.
This is a lesson to those women out there who think their works should always come first, there by leaving their house chores in the hands of maids. This will definitely lead to broken marriages in most cases.
If you think the risk is what taking, we’ll always be here by the time you come wailing about your marriage!
i don’t think you should condemn the women who work just because their husband cannot keep it in their pants and they married worthless men. This is victim blaming and unfair assessment . honourable God fearing men will not do such thing and will not be tempted by whoever is staying and/or working at the home , no matter the situation. It was the husband and the maid who was wrong. Personally i would rather castrate him instead rather than be blamed because i have to works. what rubbish!!!!
I am not condemning the women who work. I am condemning the women who take their works as top of the priority in marital affairs. Nobody is saying you shouldn’t work, but it shouldn’t be a yardstick for you to abandon all your chores in the hands of maids. As a married and responsible woman, if you aren’t able to take care of your husband, house chores and official work together, then you have to make amends or abandon the latter. Yes!
The last time I checked, the husband is still and will still be the head of the family!
stop living in stone age. this is the 21st century. man and woman should share all kinds of work, be it parenting or housework and take care of each other. My husband will never be my master. i will not let go of my work just because my husband is living in stone age and needs someone to feed and clean his clothes and his house. Head of the family? thats why marriages don’t work. Husband and wife SHARE EQUAL DUTIES in all matters. is a man more treasures in the eyes of God?! No, we are all equal and so it should be. Why should women be expected to do all those work and men enjoy?! why cant men sacrifice and stay at home while women work? what if the woman are earning more than the man, what then?! In this particular case it was the husband who should be condemn. if he is lusty and need to stick in to any available shell then he should go to hell.
he will make same mistake else where even if his wife never brought house maid as long as adultery flows in his blood.our men needs prayer and fasting.
Ur name na sorry because when madam get to know say u get belle for her husband the thunder she will send to you will come in three flavor vanilla, stroberry and chocolate
Did she ask for my advice b4 sleeping with her madam’s husband?? No she didn’t….so you must born the pikin
Abi
What advice did you want after pregnant with your madam husband. Idiot, home distroyer, this is how you scater your life.
When u start du tell anybod pls what ever u se tek it because u chos what u need so complet ur work.rember what ever u sol so shere u reciv broda god is rely
your life is at risk run run
When he was giving u money&cellphone who did u tell?When he told u he loves u more than his wife who did u tell?When he was coming home every afternoon to play naughty with u who did u tell?MAID,u are a bad gurl,its ur cross,carry it alone.
What kind of advice when you are already pregnant for your madam husband, ok let me advice you, kill yourself.
Home wrecker heavens thunder go fire u…ur madam never treated u bad but look at how u pay her back…stupid question u are asking whether ur madam will see u as her equal if the man marry u….oooh yes she will accept u as her equal foolish girl. Am happy the man is turning his back on u. U think he was gonna leave his wife for u. Men will always run back to their wives ND u will become the stupid one…if I were the woman after u deliver I will take the child from u ND take care of him so nothing brings u ND the man together again. Ur mother who support u is a bad example of a mother. Take Christ into ur life.
U sound as if u know her personally
Lol….I don’t know her.i commented based on the story I read besides am a woman ND married it could be done to me.
She doesn’t need to know her personally, because when madam starts treating them bad know they will say madam is wicked, now madam is nice and you are Pregnant for Oga and want to take him away from madam, these girls get mind oh.
U don’t need to mention her mum is only a stupid mum can support evil
U ve succeed in your plans to take away your madam’s husband
What advice she don chop the cupcake na she want make we tell am say make she go remove the Belle ni? Rubbish before u forget say na ur madam husband? Yeye husband snatcher even the man na fool my advice for her is among the four fingers I have I raise my long finger up right for her meaning (f**k her) mtchewww
???,asked yabaleft mumu woman
My advice is born that baby oooo n make sure u don’t destroy the marriage. If not someone will destroy urs too.
She is not destroying any ooo
Its de madam who has destroyed here own Marriage for all u know she is not a wife in de kitchen and in bed oo
finish wot u started no going back
Repent and be born again
U r terribly wicked! How dare you ask us silly questions?
Dis is not love it is lost
U didn’t ask for advice before, now that u’re pregnant u started asking. Better, don’t destroy that woman’s marriage. Go seek the face of God for MERCY.
Am in support of u Mr Abbas Nasiru
Men let’s learn to be discipline and stop hurting our home, pls kill that spirit of sex God bless
Wish advise go & look for ur own husband
u are foolish try and be a wise woman
As u won get belle did u seek our advice??? Na wen he reach marriage issue u come dey need am abeg who u EPP????
all this house maid sef wetin dem carry for body sef. hmmmmm
Hmm lady’s slfe
My Advice for you right now is ask God for mercy , Go and abeg your madam to forgive you .because what you did was so bad! Evil of the last days!
Ur pregnant already…y d advice …idiot
She should have seek the advice before sex not after
The man didn’t drug or rape you,you were not under the influence of alcohol. Did he remove your brain at any point in time? why so close to your destination before asking if you are on the right way.there is way that seems right unto a man…..it is what you sow that you will reap.
Life is an expressway and Overtaking is allowed@Learners
May God forgive you and your madam’s husband. You have created a big problem for yourself.
Supper story , forget nonsense .
when madam starts treating them bad know they will say madam is wicked, now madam is nice and she is Pregnant for Oga and still want to take him away from madam, these girls get mind oh.
Mind u der is no madam any where when A maid gets pregnant so its simple automatically u hv been awarded de position of A Madam simple.
When your madam oga was ontop of you you did seek advice now you are pregnant you need advice na die you dey
U are a big fool sorry for lost love
Drink acid den leave de hux
There is a way that seemeth right into a man, but the end thereof is destruction.
But waitoo cos I didn’t see the girl oo shee na this big woman una call house girl this one na house woman oo why the boy no chase am
My advise for u is that u have got a baby and a disgrace to ur family… Also karma awaits u.
.as for the husband ur family now will disregard u so much…. U have a dangling modifier
The truth is that you do need advise just as God forgiveness
She’s already pregnant. Any advice now is useless.
Foolish gal!!! You call urself a gal nd u are nt smart. Your mate are boss in deir husband hux * u want to b a 2nd wife * aunty i pirry you . Remember dis man 1st wife is already d boss of d hux _____ dat name #2nd_wife & #housemaid will always be der……….. your ur coconut head or maybe u like suffer
Make I advice over what keep the belle now
Don’t worry about it ,it’s what you sow
Belated.
Advice when she is already pregnant for oga,hahhhhh well she have already advised herself.
Drink poison
shey we dey there wen he dey fuck u give u mny ni,abi wu help u spend d mny
It’s happening every where so it’s not strange. Don’t marry him please
If i were u but God forbid, i’ll find my way, beg God for forgiveness and train the result…. dats the only way to avoid karma
Well I may not blame her so much bk the madam might be the cause of it all.But which ever way,it is wrong to be a husband snatcher.Just go & look for your own man
Dat was very bad of u, how would you do that to yur madam..my advise is dat, carry ur bags live that home.God hav join dem so dnt try put confussion.
OOOOO! UNA DON LET ME 4GET WETIN I WANT TALK.
Wot of DE foolish man dat went to her no comment from u ppl ?
Why did u open ur legs 4 him, did u ask us 4 advise b4 u open ur legs for him.
second wife
Fool .someone else will do dis same to u.devil
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Thanks for yr contribution, if I may ask the madam did she performed her duty at home, what’s are duty inside the other room, pls note that not all men enjoyed excuse when time to play jobo, l hope the women is not the type that like journey, lf such happened pls don’t blamed the man or the P.A
What nonse
Don’t marry him coz god will judge u for sure
U ar pregnant already what other advice do u again
Did you seek for an advice when you started sleeping with the men.?
It is comon…
This r one if the reason i find it very difficult to get aMaid .girl u r a home breaker.
It is lugubrious that such a promiscous tramp can go far in such a disdainful and contemptous promiscuity to bite the hand that feed her my cogent advice to her is that,may God ensured her safe delivery and afterward she should wait for the richoched Boomerang.
Pls keep the baby oooo
Mmmmm nawa oo
Y u no ask us b4 u open leg 4 him?idiot
Why did you not ask for advice before sleeping with him? You’re sleeping with him already and you’re even pregnant for him? Here is my advice for you, GO TO HELL.
You are a devil
Let’s first ask what the madam was doing that a lowly housemaid could satisfy her husband better than her! Please before you start just ask inside. What could have led to this and you will see that you will come up with many suggestions!
my dear if you are dating someones husband NEVER think he loves you more than the wife less of getting pregnant. if he gives you the newest building in the world expensive trips my dear its cos of how good you are in bed cos all those items he is giving you is not up to bride price if he even paid one cedi for it cos that is the symbols of respect and love
Go on madam
all fack na fack go and marr she na within d gril get dsame within madma thsnk u all
Advise urself pls
What advise useless girl did he point gun on your head?
U will marry herooooooooooo
Den accept my sympathy cos you ll soon be a goner
Dnt break some one’s home
Hmmmmm
What we see when pple re under the controll of ****k…….
If the madam’so husband love her. He have to rent a an apartment in different place for her. So that she can have her pace
Congrats. Marry him n some day ur house help I’ll get pregnant for ur stolen husband n ask her to marry him. Nonsense
why cursing the maid…why not the man…everything is his fault anyway
May God deliver u safely
Fool which advice you what marry your boss
Make thunder wey no get mama and Papa fire for der,mumu no go find ur own husband
Babe u need insult 1st den advice….All d men in d world, D market u go 2 buy food (nd dem rest) na only ur madam man u see carry bele, home wrecker, yeye. Don’t do abortion sha. Wen u wer chopping cassava u didn’t know
Na wa oooo, this is nigerian movie oooo,
Run!!! Run!!! Run away
After you have done what you want, you are now asking stupid questions. God punish you
U need people advice wen u dey do d tin wit am u cum as people hw u go take set ur legs stupid fool
Is that the work that they employ you to do
Why didn’t she seek for our advice before starting
U shld hv asked for advice b4 opening ur legs…. Too late!
If u snatch ur madam husband so shall anoda woman snatch him too from him. U made a mistake in d first place by allowing him to slip wit u. Anyway, I will advice u to remove it or u ask God for forgiveness coz u have sin against God, urself and human being
Hello my dear friend why are you seeking for an adivse where you can not fined it the only thing you can do is to niel dawn to talk your God he is only one who will place how every thing will be. Please remember you are created by some one!!
Hw could u gt pregnant for ur madam’s husband u b shameless idiot nd a fool, ungrateful fellow
U where so wrong to allow him sleep with u. Course in every stage in life there is always trails. Na dat u are pregnant. Just ask urself this question. Na dat u re pregnant wat na happens to your madam.?
Is that why she’s sitting like that
Just here to read comments because I got nothing to say
Pray for God forgiveness and help
the mistake u made
u made mistake by letting him in,for all the housemaid u should know the limit of ur friendship with the boss man,if he thinks in another way then let the boss woman to know ad then quit.